FabSwingers.com forum: How old is too old?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

The thing is they are not "missing out" because women have plenty of choice within the age ranges they specify. It's best to concentrate on those who are not looking for men in a narrow age band.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

Missing out? How?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

I'm not missing out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not missing out on anything.

I set age limits because a 41 year old shagging an 18 year old just seems awkward for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't actually matter what age filters you set, you can end up with an over 50 that said they were 5 years younger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't actually matter what age filters you set, you can end up with an over 50 that said they were 5 years younger! "
no doubt that happens it's happened to me too. But it's easy enough to just tell whoever it is to bolt .

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

The problem is it's a numbers game. Anyone that is on here looking for single guys is faced with a huge sea of potential playmates. The only way to deal with it is to cut the numbers down. Whatever criteria you use, hair colour, body shape, cock size, age, marital status etc all helps to make the numbers manageable. Sure you may be cutting out a really great fuck because the guy has blonde hair instead of brown but does it really matter? It's not like we are looking for "the one" is it?

If you feel that age is really causing you problems try going to a club where attraction is based on personality more than tick boxes. I don't believe anyone has ever refused to play with someone in a club because they were just over some arbitrary age limit. If they like them/fancy them they will play!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Dead , lol

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Meh, You old guys complain too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds harsh but do you not think some of us don't want the body of a 50 year old +? I've just turned 30,someone in their 50's is the age of my dad which is creepy to me if they were trying it on.

I'm not going to seek out someone who's physique and mental age vastly differs from my own.

Like a scent we change with age and appeal to different people but dont start complaining when you can't get a hot 20 something to want you

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

But you probably dont have the younger males stanima. I prefer younger men as feel they can move about more and last longer.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

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. I don’t think they are missing out.To me this site is about choices , preference , and in some cases making fantasy become reality.Sometimes the people who are outside your age range you can come across at a club or event and they may change their mind as has happen to me in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

You put me off full stop with the "mind of a 20 year old"! Have you just wasted 30 years? If I was interested in the mind of a 20 year old I'd make sure it was attached to the body of a 20 year old

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I would imagine they filter with an age limit to cut down on messages, imagine how many single ladies get if they put 18 to 99

so they just go with an age range of who they think they would likely meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

. I don’t think they are missing out.To me this site is about choices , preference , and in some cases making fantasy become reality.Sometimes the people who are outside your age range you can come across at a club or event and they may change their mind as has happen to me in the past."

This has happened to me few times, I have been never contacted online although seen eacothers profiles. Then they come across you in a club or public generally, recognise you, then message suddenly showing interest.

What I think it comes down to for some of us is them thinking we are using old pictures if we look younger than our ages. When they see you in the flesh it confirms the pictures

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Well I've set my filters for my age range and I'm doing ok.

Thays over 50S

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"Sounds harsh but do you not think some of us don't want the body of a 50 year old +? I've just turned 30,someone in their 50's is the age of my dad which is creepy to me if they were trying it on.

I'm not going to seek out someone who's physique and mental age vastly differs from my own.

Like a scent we change with age and appeal to different people but dont start complaining when you can't get a hot 20 something to want you"

Not looking for a "hot 20 something", would be more than happy with an adventurous 60 something....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no "too old" as a whole, only as an individual thing. When playing, I prefer guys under 35, it's not about the body for me, but I like younger faces, they are what I find physically attractive in the men I fancy, so not meeting older guys doesn't mean that I am missing out at all. I would break the rule if I found one whose face I fancied... A decent personality and willingness to take direction is always what keep my interest long enough to get me into bed but not without that attraction first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting for the phoenix - like rebirth of a new profile from the ashes of this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

Not into married end of

People lie about age on here

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By *own and countryCouple
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

I agree. We are both 61 and I very much enjoy a man of 75 who is a very good fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Played with a 79 yr old recently...he was very frisky lol....not ageist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't actually matter what age filters you set, you can end up with an over 50 that said they were 5 years younger! "

Very true I know a lot of people on here that lie about their age. I'm nearly 50 and proud

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for feedback about an age limit being stated on women's profile. Some people pointed out that it was odd that I asked the question yet had an upper age limit on mine. Great point and I have removed it.

Look forward to more mature ladies in future ??

