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"What is it with periods. Every time I want to go to an event, the bloody thing appears! Do any fems still go and what do they end up doing all night?!? Is 'being on' a deal breaker or not? " It depends, if I felt ill or had bad cramps or something then I wouldn't go (and that's what usually happens) otherwise I'd get myself out of the house and just go and socialize. | |||
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"These are all good ideas... Plus I do love the voyeur thang! Thanks for the imput people x" So, we had a hot night planned a few weeks ago and an impending ‘P’. Reading around, we discovered that a sudden large dose of ibuprofen in a day can delay it - and it did! Google it, it is a technique used by doctors. Obviously follow health advice etc. | |||
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"These are all good ideas... Plus I do love the voyeur thang! Thanks for the imput people x So, we had a hot night planned a few weeks ago and an impending ‘P’. Reading around, we discovered that a sudden large dose of ibuprofen in a day can delay it - and it did! Google it, it is a technique used by doctors. Obviously follow health advice etc. " I've used this trick on quite a few occasions. X | |||
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"Maybe of interest; Woman I know takes a pill each day, prescribed by her gp, which is a contraceptive that also prevents any periods " That'll be the progesterone only pill. Unfortunately one of the side effects is often a decrease in libido. | |||
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"I used to hate this always ruined our plans. Fortunately I'm lucky now I've got a coil fitted nearly 3 years without one " What sort of coil? | |||
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"I used to hate this always ruined our plans. Fortunately I'm lucky now I've got a coil fitted nearly 3 years without one What sort of coil? " Probably the mirena coil I have it too and just get a bit of spotting every few months | |||
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"What is it with periods. Every time I want to go to an event, the bloody thing appears! Do any fems still go and what do they end up doing all night?!? Is 'being on' a deal breaker or not? " While some might find it a no no a woman being on her period doesn't pose a problem for me. If it was someone I had already established a connection with I'd be happy to play as I'd feel it was just a natural part of her and not something to be 'disgusted' or put off by. I'd most certainly want to be caring and aware of her comfort, but also look to instinctively get a feel for how she felt about it. I figure if a woman is prepared to be that intimate with me then I'd want her to feel special too. | |||
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"This is a stupid naive male question I suppose, but aren't the "Ps" fairly regular and predicatable?" Not always....lol. Although I have a Mirena coil and haven't had a period for about 7 years. Before that I used the ibuprofen trick. X | |||
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"Currently suffering with a horrible period! Roll on menopause xx " I'm menopausal... Missed a period in December... Now three days on, hurts like hell x | |||
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"What is it with periods. Every time I want to go to an event, the bloody thing appears! Do any fems still go and what do they end up doing all night?!? Is 'being on' a deal breaker or not? While some might find it a no no a woman being on her period doesn't pose a problem for me. If it was someone I had already established a connection with I'd be happy to play as I'd feel it was just a natural part of her and not something to be 'disgusted' or put off by. I'd most certainly want to be caring and aware of her comfort, but also look to instinctively get a feel for how she felt about it. I figure if a woman is prepared to be that intimate with me then I'd want her to feel special too. " Wow that's a really lovely post from a guy x | |||
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"This is a stupid naive male question I suppose, but aren't the "Ps" fairly regular and predicatable? Not always....lol. Although I have a Mirena coil and haven't had a period for about 7 years. Before that I used the ibuprofen trick. X" Does the tablet trick only work before the period starts, or can it be done three days on? | |||
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"This is a stupid naive male question I suppose, but aren't the "Ps" fairly regular and predicatable?" Not always, different for all women. Menopause is one factor that can make it difficult to plan x | |||
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"These are all good ideas... Plus I do love the voyeur thang! Thanks for the imput people x So, we had a hot night planned a few weeks ago and an impending ‘P’. Reading around, we discovered that a sudden large dose of ibuprofen in a day can delay it - and it did! Google it, it is a technique used by doctors. Obviously follow health advice etc. " Every four hours taking these pills? | |||
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"These are all good ideas... Plus I do love the voyeur thang! Thanks for the imput people x So, we had a hot night planned a few weeks ago and an impending ‘P’. Reading around, we discovered that a sudden large dose of ibuprofen in a day can delay it - and it did! Google it, it is a technique used by doctors. Obviously follow health advice etc. Every four hours taking these pills? " I just take 3 standard ibuprofen about 8 hours before I want to play. Can use it at any point during your period. It doesn't work for everyone tho..so worth a dry (lol!) run first | |||
