FabSwingers.com forum: Cum in mouth etiquette?

By *ualitychemistry OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx

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By *rof_cplCouple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

Just shout "Oh my fucking god, HERE IT COMES!!!!" loudly. Up to them what they do with that information.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

My one and only time, the only warning I got was a hand clamped on the back of my head forcing me onto his cock.

There was gagging, I swallowed the lot.

I had mixed feelings...

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By *ualitychemistry OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Just shout "Oh my fucking god, HERE IT COMES!!!!" loudly. Up to them what they do with that information."

Then whip out the kleenex and mouthwash?! Lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Just shout "incoming" and brace yourself really

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By *ualitychemistry OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!"

That's exactly the reaction I'd be devastated with! I'll stick with "that's too nice, I will cum if you carry on" it's the ladies choice then.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fire in the hole" ?

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By *ualitychemistry OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Just shout "incoming" and brace yourself really

Great answer... And great figure too! X

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Just shout "Oh my fucking god, HERE IT COMES!!!!" loudly. Up to them what they do with that information."

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By *ualitychemistry OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"My one and only time, the only warning I got was a hand clamped on the back of my head forcing me onto his cock.

There was gagging, I swallowed the lot.

I had mixed feelings...

All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely you alway give a warning

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X"

It was technically very abusive.

He was going to cum and decided that I was going to swallow the lot. His cock hitting the back of my throat guaranteed there was no spitting and made me gag big time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Just shout "incoming" and brace yourself really

Great answer... And great figure too! X"

Oh. Thank you.

You have a great figure too

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X

It was technically very abusive.

He was going to cum and decided that I was going to swallow the lot. His cock hitting the back of my throat guaranteed there was no spitting and made me gag big time."

Next time.. bite. That will make him move x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X

It was technically very abusive.

He was going to cum and decided that I was going to swallow the lot. His cock hitting the back of my throat guaranteed there was no spitting and made me gag big time.

Next time.. bite. That will make him move x"

I would have done... no one forces me down... well okay one or two get away but they already know who they are.. but to the op... yeah a warning is nice though it is normally pretty obvious before a guy does.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I think you've got three options

A, deny it was you

B, say oops sorry

C, blame the receiver of the cum for being to good so it's her fault

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!

That's exactly the reaction I'd be devastated with! I'll stick with "that's too nice, I will cum if you carry on" it's the ladies choice then.x "

YOU'D be devastated? I was traumatised!

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By *ualitychemistry OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I think you've got three options

A, deny it was you

B, say oops sorry

C, blame the receiver of the cum for being to good so it's her fault

D, It was dark in the room, I thought you were my wife?!?! LOL

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I think you've got three options

A, deny it was you

B, say oops sorry

C, blame the receiver of the cum for being to good so it's her fault

D, It was dark in the room, I thought you were my wife?!?! LOL"

Exactly

lol

E, I thought it was your vagina although that might make it worse !

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

F. A big boy did it and ran away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.

I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

i like a bit of warning, and hopefully not had spicy food the day before, as it affects the taste

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"i like a bit of warning, and hopefully not had spicy food the day before, as it affects the taste"

Is that me or you not having spicy food the day before ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite knowing the rules through conversation, I still have the courtesy to give advanced warning due to being a heavy cummer lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a warning , let her decide if she wants it or not , just dont leave it too late and as you pull out cover her face

Haha .

Mrs xx

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.

I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.

Lol you TELL them you WILL be spunking in their mouth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to admit to being guilty to that once.

There I was, lying on a bed getting expertly sucked when along comes my wife and sits on my face.

Not much I could say to give a warning ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.

I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.

I think you’ll find you mean, “I ask if I can come in their mouth”

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.

I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.

I think you’ll find you mean, “I ask if I can come in their mouth”"

I actually think he really means what he said, I'd love a guy to say that to me, he'd go home with his dick in a bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.

I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.

I think you’ll find you mean, “I ask if I can come in their mouth”

I actually think he really means what he said, I'd love a guy to say that to me, he'd go home with his dick in a bag. "

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By *ualitychemistry OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"i like a bit of warning, and hopefully not had spicy food the day before, as it affects the taste"

Doesn't pineapple juice help or is that just an old wives tale?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask where they would like it before I come .It's nice to see what turns them on and where they want me to .from all over their tits to in their face ..I aim to please..ha .If they say in my mouth I say don't be greedy and share some back with me ..I love horny moments like that

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Guy asked today if it was ok to cum in her mouth and the answer was yes down her throat and she loved it

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X

It was technically very abusive.

He was going to cum and decided that I was going to swallow the lot. His cock hitting the back of my throat guaranteed there was no spitting and made me gag big time."

I would have bitten it, inconsiderate dickhead

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!"

I only been to clubs a handful of times. And so far this is why I put off giving bjs during group situations.