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I’m not missing out on anything by choosing younger guys. I’ve tried all ages and prefer younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mature is very sexy.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

"Doesn't actually matter what age filters you set, you can end up with an over 50 that said they were 5 years younger! "
that happens all the time on here. I don't lie about my age. If anyone has a problem with that they can always cross the road

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Why should age matter when you have a, super slim fit body like mine. I can see off many a 20, 30 or 40 year old. It's not about age, it's about how you use your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I value the experience that comes with an older guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Bet you wish you could start this thread again OP...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't actually matter what age filters you set, you can end up with an over 50 that said they were 5 years younger! that happens all the time on here. I don't lie about my age. If anyone has a problem with that they can always cross the road "

Same here, I have never lied about age, think it is quite creepy to lie about age in order to trick people into bed

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

What are the ages of the profiles that interest you? If they are younger like in their 20's maybe they want someone similar them?

I have a set age range but a young looking 36 year old will get my attention more than am old looking 28 year old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, a more interesting question to me is why you feel so entitled to younger women that you deem their preferences invalid?

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"OP, a more interesting question to me is why you feel so entitled to younger women that you deem their preferences invalid?"

Very good question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not missing out on anything by choosing younger guys. I’ve tried all ages and prefer younger. "

I will eventually settle down with a guy my age but I wanna fuck a 25 year old!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, a more interesting question to me is why you feel so entitled to younger women that you deem their preferences invalid?"

Excellent phrasing

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Our filter is set at 60 but K is fussy when it comes to men. She likes what she likes. K tends to prefer older but they are a certain type haha

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

Personal preferences....nothing more, nothing less

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

That sums it up nicely!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

But you probably dont have the younger males stanima. I prefer younger men as feel they can move about more and last longer."

That’s interesting, so far the younger guys I’ve met have had no stamina at all! They don’t last long and even if they can repeat it takes a while and then I have to get warmed up again. The guys my age not only last ages, but plenty of them can repeat as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it interesting that the OP refers to seeing lots of 'ads' that appear interesting. Regardless of age the attitude of thinking ladies are advertising on here would put me right off.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

I'd say it's you that's missing out and not the woman that's getting plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

But you probably dont have the younger males stanima. I prefer younger men as feel they can move about more and last longer.

You have that spot on for me. My partner is 20 years older than me and has way more stamina and ability to repeat than any guy I've met around my own age. My age limits are set higher for that very reason

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

But you probably dont have the younger males stanima. I prefer younger men as feel they can move about more and last longer."

Ouch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why should age matter when you have a, super slim fit body like mine. I can see off many a 20, 30 or 40 year old. It's not about age, it's about how you use your body "

Because for me, it's about the face... Not the body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

I can’t judge anyone who has age filters. I have mine set for exceptional people older than me, but if I’m perfectly honest, I find people my age have let themselves go somewhat and I’m not attracted to them. I’m 40, but know I don’t look it (big headed I know), but if someone 30 doesn’t want to meet me, who am I to judge?

Plenty out there. Just fab their pics and if they’re interested they’ll be in touch.

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By *kyhighstilettoCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

For those who know A Song of Ice and Fire, we’ll just say this:

Ser Barristan Selmy was getting on a bit....still a legendary swordsman though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love women older than me, it’s a shame I’m always out of the age limit!!

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

We're not missing out on anything. We have amazing meets and mind blowing sex while our age limit remains at 45.

It all comes down to attraction and whether people like it or not I'm 25,my parents are 50. I'm not going to be attracted to someone that old.

I dont complain when I'm too young for some people. "They're missing out on all of my energy and tight body, why won't they just meet us!

It's so unfair!"

They don't want you, doesn't matter how many times you go to the gym or how young at heart you are. It's a no. Move on.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"We're not missing out on anything. We have amazing meets and mind blowing sex while our age limit remains at 45.

It all comes down to attraction and whether people like it or not I'm 25,my parents are 50. I'm not going to be attracted to someone that old.

I dont complain when I'm too young for some people. "They're missing out on all of my energy and tight body, why won't they just meet us!

It's so unfair!"

They don't want you, doesn't matter how many times you go to the gym or how young at heart you are. It's a no. Move on.

I agree with this!! We know several people wouldn't be interested in us due to size. But that's life!! Its not their loss, it's their preference

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, a more interesting question to me is why you feel so entitled to younger women that you deem their preferences invalid?"

I'm not saying their choice is invalid. I'm simply curious as to the rationale behind that choice. I just love learning. It's not a criticism.

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I think that's more than just "learning" with that in your original post.

People have preferences, as do you but I'm not questioning your choice not to give men a chance... don't you know what you're missing??

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

They obviously don't think they are missing out. If they did think they are missing out they wouldn't set their maximum age of people they want to meet at 40.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I think that's more than just "learning" with that in your original post.

People have preferences, as do you but I'm not questioning your choice not to give men a chance... don't you know what you're missing??"

Who's saying I haven't given men a chance? ??