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"These are all good ideas... Plus I do love the voyeur thang! Thanks for the imput people x So, we had a hot night planned a few weeks ago and an impending ‘P’. Reading around, we discovered that a sudden large dose of ibuprofen in a day can delay it - and it did! Google it, it is a technique used by doctors. Obviously follow health advice etc. Every four hours taking these pills? " Usual Adult Dose for Dysmenorrhea 200 to 400 mg orally every 4 to 6 hours as needed Maximum dose: 3200 mg/day (prescription strength); 1200 mg/day (over-the-counter) Disclaimer: I’m not a doctor! | |||
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"What is it with periods. Every time I want to go to an event, the bloody thing appears! Do any fems still go and what do they end up doing all night?!? Is 'being on' a deal breaker or not? While some might find it a no no a woman being on her period doesn't pose a problem for me. If it was someone I had already established a connection with I'd be happy to play as I'd feel it was just a natural part of her and not something to be 'disgusted' or put off by. I'd most certainly want to be caring and aware of her comfort, but also look to instinctively get a feel for how she felt about it. I figure if a woman is prepared to be that intimate with me then I'd want her to feel special too. " Dead right matey. And it seems to be a bit of a cultural thing too tho. I was "friendly" with a french lady many, many years ago. For her, and hence me, it was indeed just part of her, and her life, and was no big deal and didn't interfere with her enjoyment of sex in any way. British women (in my desperately limited experience) have seemed generally much less comfortable with continuing activities at these times. I can't imagine there are any biological differences to account for that, just cultural. What they are used to, I guess. | |||
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"I love it when periods arrive cause that means great sex once it all over plus the blow jobs get even better " Haha no effort made before a period?? Jeez | |||
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"I love it when periods arrive cause that means great sex once it all over plus the blow jobs get even better Haha no effort made before a period?? Jeez " I won't even give a BJ if I'm On! My sex drive b4 and after is MASSIVE but during....don't look at me. Don't breathe near me. Give me chocolate and go away. Lol. For 3 days of the month I don't think it's a bad deal | |||
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"I love it when periods arrive cause that means great sex once it all over plus the blow jobs get even better Haha no effort made before a period?? Jeez I won't even give a BJ if I'm On! My sex drive b4 and after is MASSIVE but during....don't look at me. Don't breathe near me. Give me chocolate and go away. Lol. For 3 days of the month I don't think it's a bad deal" Malteasers or my tougueteasers | |||
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"I love it when periods arrive cause that means great sex once it all over plus the blow jobs get even better Haha no effort made before a period?? Jeez " My efforts before would make you climb the walls ?? | |||
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"I use sponges (not a sea sponge, I use sterile ones either beppy or gynotex). I'm horny as a goat when I'm on and if I'm planning on going out I still want to go... Never had a single person realise I was using one." Erika Lust made a film called “Can vampires smell my period?” You can guess the plot!!! (If you haven’t come across her, she makes the best porn films!) | |||
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"I use sponges (not a sea sponge, I use sterile ones either beppy or gynotex). I'm horny as a goat when I'm on and if I'm planning on going out I still want to go... Never had a single person realise I was using one." I tried a Beppy sponge with the Mr - whether it was because he knew I’d placed one in so it was a psychological thing or whether he’s blessed with a 7-8 inch cock that is super sensitive, he said he could feel it rubbing against him So I would trial using them and see how you get on! I’m always super horny when on as Mother Nature can be cruel like that! I previously had the non-hormonal coil which drove me bonkers with heavy, long periods lasting 11 days - after 18mths I got it swapped for the hormonal coil. Now I’m only on for 5 days max each month and I’m very light. Every woman’s body is different x | |||
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"I love it when periods arrive cause that means great sex once it all over plus the blow jobs get even better Haha no effort made before a period?? Jeez I won't even give a BJ if I'm On! My sex drive b4 and after is MASSIVE but during....don't look at me. Don't breathe near me. Give me chocolate and go away. Lol. For 3 days of the month I don't think it's a bad deal Malteasers or my tougueteasers" Defo Malteasers, but to really make me happy Ferrero Roché. | |||
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"What is it with periods. Every time I want to go to an event, the bloody thing appears! Do any fems still go and what do they end up doing all night?!? Is 'being on' a deal breaker or not? " Use the Beppy tampons that are for when you are in but want to have sex - a godsend Infact there is another thread about them in forum x | |||
