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"I dont get it someone explain it please" It's the same as people's obsession with BBW or any other fetishes/preferences. It's either a fetish for someone, or a preference. | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it pleaseNo adverts  "huh | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please It's the same as people's obsession with BBW or any other fetishes/preferences. It's either a fetish for someone, or a preference. But some.on here only want bbc " | |||
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"What obsession? " some.women.on here are fully crazy for bbc | |||
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"What obsession? some.women.on here are fully crazy for bbc" Some men and couples on here are fully crazy for "bbw". | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it pleaseNo adverts huh
"British Broadcasting Corporation........ Damn you meant the other BBC big bad chorizo | |||
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"I've been told it's the way it looks and feels" Funny, I've been told that too  | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please" How they look, how silky soft they are and more often than not they are thick too ....... | |||
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"What obsession? some.women.on here are fully crazy for bbc" Ok. Some men are fully crazy for fat women.... What's the difference? | |||
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"What obsession? some.women.on here are fully crazy for bbc Ok. Some men are fully crazy for fat women.... What's the difference? " Exactly. | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it pleaseNo adverts " | |||
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"Exactly the same was those who obsess over "BBW"." Where are these people? Send them to me! Fb | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please" Some people like to objectify black men, referring to them merely as an appendage probably endorses that belief. I remember seeing a post here from a black guy who said he'd stopped meeting after the male of a couple he met disclosed they only met black men because he knew his wife would never 'run off with one'. Charming. | |||
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"Exactly the same was those who obsess over "BBW". Where are these people? Send them to me! Fb" In the bbw thread i expect. | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please and more often than not they are thick too ....... "...aye, thick as puddin | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please and more often than not they are thick too .......
...aye, thick as puddin "Ey up.. am sure there's some smart ones among 'em | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please" Probably same as your preference for bbw. Go figure  | |||
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"On what basis? The big... the black... or the cock? "Lol...definitely the first adjective | |||
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"What is there to get? Some people have a preference for that & they are entitled to it. I don’t understand why you’d need to “get” why others have a preference. Everyone has one. "
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"I dont get it someone explain it please" Couple for BBW demands to know why other people like BBC. | |||
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Try preference.
Just as some people like blondes,some like brunettes. Along those lines some people prefer black guys/females. We all have preferences, theyre a personal thing. So instead of 'not getting it' relax and enjoy whatever your preferences are and let others do the same without having to justify them. | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please" I dont get it either but then i am straight. Not fab straight..really straight | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it pleaseNo adverts huh
British Broadcasting Corporation........ Damn you meant the other BBC big bad chorizo "Oohhh now chorizo, I like! | |||
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"Yeah where are all the women who like us SWF (Small White and Feable) I made that up myself " *applauds! | |||
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"I've been told it's the way it looks and feels" It's who it is attached to. | |||
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"Guess its a number of things obviously the main being preference. Then the others range from forbidden fruit, size, girth, colour contrast etc..." Forbidden? ))) | |||
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"As a band, I find the Bombay Bicycle Club very overrated, so I don't understand it either." Yet you attended all our gigs? I spotted you in the back row... | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please" Still do some amazing programmes that inspire, make you think and lead to understanding. Whereas the other lot produce stuff that wants to sell you a sofa, get you to go into debt for a car or give them a long term option on your house or spend your life like a perverted peeping Tom watching non-entities vie for 5 minutes fame. | |||
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"As a band, I find the Bombay Bicycle Club very overrated, so I don't understand it either. Yet you attended all our gigs? I spotted you in the back row..." Said the BBC spokesperson.  | |||
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here." I thought they all wanted a fwb? That they can then moan about when he fucks someone else.... | |||
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here." Crikey you're not looking very hard then, I've seen many profiles that say they're not looking for black guys and most don't express a preference at all, go knock yourself out fella! | |||
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"As a band, I find the Bombay Bicycle Club very overrated, so I don't understand it either. Yet you attended all our gigs? I spotted you in the back row..." I, er, well, umm, I can explain... | |||
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here." Is that the cries of a man who feels a little left out? Where are the violins! | |||
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here." Couldn't help but read that in a whingey voice Mrs | |||
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here. Is that the cries of a man who feels a little left out? Where are the violins! "   | |||
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here. Is that the cries of a man who feels a little left out? Where are the violins! " | |||