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I think that's more than just "learning" with that in your original post.

People have preferences, as do you but I'm not questioning your choice not to give men a chance... don't you know what you're missing??

Who's saying I haven't given men a chance? ??"

Well shit...I dunno. Profile says straight and looking for women... that's my guess but I could be wrong? But then that would make your profile incorrect??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I think that's more than just "learning" with that in your original post.

People have preferences, as do you but I'm not questioning your choice not to give men a chance... don't you know what you're missing??

Who's saying I haven't given men a chance? ??

Well shit...I dunno. Profile says straight and looking for women... that's my guess but I could be wrong? But then that would make your profile incorrect??

Not really. Sexual preferences may be fluid over time and may evolve through experiences. I'm not looking for guys. That doesn't mean I've not experienced guys in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are the answer. Use here to chat but clubs allow you to show your charm

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I go by personality not looks or age

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

But you probably dont have the younger males stanima. I prefer younger men as feel they can move about more and last longer.

I don’t have my upper age limit much higher than my own age - I’m 41, too much higher than that doesn’t appeal much. But I do tend to give preference to the upper part of my range because of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a sucker for a naughty couger, when do woman stop been beautiful or desirable, good question. Never really. Beauty is subjective.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Such a sucker for a naughty couger, when do woman stop been beautiful or desirable, good question. Never really. Beauty is subjective. "

Great point!

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old

I can’t see many of the women on here wanting to meet a guy with the mind of a 20 year old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old

I can’t see many of the women on here wanting to meet a guy with the mind of a 20 year old. "

Hahaha that's what I always think when I see this ^. What have you done wasted the last 30 years? If I was interested in the mind of a 20 yo at least I'd want it in the body of a 20 yo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old

I can’t see many of the women on here wanting to meet a guy with the mind of a 20 year old. "

I have the mentality of a 7 year old and i do well enough!

Acting your age is overrated!

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I think that's more than just "learning" with that in your original post.

People have preferences, as do you but I'm not questioning your choice not to give men a chance... don't you know what you're missing??

Who's saying I haven't given men a chance? ??

Well shit...I dunno. Profile says straight and looking for women... that's my guess but I could be wrong? But then that would make your profile incorrect??

Not really. Sexual preferences may be fluid over time and may evolve through experiences. I'm not looking for guys. That doesn't mean I've not experienced guys in the past. "

Maybe those ladies that don't have you in range have been with men your age and maybe that isn't something they are looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally accept anyone’s right to specify an age limit. I understand women who don’t want a man 20-30 years older to fuck them, (though fortunately a very small number do seem ok with it ??). What I find more frustrating is people who show 18-99 but don’t really mean it. Such a waste of time!

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

We've met plenty of guys considerably younger than ourselves, who, for want of a better expression, can't get it up, or keep it up!

Not flattering for a woman and proves ability is more important than age.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I totally accept anyone’s right to specify an age limit. I understand women who don’t want a man 20-30 years older to fuck them, (though fortunately a very small number do seem ok with it ??). What I find more frustrating is people who show 18-99 but don’t really mean it. Such a waste of time!"

Or not even that, We look at many who are say n their 30’s 40’s & their profile will state 25-60 whatever then you look at the veri trail & it’s all people within five years of their own age so we don’t bother messaging..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is nothing but a number at the end of the day, I have been chatting with regular on this site and it gives me great pleasure to now say he is my silver fox and can't wait to meet up again x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's quite a bit of detective work. All credit to you but is that normal?

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

Let's just say this.

I have an age range but it's not to say I haven't been with men older than the range I have specified. However, I am more likely to find men within that range attractive than those outside of it. So anyone outside of that range that interets me I will make contact with first.

It's just another filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my limit to 50 as I like a more mature man (but not old enough to be my dad) but found men were lying about being 50 so lowered it to 40, now I get men lying about being 40 but at least I’ll happily meet people in their 40s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Viagra and Cialis have a lot to do with a lot of the praise for older gentleman in this thread...

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

Hey OP. What ads are you seeing?

Regarding age, as someone else said, it can be just a method to reduce the numbers as you can get overwhelmed. Also it’s just personal choice. I am sure you have your own preferences.

To me a body of a 20 year old combined with the mind of a 50 year old is a much better combination

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over a year ago

50/51

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe me you are never to old to enjoy sex, what ever age you are it’s about enjoyment and I can say about myself that I have a very high sex drive and a good stayer too and can definitely show some of the younger guys how to please a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think Viagra and Cialis have a lot to do with a lot of the praise for older gentleman in this thread..."
why have a dig at the older guy probably they can teach you a few things, remember you be older some day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think Viagra and Cialis have a lot to do with a lot of the praise for older gentleman in this thread... why have a dig at the older guy probably they can teach you a few things, remember you be older some day "

No harm intended.....

