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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before anyone starts jumping down our throats preaching we know this isn't for everyone.

If it isn't for you then please read no further, no need for preaching to others for doing what they want to, this site is about free choice after all.

Anyone posting derogatory comments will have there post removed.

Anyway, for those of you still reading, we have the opportunity to use a club for a bareback friendly night where all attending are willing to play bareback.

Before we take the club up on the offer we are trying to gauge how many people would be interested in attending such a night.

It would be for mixed couples, guys and ladies and as per usual club/swinging rules you wouldn't be expected to play if you don't want to.

If you do not want to reply on here for fear of the preachers then please feel free to message us direct.

The club in question is centrally located and is very clean and it would be either a Friday or Saturday night.

To register an interest or to ask a question please comment below or message direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us we only play safe with others but good luck with your search. Each to their own

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How will you remove derogatory posts ?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Sorry to point it out but only moderators are able to remove posts. Oh and by the way it should be their posts not there.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm good ta, good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with that

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By *eeman1000Man
over a year ago

durham

Nah thanks

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

No thanks

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Same old same old......lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didnt think clubs promoted bareback!

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Nah. I value my health. You cannot simply know that anyone you fuck hasnt got an std/sti even if they give you a all clear, if they've fucked anyone since that test they could have something. It isnt worth the risk for a thrill imo.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It is a brave club which cancels its usual Friday or Saturday night to host a bareback only event. I would have thought they would "test the waters" on a weeknight first.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Lol we will remove ur posts! Ehm no u cant only fab can! And fyi A club that promotes Bareback needs closing down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do bareback with long-term partners, who get tested regularly and I get tested regularly, too. My question, however, is the 'centrally located club', are they going to advertise the event as BAREBACK only to all who would like to visit that particular club on that particular day? Are they going to make it a closed event, only open to people on the list? I wouldn't like to stroll into a club on a Friday or Saturday night just to discover it is bareback only night.

And I do agree with previous comments, swingers club that promotes bareback can't be a very good club, and should not be operating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before anyone starts jumping down our throats preaching we know this isn't for everyone.

If it isn't for you then please read no further, no need for preaching to others for doing what they want to, this site is about free choice after all.

Anyone posting derogatory comments will have there post removed.

Anyway, for those of you still reading, we have the opportunity to use a club for a bareback

friendly night where all attending are willing to

play bareback.

Before we take the club up on the offer we are trying to gauge how many people would be interested in attending such a night.

It would be for mixed couples, guys and ladies and as per usual club/swinging rules you wouldn't be expected to play if you don't want to.

If you do not want to reply on here for fear of the preachers then please feel free to message us direct.

The club in question is centrally located and is very clean and it would be either a Friday or Saturday night.

To register an interest or to ask a question please comment below or message direct.

"

A very very brave post! Not for me though!

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

Not for me thanks and then neither would anyone on your verifications list be or anyone on theirs either . You deserve to be 'preached' at frankly whether you want to avoid it or not ..

Unbelievable !

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

I'd rather not risk getting a disease and any club that promotes bareback is so wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"didnt think clubs promoted bareback!"

They don't, not reputable ones anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't be any more inviting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this backfired a bit

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"It is a brave club which cancels its usual Friday or Saturday night to host a bareback only event. I would have thought they would "test the waters" on a weeknight first. "
I was thinking the same. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym "

Most?.....can't tell if you do from your silhouette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you really willing to risk your health (and the health of any future partner and their partners) for sexual gratification?

It's a massive big, NO THANKS from us. While we are firm believers of each to their own, this is something that stopped us getting "into the scene" for many years. Safe sex in clubs, twisted our arms, but if this is standard practice, we're out of here.

x N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym "

What has this got to do with the OP's post? Also, gym is not for everyone, for a variety of reasons, be it price, time, availability of equipment, personal health issues etc. What is more, if every person were gym bunnies, toned and fit, life would be boring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In coming

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Well, that was successful.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I like this post. Helpful. I've blocked all their veris for a start

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands


"I like this post. Helpful. I've blocked all their veris for a start "

Very helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like this post. Helpful. I've blocked all their veris for a start "

Ditto lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym "

Love a great filter comment like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym "

But you can't catch obesity from a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like this post. Helpful. I've blocked all their veris for a start

Ditto lol x"

Same

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym "

Boom!

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"It is a brave club which cancels its usual Friday or Saturday night to host a bareback only event. I would have thought they would "test the waters" on a weeknight first. "

The waters aren’t the only thing that will need testing

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How will you remove derogatory posts ?"
with an eraser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a paradox that lot of people who gave OP a meet veri, state "safe sex" in their profiles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like this post. Helpful. I've blocked all their veris for a start "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Not for me thanks and then neither would anyone on your verifications list be or anyone on theirs either . You deserve to be 'preached' at frankly whether you want to avoid it or not ..

Unbelievable !

"

Deserve to be preached at? Have you not heard of live and let live and don't judge others. Jeeeeez.

At least they are being honest and upfront about how they play.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No need for a lot of the comments. We understand bareback isn't for most of us (incl us) but we really don't see the need to make other people feel bad and feel judged for how they choose to play.

They are being upfront and honest, which is more than can be said for a lot of people on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such a paradox that lot of people who gave OP a meet veri, state "safe sex" in their profiles..."

Are they? I didn't get chance to check before blocking them....

x N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback isn’t for us all but who are we to judge, least they’re honest!

Obesity, alcohol, drugs etc can damaging to your health too but I reckon there’s a fair few of you negatively commenting that are obese or use/take drugs and or alcohol

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"The waters aren’t the only thing that will need testing "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crack on guys, not our thing at all however good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback isn’t for us all but who are we to judge, least they’re honest!

Obesity, alcohol, drugs etc can damaging to your health too but I reckon there’s a fair few of you negatively commenting that are obese or use/take drugs and or alcohol "

The difference is you don't catch someone else's obesity or alcoholism.

Try talking to someone who practices safe sex with everyone except their partner and then their partner barebacks and gives something to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback isn’t for us all but who are we to judge, least they’re honest!

Obesity, alcohol, drugs etc can damaging to your health too but I reckon there’s a fair few of you negatively commenting that are obese or use/take drugs and or alcohol

The difference is you don't catch someone else's obesity or alcoholism.

Try talking to someone who practices safe sex with everyone except their partner and then their partner barebacks and gives something to them."

If you’re willing to bareback with 1 person regardless of whether they’re your long term partner/spouse or not, it’s still down to you....... you are the one that chose to put your health at risk. Just like someone fat like me chooses to eat too much of the wrong stuff, I’ve chose to take that risk!

It’s personal choice, no need for anyone on here to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No need for a lot of the comments. We understand bareback isn't for most of us (incl us) but we really don't see the need to make other people feel bad and feel judged for how they choose to play.

They are being upfront and honest, which is more than can be said for a lot of people on this site.

