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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do couples that have been swinging for years together still find themselves getting jealous if there partner looks like there having a better time than they are? i was jealous the first time hubby full swaped but now we equaly enjoy full swap any one else experince similar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one gets jealous it human nature, but i think hubby should have more reason to be jealous of you,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do couples that have been swinging for years together still find themselves getting jealous if there partner looks like there having a better time than they are? i was jealous the first time hubby full swaped but now we equaly enjoy full swap any one else experince similar? "

No, we've never had any jealousy from the outset.

If either of us had had any pangs, or was in any way insecure, we doubt we'd have gone down the swinging track in the first place.

XXXX

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

No, jealousy and swinging do not mix. i love to know kev is having a good time, and have asked women for hints before when he has especially enjoyed something.A good friend showed me her fab bj technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jealousy still raises its head not always just from couples but from single people also. to me they just dont get the concept of swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we didnt have some pangs of jealousy we wouldnt bother swinging at all..

its fantastic.. its an amazing sensation when positve..

Master loves nothing better than to see me in heaven.. and I give alook and I see his insides turn..and his need for me.. his jealousy rising.. knowing when he gets his hands on me that I will feel just how much he has to reclaim me

Wouldnt have it any other way.

cali

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By *d4janeCouple
over a year ago

HOVE


"No, jealousy and swinging do not mix. i love to know kev is having a good time, and have asked women for hints before when he has especially enjoyed something.A good friend showed me her fab bj technique "

Share!?! The technique that is! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"jealousy still raises its head not always just from couples but from single people also. to me they just dont get the concept of swinging"

I know of a female that started a vendeta against another female due to her being jealous of her for no apparent reason. So it happens across the board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we didnt have some pangs of jealousy we wouldnt bother swinging at all..

its fantastic.. its an amazing sensation when positve..

Master loves nothing better than to see me in heaven.. and I give alook and I see his insides turn..and his need for me.. his jealousy rising.. knowing when he gets his hands on me that I will feel just how much he has to reclaim me

Wouldnt have it any other way.

cali "

Mmmmmmmmm me like! Xx

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

We have chatted to several couples on here that are insanely jealous, makes you wonder why they do it!

Moreover in our case its always been the female partner who is jealous.

Scenario--

They meet couples but only the female plays, the hubby has to watch. This is not to be confused with cuckolding. The female is too jealous seeing her hubby with another woman so that he doesn't join in just to keep the peace.

To us this is more common than you would realise. However once we have chatted with this type of couple its then time to GIVE THEM A WIDE BERTH!!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

No, we've been swinging for nearly 10 years and it just wouldn't work if either was jealous. We have a lovely relationship and are still very much in love, and we swing for extra sexual pleasure, not to fill some gap in our relationship, sexual or otherwise. In face we both positively enjoy watching the other one having a good shag with someone else! However well we get on with long-standing swinging friends, we keep sex and love separate. We're often very intimate with good friends, spending the night swapped in separate rooms, cuddling, sleeping in their arms etc, but it's sex and affection not love.

We've played with couples in clubs where jealous vibes have been very noticeable; one guy in particular kept on scowling at his wife while she was clearly enjoying herself. Hate to think what was said when they got home. Jealousy and swinging don't mix!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never had a pang of jealousy ever, but then im not a jealous person at all. I know the sex between us is better than either of us could get elsewhere cause where in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, jealousy and swinging do not mix. i love to know kev is having a good time, and have asked women for hints before when he has especially enjoyed something.A good friend showed me her fab bj technique

Share!?! The technique that is! xxx"

Pleeeeese +1

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"do couples that have been swinging for years together still find themselves getting jealous if there partner looks like there having a better time than they are? i was jealous the first time hubby full swaped but now we equaly enjoy full swap any one else experince similar?

No, we've never had any jealousy from the outset.

If either of us had had any pangs, or was in any way insecure, we doubt we'd have gone down the swinging track in the first place.

XXXX"
Exactly why go through this when u feel jelous????

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"We have chatted to several couples on here that are insanely jealous, makes you wonder why they do it!

Moreover in our case its always been the female partner who is jealous.

Scenario--

They meet couples but only the female plays, the hubby has to watch. This is not to be confused with cuckolding. The female is too jealous seeing her hubby with another woman so that he doesn't join in just to keep the peace.

To us this is more common than you would realise. However once we have chatted with this type of couple its then time to GIVE THEM A WIDE BERTH!!"
We wouldnt even go ahead with playing if we felt like one of the couple is jelous in any way.....How u guys manage to do it i dont know

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By *orkscpl2000Couple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

We are here together, we are both very concious of the others needs, wants and feelings.

If either of us had a hint of jealousy we would stop there and then. We had had only one meet to date, not a hint of it in the air at the time or whilst talking to other people on the site.

