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"A glass or two to steady the nerves if needed is fine with us but playing whilst d*unk is a huge turn off." Agree | |||
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"I find my wife really lets go of her inhibitions after s few drinks " Great, why isn't she on here then? | |||
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"Some of the best sex I've had is when I've been d*unk x" Me too! Xx | |||
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"We have played completely sober and also with a couple of drinks too but never d*unk neither of us would ever want to be in a possibly unwanted situation through alcohol so we wouldn't play with anyone who drank too much. Heightened sexual arousal is knowing you are all wanting the same thing not drinking to be able to allow yourself to reduce your inhibitions! Jayne xx " Exactly. | |||
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"I do Fab meets and clubs sober. " Me also. | |||
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"Sex and alcohol! Do the two go together? Do people find they perform better after a drink or 2? Does alcohol ruin your sexual pleasure? I know the short term and long term dangers of alcohol and sex. I personally prefer not to mix the two and cast no judgement on those who have a drink during the social aspect of a meet. " I’ll happily pass judgement on those who can’t play unless they’ve had a few drinks . Go to pretty much any swinging club after 11.00 pm and you’ll see what I mean . Sober or not at all for us . | |||
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"Sex and alcohol! Do the two go together? Do people find they perform better after a drink or 2? Does alcohol ruin your sexual pleasure? I know the short term and long term dangers of alcohol and sex. I personally prefer not to mix the two and cast no judgement on those who have a drink during the social aspect of a meet. I’ll happily pass judgement on those who can’t play unless they’ve had a few drinks . Go to pretty much any swinging club after 11.00 pm and you’ll see what I mean . Sober or not at all for us ." | |||
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"A glass or two to steady the nerves if needed is fine with us but playing whilst d*unk is a huge turn off." Agreed, just need a few to loosen the lips... | |||
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"Sex and alcohol! Do the two go together? Do people find they perform better after a drink or 2? Does alcohol ruin your sexual pleasure? I know the short term and long term dangers of alcohol and sex. I personally prefer not to mix the two and cast no judgement on those who have a drink during the social aspect of a meet. I’ll happily pass judgement on those who can’t play unless they’ve had a few drinks . Go to pretty much any swinging club after 11.00 pm and you’ll see what I mean . Sober or not at all for us ." | |||
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"Sex and alcohol! Do the two go together? Do people find they perform better after a drink or 2? Does alcohol ruin your sexual pleasure? I know the short term and long term dangers of alcohol and sex. I personally prefer not to mix the two and cast no judgement on those who have a drink during the social aspect of a meet. " Just a couple no good when your hammered | |||
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"When im d*unk I have no limits or boundaries Mrscxxx" but that's when things can go to far God for bid it | |||
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"wont play with anyone whos had any alcohol my single profile or couples profile and club or no club if you need a drink to get you going then maybe swinging is not for you disclaimer my opinion only " totally agree with you, too many people need a drink to play better in sobriety x | |||
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"When im d*unk I have no limits or boundaries Mrscxxxbut that's when things can go to far God for bid it " That's true but Mr m knows my boundaries and its ok for him to push them if/Wen we get a meet I'm hoping to be sober | |||
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"Sex and alcohol! Do the two go together? Do people find they perform better after a drink or 2? Does alcohol ruin your sexual pleasure? I know the short term and long term dangers of alcohol and sex. I personally prefer not to mix the two and cast no judgement on those who have a drink during the social aspect of a meet. I’ll happily pass judgement on those who can’t play unless they’ve had a few drinks . Go to pretty much any swinging club after 11.00 pm and you’ll see what I mean . Sober or not at all for us ." I think guys in 2018 having sex with women that could even conceivably claim they were d*unk, are insane. | |||
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"Sex and alcohol! Do the two go together? Do people find they perform better after a drink or 2? Does alcohol ruin your sexual pleasure? I know the short term and long term dangers of alcohol and sex. I personally prefer not to mix the two and cast no judgement on those who have a drink during the social aspect of a meet. I’ll happily pass judgement on those who can’t play unless they’ve had a few drinks . Go to pretty much any swinging club after 11.00 pm and you’ll see what I mean . Sober or not at all for us . I think guys in 2018 having sex with women that could even conceivably claim they were d*unk, are insane. " Yes indeed , another good reason to stay sober | |||
