FabSwingers.com forum: Cuckold advice

By *hunderstruck OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I’ve got a couple I chat to quite regular .

Hubby wants to see her enjoy a larger cock as he watches ( hoping I’d get invited )

But I’m happy to chat to them . Somtimes gibing advice sometimes sexting her .

She’s a sexy young milf . He has a high profile job and is away a lot . Both mid to late thirties . They have a couple kids too .

I’ve chatted for a few years on and off . Could be months in between our chats .

He starts to show her cuckold movies while they make love . Constantly asking if she’d like bigger cock fuvking her .

Then out of the blue she messages me saying she was out with her mates and she kissed a man .

I asked if she enjoyed it and told hubby .

She liked it and didn’t tell hubby but arranged to have lunch with him again .

I think it’ll lead to her cheating which I told her not to do as hubby had told me it would kill him if she did that .

I told her it was a bad move not telling him . I think he would be ok with it if he was involved .

What other advice should I give or should I let them get on with it

I think if she cheats it’ll ruin the marriage

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

She needs to admit to it while playing with his cock. I'll forgive just about anything like that..

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By *hunderstruck OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I said she shouldn’t cheat full stop

Doing it without his consent is marriage wrecking

That’s not cuckolding

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

It is cuckolding. It's not hotwifing.

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By *hunderstruck OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

No it’s cheating if he has no idea about it .

He is a sub too . I think he has desires to be cuckolded . Not hotwifing

He likes her to tease him a little

We w talked about various scenarios of introducing another guy

With her too . I told them a club where they could choose together but she’s gone behind his back

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"No it’s cheating if he has no idea about it .

He is a sub too . I think he has desires to be cuckolded . Not hotwifing

He likes her to tease him a little

We w talked about various scenarios of introducing another guy

With her too . I told them a club where they could choose together but she’s gone behind his back "

Sounds like hubbys quite selfish

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By *hunderstruck OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"No it’s cheating if he has no idea about it .

He is a sub too . I think he has desires to be cuckolded . Not hotwifing

He likes her to tease him a little

We w talked about various scenarios of introducing another guy

With her too . I told them a club where they could choose together but she’s gone behind his back

Sounds like hubbys quite selfish

Not very helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a cuckold couple and I have told my wife she can do anything she wants as long as she tells me but if she does not then I certainly consider it cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own interpretation of cheating. As the only person who knows how this couple would percieve what they would consider cheating OP I would say you're the most qualified to deem it as such.

I don't think you should involve yourself in this situation though. She's going to do whatever she wants whether it would hurt her partner or not.

You've told her your feelings on this and that's all you can do as their relationship is not your own. They obviously have something to work through with this and if it were me in your situation I'd just leave them to do so.

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By *hunderstruck OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"We are a cuckold couple and I have told my wife she can do anything she wants as long as she tells me but if she does not then I certainly consider it cheating"

That’s what I told her

Cheating wasn’t what he wanted when they talked about another guy joining them .

I said it’ll ruin your marriage .

It has to be both of you involved for it to work .

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Everyone has their own interpretation of cheating. As the only person who knows how this couple would percieve what they would consider cheating OP I would say you're the most qualified to deem it as such.

I don't think you should involve yourself in this situation though. She's going to do whatever she wants whether it would hurt her partner or not.

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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Yes, we agree with you 100%. cuckolding is with consent, without consent, it is cheating....simple really!

PS. If she has his permission to play, why does she choose to cheat??

S&D x

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By *hunderstruck OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Yes, we agree with you 100%. cuckolding is with consent, without consent, it is cheating....simple really!

PS. If she has his permission to play, why does she choose to cheat??

S&D x"

They were only talking about it

The situation didn’t get that far

Until she met the guy

I’m only relating what she’s told me so she may be a bit conservative with the truth

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Sounds like he wanted a hotwife, and she's got a cuckold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He must be told or it is cheating.

I have permission to do what I like as long as he's told.