"

I totally see where you are coming from. And although, yes, I am judging, it is purely out of fear of our personal health.

I respect that this is their life choice, but when there is even a minimal chance that their choice will negate or affect ours, then I have a right to voice my opinion and act in a way to protect it.

x Niki

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No need for a lot of the comments. We understand bareback isn't for most of us (incl us) but we really don't see the need to make other people feel bad and feel judged for how they choose to play.

They are being upfront and honest, which is more than can be said for a lot of people on this site.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"No need for a lot of the comments. We understand bareback isn't for most of us (incl us) but we really don't see the need to make other people feel bad and feel judged for how they choose to play.

They are being upfront and honest, which is more than can be said for a lot of people on this site.

I totally see where you are coming from. And although, yes, I am judging, it is purely out of fear of our personal health.

I respect that this is their life choice, but when there is even a minimal chance that their choice will negate or affect ours, then I have a right to voice my opinion and act in a way to protect it.

x Niki

"

Obviously. But you have a choice whether to play bareback with your partners, so how they choose to play doesn't have any impact on your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym "

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No need for a lot of the comments. We understand bareback isn't for most of us (incl us) but we really don't see the need to make other people feel bad and feel judged for how they choose to play.

They are being upfront and honest, which is more than can be said for a lot of people on this site.

I totally see where you are coming from. And although, yes, I am judging, it is purely out of fear of our personal health.

I respect that this is their life choice, but when there is even a minimal chance that their choice will negate or affect ours, then I have a right to voice my opinion and act in a way to protect it.

x Niki

Obviously. But you have a choice whether to play bareback with your partners, so how they choose to play doesn't have any impact on your life.

"

I think you missed my point:

"when there is even a minimal chance that their choice will negate or affect ours, then I have a right to voice my opinion and act in a way to protect it. "

I'm not being an arsehole here - it's a swinging website. I'm entitled to block those and disagree with those that don't value their health the same way that we do.

N x

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

I see the holier than thou bridge are at it again on their bandwagon, live and let live.

No our cup of tea but plenty around that do for sure.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"No need for a lot of the comments. We understand bareback isn't for most of us (incl us) but we really don't see the need to make other people feel bad and feel judged for how they choose to play.

They are being upfront and honest, which is more than can be said for a lot of people on this site.

I totally see where you are coming from. And although, yes, I am judging, it is purely out of fear of our personal health.

I respect that this is their life choice, but when there is even a minimal chance that their choice will negate or affect ours, then I have a right to voice my opinion and act in a way to protect it.

x Niki

Obviously. But you have a choice whether to play bareback with your partners, so how they choose to play doesn't have any impact on your life.

I think you missed my point:

"when there is even a minimal chance that their choice will negate or affect ours, then I have a right to voice my opinion and act in a way to protect it. "

I'm not being an arsehole here - it's a swinging website. I'm entitled to block those and disagree with those that don't value their health the same way that we do.

N x

"

Of course you are. Just a shame people feel the need to judge others when it doesn't impact their lives. Hey ho...live and let live we say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also, gym is not for everyone, for a variety of reasons, be it price, time, availability of equipment, personal health issues etc. What is more, if every person were gym bunnies, toned and fit, life would be boring! "

Couldn't agree more. I am currently sitting on a turbo in the garage for my fitness... but that is completely different to the op question.... personally, it's a no from me...

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Not for us as we play safe but each to their own. good luck and enjoy your event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How will you remove derogatory posts ?"

I thought that. It’s not Facebook

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"I like this post. Helpful. I've blocked all their veris for a start "

This

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By *ornstudMan
over a year ago

alnwick

I'm clean I'm up for this

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth


"I'm clean I'm up for this"

At least someone is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to point it out but only moderators are able to remove posts. Oh and by the way it should be their posts not there. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People normally wont read past the first sentence of a post/profile before jumping in. Tell them not to read on or they'll be upset and they read all the way to the bitter end, then still get upset. Bad fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count us in. The more spunk in my junk the better. Nothing finer than blindfolded stranger sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback isn’t for us all but who are we to judge, least they’re honest!

Obesity, alcohol, drugs etc can damaging to your health too but I reckon there’s a fair few of you negatively commenting that are obese or use/take drugs and or alcohol "

Lifestyle choice yes the point is will all of them be up to date tested?

Why would you willing put your health at risk?

Drugs I have not and will not take personal choice seen to much crap and what it does to decent human beings. On the subject of alcohol again own personal choice if we want to have a drink or not.

Now people who are obese have you given any thought that they might have a gland problem and nothing to do with over eating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm out of shape but don't worry I won't be bringing my unhealthy lifestyle choices along to join you crazy fuckers at club petri dish.

Enjoy yourselves though.

Wow never eradicated so many people from fab existence in one night before...

Just call me swingin Joe Stalin

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I wished I'd a pound for every married bloke who's asked to fuck me bare , no chance sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up for it fuck it you only live once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before anyone starts jumping down our throats preaching we know this isn't for everyone.

If it isn't for you then please read no further, no need for preaching to others for doing what they want to, this site is about free choice after all.

Anyone posting derogatory comments will have there post removed.

Anyway, for those of you still reading, we have the opportunity to use a club for a bareback friendly night where all attending are willing to play bareback.

Before we take the club up on the offer we are trying to gauge how many people would be interested in attending such a night.

It would be for mixed couples, guys and ladies and as per usual club/swinging rules you wouldn't be expected to play if you don't want to.

If you do not want to reply on here for fear of the preachers then please feel free to message us direct.

The club in question is centrally located and is very clean and it would be either a Friday or Saturday night.

To register an interest or to ask a question please comment below or message direct.

"

This might actually work.......

I’m sure your inbox is overflowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym "

You win the internet

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

This might actually work.......

I’m sure your inbox is overflowing "

Surely before anyone commits to going they need to know the date and location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback isn’t for us all but who are we to judge, least they’re honest!

Obesity, alcohol, drugs etc can damaging to your health too but I reckon there’s a fair few of you negatively commenting that are obese or use/take drugs and or alcohol

Lifestyle choice yes the point is will all of them be up to date tested?

Why would you willing put your health at risk?

Drugs I have not and will not take personal choice seen to much crap and what it does to decent human beings. On the subject of alcohol again own personal choice if we want to have a drink or not.

Now people who are obese have you given any thought that they might have a gland problem and nothing to do with over eating?

"

Like I said it isn’t for all of us, I’m not interested in bareback but I am a firm believer in live and let live.........

I was just using those as examples, life is full of choices and this is theres at least they’re honest about it and the rest of us can make an informed choice. No need to judge, I’ll just be using this information wisely without judgement.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"No need for a lot of the comments. We understand bareback isn't for most of us (incl us) but we really don't see the need to make other people feel bad and feel judged for how they choose to play.

They are being upfront and honest, which is more than can be said for a lot of people on this site.

"

It's so rare to hear comments like yours. I completely agree.

Bareback is not for everyone (and let's not get into the "any future children as a consequence" brigade).