It was just funny to read how all these older men were better in bed than younger guys.....

I felt like I was watching a Viagra commercial....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old

I can’t see many of the women on here wanting to meet a guy with the mind of a 20 year old.

I have the mentality of a 7 year old and i do well enough!

Acting your age is overrated!"

I agree... Looking it is usually where the problem lies for me tho

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

No harm intended.....

It was just funny to read how all these older men were better in bed than younger guys.....

I felt like I was watching a Viagra commercial...."

In my case they’re not “older”, they’re my age. And they are better in bed than younger guys in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

I have played with men just say of 20 years older than me. If I'm going for them, I want them for what they've experienced and have learnt, and not because they've retained immaturity.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"We're not missing out on anything. We have amazing meets and mind blowing sex while our age limit remains at 45.

It all comes down to attraction and whether people like it or not I'm 25,my parents are 50. I'm not going to be attracted to someone that old.

I dont complain when I'm too young for some people. "They're missing out on all of my energy and tight body, why won't they just meet us!

It's so unfair!"

They don't want you, doesn't matter how many times you go to the gym or how young at heart you are. It's a no. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no "too old" as a whole, only as an individual thing. When playing, I prefer guys under 35, it's not about the body for me, but I like younger faces, they are what I find physically attractive in the men I fancy, so not meeting older guys doesn't mean that I am missing out at all. I would break the rule if I found one whose face I fancied... A decent personality and willingness to take direction is always what keep my interest long enough to get me into bed but not without that attraction first. "
Absolutely agree.

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By *ongarMan
over a year ago

Maidstone / Tunbridge Wells

I think I am young bodied and love younger looking women, but I filter out anyone below 35 in my searches because in my experience sex is better with older women, they are more secure and tend to know what they want and what gets a real man off, obviously there are exceptions.

BUT what I am saying it isn’t just about looks or age.

On the flip side I filter women who are over 62 again just because In my experience I have had some encounters with women that much older that I didn’t find, well that sexual.

YES I am missing out because like the OP there will be people who are still nice and fit and younger bodied in their later 60’s and there will be intelligent young girls who know exactly how to please.

In my opinion the filtering works well, I have some amazing regular girls who are amazing and i haven’t had to fuck a massive number of women to find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

Its not them thats missing out if people think they are missing out they would alter things they are just avoiding wrinklies.

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

"I think Viagra and Cialis have a lot to do with a lot of the praise for older gentleman in this thread..."

Speak for yourself! Spending hours on the nude beaches here with lovelies of all ages, does it for me! We know quite a few women in their late20's, 30's and early 40's who crave the mother/father figure. Some come and stay.......others cum and go......lol

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

The thing is they are not "missing out" because women have plenty of choice within the age ranges they specify. It's best to concentrate on those who are not looking for men in a narrow age band. "

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

No one is 'missing out'. I'm a young looking (so I'm repeatedly told) 53, but that's still my age. A lot of younger women won't even consider me due to that, nor indeed some my age, but at the end of the day that's their choice. By all means tell yourself they don't know what they're missing, but as a personal opinion it can come across as whiny and entitled, not to mention arrogant saying it out loud or in print. I understand how it feels as I've had disappointments in that area, but we all need to respect others personal preferences. It might well make a difference in a club as its down to the attraction on the night to some degree, but on paper numbers jump out at people more and create boundaries. Can't imagine too many women wanting to play with a guy who's old enough to be their Dad in many cases. Personally I want to remain as dignified as possible and leave a woman who's rejected me a good lasting impression, even if I'm of no interest. At the end of the day we all talk to others and that woman may discuss us with someone they know who might just be interested and personal recommendation goes a long way. Stay classy!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

In my own case 40 is the limit, but what manybguys don't seem to appreciate is that it's at the extreme of my preference, in other words I've already factored for guys who might be outside my ideal age, ie 30-35, so I'm less likely to meet a 40 yo (assuming they have all the qualities I'm seeking) than a 35yo who has.

Someone over 40 messaging has also ignored my preferences which is a bigger grievance than how old they are!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Doesn't actually matter what age filters you set, you can end up with an over 50 that said they were 5 years younger! "

Exactly this lol! I once met a women who said she was 51 on her profile, and when she opened her front door to me, I almost asked if her daughter was in! Turned out she was 65.......

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

A lot of sense there........Hookster !!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"A lot of sense there........Hookster !!"

