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First time taking a sub to a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello I'm newish to being a dom but have never taken a sub to a club, me and the woman in question both want to go but are nervous.

Any tips for us would be great

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Its not much different from going to a normal pub or club really. Go enjoy your self talk to lots of people. Don't do anything you dont want to do. Check out the review section and find a club that suits you.

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

It is an exciting step and one that both of you are capable of. Take things easy and go with no expectations other than checking it out and seeing how things work.

Most clubs will give you a guided tour if you are new and explain things and you are under no pressure to play at all.

If you are planning on visiting the Attic in Derby I can meet you there with my sub and show you around.

Above all have fun and don't put any pressure on each other.

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By *ina VonteeseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Darling well done to you for opening up your desires and fantasy to the world of fab

It will be a honour to introduce you to club29 and give you a gorgeous guided tour of the place and some tips and tricks ..

Yours

SINcerly

Mistress Tina Vonteese x

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

Brilliant, I love it when a success story develops. I hope everyone has a great night.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"Hello I'm newish to being a dom but have never taken a sub to a club, me and the woman in question both want to go but are nervous.

Any tips for us would be great"

Talk talk and then talk - the biggest thing I have noticed about being in clubs with Carter is that men assume cos he treats me one way they can, as anyone who knows me knows I am his sub, not a doormat. I have amazing times being the fuck toy and sub he wants me to be because he 1. Watches over me at every second and 2. We talk honestly about what works and what doesn't. I think part of why it works is he wants to step back and create scenes, that patience is so useful in making a space where your sub can fly, do that and you will have an amazing time xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Darling well done to you for opening up your desires and fantasy to the world of fab

It will be a honour to introduce you to club29 and give you a gorgeous guided tour of the place and some tips and tricks ..

Yours

SINcerly

Mistress Tina Vonteese x

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Lovely welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is an exciting step and one that both of you are capable of. Take things easy and go with no expectations other than checking it out and seeing how things work.

Most clubs will give you a guided tour if you are new and explain things and you are under no pressure to play at all.

If you are planning on visiting the Attic in Derby I can meet you there with my sub and show you around.

Above all have fun and don't put any pressure on each other."

Lovely welcome x

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Op I can't help reading the thread title and thinking -why the hell would anyone want to take a footlong sandwich to a club! Imagine my dissapointment when reading the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A footlong sandwich might be nice

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"A footlong sandwich might be nice

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Would look a little silly on the end of a lead tho wouldn't it?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Hello I'm newish to being a dom but have never taken a sub to a club, me and the woman in question both want to go but are nervous.

Any tips for us would be great"

Talk to subs... they can teach potential/assertive people an immense amount of knowledge.

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