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Couples Bareback Etiquette

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By *iceButtSlim OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

This isn't a question about having bareback sex with strangers in meets, but this is to do with couples in a long term relationships who normally go bareback when together.

When these couples then have meets with others do you still play bare with your own partner only or do you cover up?

My other half is of the opinion that I should be covering up as this reinforces the fact to those who we are playing with that they should also be covering up, even though this is made clear anyway.

I'm interested to know how other couples deal with this situation.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Definitely not. It's do as I say, not do as I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make hubby wrap up on the rare occasions he plays during meets.

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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...

The couple I met with were bareback with each other, wrapped with me.

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

We bare back with each other and wrap with playmates. Saves using twice as many condoms

Gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The couple I met with were bareback with each other, wrapped with me. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The couple's I have played with have been BB but I wrap up and that is what I would expect to have to do... When at clubs there have been some men who have tried it on but been basically told to do one, it's all about manners and expectations...

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I always make hubby wrap up on the rare occasions he plays during meets."

Is that a cuckold type relationship? When I (Steve) was involved with a cuckold couple when I was single cucky used a condom whenever they had sex, which was rarely allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only really been involved in one proper cuck meet Steve, but it does seem to be the courteous thing to do and be expected to do, better safe than sorry I say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still are bareback together and I’ve seen other couples do the same. I think it’s common sense that a married or long term couple likely doesn’t use condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We bare back with each other and wrap with playmates. Saves using twice as many condoms

Gem"

Exactly this - why would we wrap up with each other when we don’t alone?!

We don’t feel the need to re-inforce any rules - they are what they are

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"We bare back with each other and wrap with playmates. Saves using twice as many condoms

Gem

Exactly this - why would we wrap up with each other when we don’t alone?!

We don’t feel the need to re-inforce any rules - they are what they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in a couple but if your bb with each other once your partner cums i guess your happy for no more oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always make hubby wrap up on the rare occasions he plays during meets.

Is that a cuckold type relationship? When I (Steve) was involved with a cuckold couple when I was single cucky used a condom whenever they had sex, which was rarely allowed."

Hubby is bare when were alone. I just dont want him cuming in me when I am playing with another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We cover up. Just because we don't know how long the play will last and whether the men will want to go for round 2 or whether one of them will cum when the other still wants to give some more oral and if there's cum there it could force play to end quicker than anyone would have liked

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

We are in a very long term relationship 20 plus years, he is vasectomized, any freinds we play with are wrapped, as I dont use other birth control, so always play safe.

We never full swap or swing with people we havent socialised with and are totally comfy with, so generally have that conversation well in advance of any antics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We bare back with each other and wrap with playmates. Saves using twice as many condoms

Gem"

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a couple is meeting a couple for full swap....

Please have the husband practice using a condom before the meeting......

When couples are in a long term relationship men sometimes forget how to put on and stay hard in a condom.....

It really can kill the night

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"If a couple is meeting a couple for full swap....

Please have the husband practice using a condom before the meeting......

When couples are in a long term relationship men sometimes forget how to put on and stay hard in a condom.....

It really can kill the night"

That's an interesting observation and probably true of some people.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We play bare with others as well as with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a perfect society and all are 'exclusive' to each other, then there is no need to use condoms...

But we are all selfish, imperfect and this will never happen or be possible...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife and me go bareback but when we play with others comdom on that's the way we have said all a long no condoms no play

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By *iceButtSlim OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"Not in a couple but if your bb with each other once your partner cums i guess your happy for no more oral"

I hadn't given thought to this one, but as we generally play with bi guys I wouldn't quite see this as such an issue when compared to playing with a straight guy.

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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester


"The couple I met with were bareback with each other, wrapped with me.

Same "

Same x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"This isn't a question about having bareback sex with strangers in meets, but this is to do with couples in a long term relationships who normally go bareback when together.

When these couples then have meets with others do you still play bare with your own partner only or do you cover up?

My other half is of the opinion that I should be covering up as this reinforces the fact to those who we are playing with that they should also be covering up, even though this is made clear anyway.

I'm interested to know how other couples deal with this situation."

We just talk to people, if everyone wants full swap then condoms will be offered. But would not expect long term couples to cover up for each other.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"In a perfect society and all are 'exclusive' to each other, then there is no need to use condoms...

But we are all selfish, imperfect and this will never happen or be possible..."

If we were all exclusive to each other there would be no swingers. In my opinion this wouldn't be a perfect society

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I always ask people to use protection regardless of who they are. I don't think it's a good idea to play unprotected unless a person is only playing with you (like a sub for example) and provide test results. Don't think it's worth the risk.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We bareback together whether we're with another couple or more, and we'd expect them to bareback their own partners too. It's sexy to end the night creampie-ing your own partner after an evening of swapped condom play.

We do have some very special swinger friends and have barebacked as a foursome for years.

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By *uto564Man
over a year ago

Widnes

Me and my girlfriend when we go to clubs I always wrap up as the other guy would be expected to... if the other guy wanted me not to to act out a fantasy I would think about it but as a rule we wouldn’t.

Had an MFMF where I was fucking the guys wife wrapped, and he was playing with my girlfriend then tried to line up on her to go in bareback... we all stopped his Mrs said don’t worry he won’t cum up her we both said put something on it or it doesn’t happen....

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"Me and my girlfriend when we go to clubs I always wrap up as the other guy would be expected to... if the other guy wanted me not to to act out a fantasy I would think about it but as a rule we wouldn’t.

Had an MFMF where I was fucking the guys wife wrapped, and he was playing with my girlfriend then tried to line up on her to go in bareback... we all stopped his Mrs said don’t worry he won’t cum up her we both said put something on it or it doesn’t happen.... "

The lack of simple biological knowledge is astounding.

He won't cum up her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bareback when with each other but any one who joins us is always wrapped..no excuses accepted..

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By *uto564Man
over a year ago

Widnes


"Me and my girlfriend when we go to clubs I always wrap up as the other guy would be expected to... if the other guy wanted me not to to act out a fantasy I would think about it but as a rule we wouldn’t.

Had an MFMF where I was fucking the guys wife wrapped, and he was playing with my girlfriend then tried to line up on her to go in bareback... we all stopped his Mrs said don’t worry he won’t cum up her we both said put something on it or it doesn’t happen....

The lack of simple biological knowledge is astounding.

He won't cum up her. "

Exactly

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By *otgirlfriend94Couple
over a year ago

cannock


"We play bare with others as well as with each other"

Us too

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"We play bare with others as well as with each other

Us too"

Always good to meet other bareback couples

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