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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yay or nay?

I was thinking of uploading one that's on none of my other socials which means my identity would still be pretty private. In your opinion, what's the worst that could happen? Anyone who has face photos on their profile - have you ever had any trouble/worried about it?

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if someone that doesn’t like you , see your face picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been spotted by a work colleague in the past.

If your family doesn't know you're on here, might be a good idea to stay anonymous!

There is a massive chance someone will recognise you...

All the best x

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By *DSM - CUCKOLD - COUPLECouple
over a year ago

manchester

I think face pictures should be at the very least on friends only or suplied with a first message. We automatically assume that guys have something to hide otherwise in our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay or nay?

I was thinking of uploading one that's on none of my other socials which means my identity would still be pretty private. In your opinion, what's the worst that could happen? Anyone who has face photos on their profile - have you ever had any trouble/worried about it?

Thanks x"

Once it's online it's no longer private.

Although it wouldn't "ruin" our life we prefer not to advertise who we are. Too many people on this site that we recognise from outside fab.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send one privately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest my friends and acquaintances aren't really the types of people who would be on here (way too sexually repressed lol). The only danger would be a work colleague finding out, but surely you can't get fired for what you do in your private time as long as you're not hurting anyone?

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

My thoughts are if you do upload face pics set them to friends only or private. Yes, I know they would be vanilla pics but a screen grab with this site's details could still be embarrassing. Its a tad safer having them in private.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"To be honest my friends and acquaintances aren't really the types of people who would be on here (way too sexually repressed lol). The only danger would be a work colleague finding out, but surely you can't get fired for what you do in your private time as long as you're not hurting anyone? "

My old job had a 'reputational disrepute' clause in the contract.

So yes - you can lose your job for anything deemed adverse to company reputation. And that goes for all social media behaviour as well as life on Fab.

A

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"To be honest my friends and acquaintances aren't really the types of people who would be on here (way too sexually repressed lol). The only danger would be a work colleague finding out, but surely you can't get fired for what you do in your private time as long as you're not hurting anyone? "

You can even if its because your position is made untenable.

If you're at all concerned with privacy don't have a public face picture on a free to join web site.

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

I’ve got a couple and I’ve never had a problem....it depends on what you do professionally i.e if you were the prime ministers that wouldn’t be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest my friends and acquaintances aren't really the types of people who would be on here (way too sexually repressed lol). The only danger would be a work colleague finding out, but surely you can't get fired for what you do in your private time as long as you're not hurting anyone?

You can even if its because your position is made untenable.

If you're at all concerned with privacy don't have a public face picture on a free to join web site."

If your position was made untenable that isn’t you being fired. That’s the company that’s in the wrong - in which case you’d get a big pay off. Sounds good to me

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

No one remember the Alton Towers fiasco then

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"To be honest my friends and acquaintances aren't really the types of people who would be on here (way too sexually repressed lol). The only danger would be a work colleague finding out, but surely you can't get fired for what you do in your private time as long as you're not hurting anyone?

You can even if its because your position is made untenable.

If you're at all concerned with privacy don't have a public face picture on a free to join web site.

If your position was made untenable that isn’t you being fired. That’s the company that’s in the wrong - in which case you’d get a big pay off. Sounds good to me"

If for example you're a teacher and a "concerned" parent goes to the governors and garners support from other parents you can find yourself in an untenable position. You might not be fired but you might also have no option but to resign. Getting big payoffs in that situation is a pretty long shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got a couple and I’ve never had a problem....it depends on what you do professionally i.e if you were the prime ministers that wouldn’t be good "

So if you’re a bin man , you must be safe...

Everyone expects you to be dirty anyway...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But surely a work colleague reporting you would also be implicating themselves, no?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"But surely a work colleague reporting you would also be implicating themselves, no? "

Not if it's an anonymous email.

Keep them in private and send when you feel comfortable.

Better safe than sorry. Or unemployed.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A standard face pic is relatively fine..although we do not show face pics..it's all down to your personal life and what you want others to know about you ..it may get linked back to your profile and then your activity..think of others, like family members and kids or future partners and so on..is it worth it in the long run..We have grown up kids in their 30's.. so no doubtably they look online at porn and maybe sites like this..or their friends will be, and could point out to them and embarrass them with this information.

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

People requiring face pictures are very shallow.

Personally its all about the person, not the skin they,re in.

