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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have a potential meet up on friday and pretty girl indicated to bring a whip or two what should i buy?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Riding crop, is a good start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Keeping chatting all info greatly appreciated

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

If you are inexperienced, stay WELL AWAY from a whip!!!!

You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Have a potential meet up on friday and pretty girl indicated to bring a whip or two what should i buy?"
Same as Indiana Jones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lovely will try a crop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lovely will try a crop

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Cat o-nine tails is a good starter weapon of choice -just remember to give it some welly on your first go -there's nothing more disapointing than a half arsed effort

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Assuming you have no experience on the basis of the question, I would suggest looking online regarding articles on the safe places to strike and how to strike.

As the others have said keep away from a whip and buy a flogger. In regard to a crop start gently and keep it within her limits.

If you use a crop for goodness sake in the heat of her passion don't get a rush of blood to the head. It only takes one blow to cause serious damage.

I saw a novice send someone to A&E at a club.

Good luck

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Why don't you ask her what sort of thing she likes? As others have said though do a bit of reading about it and start soft!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone use a belt at all? In previous meets I have used belts both for spanking and as a makeshift leash...and must admit I love using them as much as the individual enjoys receiving it. So maybe add that to your list?

Oh and don't forget your hand. Nothing beats (no pun intended) a read hand print on skin...especially on this cold weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are inexperienced, stay WELL AWAY from a whip!!!!

You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone use a belt at all? In previous meets I have used belts both for spanking and as a makeshift leash...and must admit I love using them as much as the individual enjoys receiving it. So maybe add that to your list?

Oh and don't forget your hand. Nothing beats (no pun intended) a read hand print on skin...especially on this cold weather "

Nice image

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"If you are inexperienced, stay WELL AWAY from a whip!!!!

You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx"

Agreed. I watched a couple of ladies being expertly flogged at Jaydees last Friday. The guys doing the flogging clearly knew what they were doing. One had a whip but used it very carefully. The multi bead / tip flogger things were very effective.

It was a very horny thing to watch by the way.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx"

Now, where's the fun in that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask what she wants, some prefer paddles for more impact, a flogger is good as can be sensual as well, a crop/cane is more stingy but like others have said stay away from proper whips without practise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got whipped with a knotted cable before but i dont recommend that

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"got whipped with a knotted cable before but i dont recommend that"

Once got whipped by a kid on a bmx -i was racing a chopper

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx

Now, where's the fun in that?"
so your idea of fun is" beating the shit out of someone" you obviously have no idea of the bdsm scene at all . The use of whips and canes is "_specialist "_in the scene.letting just anyone loose with such implements is a recipe for disaster .start with lighter implements first until you become more accomplished

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx

Now, where's the fun in that?so your idea of fun is" beating the shit out of someone" you obviously have no idea of the bdsm scene at all . The use of whips and canes is "_specialist "_in the scene.letting just anyone loose with such implements is a recipe for disaster .start with lighter implements first until you become more accomplished "

And may I suggest you peruse my green arrow -things are rarely straightforward on the shores of lake irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nestle rowntree walnut whip.

Study her tongue action before making any decision

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester

Try and keep the price down or you'll need a whiparound.

I'll get me coat.

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Are you sure it wasn't just said in a moment of flirty banter? I'm asking because 1. Most people wouldn't want to leap into s&m with someone they've never met before, and 2. If she is really into it I find it strange she doesn't have her own implements.

Maybe it's just me but I wouldn't let some guy I haven't gotten to know hit me, and when I am ready I have everything I need, I wouldn't be asking anyone to bring anything.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Because you are asking on here, may I suggest you ask her?

Experience is an odd thing.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

A plimsole works for me

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Medieval flail

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Medieval flail "

I got a modern one -or am i flailing at the first hurdle again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are inexperienced with whipping then please for the love of god don't buy a cane or crop! You can do some serious damaged if you have no idea about using them.

Get a small flogger

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"If you are inexperienced with whipping then please for the love of god don't buy a cane or crop! You can do some serious damaged if you have no idea about using them.

Get a small flogger "

Is that like those miniature chairs you get in museum shops to stand your mobile on?

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