I don't go about advertising that I'm safe sex only, I don't think it's anyone's business. As a preference for bareback is also no one's business except for those involved. Open and honest says more than the tirade of abuse so many pile on.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Well, that's a whole lot of single guys gonna find it even harder to get a meet now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym "

Ooosh shots fires

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford


"Not for me thanks and then neither would anyone on your verifications list be or anyone on theirs either . You deserve to be 'preached' at frankly whether you want to avoid it or not ..

Unbelievable !

Deserve to be preached at? Have you not heard of live and let live and don't judge others. Jeeeeez.

At least they are being honest and upfront about how they play."

Actually NO on this occasion you are not right .

Firstly some people f you d can still remember Aids ! Can you ? If you can that's enough to make you think .

Secondly ..fine choice Of word ' live' ..it's not live and let live . If people want to have bareback sex than its not just them we need to think about . It is all the people in the ' chain' on here that can mean a lot of people .

I would agree to an extent if the only people who attended

Were certificate clean and disease free . Regularly tested

Anyone who visits club has to prove that .Saying ' I'm clean' has often led to many visits to the clap clinic for someone else . When all said and done it's about being and showing responsibility and frankly someone saying they are clean I'd not being responsible .

By all means have fun but be responsible to yourself and more importantly to other people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me thanks and then neither would anyone on your verifications list be or anyone on theirs either . You deserve to be 'preached' at frankly whether you want to avoid it or not ..

Unbelievable !

Deserve to be preached at? Have you not heard of live and let live and don't judge others. Jeeeeez.

At least they are being honest and upfront about how they play.

Actually NO on this occasion you are not right .

Firstly some people f you d can still remember Aids ! Can you ? If you can that's enough to make you think .

Secondly ..fine choice Of word ' live' ..it's not live and let live . If people want to have bareback sex than its not just them we need to think about . It is all the people in the ' chain' on here that can mean a lot of people .

I would agree to an extent if the only people who attended

Were certificate clean and disease free . Regularly tested

Anyone who visits club has to prove that .Saying ' I'm clean' has often led to many visits to the clap clinic for someone else . When all said and done it's about being and showing responsibility and frankly someone saying they are clean I'd not being responsible .

By all means have fun but be responsible to yourself and more importantly to other people .

"

But someone saying "I'm clean" wouldn't lead to the clap clinic for someone else, if someone else chose to play safe... It's a personal decision. With personal consequences. Not my thing but others playing bare has no effect on you, as long as you play safe. There is a special place in hell for those cheating on their partners and playing bare, but that is a separate issue. Bringing hellfire and damnation on everyone that plays bare will not change their minds. It just leads to people not being honest about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, it's nice to see that so many people want to judge and berate things that we, and plenty of others, enjoy doing. It is also nice to know that we have received more private messages showing an interest in our night than there has been negative comments on here.

We only have one question for the 'I value my health' crowd - how many of you use a condom or dental dam when performing oral sex? According to the NHS website, oral sex is one of the most common says STI's are passed on, such as Chlamydia, herpes, genital warts, gonrrhoea, hepatitis A, B and C, HIV and syphilis.

So you are therefore just as much at risk as us!

Our original post did say this isn't for everybody and to move on if it wasn't, just goes to show that some people aren't happy unless they are judging others.

Many thanks to all the posters on this thread that been respectful with any comments they have made.

The swinging scene is about being yourself, enjoying yourself and not being judged for it. If you don't like what someone else does then fine, don't meet that person, let them do what they want to do and you carry on doing what you want to!

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham


"How will you remove derogatory posts ?with an eraser "

Well not with a rubber, obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, it's nice to see that so many people want to judge and berate things that we, and plenty of others, enjoy doing. It is also nice to know that we have received more private messages showing an interest in our night than there has been negative comments on here.

We only have one question for the 'I value my health' crowd - how many of you use a condom or dental dam when performing oral sex? According to the NHS website, oral sex is one of the most common says STI's are passed on, such as Chlamydia, herpes, genital warts, gonrrhoea, hepatitis A, B and C, HIV and syphilis.

So you are therefore just as much at risk as us!

Our original post did say this isn't for everybody and to move on if it wasn't, just goes to show that some people aren't happy unless they are judging others.

Many thanks to all the posters on this thread that been respectful with any comments they have made.

The swinging scene is about being yourself, enjoying yourself and not being judged for it. If you don't like what someone else does then fine, don't meet that person, let them do what they want to do and you carry on doing what you want to!

"
it is a forum of different opinions though and you knew you would get criticism before you started but the interest you got outweighed it i hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it is a forum of different opinions though and you knew you would get criticism before you started but the interest you got outweighed it i hope "

Hi, opposing opinions is not a problem as every person has their own, and criticism towards us is like water off a ducks back, and like you said I was expecting some.

What I can't understand are the people who take things so personally that they feel it's okay to send abusive, vile messages and then bravely block us so we can't reply. There is no place for that sort of thing on here.

Anyway, yes the interest did outweigh everything else so it has worked its purpose.

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By *eniceandromeCouple
over a year ago

Brighouse

It’s irresponsible, not about freedom of choice. The more people go bareback the more STD’s will be prevalent in society for everyone.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Well, it's nice to see that so many people want to judge and berate things that we, and plenty of others, enjoy doing. It is also nice to know that we have received more private messages showing an interest in our night than there has been negative comments on here.

We only have one question for the 'I value my health' crowd - how many of you use a condom or dental dam when performing oral sex? According to the NHS website, oral sex is one of the most common says STI's are passed on, such as Chlamydia, herpes, genital warts, gonrrhoea, hepatitis A, B and C, HIV and syphilis.

So you are therefore just as much at risk as us!

Our original post did say this isn't for everybody and to move on if it wasn't, just goes to show that some people aren't happy unless they are judging others.

Many thanks to all the posters on this thread that been respectful with any comments they have made.

The swinging scene is about being yourself, enjoying yourself and not being judged for it. If you don't like what someone else does then fine, don't meet that person, let them do what they want to do and you carry on doing what you want to!

"

Firstly, There is a risk of passing STIs/STDs through unprotected oral sex, but it’s a lesser risk than penetrative sex.

Secondly, you’ve taken the information off the nhs website out of context. It’s not that STIs/STDs are COMMONLY PASSED through oral sex. If you reread what it says on the website, it actually states; ‘The MOST COMMON STIs that can be passed on through oral sex include:

herpes

gonorrhoea

syphilis

Other STIs that are passed on less commonly through oral sex include:

chlamydia

genital warts

hepatitis A

hepatitis B

hepatitis C

HIV

pubic lice

It’s up to you whether you and others have bareback sex or not. It’s not something we do with strangers. I commend you and others whom state it clearly on their profile, thus giving others an informed decision. Just make sure that everyone knows the correct information about the risks before proceeding.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is a forum of different opinions though and you knew you would get criticism before you started but the interest you got outweighed it i hope

Hi, opposing opinions is not a problem as every person has their own, and criticism towards us is like water off a ducks back, and like you said I was expecting some.

