FabSwingers.com forum: Unwanted friend requests?!

By *nterracial2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

So our profile reads:

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

Albeit at the bottom of the lengthy text

So we use the unwanted friend requests as a chance to take a gander at the offenders profiles and friends only photos whilst they’re not online so they can’t reciprocate!

Is that a tad cheeky? Or if they can’t take the time to read down to the bottom does it seem acceptable?

Open the floor to discuss

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine

Your not breaking any rules

If you don't want a friends request just decline and block .

Half the pics in folks private galley have loads of fabs already anyway where theyve been on display in public

We all different but the issue of a friend invite certainly wouldn't or dosent bother me ..

Some people state it's the height of ignorance or rudeness

There's a lot lot worse than asking I'd you'd like to be a friend .

What's rude about it ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Depending on my mood, I leave unsolicited friend requests pending for weeks, or block the senders. Someone I don't know and haven't spoken to isn't my friend by even the loosest of definitions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So our profile reads:

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

Albeit at the bottom of the lengthy text

So we use the unwanted friend requests as a chance to take a gander at the offenders profiles and friends only photos whilst they’re not online so they can’t reciprocate!

Is that a tad cheeky? Or if they can’t take the time to read down to the bottom does it seem acceptable?

Open the floor to discuss

xxx"

Absolutely fine! If they haven't taken the time to read all your profile and just decide to add you then that's their fault!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't delete any unwanted friend request, that way they can't resend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So our profile reads:

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

Albeit at the bottom of the lengthy text

So we use the unwanted friend requests as a chance to take a gander at the offenders profiles and friends only photos whilst they’re not online so they can’t reciprocate!

Is that a tad cheeky? Or if they can’t take the time to read down to the bottom does it seem acceptable?

Open the floor to discuss

xxx"

No we all do it

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
over a year ago

France, Not in

Its not cheeky, its called managing your account. Unlikely that anyone is just going to accept an unknown person/couple as a friend without some sort of interaction first. Like you I only add as a friend once we've met. When all the unsolicited friend requests come in I always look through the profile of the requester just to find out about them and sometimes it has resulted in further dialogue and even a few meets. I always presume the requester is doing so because they have an interest in you. I never block people just because of the unsolicited request, I only do that if they become a pest or abusive when the request is not accepted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't delete any unwanted friend request, that way they can't resend

Thats a good idea, I hadn't thought of that. I got loads, I don't understand why as I don't have any friends only photos. So not sure what they expect to achieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So our profile reads:

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

Albeit at the bottom of the lengthy text

So we use the unwanted friend requests as a chance to take a gander at the offenders profiles and friends only photos whilst they’re not online so they can’t reciprocate!

Is that a tad cheeky? Or if they can’t take the time to read down to the bottom does it seem acceptable?

Open the floor to discuss

xxx"

Yes I think it is a tad cheeky since you said "no exceptions" but then added them anyway so that you could look at their private gallery and then quickly removed them again so they could not look at yours....

But does it matter "no" not really so carry on. It could be argued that they chose to send the friend request when they knew it would be rejected...or even more of a sin, did not read the profile in the first place! There is no forgiveness for not reading the profile in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't delete any unwanted friend request, that way they can't resend

Now I hadn't thought of that. I just delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So our profile reads:

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

Albeit at the bottom of the lengthy text

So we use the unwanted friend requests as a chance to take a gander at the offenders profiles and friends only photos whilst they’re not online so they can’t reciprocate!

Is that a tad cheeky? Or if they can’t take the time to read down to the bottom does it seem acceptable?

Open the floor to discuss

xxx"

We do the same, if they've given you the opportunity to look may as well take them up on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone sends me a friend request out of nowhere I do not accept and leave it there. That way they can't keep sending requests if you delete it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So our profile reads:

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

Albeit at the bottom of the lengthy text

So we use the unwanted friend requests as a chance to take a gander at the offenders profiles and friends only photos whilst they’re not online so they can’t reciprocate!

Is that a tad cheeky? Or if they can’t take the time to read down to the bottom does it seem acceptable?

