FabSwingers.com forum: Is 20 to young?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.

Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Each to their own. I say fair play x

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By *each loverMan
over a year ago

Bradwell

Age is merely a number..

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

If she is keen on you OP... crack on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mmmm, age and experience is warning me that it is a powder keg that's likely to go off in time

However, nothing ventured......

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By *ippa 63TV/TS
over a year ago

St Helens

Suppose it depends if she is a mature 20 year old and what would the consequences would be if people found out at work.

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By *cotFit4funMan
over a year ago

Kettering

20s plenty i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.

Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."

Go 4 it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To young for me as younger than my kid...

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Give him a time of his life, loved experience with older woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is never just a number

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

Each to their own, we have a similar age gap and have no problems at all. Although it is sometimes hard keeping up with her LOL.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Age is never just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think at 20 she should be mature enough to make her own mind up - suck and see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is never just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst fun etc is great, where work is concerned it might just work out not to be fun! We all have our fantasies (me too), but for the older gentlemen that 20yo might be your daughter or niece

And maybe in a professional environment, would you like to be called out for this or talked about behind your back? This could cost you a lot .... think before fantasy becomes reality

But there again life without fantasies would be dull ...

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london

"Whilst fun etc is great, where work is concerned it might just work out not to be fun! We all have our fantasies (me too), but for the older gentlemen that 20yo might be your daughter or niece

And maybe in a professional environment, would you like to be called out for this or talked about behind your back? This could cost you a lot .... think before fantasy becomes reality

But there again life without fantasies would be dull ... "

Everyone is someone’s daughter my lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.

Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."

Bang her, my last bird was 18. Do it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.

Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20.

Bang her, my last bird was 18. Do it"

Yeah op bang the bird.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Sounds like a nice fantasy. However, be cautious. Are you in a managerial position?is she reporting to you? The initial hot sex might be great, but after a while...? And when you both come to your senses, will you be OK with her telling all your colleagues that you're a kinky ts/TV? Before you do anything, have a good wank, release the horniness... Then decide.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Best kept away from work we have just had a xmas party and its created some issues at work already.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Id say be careful being a colleague. Age wise is fine my girl is a mature 21yold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id say be careful being a colleague. Age wise is fine my girl is a mature 21yold

But you're not 55

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.

Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."

In the words of GRH of strictly fame - 'A complete disaster darling'

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Id say be careful being a colleague. Age wise is fine my girl is a mature 21yold

But you're not 55

Good point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never screw the crew

Never mix business with Heather

Treat colleagues like siblings... don't fuck em!

If she'll share her private parts with colleagues she'll also share other private parts of her life with other colleagues... including the fact that she shared her private parts with you! Can your professional reputation survive that?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Both adults.

Both consent.

Not a problem.

I had a thing going for a while with a young man who was 19.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Personally I don't have any issues with age gaps at all as long as everybody is obviously of a suitable age. Enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A colleague? And the age gap? All I see is potential for drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.

Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."

Well remember you have to work with her later. Personally, i have a rule.. Never date/have sex with work colleagues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age gap? Not an issue!... Work colleague?.. ISSUE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fem here no way I could go with a twenty year old 30 plus only

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well thanks for your comments and insight.

Although some have been distracted by others comments.

Thinking I will be sticking to my gut feeling and leaving this particular powder keg well alone.

On a side note, I did have a liason with a younger colleague 5 years ago, we are both still working in the same place, are still friends, and to this day no one other than ourselves knows, so it does work out sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s only sex go for it if it’s a relationship then I’d say it is too much

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Simple rules

Safe, sane, consenting.

Is it safe?

- potential fall outs if it goes bad?

Is it sane?

- as in sober, normal mind set ect ect

Is it consenting?

- as in have you both really thought it through? The pros and cons of a work place fling.

If it is just a fuck and you can tick those boxes, go for it but it is worth remembering that work place frolics do have a massive tenancy to go south quite fast if things don't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crack on OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s legal

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By *lueyes69Man
over a year ago

coventry

I’d be straight on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.

Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."

I think “work colleague” is more inappropriate than any age gap.

Don’t mix business and pleasure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Workmates and sex are the cardinal sin, nearly always turns out bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.

Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."

#shitthatneverhappened

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Crack on your both of age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swerve in my opinion I did that once and it ended badly

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Crack on your both of age"

this..

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.

Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."

This proves that unlike in maths in Scottish a double positive is a negative ....

Aye right.

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

"Whilst fun etc is great, where work is concerned it might just work out not to be fun! We all have our fantasies (me too), but for the older gentlemen that 20yo might be your daughter or niece

And maybe in a professional environment, would you like to be called out for this or talked about behind your back? This could cost you a lot .... think before fantasy becomes reality

But there again life without fantasies would be dull ...

Everyone is someone’s daughter my lovely"

Or someone's son......

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think it's a bit pervy tbh, but each to their own.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."

No, it's perfectly legal. It's just the possible repercussions at work I'd worry about.

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

At 55 yes sorry she’s too young

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By *illy GunnMan
over a year ago

Leeds

No laws are being broken. If you feel morally fine with it then go for it.

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By *appyredMan
over a year ago

South Tyneside

"Never screw the crew

Never mix business with Heather

Treat colleagues like siblings... don't fuck em!

Yep, to that I would add:

Don't dip your pen in the company ink!!!

Age difference should never a problem among consenting adults - but when it comes to sex with colleagues, run a mile. Politely, of course. Don't be a dick about it.

Sex among colleagues can be disastrous - are you confident of just walking into another job, with similar or better benefits to your current one, if and when it all blows up?

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