Thanks Bud! No offence intended to anyone, but complaining about it isn't going to change a woman's opinion - possibly confirm it though!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"A lot of sense there........Hookster !!

Thanks Bud! No offence intended to anyone, but complaining about it isn't going to change a woman's opinion - possibly confirm it though!

You also have the maturity of a 50 year old. This is a positive.

I suspect, as stated by several posters, saying he has the mind of a 20 year old suggests immaturity.

If I was looking to meet men, I would not be interested in a 50 year old with the maturity of someone younger than my son.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of sense there........Hookster !!

Thanks Bud! No offence intended to anyone, but complaining about it isn't going to change a woman's opinion - possibly confirm it though!

H'mmm, sounds like I've positioned myself in a over niche market! ??????

You also have the maturity of a 50 year old. This is a positive.

I suspect, as stated by several posters, saying he has the mind of a 20 year old suggests immaturity.

If I was looking to meet men, I would not be interested in a 50 year old with the maturity of someone younger than my son."

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"A lot of sense there........Hookster !!

Thanks Bud! No offence intended to anyone, but complaining about it isn't going to change a woman's opinion - possibly confirm it though!

You also have the maturity of a 50 year old. This is a positive.

I suspect, as stated by several posters, saying he has the mind of a 20 year old suggests immaturity.

If I was looking to meet men, I would not be interested in a 50 year old with the maturity of someone younger than my son."

Good call, although it's also possible on here it won't matter to some, especially in a club, who won't be interested in discovering that before playing, so could well beat the likes of me anyway in the big scheme of things - Lol. All will depend on the woman at the time if its a short-term thing, but may be a no-go for others (just to put a different spin on it). For. E I'm aware I'm no Brad, Pitt or George Clooney, but I do have a lot of integrity, which hopefully will matter to some.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Doesn't actually matter what age filters you set, you can end up with an over 50 that said they were 5 years younger!

Exactly this lol! I once met a women who said she was 51 on her profile, and when she opened her front door to me, I almost asked if her daughter was in! Turned out she was 65.......

I have to ask....did you continue with the meet?

I know I wouldn’t have but Id be furious at the deception.

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"A lot of sense there........Hookster !!

Thanks Bud! No offence intended to anyone, but complaining about it isn't going to change a woman's opinion - possibly confirm it though!

You also have the maturity of a 50 year old."

I would seriously question this

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

People have all sorts of preferences but u need to make down search as so many guys on here

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"A lot of sense there........Hookster !!

Thanks Bud! No offence intended to anyone, but complaining about it isn't going to change a woman's opinion - possibly confirm it though!

You also have the maturity of a 50 year old.

I would seriously question this

In what respect? (Just out of curiosity)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People select to 'miss out' on what they do not want, for their own personal reasons.

Focus on those who are looking for your qualities.

Get to clubs if you believe that people would possibly accept you, whilst you're not wearing a badge that came with your birthday card.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I’m definitely not missing out

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Which of your rigid sexual preferences in partners are you totally willing to cast aside op, because others know better what your tastes are?

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor

No age limits for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like younger guys as a rule. The ones I've been with have no clue what they're doing and it's boring - I do prefer a more dominant man in bed so this could be why. I'm also 41 and my daughter is 21, so anyone under 30 is a little bit too young for me. I probably could go older than 50 but that seems like too old! If I'm in a club or at an event, I'll go for whoever takes my fancy though and won't even ask their age if I want them naked

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don't like younger guys as a rule. The ones I've been with have no clue what they're doing and it's boring - I do prefer a more dominant man in bed so this could be why. I'm also 41 and my daughter is 21, so anyone under 30 is a little bit too young for me. I probably could go older than 50 but that seems like too old! If I'm in a club or at an event, I'll go for whoever takes my fancy though and won't even ask their age if I want them naked

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

That's quite a bit of detective work. All credit to you but is that normal? "

I would say it’s more normal than looking at some nice profile pics & then messaging someone without reading the profile & yet we’ve have three messages today alone from couples who’s profiles clearly state they only play as a couple.

Which is normal, do five minutes of homework to ensure you are not wasting your time or waste your time because you didn’t do five minutes of homework?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are PLENTY of couples and single ladies in your age range or maybe you yourself don't want to play with someone older?

Lots of girls like older guys and lots dont, fab preferences are similar to real life preferences so if a girl doesn't want to play with someone her parents age shes hardly missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chuckle... the people who want pre 40 generally are at the beginning of the journey -or- have a hang up about age (buried deep down).

Accept that they aren’t worth the time to chat to as they haven’t an understanding... it is what it is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chuckle... the people who want pre 40 generally are at the beginning of the journey -or- have a hang up about age (buried deep down).