Open the floor to discuss

xxx"
that's what they do to you so it's fair I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone sends me a friend request out of nowhere I do not accept and leave it there. That way they can't keep sending requests if you delete it. "

People repeat sending unsolicited friends requests? At least you know they must be idiots or unhealthily optimistic!

Mike xx

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I specifically say I will do this in my profile, which actually gets me even more friends requests, I think they believe I'll be swayed when I see their friends pics. So mostly I just ignore them now, I'll have the odd peek/delete session though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just block them. Whether they haven't read our profile or they have but don't care, it means that our requirements are low on their list - certainly below "getting their end away".

We think it is a useful test of how people will be in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone sends me a friend request out of nowhere I do not accept and leave it there. That way they can't keep sending requests if you delete it.

People repeat sending unsolicited friends requests? At least you know they must be idiots or unhealthily optimistic!

Mike xx"

Or can't read....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope it's unsolictited mail. We view the profile then delete request

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I don't accept friend requests from people I've never chatted to, or met.

It's on my profile but I still get at least 50 a day.

I just presume they want to nose my friends only pics, they'd be disappointed. There's nothing 'exciting' in there.

Everything in thst album has been public at some point, just moved as its an old pic & I've added new ones.

Leave the requests unanswered.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

90% of pictures in peoples private galleries are exactly the same as their public profile pictures.

Most are only interested in seeing what you have in there.

Ours show our faces, so like the OP we have a crafty look, when they are off line. If theirs are non facial pictures we just delete and block.

If by some rare chance they do contain facial pictures and we are interested we accept and message them, so they can see us.

If it is just a random invite without a message, we just block anyway

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By *lsieWoman
over a year ago

where ever

I just block .

Same with winks too . I don't see the point of a wink .

Think it's a lazy way of interest .Block .

Harsh I know .

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

We used to just delete them as we never thought about just leaving them there so that they can't resend a request.

I think it is a bit cheeky to justs end a friend request out of the blue, it just shows us that you are only interested in perving at out pics.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We do not consider it friendly to send people a friends request when you have never had any contact before. So we specify on our profile that we don't want unsolicited friends requests.

If someone then sends one we will happily have a gander at their private pics when they are offline, after all they sent the request so they must want us to have a look right?

We'll then promptly delete them from our friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do the same. But we also block. To prevent them sending more requests x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do exactly the same as most on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can only send one so just leave it to not select yes or no.

Same with winks. Leave it and they cannot wink again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm feeling particularly cheeky I accept, perve, fab the pics and then delete. Drives them nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love friend requests, they make me feel attractive. I have lots of friends pics to attract the types that love to send unsolicited friend requests and no prior mail.

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

"If I'm feeling particularly cheeky I accept, perve, fab the pics and then delete. Drives them nuts

That what we do. Accept once they are offline, fab a few pics before unfriending and then block, unless something really does catch our eye - but it hasn't yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at the friends only pics then block.

People using friends request as a wink or to see my mug shot will be bitterly disappointed. Then blocked. Unless they are hot. Isn't that how fab works?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"I don't delete any unwanted friend request, that way they can't resend

Us too

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

It's a bit passive aggressive if you have no intention of actually chatting and meeting. But if they've sent you the invite, they're obviously happy for you to see their pics. I personally just delete.

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By *ixieandfairyCouple
over a year ago

St Helier

"Its not cheeky, its called managing your account. Unlikely that anyone is just going to accept an unknown person/couple as a friend without some sort of interaction first. Like you I only add as a friend once we've met. When all the unsolicited friend requests come in I always look through the profile of the requester just to find out about them and sometimes it has resulted in further dialogue and even a few meets. I always presume the requester is doing so because they have an interest in you. I never block people just because of the unsolicited request, I only do that if they become a pest or abusive when the request is not accepted."

Totally agree!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"So we use the unwanted friend requests as a chance to take a gander at the offenders profiles and friends only photos whilst they’re not online so they can’t reciprocate!

Is that a tad cheeky?"