If cum lands on my tongue. There is a high possibility I will throw up on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate a small heads up - just something like, 'I'm going to come' or 'I'm close'.

Generally I am a swallower, but I still like a bit of warning so I can prepare myself... particularly if the guy produces quite a load.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of sheer respect & manners, I always advise my playmate that if she continues to do that I will cum & that gives them the option to continue & enjoy or not to get a unexpected & unwanted surprise...

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

It’s generally fairly obvious with me...

I’ll let you know when I’m about to cum.

Manners really

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Never really explicitly discussed in an impromptu session like that but the men have always been courteous to let me know they were about to cum so that decision was mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting close, where would you like it? " usually works well!

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1

Double tap on the back of the head oh sorry thats a submission in MMA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I'm getting close, where would you like it? " usually works well! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I'm getting close, where would you like it? " usually works well! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.

I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.

You tell them?

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By *eith28Man
over a year ago

uxbridge

I always ask where the person giving the bj would like me to cum. I learned as a late teenager to ask or give warning when I received an incredible blow Job round the back of the Glasgow Arts School late one Saturday night. She was deliciously sexy, and dirty and deep thruster me I came ferociously it hit the back of her throat and she promptly threw up all over my really nice shoes. Red wine and semen is murder to get out of suede.

So. Boys if you like your shoes ask where you should cum!!!

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"I think you've got three options

A, deny it was you

Ahh, employing the Shaggy defence...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always give warning.

It's never happened to me but I wouldn't react very well if someone came in my mouth under any circumstances especially if they didn't give warning they were about to cum

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

An early "do you swallow" and you listen to the response and act accordingly

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Shout "bombs away" or "tharr 'e blowsss"

Then high five yourself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grabbing their hair and spanking their ass isn’t etiquette?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grabbing their hair and spanking their ass isn’t etiquette? "

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Best thread so far.

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

Quite frankly, I'm usually so delighted that I'm reaching the point of no return that I shout 'I'm cumming' because why the hell shouldn't I be proud of that?!

The lady in question is pretty sure of where I am but I do like to discuss before a meet where possible

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By *upergirthukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool UK

"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

"Where d'you want it?" usually 30 seconds prior to blowing my load usually covers it.

Easy enough to delay matters by gripping the base of the cock between thumb and index finger and you can dump it whereever the lady wants it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I prefer no warning and like the surprise! If you have decided to blow a guy and know what you're doing then surely you must expect him to cum. In my experience, you can tell by his body language anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!

That's exactly the reaction I'd be devastated with! I'll stick with "that's too nice, I will cum if you carry on" it's the ladies choice then.x "

That’s exactly the right thing to do and say in my opinion!

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By *reedyannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Swaffham

I have to admit I like a bit of warning, so there’s time to not gag lol, but it’s only polite to let someone know you’re about to cum x

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By *astmidsguy78Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I think you can mainly tell when a guys about to cum but I wouldn’t want any warning, I’m sucking for that cum

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By *illiam101000Man
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray

"Personally, I prefer no warning and like the surprise! If you have decided to blow a guy and know what you're doing then surely you must expect him to cum. In my experience, you can tell by his body language anyway."
I'm the same as you hunny, if I'm giving a bj to a guy I know what the end result is going to be. If anything I'll let him know the finish is his choice and how he wants it to be. For me I love the hand on the back of the head.

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Met a guy at club the other week, we hadn’t discussed anything before we started play. He said ‘I’m going to cum, where would you like it?’

Sometimes I’ll give them the choice and will say ‘you decide’ with a cheeky smile, other times I’ll tell them where I’d like it.

Ms x

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Always always always agree in advance!

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By *poolfunswingcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

When playing and receiving oral, I (Mr) will always try and let whoever I am playing with, know exactly how it feels. As I start to build up towards cumming, I will give clear warning in case she would like to change position or swap to different play. I would never cum in a lady’s mouth unless she makes it obvious that she is happy to continue.

When playing with other couples, I will also warn the male NOT to cum in MrsL’s mouth. They have always respected this. Xx

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I prefer spontaneity

If a guy just cums in my mouth in the heat of the moment all the better

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I don't always get much warning when I cum, so when a woman begins giving me oral at a club i always ask early on "where would you like me to cum?".

With one friend a few years ago I pulled out of her mouth as I realised I was about to cum, and she didn't want it in her mouth. I came all over the top she was wearing. Thankfully she liked the idea of the train home with cum stains her top.

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Some sort of sign is welcomed, usually the girations and noises of the man!

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By *urse234Woman
over a year ago

somewhere in Essex

I HATE cum. So prewarn the person im sucking not to cum in my mouth.

Only had this happen once on a 1:1 session. I was up within seconds vomiting into the hotel toilet. He apologised haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!"