Accept that they aren’t worth the time to chat to as they haven’t an understanding... it is what it is...

Sounds like you are the one with the hang up with age... And an understanding of how attraction works... Just because I wouldn't want to fuck you or others of your age makes me some awful person?! Ridiculous notion

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Chuckle... the people who want pre 40 generally are at the beginning of the journey -or- have a hang up about age (buried deep down).

Accept that they aren’t worth the time to chat to as they haven’t an understanding... it is what it is...

“An understanding” of what exactly? Belittling people who don’t want to have sex with someone 20 plus years older than us isn’t cool and honestly just sounds bitter. It isn’t a “hang up about age” to be turned off by someone that much older who looks their age. I’d only be willing to sleep with someone that much older if they didn’t look it. We’re not “missing out” if we were never going to be attracted to these older people in the first place.

Just out of interest, why are all these 50 plus guys so intent on sleeping with much younger women? Do you not like 50 plus women? Don’t you think you’re missing out?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Just out of interest, why are all these 50 plus guys so intent on sleeping with much younger women? Do you not like 50 plus women? Don’t you think you’re missing out?"

Not the same as the single guys that want the “Filly” as I live it but when we met the age side of things didn’t come into ours heads, (21/39) our families certainly & we were told in no uncertain terms by H’s sister it would fail. Well nearly eighteen years & two kids later we know for a fact we are shit loads happier than she is.

Going to your question about being attracted to 50+ yr old women...by & large no, In the same way most that don’t know me put my age on the mid 40’s the lady would need to be similar & not have interests commensurate with her age either. same as I have very few 50+yr old friends as outside of our age we have very little in common usually.

They are all golf & holidays in Marbella & whatever, a nice Port & I’m still tear arsing around racetracks on motorbikes & getting tatted occasionally down the pub. It just takes longer for me to recover from both

There also aren’t many my age with a kid of eight either, many have grandkids older! So conversations can be odd

“ So S my boys got into xyz Uni, yours?” “Year three of xyz primary mate”...

So age is it just a number? we’ll yes, Does it matter? To some.

But it’s not the age that makes you old, it’s your outlook on life....& it’s that you’ll never get to show on here, because there isn’t a filter for it!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I did notice when I turned 45 I was out of a lot of people’s age ranges.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just out of interest, why are all these 50 plus guys so intent on sleeping with much younger women? Do you not like 50 plus women? Don’t you think you’re missing out?

There also aren’t many my age with a kid of eight either, many have grandkids older! So conversations can be odd

“ So S my boys got into xyz Uni, yours?” “Year three of xyz primary mate”...

So age is it just a number? we’ll yes, Does it matter? To some.

But it’s not the age that makes you old, it’s your outlook on life....& it’s that you’ll never get to show on here, because there isn’t a filter for it!

My question was definitely more aimed at the guys who seem annoyed that much younger women don’t want 50 plus men, and was more than a little bit sarcastic! I just wanted them to maybe think about what they’re saying and how silly it is to complain that other people have preferences.

I’m 41, and everyone I know tells me I look a lot younger, but I’m still 41 and that puts me outside plenty of people’s preferred age range. There’s no point in me complaining about it, it is what it is.

Speaking for myself, if someone over 50 looks significantly younger, then I’ll consider them the same way I consider anyone within my age range. But they’re few and far between so it’s easier to exclude completely.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Just out of interest, why are all these 50 plus guys so intent on sleeping with much younger women? Do you not like 50 plus women? Don’t you think you’re missing out?

There also aren’t many my age with a kid of eight either, many have grandkids older! So conversations can be odd

“ So S my boys got into xyz Uni, yours?” “Year three of xyz primary mate”...

So age is it just a number? we’ll yes, Does it matter? To some.

But it’s not the age that makes you old, it’s your outlook on life....& it’s that you’ll never get to show on here, because there isn’t a filter for it!

Exactly & on here you don't know whether people lie about their age, use old photos (There's more than a few ladies who delete photos from a few years back only to upload the same photo so it gets a more recent upload date, guys probs do the same but we never look).

So the only real way to prove who/what you are is to go to a group social & its what we do.

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

im very pleased to say iv got a 28yo on the go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is a number to be used on paperwork etc.