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"I love it when periods arrive cause that means great sex once it all over plus the blow jobs get even better Haha no effort made before a period?? Jeez I won't even give a BJ if I'm On! My sex drive b4 and after is MASSIVE but during....don't look at me. Don't breathe near me. Give me chocolate and go away. Lol. For 3 days of the month I don't think it's a bad deal Malteasers or my tougueteasers Defo Malteasers, but to really make me happy Ferrero Roché. " I was gonna say that but I’d rather save them till we met. Lol | |||
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"What is it with periods. Every time I want to go to an event, the bloody thing appears! Do any fems still go and what do they end up doing all night?!? Is 'being on' a deal breaker or not? While some might find it a no no a woman being on her period doesn't pose a problem for me. If it was someone I had already established a connection with I'd be happy to play as I'd feel it was just a natural part of her and not something to be 'disgusted' or put off by. I'd most certainly want to be caring and aware of her comfort, but also look to instinctively get a feel for how she felt about it. I figure if a woman is prepared to be that intimate with me then I'd want her to feel special too. Wow that's a really lovely post from a guy x" Thank you so much - it's just a reflection of how I feel about it. I think it's potentially a beautiful and intimate thing. As a man I'd be very flattered that a wan felt she could share that with me and feel OK about it. I'd certainly do all I could to ensure she did. Snuggling up together after would be the icing on the cake. X | |||
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"Sea sponge! Ms x" Can recommend this, but I had to get the gp to remove it! | |||
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"I use sponges (not a sea sponge, I use sterile ones either beppy or gynotex). I'm horny as a goat when I'm on and if I'm planning on going out I still want to go... Never had a single person realise I was using one. I tried a Beppy sponge with the Mr - whether it was because he knew I’d placed one in so it was a psychological thing or whether he’s blessed with a 7-8 inch cock that is super sensitive, he said he could feel it rubbing against him So I would trial using them and see how you get on! I’m always super horny when on as Mother Nature can be cruel like that! I previously had the non-hormonal coil which drove me bonkers with heavy, long periods lasting 11 days - after 18mths I got it swapped for the hormonal coil. Now I’m only on for 5 days max each month and I’m very light. Every woman’s body is different x" I can almost guarantee it was psychological. I (in a very past life) worked in a brothel. I had all manner of sizes of guys (the size queen in me misses some of the very very well endowed clients), and could see upto 20 guys in a shift (more if it was an orgy day). Never had a single client ever realise. Never tell a new long term partner at first either. Oh, Actually if they were the dry ones that could possibly be it, they do dry ones and wet ones. It's not really wet wet, they just have a little lube on them, helps you put them in easier, but dry ones do mean internally you stay dryer for longer than you normally would, so unless you've had loads of foreplay that could be why he felt it. | |||
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"Personally it's a benefit to me as PIV isnt my favourite thing. Plenty of other more fun things like BJs, anal, roleplay, and BDSM. Lovely to get creative and still have a great (or even better) time. So I'd still play but just tell them that PIV isn't on the cards that week. Don't get me wrong, PIV is nice but it's just... Nice. Really wouldn't miss it." Ah you see periods are when I'm least likely to play BDSM wise. My pain threshold drops and I'm less likely to enjoy it and fly, I'm more likely to want to rip of the throat of who ever is hurting me.... | |||
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"I used to hate this always ruined our plans. Fortunately I'm lucky now I've got a coil fitted nearly 3 years without one " Same, had mine 6 years (obvs I’ve had it changed) best thing I ever did. | |||
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"I use sponges (not a sea sponge, I use sterile ones either beppy or gynotex). I'm horny as a goat when I'm on and if I'm planning on going out I still want to go... Never had a single person realise I was using one." ^ this | |||
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"I used to hate this always ruined our plans. Fortunately I'm lucky now I've got a coil fitted nearly 3 years without one What sort of coil? Probably the mirena coil I have it too and just get a bit of spotting every few months" THIS is what i use as i suffered badly with tiredness ,pain etc ,no periods last few years its great and deffo no lose of libido | |||
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"Maybe of interest; Woman I know takes a pill each day, prescribed by her gp, which is a contraceptive that also prevents any periods That'll be the progesterone only pill. Unfortunately one of the side effects is often a decrease in libido. " I started on the progesterone only pill 10 weeks back. My period has stopped but still randomly spot bleeding. I'm going to give it 3months and hopefully the spot bleeding will stop, if not, I'm thinking to try the coil. | |||
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"What is it with periods. Every time I want to go to an event, the bloody thing appears! Do any fems still go and what do they end up doing all night?!? Is 'being on' a deal breaker or not? " I fuck ya if ur on or off ewww lol | |||