But this is fabs so a face pic is required.

I dont show my face pic due to looking like an adonis so i'd be inundated with offers.

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"No one remember the Alton Towers fiasco then "

What happened?

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"To be honest my friends and acquaintances aren't really the types of people who would be on here (way too sexually repressed lol). "

Don't EVER make that assumption, we've all been surprised by finding out what people do in their private lives!

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By *oAnCouple
over a year ago

Streatham


"Yay or nay?

I was thinking of uploading one that's on none of my other socials which means my identity would still be pretty private. In your opinion, what's the worst that could happen? Anyone who has face photos on their profile - have you ever had any trouble/worried about it?

Thanks x"

We are here for sex, really as long as someone gets an idea what we are about that is fine, but we use pictures as a guideine, prefer meeting people for real!

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I usually send a face pic if asked but I've had many meets where neither one of us knows what the other looks like. It adds to the occasion I feel.

I wouldn't put a face pic in public, mainly because I run my own business and meet customers all over the country. I'd hate for someone to recognise me if they hit the who's near button.

Also being a Tv, I don't want my family etc to know what I get up to in my private life.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The internet remembers everything, so I'd say don't do it. It may come back to bite you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of mine are public, I've been spotted in the street. Thankfully they either smile or send a mesaage saying they had seen me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics should be kept to private conversations, it's a two way thing, Fab is supposed to be a discreet site but there will always be that one d*unk/brash person....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of mine are public, I've been spotted in the street. Thankfully they either smile or send a mesaage saying they had seen me. "

It's good you do not have any nude with face.All you do on here is, hold down your thumb on a pic and it gives you options to download it..that can then be posted anywhere if I was a twat and did that sort of thing ..like facebook and so on ..it only take one guy or girl that gets a knockback to turn vindictive and use pics against someone.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I think face pictures should be at the very least on friends only or suplied with a first message. We automatically assume that guys have something to hide otherwise in our opinion "

We agree. Have them on friends only . Profiles with no pictures and no veris do start to make our fab sences tingle. The one about we can't post due to our job is a golden nugget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i send them but find it odd those profile who demand them but wont show

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice guys

Think I'll stick to sending them in messages or on a different platform x

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By *riendlychap1212Man
over a year ago

Laxey

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By *riendlychap1212Man
over a year ago

Laxey


"To be honest my friends and acquaintances aren't really the types of people who would be on here (way too sexually repressed lol).

Don't EVER make that assumption, we've all been surprised by finding out what people do in their private lives!

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Absolutely true that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really does depend on your personal situation, the better half and myself don't mind as we're very open about what we do and being self employed it really doesn't effect our jobs if anything makes people more relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from a guy at work and my sister(don't ask) recognising me on here , I have no qualms about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one remember the Alton Towers fiasco then "

Do you mean the social where the papers turned up?

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"i send them but find it odd those profile who demand them but wont show"
yes why do people demand face pictures and not bother to send them back ,,,' are they fake people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People requiring face pictures are very shallow.

Personally its all about the person, not the skin they,re in.

But this is fabs so a face pic is required.

I dont show my face pic due to looking like an adonis so i'd be inundated with offers. "

A face pic is required on any dating/sex website.

Blind dates/meets are a thing of the past, so are narrow minded views! Wow, bring yourself into the 21st century sweetheart!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It purely depends on your situation and if you'd really care too much about people in your every day life knowing about your activity. I would not put my face on here unless I could live with people knowing what I do. Personally although I like to keep my activities private I'm also not ashamed of what I do and there are no work implications for me. There are people in my life that know what I and my partner get up to. I like my mug so I'm ok putting it on here. But you need to make a descision based on your personal circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest my friends and acquaintances aren't really the types of people who would be on here (way too sexually repressed lol). The only danger would be a work colleague finding out, but surely you can't get fired for what you do in your private time as long as you're not hurting anyone?

You can even if its because your position is made untenable.

If you're at all concerned with privacy don't have a public face picture on a free to join web site.

If your position was made untenable that isn’t you being fired. That’s the company that’s in the wrong - in which case you’d get a big pay off. Sounds good to me

If for example you're a teacher and a "concerned" parent goes to the governors and garners support from other parents you can find yourself in an untenable position. You might not be fired but you might also have no option but to resign. Getting big payoffs in that situation is a pretty long shot."

That would be a potential constructive dismissal suit echr right to a private life

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