If others can’t see beyond that then they can jog on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thought I'd add something, I usually don't go for older people due to the immense generational differences and the animosity between our generations which is very common where I come from.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I don't think there is a too old, as long as you enjoy it. However I suppose after a certain age the choice of playmates starts to diminish.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We’ve just lowered our age as all the people we’ve met say they’re 55 ish but look more like my dad. And those that have made it to the bedroom have issues they didn’t tell you about with getting hard or using condoms. It’s starting to get on my nerves. It’ll be raised again as I prefer the company of an older man. But really getting fed up with people telling fibs about the little things

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

Everyone has their preferences for me younger guys are a no. But older guys have experience and a lot do have stamina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey that means I'm officially passed it in 26 days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Blimey that means I'm officially passed it in 26 days

But you have the sparkly eyes of a 20 year old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey that means I'm officially passed it in 26 days

But you have the sparkly eyes of a 20 year old! "

Maybe but we all no full well people look at the number first and pictures second

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Too old or too young is when you don't meet their age preferences, they aren't the same with everyone. They are there for the persons own reasons. Focus on the ones that are looking for your age group and move on from those that aren't. Simple really. Good luck.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

And if you aren't in their age range they aren't missing out as they don't want to meet you or others outside of it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe but I also think people should look at the bigger picture, not just a number as everyone ages differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had one who somehow managed to message me who was 3 years under my minimum age. When I explained it wouldn't be happening he replied 'but I will be that age in 3 years time' was really annoyed and abusive because I wouldn't change my age range just for him

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

"Maybe but I also think people should look at the bigger picture, not just a number as everyone ages differently "

Totally agree with this. If you stick to numbers you could be missing out on so much

Also for those who go to clubs you never ask anyone their age

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Age is just a number.Maturity is sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe but I also think people should look at the bigger picture, not just a number as everyone ages differently

Totally agree with this. If you stick to numbers you could be missing out on so much

Also for those who go to clubs you never ask anyone their age "

I agree with this to a point and in some cases I have moved outside of what I'm normally looking for with varying degrees of success I keep the range on here more to reduce the number of speculative messages.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

"Maybe but I also think people should look at the bigger picture, not just a number as everyone ages differently

Totally agree with this. If you stick to numbers you could be missing out on so much

Also for those who go to clubs you never ask anyone their age

I do the same here as well

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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago

sheffield

It is what it is OP!! Move on and maybe the next profile fits your age!! Preferences etc

The age filters are there for a reason I.e personnel preference to filter out people or just attraction!!

In the words of a famous song!! That’s life!!

I might add I never have and never would

Lie about age!!

What would be the point saying I’m younger when I’m 53 next weekend!!

Good luck all whatever age, size, hair colour etc your looking for!!

Fun and enjoyment is what it’s all about

Daz xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Maybe but I also think people should look at the bigger picture, not just a number as everyone ages differently "

Why? If they don't want to meet people under or over a certain age, why should they look at the bigger picture?? It's clearly important to them for their own reasons. They don't need to justify them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with older when I was 19 went with guy 20 years older

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

Hollie's neighbour 78 she 30 he fucks her every sunday in exchange papers he gets, Viva Viagra I say. Not too shabby a fuck either been 6 years now

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just today I had a message from a 71 year old saying “older cock is better cock” - it really isn’t (for me) when it’s old enough to have produced me. And no, he did not look younger.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hollie's neighbour 78 she 30 he fucks her every sunday in exchange papers he gets"

She buys him a Sunday newspaper in return for a fuck ?

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It's all over for people like us mate. Might as well crawl off and die.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

Age is only a number

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Some do not realize/understand an interest in and desire for sex does not disappear when we reach a certain age....certainly true for me. May not perform like a 25 year old but the desire is there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all over for people like us mate. Might as well crawl off and die.

Seriously?!? Because some people aren't attracted to you must mean you are no good to anyone eh?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some do not realize/understand an interest in and desire for sex does not disappear when we reach a certain age....certainly true for me. May not perform like a 25 year old but the desire is there...."

It doesn't mean that at all!! I am almost 50 and my sex drive is higher than ever... But I am rarely attracted to men even close to my age,let alone older... Not something anyone can do about it, just accept it... And whining about it just makes people less attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you try and meet ladies off fab ie in life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why do you have to fuck women half your age? There are plenty of older women who meet older men..

It’s hard not to use the word ‘entitled’ when I read posts like this. My lower fab age limit is 40. I don’t expect 20 somethings to be attracted to me. Fortunately they are occasionally, and apparently not dr*nk or mad, but I certainly wouldn’t expect it in the normal course of events.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Do you try and meet ladies off fab ie in life? "

Yes, but do find it difficult as you get older.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

But why do you have to fuck women half your age? There are plenty of older women who meet older men..

Do not feel in the least "entitled", would just like the OPPORTUNITY to meet.

I have very few preconceived ideas re age, now when it comes to compatibility that is another matter !!!