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"These are all good ideas... Plus I do love the voyeur thang! Thanks for the imput people x So, we had a hot night planned a few weeks ago and an impending ‘P’. Reading around, we discovered that a sudden large dose of ibuprofen in a day can delay it - and it did! Google it, it is a technique used by doctors. Obviously follow health advice etc. I've used this trick on quite a few occasions. X" Just watch taking ibuprofen as it can cause problems with stomach ulcers and tears. If you are prone to this already it is possibly not for you. I also always advise to take Ibruprofen with food now as so many people have problems after repeated use of it for headaches etc much better to grab a paracetamol xxx | |||
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"Currently suffering with a horrible period! Roll on menopause xx I'm menopausal... Missed a period in December... Now three days on, hurts like hell x" Trust me .... you will want a period when it arrives Surgical memo for me it’s really hard work | |||
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"These are all good ideas... Plus I do love the voyeur thang! Thanks for the imput people x So, we had a hot night planned a few weeks ago and an impending ‘P’. Reading around, we discovered that a sudden large dose of ibuprofen in a day can delay it - and it did! Google it, it is a technique used by doctors. Obviously follow health advice etc. I've used this trick on quite a few occasions. X Just watch taking ibuprofen as it can cause problems with stomach ulcers and tears. If you are prone to this already it is possibly not for you. I also always advise to take Ibruprofen with food now as so many people have problems after repeated use of it for headaches etc much better to grab a paracetamol xxx" Yes, understood. (However, the contraceptive pill prescribed by my partner’s doctor led to a blood clot on the brain - CVT - which fortunately she survived with no lasting effects- so I had a snip instead!) | |||
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"What is it with periods. Every time I want to go to an event, the bloody thing appears! Do any fems still go and what do they end up doing all night?!? Is 'being on' a deal breaker or not? " Sponges | |||
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"I used to hate this always ruined our plans. Fortunately I'm lucky now I've got a coil fitted nearly 3 years without one " Coil here too ! | |||
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"Ladies with the Mirena coil, did it have any side effects? " At first it definitely affected my mood in a bad way, and I wanted to rip my tits off at certain times of the month due to the pain and swelling in them. But it’s settled down a bit more now for me personally. That’s after having it fitted in July x | |||
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"I used to hate this always ruined our plans. Fortunately I'm lucky now I've got a coil fitted nearly 3 years without one What sort of coil? " I've got a mirena and don't have periods | |||
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"Ladies with the Mirena coil, did it have any side effects? At first it definitely affected my mood in a bad way, and I wanted to rip my tits off at certain times of the month due to the pain and swelling in them. But it’s settled down a bit more now for me personally. That’s after having it fitted in July x" Thanks | |||
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"Ladies with the Mirena coil, did it have any side effects? " Spotting for 5 weeks but after that perfect. | |||
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" Or I use flexfits which are a cap you can use and have sex with it in place. They catch all the blood s it's not obvious you are on. Practise first though, as they can be tricky to place right Never used beppy sponges but heard they are good" Do the "flexfits" work with a condom or would they rub and move/break? | |||
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" Or I use flexfits which are a cap you can use and have sex with it in place. They catch all the blood s it's not obvious you are on. Practise first though, as they can be tricky to place right Never used beppy sponges but heard they are good Do the "flexfits" work with a condom or would they rub and move/break?" They are fine with condoms. The company says they are compatible and I never had any problems. | |||
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"Sea sponge! Ms x Can recommend this, but I had to get the gp to remove it! " Oh no! Thought I was going to have to do that on one occasion / but I managed to ‘birth’ it Ms x | |||
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"Ladies with the Mirena coil, did it have any side effects? " I put on a bit of weight but not masses. For me it was the spotting and sometimes bleeding after sex. They discovered though that was down to cervical scarring. I stuck with it though and all fine now. I'm actually overdue for getting it changed but I'm scarred there will be a repeat of those previous issues. My GP has advised that although they say 5 years it's actually up to 10. I'm not getting periods so it's still doing its job. Sadly because of my blood pressure issues I can't use the pill etc. | |||
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" Or I use flexfits which are a cap you can use and have sex with it in place. They catch all the blood s it's not obvious you are on. Practise first though, as they can be tricky to place right Never used beppy sponges but heard they are good Do the "flexfits" work with a condom or would they rub and move/break? They are fine with condoms. The company says they are compatible and I never had any problems. " | |||
