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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only been swinging few months but loved every minute of it. Had some great meets but want to experience the club scene. Am I too young at 20?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are for some clubs. Check if there are age restrictions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most clubs are 21 mate xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Heard good things about abfabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gonna keep my eye on this thread as i really wanna try a club but not sure with me being 19. Obviously like the poster above me has said some have higher age restrictions than that but even for the ones that dont. I seem to get the impression that i wont find many people around my age at clubs either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most clubs are 21 mate xx "

Chams isnt is it?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Most clubs are 21 mate xx

Chams isnt is it? "

Think most of them are 21 and over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most clubs are 21 mate xx

Chams isnt is it? "

Pretty sure it is xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most clubs are 21 mate xx

Chams isnt is it?

Pretty sure it is xx"

For some reason i didnt think it was. Have no idea where i got that from lol! Arrr im gutted now! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank God I'm 21 in a month then .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wherever you go you will still need I.D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been going to a club since I was 19.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Chams is 21

Others are 25 and over.

You will need ID the first time you visit.

Go on a social night if you really want to try a club. If there is an open membership on here then you won't need ID for that one social but it will be up to the FAB host to take responsibility for you and up to the host to allow you onto the list.

Personally, when I run the Posse parties, I won't take those under 21.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Main reason for it being over 21 as it is still technically illegal to be involved in group sex below the age of 21 old english laws that are still up held dont you just love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Main reason for it being over 21 as it is still technically illegal to be involved in group sex below the age of 21 old english laws that are still up held dont you just love them "

Ahh i see, thanks for clearing that up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem at least some of the information i hold isnt useless

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll wait a month till I'm 21. But if any ladies or couples want to show me the ropes at abfabs soon then message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most clubs are 21 mate xx

Chams isnt is it?

Think most of them are 21 and over"

i think they have a over 21 rule id call them first if your thinking of going

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Main reason for it being over 21 as it is still technically illegal to be involved in group sex below the age of 21 old english laws that are still up held dont you just love them

Ahh i see, thanks for clearing that up "

Well our local in Stoke Adventures in lust has this on the rules page


"[b]1) All members must be over 18. Positive proof of age & ID is required.[/b]"

so you would be fine for there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to put our 2cents in looking at xtasis page and there club rules state over 18's no mention of 21 or 25 (that we can see of) only going on club rules on website may be different

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Fortunately group sex at a club is optional, as is any sex at all in fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad luck buddy regarding your youth!

Actually, the age restriction is a complete farce, not least as I've seen that many under 21's in clubs.

Le Chambre is a good example of this, as there seems to be a pose of youthful 2nd year 19/20 yr old female students that I ran into there who were measuring up with one another who was the oldest swinger they'd shagged on a Friday night at the club!

Likewise, I've seen many a couple at the likes of chams and Partners where the chap was mid 30's and the girlfriend was around 17/18/19 wanting to take on the world!

In short, if you're a bloke, its rules as per usual. If you're a cute lass under 20, then it's plan B!

Don't loose hope and enjoy the scene as a little fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something else not mentioned, you will need to find someone else to go with you as a single male, you get stung for the entrance fee or have to pay membership. If you go as a couple, its £15-£20, try the social events that way you get the chance to try even if going again might prove a little more difficult

The other thing is to check the rules of a club ie etiquette; one is not allowed to touch a female without asking them and remember not everyone is interested in your age group

Good luck and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I managed a cheeky afternoon in Bristol Gardens Health Spa (Brighton) this week, and much to my surprise was a Chinese couple (g/f and b/f) both around 20 years old, both at Brighton Uni.

Once they settled down they partied hard- never seen mainland Chinese there before, not least students.

Age is but a number!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fortunately group sex at a club is optional, as is any sex at all in fact."

There are signs on the wall at Chams that says you can't have sex in there I don't recall how they are worded and we haven't been for over a year, but there was one on the wall in the bar area

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Only been swinging few months but loved every minute of it. Had some great meets but want to experience the club scene. Am I too young at 20? "

Yes...they tend to have an over 21 or over 25 rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

make your mind up how old are you 20 or as your status says 22 or your profile 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice cock though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"make your mind up how old are you 20 or as your status says 22 or your profile 21

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If you. Look he never says he is 22, does say 21 in a month, and this thread was started 7 weeks ago so he would be 21 now so his profile would say that

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By *rs kemeaCouple
over a year ago

angus

Have a look at the op's profile. He does say he's 22 twice there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well all that age stuff was confusing. I was actually 20 when wrote that and now 21 never been 22 lol x

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