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Down to preferences and attraction everybody's got there type there are some women that love the older guy I wouldn't say there missing out on something they dont want.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Nothing wrong with older when I was 19 went with guy 20 years older "

But it’s a different perspective when you’re 50. I used to prefer older guys when i was 20 and 30 - usually 15 or 20 years older. Now I’m 50 I do not desire a 70yo.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I’m 58 1/2

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

"Hollie's neighbour 78 she 30 he fucks her every sunday in exchange papers he gets

She buys him a Sunday newspaper in return for a fuck ?"

No he buys and fetches sunday papers, has done for years

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

It seems to swing in roundabouts. Some men age better than others and some women age better than others.

It comes down to personal preference I suppose.

I like "nice" people. I try to get a feel for a person from their message rather than their age......my husband virtually runs my profile for me. He set my age limit as he likes to see me devour young guys

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hollie's neighbour 78 she 30 he fucks her every sunday in exchange papers he gets

She buys him a Sunday newspaper in return for a fuck ?

No he buys and fetches sunday papers, has done for years

Sounds like a great deal for him. A fuck with a young woman for under £2.

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By *r lotharioMan
over a year ago

newcastle-under-lyme

go poundland, cheaper lmao

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

From a personal point of view it's about people, not their age.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

Age is only a number"

To those who are over or under age limits, yes. Not to those who dont want to meet outside them.

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By *inateaseWoman
over a year ago

ANTRIM

"I see lots of ads that look really interesting. And then see the age limit set to 40. Do they not know what theyre missing out by filtering out the slightly more mature guys?

I have the body of a 50 year old guy who goes to the gym. And the mind of a 20 year old ??

For me personally I think older men seeking out young girls is a bit sick. Likewise I won’t look for anyone in their 30s because I have kids that age! It would just feel wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why do you have to fuck women half your age? There are plenty of older women who meet older men..

Do not feel in the least "entitled", would just like the OPPORTUNITY to meet.

I have very few preconceived ideas re age, now when it comes to compatibility that is another matter !!!"

You aren’t owed any opportunity. Thinking that you are is the definition of entitlement.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

At the end of the day as someone else has said “You don’t ask someone’s age in a club”.

So there is your answer. Get out there face to face as it’s hard enough on here getting those your own age let alone the older/younger dynamic.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Just because you have a desire, it doesn't mean someone has to help you with it.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I've no problem in real life, sadly there's so many barriers in fab world, it makes it more difficult.

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By *ixen500Couple
over a year ago

some where near shropshire

Everyone is different in their own way and everyone has their own personal preference . Each to their own ....saw a quote that said he had a 50s body but a 20s mind ....

Good for you

To me ive a 50s body but my mind is still young ! Stay young and enjoy life

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don’t think anyone thinks that. But no-one owes anyone sex either. Especially not people 20-30 years older who we aren’t attracted to.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

But why do you have to fuck women half your age? There are plenty of older women who meet older men..

That’s exactly the word that occurs to me.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Age is a state of mind

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"You aren’t owed any opportunity. Thinking that you are is the definition of entitlement."

Who said anything about being owed an opportunity. I suppose like a few women on here you expect us single guys to get down and grovel. Part of Fab is about meeting folk you may get on with, just wish it was bit more equal and free flowing.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"You aren’t owed any opportunity. Thinking that you are is the definition of entitlement.

Ugh, I hate this kind of attitude. Stamping your feet because people don't want to meet you. It's very unattractive and unlikely to help you.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Just because you have a desire, it doesn't mean someone has to help you with it. "

What, not if you are attracted to one another... ??

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Mine is set at 45 and tbh even at that its a push. Most guys ive chatted to have been around my age. Ive no desire to go over my age bracket. Ive yet to see someone i would be physically attracted to over that age bracket and ive zero intention of fucking someone close to my dads age. Similarly ive no desire to fuck someone in their early 20's. My preference. I know what i like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You aren’t owed any opportunity. Thinking that you are is the definition of entitlement.

What's not equal about it?

So women should meet men older than they preference to make older guys feel better about being on the site?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Just because you have a desire, it doesn't mean someone has to help you with it.

What, not if you are attracted to one another... ??"

That's not really what the discussion is about, it's about people having an age preference.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"You aren’t owed any opportunity. Thinking that you are is the definition of entitlement.

‘Part of Fab is about meeting folk you may get on with’

Not for me it isn’t. I have limited time for meeting people, so I’m not going to spend it meeting people I “may get on with” when I’m not attracted to them in the slightest. I only have a social when I think I’d be willing for it to progress to a meet. Why do you want women to meet you if they don’t fancy you?

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