What I can't understand are the people who take things so personally that they feel it's okay to send abusive, vile messages and then bravely block us so we can't reply. There is no place for that sort of thing on here.

Anyway, yes the interest did outweigh everything else so it has worked its purpose. "
my point was you knew it was coming sorry for the pun and glad it worked out for you

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Not for me thanks and then neither would anyone on your verifications list be or anyone on theirs either . You deserve to be 'preached' at frankly whether you want to avoid it or not ..

Unbelievable !

Deserve to be preached at? Have you not heard of live and let live and don't judge others. Jeeeeez.

At least they are being honest and upfront about how they play.

Actually NO on this occasion you are not right .

Firstly some people f you d can still remember Aids ! Can you ? If you can that's enough to make you think .

Secondly ..fine choice Of word ' live' ..it's not live and let live . If people want to have bareback sex than its not just them we need to think about . It is all the people in the ' chain' on here that can mean a lot of people .

I would agree to an extent if the only people who attended

Were certificate clean and disease free . Regularly tested

Anyone who visits club has to prove that .Saying ' I'm clean' has often led to many visits to the clap clinic for someone else . When all said and done it's about being and showing responsibility and frankly someone saying they are clean I'd not being responsible .

By all means have fun but be responsible to yourself and more importantly to other people .

"

Yes I remember aids but you are totally missing the point here. They are choosing to play bareback as others are who will be meeting them. We would never do bareback but we certainly would never put down others who choose to.

I don't see how it effects anyone else. If you use protection with those you have sex with then you are safe, regardless if they have done bareback elsewhere. So yes it is a case mind your own business and live and let live. Their life, their choice.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"it is a forum of different opinions though and you knew you would get criticism before you started but the interest you got outweighed it i hope

Hi, opposing opinions is not a problem as every person has their own, and criticism towards us is like water off a ducks back, and like you said I was expecting some.

What I can't understand are the people who take things so personally that they feel it's okay to send abusive, vile messages and then bravely block us so we can't reply. There is no place for that sort of thing on here.

Anyway, yes the interest did outweigh everything else so it has worked its purpose. "

don't let the judgemental folk put you off living your life how you wish. Wr hope you have reported those who have sent you vile abusive messages.

This has been an absoloutely great filter for blocking out people who we wouldn't wish to meet. Can't stand people who put others down. Absoloutely no need, at all.

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

No bareback for me. Good luck!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Absolutely up to the people involved. It's not my thing at all but it's up to others.

My only worry is that people seem to ignore or dont realise the fact that you can catch stis even with a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely up to the people involved. It's not my thing at all but it's up to others.

My only worry is that people seem to ignore or dont realise the fact that you can catch stis even with a condom "
I've told them so many times i just can't do it anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the risks but love bareback, although not at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the risks but love bareback, although not at a club"
Debenham’s then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez!!

Why post on a post if your not interested in it?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I like this post. Helpful. I've blocked all their veris for a start "

Best to not block and use the notes facility. That way u can see who the up to date veris are if they message u. Tho that can turn into a full time job if you do veris if veris.

Which club is this OP? Interested to know which club is promoting risky play.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Jeez!!

Why post on a post if your not interested in it?

"

I posted my opinion and was merely saying about the unknown/unspoken thing of stis. I wasnt being difficult

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"How will you remove derogatory posts ?with an eraser

Well not with a rubber, obviously. "

that was funny

As for the op, good luck! It wouldn't be for me, but I have enjoyed reading the outrage your post has caused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are looking for folk interested in bare back tho..clearly states it on the headline not a post saying who all dosnt agree with bare back?

It's a wex site and a that that entails some like getting whipped some dont some like dresdi g up as babies some dont.

All about personal choice and not being judged.

I have no interest in playing bare back but wouldnt have a pop at folk that do.just like I wouldnt have a pop at someone wanting their arse slapped red raw not my thing so I leave it be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies for the typos lol out walking my dogs while typing lol

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Apologies for the typos lol out walking my dogs while typing lol"

Hahaha! Not judging here but I was just pointing out that sometimes things are unknown xx

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym

But you can't catch obesity from a meet "

Sperm can make you fat though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies for the typos lol out walking my dogs while typing lol

Hahaha! Not judging here but I was just pointing out that sometimes things are unknown xx"
unknown yes I totally agree...but folk are on here for their own kinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym "

Hahaha good point... In a way

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill


"I know the risks but love bareback, although not at a club"

It’s the easiest thing in the world to stand in judgement of others, personal preference is exactly that; however, and this is a genuine question, given the prevalence of STI’s and the impact of HIV (I know someone personally who lives with his diagnosis and it’s daily impacts), “why?” would anyone take the risk of unprotected sex with another who is happy to have bareback with multiple partners? Clearly I’m missing something, so what’s the upside?

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Wow! So we have a topic that is controversial but honest.

We have responses, expectedly, that are somewhere between pious and damning plus a couple of those who go with the 'it's your life' philosophy.

This is very much an accurate, or close to accurate, 'weathervane' measure of Fab as a whole... in my opinion.

We have an open and honest subject from the OP, followed, quite typically, by the outrage and dissenting of the pious and self appointed Fab Moral Police. Shuffling along behind them are the usual sycophants who will agree with either the majority or the posters they wish to clique with. Then we have a few who take a considered view and recognise choice. Until finally we have those who will argue against regardless of whether they have a realistic view or not.

The Fab Forum. Predictable as ever....

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Added point regarding std, sti etc... so many are moral about not having bareback sex yet perform blow jobs without protection.... just me or bit bizarre? Discuss...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I know the risks but love bareback, although not at a club

It’s the easiest thing in the world to stand in judgement of others, personal preference is exactly that; however, and this is a genuine question, given the prevalence of STI’s and the impact of HIV (I know someone personally who lives with his diagnosis and it’s daily impacts), “why?” would anyone take the risk of unprotected sex with another who is happy to have bareback with multiple partners? Clearly I’m missing something, so what’s the upside? "

Some people enjoy risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Added point regarding std, sti etc... so many are moral about not having bareback sex yet perform blow jobs without protection.... just me or bit bizarre? Discuss..."
many have said it before you and on different days, different threads and different years but it goes on deaf ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym

But you can't catch obesity from a meet

Sperm can make you fat though. "
and puts lustre in your hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such a paradox that lot of people who gave OP a meet veri, state "safe sex" in their profiles...

Are they? I didn't get chance to check before blocking them....

x N"

Are 'we' blocking just incase 'we' catch anything via exchanging of messages?

*scratches head* do you grill everybody you meet on/off this site before you play?

Seems bizarre and a waste of time to block tbh!

Its this site that makes people more judgemental - just because the information is their to read!

Clubs, parties, events, you're less likely too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such a paradox that lot of people who gave OP a meet veri, state "safe sex" in their profiles...