We made our feelings very clear to each other before we started this and that has helped. I am happy to watch my man with another woman but I don't want penetrative sex with another man, that is something I just want to share with my man, these things are what we both want and neither of us would ever do something that we knew would upset the other. Also if one of us felt uncomfortable in any situation we would tell the other straight away.

Can't speak for everyone but for us that is the way it has to be!

We would have issues meeting another couple who were obviously jealous, we have not carried on speaking to peoeple in the past for that very reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of the distance between us i admit ta sometimes being envious of her meets and when she goes to clubs (cause i cant go and see lol) and that feeling can be quite harsh

But not jealous (a few may say there is little difference but to me jealousy would comprise of me hating her meeting or going ta clubs at all)whereas i love it when i know shes enjoying herself and happy xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

and I only get jealous when Soapy has more cock than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and I only get jealous when Soapy has more cock than me "

Which is most of the time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my partner changed completely moved out of the bedroom she ignored my concerns without any feelings at all then up came a night away I found high heeled shoes witch never seen her wearing I asked a friend she said she's got to be swinging and I found out she was she wont admit it so guess what I am swinging to if you cant beat um join um? and enjoying it

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"my partner changed completely moved out of the bedroom she ignored my concerns without any feelings at all then up came a night away I found high heeled shoes witch never seen her wearing I asked a friend she said she's got to be swinging and I found out she was she wont admit it so guess what I am swinging to if you cant beat um join um? and enjoying it"

And revenge swinging is so the way to go, don't you think!!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"my partner changed completely moved out of the bedroom she ignored my concerns without any feelings at all then up came a night away I found high heeled shoes witch never seen her wearing I asked a friend she said she's got to be swinging and I found out she was she wont admit it so guess what I am swinging to if you cant beat um join um? and enjoying it

And revenge swinging is so the way to go, don't you think!!! "

I never knew wearing high heeled shoes = swinger! I'll never look at my sister quite the same way again!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"my partner changed completely moved out of the bedroom she ignored my concerns without any feelings at all then up came a night away I found high heeled shoes witch never seen her wearing I asked a friend she said she's got to be swinging and I found out she was she wont admit it so guess what I am swinging to if you cant beat um join um? and enjoying it

And revenge swinging is so the way to go, don't you think!!!

I never knew wearing high heeled shoes = swinger! I'll never look at my sister quite the same way again! "

And his friend said she'd got to be swinging!

Nice friend!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I never knew wearing high heeled shoes = swinger! "

I swing and i wear flatties (mostly) xx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


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I never knew wearing high heeled shoes = swinger!

I swing and i wear flatties (mostly) xx"

Thats only cus you wear kids shoes and they ain't invented 6" heels for size 3 half pints yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I never knew wearing high heeled shoes = swinger!

I swing and i wear flatties (mostly) xx

Thats only cus you wear kids shoes and they ain't invented 6" heels for size 3 half pints yet "

Err as you know im in Femmes size sevens more than she is lol xx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


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I never knew wearing high heeled shoes = swinger!

I swing and i wear flatties (mostly) xx"

you big fat liar - you wear 7" heels all the time (and they're usually sparkly) Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I never knew wearing high heeled shoes = swinger!

I swing and i wear flatties (mostly) xx

you big fat liar - you wear 7" heels all the time (and they're usually sparkly) Z"

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would stop if one of us was jealous. We love each other even after 40 years together and enjoy this part of our lives as an extra bit of fun.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


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I never knew wearing high heeled shoes = swinger!

I swing and i wear flatties (mostly) xx

Thats only cus you wear kids shoes and they ain't invented 6" heels for size 3 half pints yet

Err as you know im in Femmes size sevens more than she is lol xx"

Thats called penis envy.

The rich buy Ferrari's when they have a mid-life crisis. They know they look like twats but it's a right of passage

you just go round nicking shoes that are 4 sizes too big for you cus you like looking like a twat .......

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"my partner changed completely moved out of the bedroom she ignored my concerns without any feelings at all then up came a night away I found high heeled shoes witch never seen her wearing I asked a friend she said she's got to be swinging and I found out she was she wont admit it so guess what I am swinging to if you cant beat um join um? and enjoying it"

deep joy, hatred and revenge fucks, glad you dont live near me

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Because of the distance between us i admit ta sometimes being envious of her meets and when she goes to clubs (cause i cant go and see lol) and that feeling can be quite harsh

But not jealous (a few may say there is little difference but to me jealousy would comprise of me hating her meeting or going ta clubs at all)whereas i love it when i know shes enjoying herself and happy xx "

This could have been written by kev, there is a massive difference between jealousy ,which is negative, and envy. When he decided to take a break he was more than happy to see me happy, he loves me, knows the places i have been, and problems i have overcome. The joy my openness brings him outweighs the fact that time and circumstances mean he hasnt been able to share it for a few months.

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