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"Alcohol and sex doesn't work for me. Makes me motion sick and where's the fun in that. Having said that I usually have a drink or 2 if going to to a club but then happy to stick on the brews " Had that before after far too much champagne, felt really sick | |||
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"D*unk sex is usually crap sex." Absolutely agree. | |||
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"Sex and alcohol! Do the two go together? Do people find they perform better after a drink or 2? Does alcohol ruin your sexual pleasure? I know the short term and long term dangers of alcohol and sex. I personally prefer not to mix the two and cast no judgement on those who have a drink during the social aspect of a meet. " yes sorry sex and alcohol don't mix for one you stink like a brewery, two it interferes with performance and three if to much is consumed impairs your judgement | |||
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"Sex and alcohol! Do the two go together? Do people find they perform better after a drink or 2? Does alcohol ruin your sexual pleasure? I know the short term and long term dangers of alcohol and sex. I personally prefer not to mix the two and cast no judgement on those who have a drink during the social aspect of a meet. I’ll happily pass judgement on those who can’t play unless they’ve had a few drinks . Go to pretty much any swinging club after 11.00 pm and you’ll see what I mean . Sober or not at all for us ." what they say ... sober sensual and seductive yes; d*unk, disrespectful or dodgy never | |||
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"I have seen several times the affect drink has on (mainly) women in swinging clubs...arguments and fights...probably because they are not really comfortable with swinging and the husband thinks that if he gets her pissed before, then all will be okay x" Seen the opposite of this in a well known mids club She was getting him d*unk ... Ended up in fisticuffs... | |||
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"I'm always sober and expect my playmate to be sober too. Consent. Say no more." Good point someone who is inebriated can't give consent apparently. | |||
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"I'm always sober and expect my playmate to be sober too. Consent. Say no more. Good point someone who is inebriated can't give consent apparently. " I'd rather not risk it. I don't need a conviction... | |||
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"I have seen several times the affect drink has on (mainly) women in swinging clubs...arguments and fights...probably because they are not really comfortable with swinging and the husband thinks that if he gets her pissed before, then all will be okay x Seen the opposite of this in a well known mids club She was getting him d*unk ... Ended up in fisticuffs..." Was the women also causing the fights...but yes have also seen the same...hence one said "mainly" in brackets | |||
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"How else do you think 90% of the worlds children are conceived?" Can’t argue with that | |||
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"Sex and alcohol! Do the two go together? Do people find they perform better after a drink or 2? Does alcohol ruin your sexual pleasure? I know the short term and long term dangers of alcohol and sex. I personally prefer not to mix the two and cast no judgement on those who have a drink during the social aspect of a meet. " I am of two opinions on the subject. On the one hand, sex sober just feels so much better, more enjoyable. On the other, there have been a few things I wanted to try that I wanted a drink or more to have the courage to do. I knew what I wanted. To that end, I had a friend with me who I trusted implicitly. Told him my boundaries, and trusted he would back me up (which he did). I had a few great evenings out comfortable in knowing that my boundaries wouldn't be crossed no matter how much I drank. Consent is essential. Being d*unk means consent is questionable, but having given that beforehand, knowing it wouldn't be abused, was wonderful. | |||
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"i would never have sex with someone d*unk. " I like d*unks... they think I look gorgeous | |||
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"Yes sometimes u got to be pissed to meet some I was pissed the whole time if I seen my ex fb " Paper bag would have been cheaper if he was that bad | |||
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"Last meet I had the couple was drinking well before I got there. He wanted me in school uniform. And I called in she wanted fucked. I wasn't up yet so oral sex. Her bum had poo all around her hole. He tried to fuck me. No lude I said no he hurt me.So he got me to suck him. His wife took the huff walked away saying I never liked her. He pulled out of my mouth sat on chair. Said nothing so coat on and home. It was 2 in the morning. I did wank suck him. I made her cum by oral.But just because I never had a chance to fuck her. After the oral I just thought she was having a drink when I was on knees sucking him. She took the huff.So I not be back. " Ewwww... | |||
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