Are they? I didn't get chance to check before blocking them....

x N

Are 'we' blocking just incase 'we' catch anything via exchanging of messages?

*scratches head* do you grill everybody you meet on/off this site before you play?

Seems bizarre and a waste of time to block tbh!

Its this site that makes people more judgemental - just because the information is their to read!

Clubs, parties, events, you're less likely too.

"
i think people just love saying 'blocked' its got a ring to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such a paradox that lot of people who gave OP a meet veri, state "safe sex" in their profiles...

Are they? I didn't get chance to check before blocking them....

x N

Are 'we' blocking just incase 'we' catch anything via exchanging of messages?

*scratches head* do you grill everybody you meet on/off this site before you play?

Seems bizarre and a waste of time to block tbh!

Its this site that makes people more judgemental - just because the information is their to read!

Clubs, parties, events, you're less likely too.

i think people just love saying 'blocked' its got a ring to it "

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Gor, I'm right in the mood for some creamy cum fun now!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Barebackers keeping in own groups in private parties is one thing, but openly in club noooo. Also profiles that state safe sex yet bareback - please don't mix it up like this. Noone has mentioned added risk to females, variations of sperm and cervical cancer risk increases

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

On the weekends at most city centers there are buses to treat the late night revellers and this takes a lot of strain away from some casualty departments. Maybe park outside the club and give everyone free health checks going in or out ?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Barebackers keeping in own groups in private parties is one thing, but openly in club noooo. Also profiles that state safe sex yet bareback - please don't mix it up like this. Noone has mentioned added risk to females, variations of sperm and cervical cancer risk increases "

Very good point as males are carriers of HPV which can lead to cervical cancer if not caught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Barebackers keeping in own groups in private parties is one thing, but openly in club noooo. Also profiles that state safe sex yet bareback - please don't mix it up like this. Noone has mentioned added risk to females, variations of sperm and cervical cancer risk increases

Very good point as males are carriers of HPV which can lead to cervical cancer if not caught. "
HPV can be transferred by close contact skin to skin

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Barebackers keeping in own groups in private parties is one thing, but openly in club noooo. Also profiles that state safe sex yet bareback - please don't mix it up like this. Noone has mentioned added risk to females, variations of sperm and cervical cancer risk increases

Very good point as males are carriers of HPV which can lead to cervical cancer if not caught. HPV can be transferred by close contact skin to skin "

Not just cervix and HPV risk though -

Researchers from the Medical Research Council's Human Reproductive Sciences Unit at The University of Edinburgh have found that that the high concentration of prostaglandin in semen makes other diseases of the female reproductive organs worse -- including uterine cancer.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Well, it's nice to see that so many people want to judge and berate things that we, and plenty of others, enjoy doing. It is also nice to know that we have received more private messages showing an interest in our night than there has been negative comments on here.

We only have one question for the 'I value my health' crowd - how many of you use a condom or dental dam when performing oral sex? According to the NHS website, oral sex is one of the most common says STI's are passed on, such as Chlamydia, herpes, genital warts, gonrrhoea, hepatitis A, B and C, HIV and syphilis.

So you are therefore just as much at risk as us!

Our original post did say this isn't for everybody and to move on if it wasn't, just goes to show that some people aren't happy unless they are judging others.

Many thanks to all the posters on this thread that been respectful with any comments they have made.

The swinging scene is about being yourself, enjoying yourself and not being judged for it. If you don't like what someone else does then fine, don't meet that person, let them do what they want to do and you carry on doing what you want to!

"
sorry but the old excuse that oral without protection is just as risky as bareback is completely wrong. As it's not. Yes you can catch things but much much less likely.

I dont mind what others do. My comment was purely that I dont know any club that would promote a bb event x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Added point regarding std, sti etc... so many are moral about not having bareback sex yet perform blow jobs without protection.... just me or bit bizarre? Discuss..."
it's a much lower risk... risk yes but much lower.

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym

But you can't catch obesity from a meet

Sperm can make you fat though.

and puts lustre in your hair "

Two rules. Not the eyes or hair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Many thanks to all the posters on this thread that been respectful with any comments they have made.

The swinging scene is about being yourself, enjoying yourself and not being judged for it. If you don't like what someone else does then fine, don't meet that person, let them do what they want to do and you carry on doing what you want to!

Firstly, There is a risk of passing STIs/STDs through unprotected oral sex, but it’s a lesser risk than penetrative sex.

Secondly, you’ve taken the information off the nhs website out of context. It’s not that STIs/STDs are COMMONLY PASSED through oral sex. If you reread what it says on the website, it actually states; ‘The MOST COMMON STIs that can be passed on through oral sex include:

herpes

gonorrhoea

syphilis

Other STIs that are passed on less commonly through oral sex include:

chlamydia

genital warts

hepatitis A

hepatitis B

hepatitis C

HIV

pubic lice

It’s up to you whether you and others have bareback sex or not. It’s not something we do with strangers. I commend you and others whom state it clearly on their profile, thus giving others an informed decision. Just make sure that everyone knows the correct information about the risks before proceeding.

J

"

I wasnt trying to say there was as much as a risk, I was just trying to say that the risk is still there. Some people have been saying that because we play bareback that this could to a risk to them however miniscule. I was just trying to point out that they are still putting themselves at risk.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"

Many thanks to all the posters on this thread that been respectful with any comments they have made.

The swinging scene is about being yourself, enjoying yourself and not being judged for it. If you don't like what someone else does then fine, don't meet that person, let them do what they want to do and you carry on doing what you want to!

Firstly, There is a risk of passing STIs/STDs through unprotected oral sex, but it’s a lesser risk than penetrative sex.

Secondly, you’ve taken the information off the nhs website out of context. It’s not that STIs/STDs are COMMONLY PASSED through oral sex. If you reread what it says on the website, it actually states; ‘The MOST COMMON STIs that can be passed on through oral sex include:

herpes

gonorrhoea

syphilis

Other STIs that are passed on less commonly through oral sex include:

chlamydia

genital warts

hepatitis A

hepatitis B

hepatitis C

HIV

pubic lice

It’s up to you whether you and others have bareback sex or not. It’s not something we do with strangers. I commend you and others whom state it clearly on their profile, thus giving others an informed decision. Just make sure that everyone knows the correct information about the risks before proceeding.

J

I wasnt trying to say there was as much as a risk, I was just trying to say that the risk is still there. Some people have been saying that because we play bareback that this could to a risk to them however miniscule. I was just trying to point out that they are still putting themselves at risk."
any sex is a risk. But its very small risk for oral without protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a clipboard and a box ticking time!

Questionnaires will be the next thing we see down at the clubs - right beside the tub of condoms at the bar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a clipboard and a box ticking time!

Questionnaires will be the next thing we see down at the clubs - right beside the tub of condoms at the bar! "

And the willy dip/fanny splash bowl of dettol on the way in.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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over a year ago

Bristol

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Sounds like a clipboard and a box ticking time!

