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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Looking for honest critique, good and bad, mostly from single guys and couples.

What do you like about our profile? What do you dislike? What could we do to improve it?

Obviously appreciate that everyone's views are subjective so will take it all on board as best we can!

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By *ustJohnnoMan
over a year ago

Rowlands Castle

I’m no expert - my profile is terrible and needs changing but yours seems pretty good to me. Great pictures detailed text and to the point. It’s subjective but personally I can’t really fault it.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

As your looking for men don't think need that many dick pics but not criticising. Seems to cover what your after in bio.

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"As your looking for men don't think need that many dick pics but not criticising. Seems to cover what your after in bio. "

We're technically open to meeting couples as well but primarily looking for men

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's a good profile. It's well written and pleasantly detailed. It could be funnier, but that's a very personal thing.

KEEP THE DICK PICS. you aren't sending the to other people, they are on YOUR profile, and some people like them. Far better that than having no male pics at all.

You're doing it right.

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"It's a good profile. It's well written and pleasantly detailed. It could be funnier, but that's a very personal thing.

KEEP THE DICK PICS. you aren't sending the to other people, they are on YOUR profile, and some people like them. Far better that than having no male pics at all.

You're doing it right. "

Thank you!

We did originally just have body pics on here but had a couple of couples wondering if they could get pics of A so I started taking a bunch when the situation presented itself

Must admit humour is not easy to get across on a profile (or maybe we are just dull ) so we tend to start messaging early to actually get our personalities across.

Thank you for the critique though

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I’m no expert - my profile is terrible and needs changing but yours seems pretty good to me. Great pictures detailed text and to the point. It’s subjective but personally I can’t really fault it. "

Thank you very much!!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"As your looking for men don't think need that many dick pics but not criticising. Seems to cover what your after in bio.

We're technically open to meeting couples as well but primarily looking for men "

I personally like torso/body pics of men and women on public. We have more personal ones for friends. But everyone is different and to be honest ours is more a filter as we're clubs and couples. As your primarily men then they'll only look as far as fem pics anyway lol. Keep having fun x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It looks fine although perhaps more about what you can offer as well as what you are looking for. Good luck. X

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"It looks fine although perhaps more about what you can offer as well as what you are looking for. Good luck. X"

Just to extrapolate on that, what do you mean by offer?

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Actually... change your profile name. It's very forgettable TBH. Doesn't do you justice at all.

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Actually... change your profile name. It's very forgettable TBH. Doesn't do you justice at all."

You mean our initials and the date we got together are forgettable?! very much noted and it was thrown together in a fit of lust when we discovered this site.

We shall have a think on it and thanks!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It looks fine although perhaps more about what you can offer as well as what you are looking for. Good luck. X

Just to extrapolate on that, what do you mean by offer? "

What you can offer to people who you want to join you.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Actually... change your profile name. It's very forgettable TBH. Doesn't do you justice at all.

You mean our initials and the date we got together are forgettable?! very much noted and it was thrown together in a fit of lust when we discovered this site.

We shall have a think on it and thanks! "

Oh and last thing... come to Birmingham

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Extra couple of paragraphs added, how's it looking?

I need at least 30 more coffee to counter my rambling so let's call it a first draft

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Actually... change your profile name. It's very forgettable TBH. Doesn't do you justice at all.

You mean our initials and the date we got together are forgettable?! very much noted and it was thrown together in a fit of lust when we discovered this site.

We shall have a think on it and thanks!

Oh and last thing... come to Birmingham"

Well that's an offer and a half

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Extra couple of paragraphs added, how's it looking?

I need at least 30 more coffee to counter my rambling so let's call it a first draft "

Looking good, if your making coffee, black no sugar please.

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Extra couple of paragraphs added, how's it looking?

I need at least 30 more coffee to counter my rambling so let's call it a first draft

Looking good, if your making coffee, black no sugar please. "

Coffee coming up and cookies in the oven!

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Name finally changed and a few more bits added.

Still looking for any additional critique

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Seems ok, you should have no problems. Best of luck.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yeah that's a cracking name! Well chosen!

A couple more pics of him might be good, but generally I think you're set fair there.