That made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.

I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.

I think you’ll find you mean, “I ask if I can come in their mouth”

I actually think he really means what he said, I'd love a guy to say that to me, he'd go home with his dick in a bag. "

Well as I would probably not meet someone line you it would never be a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.

I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.

You tell them?"

Yes because that’s the kind of female I would be meeting anyways

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I like to be surprised lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger days I made the mistake of face fucking and cumming down their throat making them gag

Until I had a guy do it to me although hot I’d see a woman’s choice now

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Surely you give a warning!! I was once giving oral to a girlfriend and with no warning she squirted powerfully into my throat, I couldn’t breath....choking! I still see her now and then when I go back home.....always have a little laugh and smile together about that night!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

If I get a warning I just suck harder lol x

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I'd always give prior warning of my imminent cumshot to my partner.

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!/quote]

Ha ha ha happened me once as he held my head, I held it in my mouth and stood up to kiss him and spat it all back his throat, he went apeshit when I told him never do it again

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

I think I'm the odd one out here (Mr). Hands on the back of my head as he cums in my mouth! Yes please and I'd savour and swallow every drop mmmmmmm. Just being honest.

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

I personally like to tell I am cumming if it’s in their mouth. If she lives it there than we know the answer!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As we know that not everyone will want it in their mouth every time, it's thus appropriate to always give enough notice to allow them to make adjustments, if they wish to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say I am about to cum puts the ball in their court think it would be wrong to assume my experience is that unless you know someone well it’s most likely she will not want you to unload in her mouth

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge

"All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X

It was technically very abusive.

He was going to cum and decided that I was going to swallow the lot. His cock hitting the back of my throat guaranteed there was no spitting and made me gag big time."

That wasn't technically abusive. It was abusive, full stop. You should have bitten it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's only courteous to give a little notice, I'd always try and have the conversation of do you like kinda thing but would always warn and ask if it's OK xxxx

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By *innmaccoolMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I always ask where they want my cum while she's sucking. Can be proper dirty and hot to talk about. That way I can prepare, pull out, and aim where she wants it. Easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always give the lady fair warning, that way she can do as she pleases with it.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Shout "over the lips, past the gums, watch out tummy here it cums!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

If you are happy to put in your mouth and suck it then accept you may end up with a facial or gagging on a shed load of cum

Same applies to guys. If you don’t like it , don't put it in your mouth. In my experience girls and guys absolutely love cum in thier mouth and on thier face so I wouldn’t over analyse it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I think I'm the odd one out here (Mr). Hands on the back of my head as he cums in my mouth! Yes please and I'd savour and swallow every drop mmmmmmm. Just being honest."

No you’re normal ...... hands on back of head.... . sexy as fuck ...

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

"I think I'm the odd one out here (Mr). Hands on the back of my head as he cums in my mouth! Yes please and I'd savour and swallow every drop mmmmmmm. Just being honest.

No you’re normal ...... hands on back of head.... . sexy as fuck ... "

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

i think the gent enjoys it more if the sucker is ready to greedily swallow the load... and it's not hard to make it pretty clear your close so they can be ready

So, giving a good sign helps all parties

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran

"If you are happy to put in your mouth and suck it then accept you may end up with a facial or gagging on a shed load of cum

Same applies to guys. If you don’t like it , don't put it in your mouth. In my experience girls and guys absolutely love cum in thier mouth and on thier face so I wouldn’t over analyse it "
agree with this but would still give warning . only polite thing to do ! (personally I love it in my mouth ,but hay that's just me lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are happy to put in your mouth and suck it then accept you may end up with a facial or gagging on a shed load of cum

Same applies to guys. If you don’t like it , don't put it in your mouth. In my experience girls and guys absolutely love cum in thier mouth and on thier face so I wouldn’t over analyse it "

I'm happy to give a blowjob on a first meet as part of the play but won't take the load in my mouth. Not on a first meet, not till I know the person better and only if I'm in the mood for it then. So if a man would cum in my mouth without warning or asking - he'd be very sorry for doing so.

Just because I put it in my mouth I don't have to and won't accept ending up with his load where I don't want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say ‘I’m going to cum’ just as I feel the sensation start. Gives the Lady options then.

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"If you are happy to put in your mouth and suck it then accept you may end up with a facial or gagging on a shed load of cum

Same applies to guys. If you don’t like it , don't put it in your mouth. In my experience girls and guys absolutely love cum in thier mouth and on thier face so I wouldn’t over analyse it

Just because I put it in my mouth I don't have to and won't accept ending up with his load where I don't want it."

I agree with you on "Just because I put it in my mouth I don't have to and won't accept ending up with his load where I don't want it" and also "only if I'm in the mood".