Questionnaires will be the next thing we see down at the clubs - right beside the tub of condoms at the bar!

And the willy dip/fanny splash bowl of dettol on the way in. "

I had my first club visit last week - I did wonder what that bowl was for....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"

Many thanks to all the posters on this thread that been respectful with any comments they have made.

The swinging scene is about being yourself, enjoying yourself and not being judged for it. If you don't like what someone else does then fine, don't meet that person, let them do what they want to do and you carry on doing what you want to!

Firstly, There is a risk of passing STIs/STDs through unprotected oral sex, but it’s a lesser risk than penetrative sex.

Secondly, you’ve taken the information off the nhs website out of context. It’s not that STIs/STDs are COMMONLY PASSED through oral sex. If you reread what it says on the website, it actually states; ‘The MOST COMMON STIs that can be passed on through oral sex include:

herpes

gonorrhoea

syphilis

Other STIs that are passed on less commonly through oral sex include:

chlamydia

genital warts

hepatitis A

hepatitis B

hepatitis C

HIV

pubic lice

It’s up to you whether you and others have bareback sex or not. It’s not something we do with strangers. I commend you and others whom state it clearly on their profile, thus giving others an informed decision. Just make sure that everyone knows the correct information about the risks before proceeding.

J

I wasnt trying to say there was as much as a risk, I was just trying to say that the risk is still there. Some people have been saying that because we play bareback that this could to a risk to them however miniscule. I was just trying to point out that they are still putting themselves at risk. any sex is a risk. But its very small risk for oral without protection. "

Depends how you are classifying the risk. In terms of severity of impact, you are far less likely to catch any of the "big nasties" such as HIV. However you can catch HPV via oral sex which while it can be harmless it can increase your risk of a number of cancers, particularly cervical cancer. However in terms of likelihood of transmission, gonorrhea is very transmissible by oral sex.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"

Many thanks to all the posters on this thread that been respectful with any comments they have made.

The swinging scene is about being yourself, enjoying yourself and not being judged for it. If you don't like what someone else does then fine, don't meet that person, let them do what they want to do and you carry on doing what you want to!

Firstly, There is a risk of passing STIs/STDs through unprotected oral sex, but it’s a lesser risk than penetrative sex.

Secondly, you’ve taken the information off the nhs website out of context. It’s not that STIs/STDs are COMMONLY PASSED through oral sex. If you reread what it says on the website, it actually states; ‘The MOST COMMON STIs that can be passed on through oral sex include:

herpes

gonorrhoea

syphilis

Other STIs that are passed on less commonly through oral sex include:

chlamydia

genital warts

hepatitis A

hepatitis B

hepatitis C

HIV

pubic lice

It’s up to you whether you and others have bareback sex or not. It’s not something we do with strangers. I commend you and others whom state it clearly on their profile, thus giving others an informed decision. Just make sure that everyone knows the correct information about the risks before proceeding.

J

I wasnt trying to say there was as much as a risk, I was just trying to say that the risk is still there. Some people have been saying that because we play bareback that this could to a risk to them however miniscule. I was just trying to point out that they are still putting themselves at risk. any sex is a risk. But its very small risk for oral without protection.

Depends how you are classifying the risk. In terms of severity of impact, you are far less likely to catch any of the "big nasties" such as HIV. However you can catch HPV via oral sex which while it can be harmless it can increase your risk of a number of cancers, particularly cervical cancer. However in terms of likelihood of transmission, gonorrhea is very transmissible by oral sex. "

Women are taking the biggest risk PREP drug doesn't protect for cancer

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm going to probably come across very naive but this is a genuine query I have so OP when you do bareback with 1 or multiple people you know you'll possibly catch something from HSV to HIV.

So what would you do next? If you can answer this it would help me and maybe others to understand this choice. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a clipboard and a box ticking time!

Questionnaires will be the next thing we see down at the clubs - right beside the tub of condoms at the bar!

And the willy dip/fanny splash bowl of dettol on the way in.

I had my first club visit last week - I did wonder what that bowl was for.... "

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Sounds like a clipboard and a box ticking time!

Questionnaires will be the next thing we see down at the clubs - right beside the tub of condoms at the bar!

And the willy dip/fanny splash bowl of dettol on the way in.

I had my first club visit last week - I did wonder what that bowl was for....

"

Shit! I thought it was mouth wash!!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

And the willy dip/fanny splash bowl of dettol on the way in.

Shit! I thought it was mouth wash!! "

At least if you thought it was mouthwash you spat it out. I thought it was a free shot and swallowed it.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"

And the willy dip/fanny splash bowl of dettol on the way in.

Shit! I thought it was mouth wash!!

At least if you thought it was mouthwash you spat it out. I thought it was a free shot and swallowed it. "

Don't suppose that's the worst thing you've ever swallowed either, eh Sal?

(I know it's an obvious gag, but someone had to say it.... )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll probably get banned for this but it has to be said......

A lot of people on this forum are totally hypocrites....

I remember a club promoting a Herpes night , and everyone was saying this was great idea.. it would be sex positive event and would not stigmatize people with Herpes ...

Now the Op post for a bareback party at a club with no one confirmed as having any sti’s And people are now ready to burn down the club...

Plus have the Op drawn and quartered for even suggesting this party...

I have read numerous post from people with mental health problems, too fat , too skinny , too old , too young , too ugly.... and people always give support plus positive advice.....

Why isn’t the Op afforded the same courtesy?

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I like this post. Helpful. I've blocked all their veris for a start

Ditto lol x"

Ditto us as well

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"I’ll probably get banned for this but it has to be said......

A lot of people on this forum are totally hypocrites....

I remember a club promoting a Herpes night , and everyone was saying this was great idea.. it would be sex positive event and would not stigmatize people with Herpes ...

Now the Op post for a bareback party at a club with no one confirmed as having any sti’s And people are now ready to burn down the club...

Plus have the Op drawn and quartered for even suggesting this party...

I have read numerous post from people with mental health problems, too fat , too skinny , too old , too young , too ugly.... and people always give support plus positive advice.....

Why isn’t the Op afforded the same courtesy?"

Think everyone is just concerned tbh, unless they are all locked away after testing and retested after incubation period with no physical contact inbetween then how is sti free guaranteed. Some take PREP drug for their own protection but niave people probably don't, plus this drug has limited protection and as I commented earlier women are at much higher risk due to exposure to different sperms not just sti, hpv, hiv

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

The only safe sex is no sex, and that's a bundle of fun.

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

Ease up guys. Maybe OP got their spelling wrong. Perhaps they meant BEARback! A special night for people with hairy backs!

Honestly, you are a cruel knee-jerk bunch on Fab.

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Not for me BUT I do appreciate what you're trying to do. I would try and get all the people who go to get tested 1 week before the event and then at least you can hopefully minimise things getting spread. Having unprotected sex or breeding is a fetish so you could probably advertise it as a breeding party but you'd have to hire the club and say its a private party to not get the club a bad reputation.

