FabSwingers.com forum: Any couples wanting us single men?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I've never met a couple but sent loads of messages.

I find the couples are mainly looking for a bi female or other couples

What can I do to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 get it. they dont want us guys.iam on here as a couple 2. and we get more fun as a couple.keep going but and good luck.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

we meet single men...i think your profile may be the major problem...it says very little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet single men occasionally.

They are/were the ones that stood/stand out from the crowd by making an effort

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester

We do seek single guys and to exercise some quality control we do ask for a face photo and some sort of effort in an opening message goes a long way. We do get kots o fmessages so only the ones which catch our eye get a response.

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

"We do seek single guys and to exercise some quality control we do ask for a face photo and some sort of effort in an opening message goes a long way. We do get kots o fmessages so only the ones which catch our eye get a response."

I agree with a previous poster, you need to do some work on your profile.

Good luck x

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"Hi I've never met a couple but sent loads of messages.

I find the couples are mainly looking for a bi female or other couples

What can I do to "

Stop whinging!

You've got more verifications than most of the single men on here so you know your sweeping generalisation about couples wanting bi females is utter crap.

We only meet single men but we are after very specific types of single men, we have a CHOICE.

And for every single man we meet, we probaby reject 200.

Supply and demand mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people are never happy !

most single men would be happy for the 5 meets you've had in the last 4 months (as your veri's suggest)

enjoy the meets you do have and am sure in good time, your wish for a meet with a couple will come true too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I've never met a couple but sent loads of messages.

I find the couples are mainly looking for a bi female or other couples

What can I do to

Stop whinging!

You've got more verifications than most of the single men on here so you know your sweeping generalisation about couples wanting bi females is utter crap.

We only meet single men but we are after very specific types of single men, we have a CHOICE.

And for every single man we meet, we probaby reject 200.

Supply and demand mate.

well _adchick - same sentiment as mine, but i think the readers can tell who's had their caffeine this morning and who hasn't !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've mentioned discretion several times on your profile. That raises a red flat that you are not single at all.

I am also part of a couple, and we are exclusively looking for single men, with the emphasis on single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more, if you get one line of some guys you're lucky, (although we've never received the "do you want a fuck" that some have. Like others say you have to make yourself stand out, either be a bit funny or witty and make sure you've read a profile properly not just noticed they meet single guys and then message, that's our biggest bugbear with single guys.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well thanks for the feedback I've changed my profile to fit in with what people have said.

Yes I know I done better than most single men on here, plus I've met a couple but only the female.

Its not all the couples on here that are rude just some.

Thanks rob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yer and all he really nice girls dont want single men , i think it is a stitch up!!!!

single men dont get the love,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples mail me a hell of a lot but really only looking for lady's .

like it states on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I love single guys but I hav'nt got time to give enough love to all of them!

Would be shagging non stop from now until the next millenium

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Well thanks for the feedback I've changed my profile to fit in with what people have said.

Yes I know I done better than most single men on here, plus I've met a couple but only the female.

Its not all the couples on here that are rude just some.

Thanks rob"

no offence... but if you are now changing your profile to what people have said you are doing the one thing that is my pet hate...

you are not being "You" anymore.....

it becomes generic, how do you stand out from the crowd?,

couples do meet single guys and they don't have to be the best looking men in the world... I am bloody living proof of that, what I do is sell myself thru my posts, thru my personality and getting off my arse and getting myself out there....

it is really as simplistic as this... if you would answer your own profile... keep it, if not.. change it!

if you really needed someone to prod you into changing it.... thats not an issue anyone is really going to help you with!

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By *tockingsnsuspenders1960Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in south yorks

Well you don't seem to be doing bad in the verification stakes with the single women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Couples mail me a hell of a lot but really only looking for lady's .

like it states on my profile "

Mate I know why you get a lot of couples message you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom line is there are 500 guys chasing every couple/single female on here so you accept it or move on.

You can change your profile,stand out from the crowd etc. but you can't change the odds.

As you can see,I do neither but it works for me!

Harsh but true!

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

"Hi I've never met a couple but sent loads of messages.

I find the couples are mainly looking for a bi female or other couples

What can I do to "

Keep trying Rob you have a lot more going for you than me looking at your profile - but even tho Ive only been on here a couple of months I have already met several couples and have several as friends which Im planning/hoping to meet. Ive been told Im lucky and i probably am - but maybe its because they like what they read when I message them and i take time to chat to them - but I do get my fair share or rejections/blocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hint for guys.

couples look to see what you can offer them.

Is your profile all about you or what you can offer others.. what are you happy doing?

Show lots more pics.. clear full body pics, bums, legs, abs, chest etc.. Not everyone just looks for the size of your cock.

To some couples you will be invited just to be part of a 3some (spits,dp's etc), not to have fun just with the girl..

Appeal to the guy too (in a social way!) generally it's them you will be messaging.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already stated in this thread its difficult for single guys to meet the ladies and / or couples. Get your profile right firstly and give the people lots of information but not your life story!

Keep sending the messages out and don't make it a standard message you send to everyone be creative. Read their profiles and taylor your message to what they are after and if you don't fit the bill then move on. You will get lots of knock backs but eventually you should be successful.

Couple profiles do get more attention than single guys and my wife and I have a couple profile too and we get more attention as a couple than I do as a single guy thats just the way it is, the ladies have their choice of whoever, whatever and whenever and we just have to fit into their plans (thats not code either LOL). Keep your chin up and don't let it get you down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well thanks for the feedback I've changed my profile to fit in with what people have said.

Yes I know I done better than most single men on here, plus I've met a couple but only the female.

Its not all the couples on here that are rude just some.

Thanks rob

no offence... but if you are now changing your profile to what people have said you are doing the one thing that is my pet hate...

you are not being "You" anymore.....

it becomes generic, how do you stand out from the crowd?,

it is really as simplistic as this... if you would answer your own profile... keep it, if not.. change it!

if you really needed someone to prod you into changing it.... thats not an issue anyone is really going to help you with!"

I didn't see the original profile, but can't see this one being an improvement. Bland and generic like so many other single men profiles.

Sadly, when people take on board other peoples viewpoint they lose themselves and don't stand out.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i think that is where a lot of guys fall down... in that by trying to attract "everyone" they are going to be in a much bigger pool of generic and bland profiles than if they they were being more specific....

I know for a fact that my profile isn't going to appeal to everyone...

it's going to be too long for some people,

too wordy for others,

no cock pics ect ect ect....

but i have a much better idea that the people who do reply to it are far more suited to me...

its like people saying "i'd like to get to know that person...." like my profile is speaking to them....

and thats the thing that people forget in there rush to trawl with the catch everyone in the net.... instead of talking to everyone, you are in effect talking to noone...

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For. Me...I am happy with my own profile. I know it can be a bit generic in parts but hey it's me.

If people don't like it then that's there loss. At the end of the day, I know no matter what a put in my profile I will just not be what some people are looking for.

That's life...and it's why we are all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For. Me...I am happy with my own profile. I know it can be a bit generic in parts but hey it's me.

If people don't like it then that's there loss. At the end of the day, I know no matter what a put in my profile I will just not be what some people are looking for.

That's life...and it's why we are all different"

It's not "their loss" though is it? If you're not what they're looking for how is it a loss?

Fabio is right. We will NEVER appeal to everyone, but some people seem unable to understand that and think a a genetic profile will help.

Personally, being myself and stating what I want, in my own tone will put many off...and good job as my play time is limited and only those that I suit will contact me.

That's the point, surely?

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