I made the mistake a few years back of texting a guy without his knowledge,over the course of a few months. When my partner found out it nearly wrecked our marriage.

Even though no sex took place, I see what I done as cheating x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a fake acc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't waste your time with them

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

To be fair cheating is cheating - which is when one party in a relationship has some kind of relationship (talking, kissing, meeting, fucking) another person without their partners knowledge.

If you fuck someone and your partner knows. That isn't cheating.

They sound like they are fantasists. Either that or a fake

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Sorry to sound daft here. Could someone inbox me and explain the difference between hotwifing and cuckolding please xx

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"It is cuckolding. It's not hotwifing."

I have to disagree with this. Nearly all couples in a cuckold relationship will tell you it’s entirely consensual - without the consent it’s cheating.

I think you are confusing real life cuckolding with cuckolding porn

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"Sorry to sound daft here. Could someone inbox me and explain the difference between hotwifing and cuckolding please xx"

It’s all arbitrary. Different people will give you different definitions. The main thing is that with all these various terms (cuckolding, hot wifing, stag and vixen play) it’s consensual!

Cuckolding normal implies an element of humiliation for the Male. A typical cuck often wants clean up duties etc.

Stag & Vixen is normally led by the Male - he will actively find prospective partners for his wife.

However everyone is different and different couples will use slightly different definitions. I like to think of myself as a hot wife or contemporary cuckoldress as there is no humiliation involved for us and my husband is an “alpha cuck” and should be treated with the upmost respect!

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By *hunderstruck OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"He must be told or it is cheating.

I have permission to do what I like as long as he's told.

I made the mistake a few years back of texting a guy without his knowledge,over the course of a few months. When my partner found out it nearly wrecked our marriage.

Even though no sex took place, I see what I done as cheating x"

Completely correct

He’s offered his permission but wants involvement in some shape or form

She knew that

But cheated anyway

I can’t see them going back to normal and it’s probably finished their marriage.

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By *hunderstruck OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"It is cuckolding. It's not hotwifing.

I have to disagree with this. Nearly all couples in a cuckold relationship will tell you it’s entirely consensual - without the consent it’s cheating.

I think you are confusing real life cuckolding with cuckolding porn "

Right

Consent means everything without either of them it’s cheating

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"It is cuckolding. It's not hotwifing.

I have to disagree with this. Nearly all couples in a cuckold relationship will tell you it’s entirely consensual - without the consent it’s cheating.

I think you are confusing real life cuckolding with cuckolding porn "

I think you'll find that Clem is right and it's you that doesn't know what cuckolding means

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"It is cuckolding. It's not hotwifing.

I have to disagree with this. Nearly all couples in a cuckold relationship will tell you it’s entirely consensual - without the consent it’s cheating.

I think you are confusing real life cuckolding with cuckolding porn

I think you'll find that Clem is right and it's you that doesn't know what cuckolding means

So you are trying to tell me that the vast majority of cuckold couples are on here WITHOUT the consent of the cuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He must be told or it is cheating.

I have permission to do what I like as long as he's told.

I made the mistake a few years back of texting a guy without his knowledge,over the course of a few months. When my partner found out it nearly wrecked our marriage.

Even though no sex took place, I see what I done as cheating x"

An emotional 'affair' can be far worse than physical interaction. People do what's right for them based on trust, secrets damage trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He must be told or it is cheating.

I have permission to do what I like as long as he's told.

I made the mistake a few years back of texting a guy without his knowledge,over the course of a few months. When my partner found out it nearly wrecked our marriage.

Even though no sex took place, I see what I done as cheating x

An emotional 'affair' can be far worse than physical interaction. People do what's right for them based on trust, secrets damage trust "

Absolutely

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"It is cuckolding. It's not hotwifing.

I have to disagree with this. Nearly all couples in a cuckold relationship will tell you it’s entirely consensual - without the consent it’s cheating.