In response to people saying you can't catch obesity some people like being fat FYI and if we were all skinny judgemental bitches the world would be a much worse place than somewhere full of fat people

Enjoy and good luck.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"Ease up guys. Maybe OP got their spelling wrong. Perhaps they meant BEARback! A special night for people with hairy backs!

Honestly, you are a cruel knee-jerk bunch on Fab.

"

I prefer side saddle anyway, cos I'm a laideeee.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Ease up guys. Maybe OP got their spelling wrong. Perhaps they meant BEARback! A special night for people with hairy backs!

Honestly, you are a cruel knee-jerk bunch on Fab.

"

Bearback? I'm in!

Recognition at last

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

As per usual, some of those that are opposed to BB feel the need to scream it from the rooftops as being dangerous and everything else. We don't participate in it but would defend the rights of those that do as its a free world. Some of you on here need to get a grip.

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

emsworth


"Most of you that are preaching about I value my health, clearly don't value it enough to take yourself down the gym

But you can't catch obesity from a meet "

You can from a long term relationship though !

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

emsworth


"No need for a lot of the comments. We understand bareback isn't for most of us (incl us) but we really don't see the need to make other people feel bad and feel judged for how they choose to play.

They are being upfront and honest, which is more than can be said for a lot of people on this site.

"

This !

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

emsworth


"Bareback isn’t for us all but who are we to judge, least they’re honest!

Obesity, alcohol, drugs etc can damaging to your health too but I reckon there’s a fair few of you negatively commenting that are obese or use/take drugs and or alcohol

Lifestyle choice yes the point is will all of them be up to date tested?

It’s funny , people who live in countries where’s they are so poor that it’s impossible to overeat , never get fat from gland problems .

If you burn more calories than you take in , you will lose weight.

Why would you willing put your health at risk?

Drugs I have not and will not take personal choice seen to much crap and what it does to decent human beings. On the subject of alcohol again own personal choice if we want to have a drink or not.

Now people who are obese have you given any thought that they might have a gland problem and nothing to do with over eating?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As per usual, some of those that are opposed to BB feel the need to scream it from the rooftops as being dangerous and everything else. We don't participate in it but would defend the rights of those that do as its a free world. Some of you on here need to get a grip. "

Well said

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

emsworth


"I’ll probably get banned for this but it has to be said......

A lot of people on this forum are totally hypocrites....

I remember a club promoting a Herpes night , and everyone was saying this was great idea.. it would be sex positive event and would not stigmatize people with Herpes ...

Now the Op post for a bareback party at a club with no one confirmed as having any sti’s And people are now ready to burn down the club...

Plus have the Op drawn and quartered for even suggesting this party...

I have read numerous post from people with mental health problems, too fat , too skinny , too old , too young , too ugly.... and people always give support plus positive advice.....

Why isn’t the Op afforded the same courtesy?

Think everyone is just concerned tbh, unless they are all locked away after testing and retested after incubation period with no physical contact inbetween then how is sti free guaranteed. Some take PREP drug for their own protection but niave people probably don't, plus this drug has limited protection and as I commented earlier women are at much higher risk due to exposure to different sperms not just sti, hpv, hiv "

Fuck me , pretty much everything in this lamer can give you cancer ! Having sex , not having sex , eating veg / not eating veg etc etc .

What if your husbands sperm is high in prostaglandin ? Should everyone stop having children , in case sperm gives them cancer ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not for me BUT I do appreciate what you're trying to do. I would try and get all the people who go to get tested 1 week before the event and then at least you can hopefully minimise things getting spread. Having unprotected sex or breeding is a fetish so you could probably advertise it as a breeding party but you'd have to hire the club and say its a private party to not get the club a bad reputation.

In response to people saying you can't catch obesity some people like being fat FYI and if we were all skinny judgemental bitches the world would be a much worse place than somewhere full of fat people

Enjoy and good luck. "

Hi, it would be a private party.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon


"Ease up guys. Maybe OP got their spelling wrong. Perhaps they meant BEARback! A special night for people with hairy backs!

"

Here’s hoping... Im in!

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me BUT I do appreciate what you're trying to do. I would try and get all the people who go to get tested 1 week before the event and then at least you can hopefully minimise things getting spread. Having unprotected sex or breeding is a fetish so you could probably advertise it as a breeding party but you'd have to hire the club and say its a private party to not get the club a bad reputation.

In response to people saying you can't catch obesity some people like being fat FYI and if we were all skinny judgemental bitches the world would be a much worse place than somewhere full of fat people

Enjoy and good luck. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a clipboard and a box ticking time!

Questionnaires will be the next thing we see down at the clubs - right beside the tub of condoms at the bar!

And the willy dip/fanny splash bowl of dettol on the way in.

I had my first club visit last week - I did wonder what that bowl was for....

Shit! I thought it was mouth wash!! "

OMG! Hahaha!!!

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on? "

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on? "

I have no idea but you seem to have all the answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding."

Ok let me put it to do in a different manner.

Let's for arguments sake imagine that every single person on the planet used protection on every occasion and people with incurable STDs took them to the grave with them.

How long would solely sexually transmitted deseases be in existence?

We need to use protection today only because people in the past refused to use it.

Please don't tell me that your barebacking has nothing to do with other swingers because actually your barebacking puts the rest of us at risk. (Broken condoms etc etc)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding."

You're saying that diseases develop resistance to drugs in people that aren't infected with those diseases?

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Can I come? I got diagnosed with HPV recently (like half the population at any one time, and indeed half your guests). Is it ok to come?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has anyone noticed that the really negative, doom and gloom threads attract more interest than the light hearted ones happy Christmas you you you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding.

You're saying that diseases develop resistance to drugs in people that aren't infected with those diseases?"

It's possible yes. Diseases can mutate and become resistant to antibiotics.

If you get a strain that is resistant itll be a struggle to treat it, it doesn't matter if you've never had that disease before

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding.

Ok let me put it to do in a different manner.

Let's for arguments sake imagine that every single person on the planet used protection on every occasion and people with incurable STDs took them to the grave with them.

How long would solely sexually transmitted deseases be in existence?

We need to use protection today only because people in the past refused to use it.

Please don't tell me that your barebacking has nothing to do with other swingers because actually your barebacking puts the rest of us at risk. (Broken condoms etc etc)"

I know an excellent microbiologist and I’m texting him as we speak to see if your hypothesis is indeed a valid one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding.

You're saying that diseases develop resistance to drugs in people that aren't infected with those diseases?

It's possible yes. Diseases can mutate and become resistant to antibiotics.

If you get a strain that is resistant itll be a struggle to treat it, it doesn't matter if you've never had that disease before"

I am talking about how those deseases became resistant in the first place.

If evolution is the opposite of extinction then I don't understand how these diseases can develop an immunity to antibiotics when they haven't had repeated exposure to antibiotics.