Definitely not it is something that we do regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How we deal With a random friend request is up to us,same as it's up to the sender to ignore what's said on our profile,yet send anyway.

Guess how many we gladly accept?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So our profile reads:

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

Albeit at the bottom of the lengthy text

So we use the unwanted friend requests as a chance to take a gander at the offenders profiles and friends only photos whilst they’re not online so they can’t reciprocate!

Is that a tad cheeky? Or if they can’t take the time to read down to the bottom does it seem acceptable?

Open the floor to discuss

xxx"

No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit."

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accept and perve pics if they have any. Depending on what I see they either stay as friends (very rare) or block them after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion? "

Because as quoted they say they will only accept once met in flesh... They say in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester. So it's a lie.

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion?

Because as quoted they say they will only accept once met in flesh... They say in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester. So it's a lie.

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“"

Erm i think what they mean when they say "in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester"

Because the requester has totally ignored what's in their profile so why shouldn't they look and ignore them .... x

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion?

Because as quoted they say they will only accept once met in flesh... They say in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester. So it's a lie.

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

Erm i think what they mean when they say "in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester"

Because the requester has totally ignored what's in their profile so why shouldn't they look and ignore them .... x "

I think I might not have got that message across right lol orbits confusing plz accept my apologies ill try again tomo when less tired lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion?

Because as quoted they say they will only accept once met in flesh... They say in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester. So it's a lie.

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

Erm i think what they mean when they say "in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester"

Because the requester has totally ignored what's in their profile so why shouldn't they look and ignore them .... x

I think I might not have got that message across right lol orbits confusing plz accept my apologies ill try again tomo when less tired lol xx "

We will look forward to your return when less 'tired'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't delete any unwanted friend request, that way they can't resend

This is exactly what we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree, first world problems and all that.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion?

Because as quoted they say they will only accept once met in flesh... They say in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester. So it's a lie.

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

Erm i think what they mean when they say "in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester"

Because the requester has totally ignored what's in their profile so why shouldn't they look and ignore them .... x

I think I might not have got that message across right lol orbits confusing plz accept my apologies ill try again tomo when less tired lol xx

We will look forward to your return when less 'tired'."

ty sorry don't mean to offend xx

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion?

Because as quoted they say they will only accept once met in flesh... They say in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester. So it's a lie.

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“"

Correct, we are the same to get on our friends list we have to meet, there are far to many picture collectors, dreamers and the likes on here. However if you are stupid enough to send a friends request without actually meeting then when the person is off line, accept friends request look at photos and then defriend. We also block for good measure. So no I don't think they are lying or full of bull-shit at all.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion?

Because as quoted they say they will only accept once met in flesh... They say in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester. So it's a lie.

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

You seem to be completely missing my point.I'll try again.

They say they only accept after they have met.

They say in this thread that they accept to look at the senders pics.

So they have accepted without meeting.

They are lying in their profile when they say they only accept after meeting.

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By *nterracial2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion?

Because as quoted they say they will only accept once met in flesh... They say in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester. So it's a lie.

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

You seem to be completely missing my point.I'll try again.

They say they only accept after they have met.

They say in this thread that they accept to look at the senders pics.

So they have accepted without meeting.

They are lying in their profile when they say they only accept after meeting."

Just to clarify, the statement on our profile referring to meeting in the flesh ranges from a social in the vanilla world or chatting in a club at the very least. That is to accept the friend request on a permanent basis.

What we are referring to in this thread is the unsolicited requests sent that have clearly not read this statement on our profile. Accepting one of these unwanted friend requests is simply to have a nosy at the profiles friend only photos and then subsequently remove from our friends list all whilst the user(s) offline. This them being none the wiser! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add me peps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to get every single TV around the world asking me.just because am a TV myself.

And the number of people on the UK mainland asking me to clean for them can be a pain.

Because it's nice to get a message but why if am no where near

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion?

Because as quoted they say they will only accept once met in flesh... They say in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester. So it's a lie.