I think you are confusing real life cuckolding with cuckolding porn

I think you'll find that Clem is right and it's you that doesn't know what cuckolding means

So you are trying to tell me that the vast majority of cuckold couples are on here WITHOUT the consent of the cuck? "

The vast majority of "cuckold" couples on here are actually hotwife couples.

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By *cotscouple85Couple
over a year ago

Dumfries

"We are a cuckold couple and I have told my wife she can do anything she wants as long as she tells me but if she does not then I certainly consider it cheating"

This is our motto as a couple. 100% transparency and honesty and mostly anything goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell her that u would rather not know, deniability and all that. Then advise her to be honest to her hubby and hope the subject never comes up again and she comes to her senses

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

"I’ve got a couple I chat to quite regular .

Hubby wants to see her enjoy a larger cock as he watches ( hoping I’d get invited )

But I’m happy to chat to them . Somtimes gibing advice sometimes sexting her .

She’s a sexy young milf . He has a high profile job and is away a lot . Both mid to late thirties . They have a couple kids too .

I’ve chatted for a few years on and off . Could be months in between our chats .

He starts to show her cuckold movies while they make love . Constantly asking if she’d like bigger cock fuvking her .

Then out of the blue she messages me saying she was out with her mates and she kissed a man .

I asked if she enjoyed it and told hubby .

She liked it and didn’t tell hubby but arranged to have lunch with him again .

I think it’ll lead to her cheating which I told her not to do as hubby had told me it would kill him if she did that .

I told her it was a bad move not telling him . I think he would be ok with it if he was involved .

What other advice should I give or should I let them get on with it

I think if she cheats it’ll ruin the marriage

Did she message you via Fab?

If she did, her hubby could read her confession... and i would be wary that 'they' are really just a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is cuckolding. It's not hotwifing.

I have to disagree with this. Nearly all couples in a cuckold relationship will tell you it’s entirely consensual - without the consent it’s cheating.

I think you are confusing real life cuckolding with cuckolding porn

Right

Consent means everything without either of them it’s cheating "

My advice, say your bit then bounce outa there.. Will turn into trouble in the end.. She's doing it for the buzz and attention that's a turn off in my opinion

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By *hunderstruck OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"I’ve got a couple I chat to quite regular .

Hubby wants to see her enjoy a larger cock as he watches ( hoping I’d get invited )

But I’m happy to chat to them . Somtimes gibing advice sometimes sexting her .

She’s a sexy young milf . He has a high profile job and is away a lot . Both mid to late thirties . They have a couple kids too .

I’ve chatted for a few years on and off . Could be months in between our chats .

He starts to show her cuckold movies while they make love . Constantly asking if she’d like bigger cock fuvking her .

Then out of the blue she messages me saying she was out with her mates and she kissed a man .

I asked if she enjoyed it and told hubby .

She liked it and didn’t tell hubby but arranged to have lunch with him again .

I think it’ll lead to her cheating which I told her not to do as hubby had told me it would kill him if she did that .

I told her it was a bad move not telling him . I think he would be ok with it if he was involved .

What other advice should I give or should I let them get on with it

I think if she cheats it’ll ruin the marriage

Did she message you via Fab?

If she did, her hubby could read her confession... and i would be wary that 'they' are really just a single guy"

No I chat to both via Sky pe

Like I said we’ve chatted for three years on and off . It was all talk and fantasy at first .

Mrs was a little shy and reluctant at first but once we chatted and got to know each other she opened up . Hubby was aware too and I’d let him know what we chatted about .

Virtual cuck type thing .

But she’s took it further without his permission/

Consent

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Speaking as a bloke in this scene, it takes a lot of love and trust to hand over the one you care most about in the whole world so they can enjoy unbridled passion... her then going behind a cucks back is utter betrayal !!!

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Op are you sure she's not trying to cuckhold you by telling you what she's intending to do to see if you tell hubby as well as far as cheating well cant comment on the dynamics of their relationship as I don't know them

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