On the other end of the scale these diseases would be extinct if everyone used protection, much less have evolved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding.

You're saying that diseases develop resistance to drugs in people that aren't infected with those diseases?

It's possible yes. Diseases can mutate and become resistant to antibiotics.

If you get a strain that is resistant itll be a struggle to treat it, it doesn't matter if you've never had that disease before

I am talking about how those deseases became resistant in the first place.

If evolution is the opposite of extinction then I don't understand how these diseases can develop an immunity to antibiotics when they haven't had repeated exposure to antibiotics.

On the other end of the scale these diseases would be extinct if everyone used protection, much less have evolved. "

The more diseases are exposed to antibiotics the more chance there is it will mutate and become resistant.

It's the same with the flu its mutated constantly hence why they have to change the flu jab every year. If it didn't mutate you could just get 1 flu jab and be protected year after year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding.

Ok let me put it to do in a different manner.

Let's for arguments sake imagine that every single person on the planet used protection on every occasion and people with incurable STDs took them to the grave with them.

How long would solely sexually transmitted deseases be in existence?

We need to use protection today only because people in the past refused to use it.

Please don't tell me that your barebacking has nothing to do with other swingers because actually your barebacking puts the rest of us at risk. (Broken condoms etc etc)

I know an excellent microbiologist and I’m texting him as we speak to see if your hypothesis is indeed a valid one "

While you're at it ask whether you have more chance of catching and STD through a condom or bareback in the vagina of a woman who has cocktail of other mens cum.

My hypothesis is based on the fact that I have had penetrative sex with over 100 different female partners and oral sex with at least 3 times as many. My partner and I are tested regularly and have never come up positive despite the fact that I had sex with people whose tests have come back positive. I may not be a microbiologist but my maths is pretty decent when it comes to working out the odds.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding.

Ok let me put it to do in a different manner.

Let's for arguments sake imagine that every single person on the planet used protection on every occasion and people with incurable STDs took them to the grave with them.

How long would solely sexually transmitted deseases be in existence?

We need to use protection today only because people in the past refused to use it.

Please don't tell me that your barebacking has nothing to do with other swingers because actually your barebacking puts the rest of us at risk. (Broken condoms etc etc)"

Excuse me, don't be so judgemental. I don't bareback and practise safe sex where appropriate and it's none of your business what people choose to do.

Your obviously badly informed and making rash judgements and statements not based on any facts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding.

You're saying that diseases develop resistance to drugs in people that aren't infected with those diseases?

It's possible yes. Diseases can mutate and become resistant to antibiotics.

If you get a strain that is resistant itll be a struggle to treat it, it doesn't matter if you've never had that disease before

I am talking about how those deseases became resistant in the first place.

If evolution is the opposite of extinction then I don't understand how these diseases can develop an immunity to antibiotics when they haven't had repeated exposure to antibiotics.

On the other end of the scale these diseases would be extinct if everyone used protection, much less have evolved.

The more diseases are exposed to antibiotics the more chance there is it will mutate and become resistant.

It's the same with the flu its mutated constantly hence why they have to change the flu jab every year. If it didn't mutate you could just get 1 flu jab and be protected year after year "

Therefore the more people get STDs and are treated with antibiotics the more they mutate?

Using your analogy of the flu, if everyone stayed indoors and humans never crossed paths, not only would flu not mutate it would die out. Humans never interacting is an impossible scenario whereas humans using protection is not just practicable it makes logical sense.

I am not judging barebackers. I am just saying they cannot say their behaviour has nothing to do with me. The reason I need to be tested is because of them and the reason I and at risk when accidents do happen is because of them. So I respectfully don't agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding.

You're saying that diseases develop resistance to drugs in people that aren't infected with those diseases?

It's possible yes. Diseases can mutate and become resistant to antibiotics.

If you get a strain that is resistant itll be a struggle to treat it, it doesn't matter if you've never had that disease before

I am talking about how those deseases became resistant in the first place.

If evolution is the opposite of extinction then I don't understand how these diseases can develop an immunity to antibiotics when they haven't had repeated exposure to antibiotics.

On the other end of the scale these diseases would be extinct if everyone used protection, much less have evolved.

The more diseases are exposed to antibiotics the more chance there is it will mutate and become resistant.

It's the same with the flu its mutated constantly hence why they have to change the flu jab every year. If it didn't mutate you could just get 1 flu jab and be protected year after year

Therefore the more people get STDs and are treated with antibiotics the more they mutate?

Using your analogy of the flu, if everyone stayed indoors and humans never crossed paths, not only would flu not mutate it would die out. Humans never interacting is an impossible scenario whereas humans using protection is not just practicable it makes logical sense.

I am not judging barebackers. I am just saying they cannot say their behaviour has nothing to do with me. The reason I need to be tested is because of them and the reason I and at risk when accidents do happen is because of them. So I respectfully don't agree."

I used the flu has an example of infections mutating that's all.

Any infection has the possibility of becoming resistant to antibiotics whether you agree or not

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oh well

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over a year ago


"oh well "

Please start a part 2 to this thread

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Some people's theory's are so naive so say the least, nevermind hey ho.

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over a year ago


"Why are there antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea? Is it because of all the people who practice safe sex? Or is it the people who don't give a damn whether they get a dose of the clap because they'll just take some antibiotics and carry on?

I think you may find it's more to do with our food chain, natural evolution of bacteria and lack of research due to under funding.

You're saying that diseases develop resistance to drugs in people that aren't infected with those diseases?

It's possible yes. Diseases can mutate and become resistant to antibiotics.

If you get a strain that is resistant itll be a struggle to treat it, it doesn't matter if you've never had that disease before

I am talking about how those deseases became resistant in the first place.

If evolution is the opposite of extinction then I don't understand how these diseases can develop an immunity to antibiotics when they haven't had repeated exposure to antibiotics.

On the other end of the scale these diseases would be extinct if everyone used protection, much less have evolved.

The more diseases are exposed to antibiotics the more chance there is it will mutate and become resistant.

It's the same with the flu its mutated constantly hence why they have to change the flu jab every year. If it didn't mutate you could just get 1 flu jab and be protected year after year

Therefore the more people get STDs and are treated with antibiotics the more they mutate?

Using your analogy of the flu, if everyone stayed indoors and humans never crossed paths, not only would flu not mutate it would die out. Humans never interacting is an impossible scenario whereas humans using protection is not just practicable it makes logical sense.

I am not judging barebackers. I am just saying they cannot say their behaviour has nothing to do with me. The reason I need to be tested is because of them and the reason I and at risk when accidents do happen is because of them. So I respectfully don't agree.

I used the flu has an example of infections mutating that's all.

Any infection has the possibility of becoming resistant to antibiotics whether you agree or not "

And I have continued that example. Neither STDs nor influenza can flourish spread or mutate in isolation. And that's what condoms do by and large, they isolate.

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