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"Maybe of interest; Woman I know takes a pill each day, prescribed by her gp, which is a contraceptive that also prevents any periods " Mini pill..so far it's made no difference to mine but I'm going to bare with it a bit longer x | |||
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"Maybe of interest; Woman I know takes a pill each day, prescribed by her gp, which is a contraceptive that also prevents any periods That'll be the progesterone only pill. Unfortunately one of the side effects is often a decrease in libido. " Hasn't decreased mine, lol | |||
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"Currently suffering with a horrible period! Roll on menopause xx " Oh be careful what you wish for.... menopause may mean no periods but it ain’t a walk in the either | |||
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"Currently suffering with a horrible period! Roll on menopause xx Oh be careful what you wish for.... menopause may mean no periods but it ain’t a walk in the park either " | |||
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"I have some tablets called Norethisterone that delay your period. So I take these if we have a playdate and my period is due." Norethisterone works by giving you the same hormones you'd have when you are pregnant...this have me what was basically morning sickness. I was prescribed it to stop my periods for a holiday..but spent the time feeling sick. I've had a Mirena coil for 7 years now...few days cramping at start and when it was replaced...periods have completely stopped | |||
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"I couldn't have sex for years due to my periods, I bled almost constantly. I finally managed to convince a consultant to give me a hysterectomy after begging for more than 10 years. Best thing I ever did, I'm freeeeeee " im still trying to convince mine x | |||
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"I couldn't have sex for years due to my periods, I bled almost constantly. I finally managed to convince a consultant to give me a hysterectomy after begging for more than 10 years. Best thing I ever did, I'm freeeeeee im still trying to convince mine x " | |||
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"Sea sponge! Ms x" A what?? Going to Google this now | |||
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"What is it with periods. Every time I want to go to an event, the bloody thing appears! Do any fems still go and what do they end up doing all night?!? Is 'being on' a deal breaker or not? While some might find it a no no a woman being on her period doesn't pose a problem for me. If it was someone I had already established a connection with I'd be happy to play as I'd feel it was just a natural part of her and not something to be 'disgusted' or put off by. I'd most certainly want to be caring and aware of her comfort, but also look to instinctively get a feel for how she felt about it. I figure if a woman is prepared to be that intimate with me then I'd want her to feel special too. Dead right matey. And it seems to be a bit of a cultural thing too tho. I was "friendly" with a french lady many, many years ago. For her, and hence me, it was indeed just part of her, and her life, and was no big deal and didn't interfere with her enjoyment of sex in any way. British women (in my desperately limited experience) have seemed generally much less comfortable with continuing activities at these times. I can't imagine there are any biological differences to account for that, just cultural. What they are used to, I guess." Bang on guys... Not all us males mind..and clingfilm can come in handy ..when wanting to sstimulate clit with tongue. .lol Lol did I go too far.. | |||
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"I use sponges (not a sea sponge, I use sterile ones either beppy or gynotex). I'm horny as a goat when I'm on and if I'm planning on going out I still want to go... Never had a single person realise I was using one." I also use beppy sponges, never had a problem at all with them x | |||
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"These are all good ideas... Plus I do love the voyeur thang! Thanks for the imput people x So, we had a hot night planned a few weeks ago and an impending ‘P’. Reading around, we discovered that a sudden large dose of ibuprofen in a day can delay it - and it did! Google it, it is a technique used by doctors. Obviously follow health advice etc. I've used this trick on quite a few occasions. X Just watch taking ibuprofen as it can cause problems with stomach ulcers and tears. If you are prone to this already it is possibly not for you. I also always advise to take Ibruprofen with food now as so many people have problems after repeated use of it for headaches etc much better to grab a paracetamol xxx" Also not recommended for asthmatics - I lie all the time. I have mild asthma - no inhaler. I don’t like taking anadin and prefer ibruprofen and if I buy the pharmacy always said do you have asthma | |||
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"I have some tablets called Norethisterone that delay your period. So I take these if we have a playdate and my period is due. Norethisterone works by giving you the same hormones you'd have when you are pregnant...this have me what was basically morning sickness. I was prescribed it to stop my periods for a holiday..but spent the time feeling sick. I've had a Mirena coil for 7 years now...few days cramping at start and when it was replaced...periods have completely stopped " Like all medication, what suits one person doesn't suit another. I had the mirena fitted and my body didn't like it at all. Had to have it removed after perservering with it for 11 months. Good news it works for you | |||
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