Well done for avoiding all the Sydney Uni bullshit of course.

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Yeah that's a cracking name! Well chosen!

A couple more pics of him might be good, but generally I think you're set fair there.

Well done for avoiding all the Sydney Uni bullshit of course."

It's a tough balance as we're primarily looking for single males, so we have a bunch of him on friends only and kept a single cock and body shot to pique some interest without going over the top.

Thanks!! We spent ages thinking on it and figured sex appeal coupled with our love of chatting just worked!

The Sydney uni bollocks that's normally longer than the profile it covers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect profile ...covered everything without being moody buggers lol xxx

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I think your profile is refreshing to read. I know you aren't looking for women so this is no way an attempt to meet you (just to clarify). It's everything I would look for in a profile: informative, to the point, explains a bit about you guys and what you're looking for and honest.

I think the pics are fine and display the both of you which is nice, most couples just have photos of the woman. I don't mind seeing dick pics after all people want to know that info.

The only thing I'd probably critique is you say you like fluid organic sex. Does that mean the male half of your couple is bi in the right circumstances? Or are you straight? I think it's best to clarify that. Or whether you mean you don't mind touching bodies but no sexual act between men would happen.

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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think your profile looks really good from a subjective point of view. Much better than most, tbh. I'm also going to nick your opening comments about replying to messages, so thanks for that!!!

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Less selfies, take good pictures of each other possibly get a photographer to take pictures of you both together.

Talk about your photos quality not quantity what do you both like to see in a couples photos?

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Profile is fine . Only thing we would say is, that having a big list of things you don’t want at the top makes no difference. You will still get those messages regardless. We changed ours to be positive and it’s helped get more productive messages from people we do want to meet. Some people switch off at the list of no’s

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

Nice read , my profile is a bit of an essay too and I like a good story too.

Like the way you want a natural flow of a meet to end up in bed.

Agree with taking pictures of eachother , you are a couple use it to your advantage .

Also the CAPS shouting is not going to protect you from idiots , sure you can use those letters better in your own way .

I'd meet you , but that's also because I think we might share an interest or two

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Advice taken on board!

Admittedly we put it right at the top and as bold as we could in an attempt to stem the tide on rubbish messages, seems to have worked to some degree!

The selfie thing is a fair point, the majority of the pics we take are either ones we've sent to each other or taken in the moment, I dont think we've ever done some with the sole intention of our fab profile!

Thanks to all for your responses and the time it took to write them!

xx

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

As a guy, I think it pretty good, very clear on what you like and dont like/want. A good range of pictures too.

There will always be chancers who ignore the text and message anyway even if they dont match what you are looking for, but that should be a minority for you based on your profile.

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By *arklordMan
over a year ago

rugeley

the only thing i would change is the dom sub part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a pretty good profile, describes what you want and what turns you off. Photos are good, maybe could do with some more of the suggestive poses and less the solitary dic pic (but I’m a guy!).

Your veris are quite well written and complementary, so you might want to thank them again.

I think as a FM couple with nice bodies, you have the pick of the bunch and can afford to say it like it is.

S.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

We like it

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...


"the only thing i would change is the dom sub part "

Why?

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"the only thing i would change is the dom sub part

Why? "

Must admit, curious on this myself?

That's our dynamic, always has been and it definitely shows through on our meets, its not like its something we can turn off so we let people know it's how we play.

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By *itsAndTangents OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"It’s a pretty good profile, describes what you want and what turns you off. Photos are good, maybe could do with some more of the suggestive poses and less the solitary dic pic (but I’m a guy!).

Your veris are quite well written and complementary, so you might want to thank them again.

I think as a FM couple with nice bodies, you have the pick of the bunch and can afford to say it like it is.

S."

Thanks!

The solitary dic pic is mostly because we found couples asking what A is packing (), a single one near the bottom for those who wanted to see and everyone else can just skip over it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Extra couple of paragraphs added, how's it looking?

I need at least 30 more coffee to counter my rambling so let's call it a first draft

Looking good, if your making coffee, black no sugar please.

Coffee coming up and cookies in the oven! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any suggestions on how I could improve mine?

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