But what does "knowing a person better" have to do with where the cum goes after performing the most intimate act possible between 2 people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easier Said than Done lol

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"Easier Said than Done lol

Surely you mean easier done than said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I get a warning I just suck harder lol x"

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I tend to give a warning that I'm getting close, and then a final "I'm going to cum" when there are mere (split) seconds to go. That way the lady has plently of choice of what she wants to do.

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By *ragon66Man
over a year ago

Pwllheli

I always give warning that I'm about to cum! I dont think its fair to cum in there mouth without telling them first. Its Just wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play the Final Countdown v loudly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally you'd have the convo beforehand but if its like an orgy scenario this is what I'd do: I'd say "you're going to make me cum like that" if she stops then that indicates she doesn't want your cum or if the carries on or even ups her BJ game then i would assume she wants me to cum and I'd let her do whatever she wants with it when the time came! (Excuse the pun!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I always felt a bit daft asking a women where she preferred I cum during a meet, but after reading this I’m glad I do!

I always presumed most men just did it where they wanted to and I was just being overly polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit I always felt a bit daft asking a women where she preferred I cum during a meet, but after reading this I’m glad I do!

I always presumed most men just did it where they wanted to and I was just being overly polite "

I hate being asked where, just being told it's imminent is enough then i can direct it myself where i want it to go

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

I’ve always let the person know when it’s building, most carry on, those who know me spray it on their face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually ask them if they want me to tell them I m about to cum then it's up to them, one guy replied that he would know before me!!!

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I HATE cum. So prewarn the person im sucking not to cum in my mouth.

Only had this happen once on a 1:1 session. I was up within seconds vomiting into the hotel toilet. He apologised haha "

Omg I'm so glad I'm not the only one!! It's never been a dealbreaker in pre-meet discussions, but I feel bad that I don't!!

I have an awful gag reflex & just can't let anyone cum in my mouth..not even the man I was married to for 20 years!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can normally tell when a man is about to cum xx

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By *cottybhoyMan
over a year ago

falkirk

I would never risk the chance of not getting another lol - I love receiving them. She will always get plenty of warning as well as being told how amazing it feels.

Just like I’d never stick my cock in a lady’s arse without asking either

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!"

Oh, I usual extra for the cock slap !

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By *un-cpleCouple
over a year ago

South Molton

Just remember the 3 biggest lies in the world

1. I love you

2. The cheques in the post

3. I promise not to cum in ur mouth

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

In my case, I'm pretty sure they'd know it was about to happen - when I'm about to cum I'm quite loud and kind of loose control of myself.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

He can cum where he likes to be honest but always prefer it in my mouth

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

For me, it starts withe the heads up (sorry about the pun) with something like "Oh god".....and ends with "Elvis has left the building"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I'm happy to give a blowjob I won't take cum in my mouth unless I've met the person multiple times as it's the next level of intimacy for me. I expect to be warned or asked where I want it at some point.

Mrs

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!

That's exactly the reaction I'd be devastated with! I'll stick with "that's too nice, I will cum if you carry on" it's the ladies choice then.x "
That's exactly what I say..

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Bunny likes it over her breasts, but if in mouth then it's only polite to warn with an "oh god, I'm gonna cum soon" and then she can decide.

With me, it's always swallow lol

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By *rMrsH400Couple
over a year ago

Essex

Mrs was sucking a guy we met said he was about to cum she pulled my head down and got me to take his load

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I would always warn the lady as she was getting close, so she can decide. Quite often if playing with a couple we’ll discuss before we start

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Mrs was sucking a guy we met said he was about to cum she pulled my head down and got me to take his load "
I like her style! Did you swallow?

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By *rMrsH400Couple
over a year ago

Essex

"Mrs was sucking a guy we met said he was about to cum she pulled my head down and got me to take his load I like her style! Did you swallow?

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was only polite to swallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would always warn the lady as she was getting close, so she can decide. Quite often if playing with a couple we’ll discuss before we start"

I can’t see me having the discussion beforehand unless she initiated it - I’d feel it was a bit presumptuous to be expecting a BJ.

A sufficient “Oh my God, you’re going to make me cum” should be enough warning if you have enough control.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We tend to play with couples and pre-play chats this often crops up

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By *orovoyeurMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Mrs was sucking a guy we met said he was about to cum she pulled my head down and got me to take his load I like her style! Did you swallow?

was only polite to swallow"

Aannndddd... now I’m rock hard again

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"I appreciate a small heads up - just something like, 'I'm going to come' or 'I'm close'.

Generally I am a swallower, but I still like a bit of warning so I can prepare myself... particularly if the guy produces quite a load. "

I can’t believe there’s men that wouldn’t do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!

That's exactly the reaction I'd be devastated with! I'll stick with "that's too nice, I will cum if you carry on" it's the ladies choice then.x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....

Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love that..

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