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

You seem to be completely missing my point.I'll try again.

They say they only accept after they have met.

They say in this thread that they accept to look at the senders pics.

So they have accepted without meeting.

They are lying in their profile when they say they only accept after meeting.

No clarification needed, the facts had clearly been laid out in your original post.

You, at the end of it, asked if it was 'cheeky' to accept a friends request in order to just look at the senders private pictures. I said it was disingenuous as you say in your profile you only accept under certain terms.

It would be more honest if you expanded your terms for accepting friend requests on your profile to accommodate temporary acceptance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the ones I get are from profiles that have no public pictures OR private ones.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion?

Because as quoted they say they will only accept once met in flesh... They say in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester. So it's a lie.

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

You seem to be completely missing my point.I'll try again.

They say they only accept after they have met.

They say in this thread that they accept to look at the senders pics.

So they have accepted without meeting.

They are lying in their profile when they say they only accept after meeting.

No clarification needed, the facts had clearly been laid out in your original post.

It would be more honest if you expanded your terms for accepting friend requests on your profile to accommodate temporary acceptance. "

Think you are missing the point.

They don't send the friends request other people do who have not read their profile which say they will only accepting friends request once they have met.

We get loads of request from people all over the country who we have no interest in and have no hope of ever meeting. Invariably they are unverified been on the site ten minutes and obviously just out to collect pictures. On a couple of occasions we have actually found real friends photo in the private collection, which we report to admin and let our friends know.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Random ones usually mean they have not been arsed to read our profile or as the usual case turns out it's the new couples profile with no pictures (at the risk of upsetting a few here ) aka single guy spoiling the fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No not cheeky, more disingenuous. You're profile text is obviously bullshit.

Why is is disingenuous, they lay out what they are looking for and are not being pretentious or condescending in my opinion?

Because as quoted they say they will only accept once met in flesh... They say in this thread that they accept to look at pictures of requester. So it's a lie.

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

You seem to be completely missing my point.I'll try again.

They say they only accept after they have met.

They say in this thread that they accept to look at the senders pics.

So they have accepted without meeting.

They are lying in their profile when they say they only accept after meeting.

No clarification needed, the facts had clearly been laid out in your original post.

It would be more honest if you expanded your terms for accepting friend requests on your profile to accommodate temporary acceptance.

Think you are missing the point.

They don't send the friends request other people do who have not read their profile which say they will only accepting friends request once they have met.

Please please assure me that you have never been let near jury service.

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By *ntriguedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

I wasn't aware profile text was legally binding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't aware profile text was legally binding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like the option of being able to turn of the ability to receive winks and friend requests

Surely it isn’t that hard to add this function to the site

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Had a few friend requests then block/de-friend. Fucking rude if you ask me.

It's just another tool in their nosing through profiles process.

At least say say 'sorry, not for me,bye'

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I don't delete any unwanted friend request, that way they can't resend

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get the problem with friend invites would rather that than endless messages and sending pics. Prefer to add then all can check each other out and if interested message then if not oh well move on.

i am amused at the blocking threats on some profiles .... The list of demands on others and must do and donts.

send me a pic or i wont reply but dont have any themselves.

drama mama

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I just delete them.

No drama.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete. Block repeat offenders. No big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't delete any unwanted friend request, that way they can't resend

This

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Delete. Block repeat offenders. No big deal."

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Friend request accepted, pictures perved at then friend removed by poster at 14/12/18 23:05:21]"

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"So our profile reads:

“For safety and security we will only accept or add you as a friend once we've met you in the flesh! No exceptions!“

Albeit at the bottom of the lengthy text

So we use the unwanted friend requests as a chance to take a gander at the offenders profiles and friends only photos whilst they’re not online so they can’t reciprocate!

Is that a tad cheeky? Or if they can’t take the time to read down to the bottom does it seem acceptable?

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Why?

Just put your pics in private and they have added you for nothing then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Friend request accepted, pictures perved at then friend removed by poster at 14/12/18 23:05:21]"

I do this allll the time!

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