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here." That sounds, so whiny "it's not fair, make them play with me"
Changing the subject, love your pic with the absolutely massive radio in it. Knocks the little sky remote into touch. | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please It's the same as people's obsession with BBW or any other fetishes/preferences. It's either a fetish for someone, or a preference. " this. My perference is woman who are small in height. I am not heightist. I just get turned on by women who are small in height. Similarly SOME (not all) women get turned on by black men with large cocks. | |||
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"Each to their own. I went to a bbc night (didn’t realise!) and the trading description acts needed to be involved! "Lol | |||
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here." Bullshit. Let me explain what is happening. You go to see psychic. He or she gets 5 or 6 things right and gets 10 or 12 things wrong. The 5 or 6 things right are lucky guesses. You see a friend and say how amazing the psychic was. Reason being you remmeber the things he or she got right and forget/ignore what they got wrong. When you read a profile the reverse happens. You see a profile that is looking for BBC. You forget the MANY profiles that you have read that don't say they are looking for BBC and only remember the ones looking for BBC. You then think most profiles are looking for BBC. | |||
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"Each to their own. I went to a bbc night (didn’t realise!) and the trading description acts needed to be involved! "Sounds good, where was this BBC night? Is it regular? | |||
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"No idea it’s just like some are obsessed with vvwe " simple | |||
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"I've been told it's the way it looks and feels It's who it is attached to. " | |||
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"i think the irony is that some people in the way they profess there love for "bbc" probably don't realise it turns off as much of the very audience they are trying to talk to as it does attract them... if anyone sees me as merely as some sort of "bbc" (which is a general term i hate) i walk in the other direction " ....Spot on | |||
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here. Crikey you're not looking very hard then, I've seen many profiles that say they're not looking for black guys and most don't express a preference at all, go knock yourself out fella! D" | |||
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here. Is that the cries of a man who feels a little left out? Where are the violins! " | |||
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here. Couldn't help but read that in a whingey voice Mrs" ....aka selective viewing . | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please It's the same as people's obsession with BBW or any other fetishes/preferences. It's either a fetish for someone, or a preference. " BBW is definitely not a fetish. Some men including me prefer tham because they are curvy and have lots of flesh to play with. | |||
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"I think this obsession with BBC is due to people hating block licorice candy as a child..... So as adults they try to indulge their inner child and sleep with black men..... Op if this doesn’t explain it , nothing will " 
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"I reckon they should just change the site name to fab bbc as thats all women want on here. Bullshit. Let me explain what is happening. You go to see psychic. He or she gets 5 or 6 things right and gets 10 or 12 things wrong. The 5 or 6 things right are lucky guesses. You see a friend and say how amazing the psychic was. Reason being you remmeber the things he or she got right and forget/ignore what they got wrong. When you read a profile the reverse happens. You see a profile that is looking for BBC. You forget the MANY profiles that you have read that don't say they are looking for BBC and only remember the ones looking for BBC. You then think most profiles are looking for BBC. " | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please It's the same as people's obsession with BBW or any other fetishes/preferences. It's either a fetish for someone, or a preference. BBW is definitely not a fetish. Some men including me prefer tham because they are curvy and have lots of flesh to play with." Have you got something against people who fetishize overweight women? | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please It's the same as people's obsession with BBW or any other fetishes/preferences. It's either a fetish for someone, or a preference. BBW is definitely not a fetish. Some men including me prefer tham because they are curvy and have lots of flesh to play with." BBC isn't a fetish either. | |||
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"At times me and hubby like to play out cuckold scenarios, and BBC is very enjoyable for those scenarios. It’s not an obsession just a preference!" | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please" I don't get it either but hey such is life and believe it or not this is life | |||
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"Guess its a number of things obviously the main being preference. Then the others range from forbidden fruit, size, girth, colour contrast etc..." Forbidden fruit?!! In this day and age with same sex couples marrying and raising families without anyone batting an eyelid you see interracial as "forbidden fruit"?!! Okie dokie! | |||
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"Guess its a number of things obviously the main being preference. Then the others range from forbidden fruit, size, girth, colour contrast etc..." Why is it forbidden fruit? | |||
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"Guess its a number of things obviously the main being preference. Then the others range from forbidden fruit, size, girth, colour contrast etc... Why is it forbidden fruit? " Some people in today’s society still don’t believe that people of different races should interact with each other whether it be socially or sexually. | |||
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"Guess its a number of things obviously the main being preference. Then the others range from forbidden fruit, size, girth, colour contrast etc... Why is it forbidden fruit? Some people in today’s society still don’t believe that people of different races should interact with each other whether it be socially or sexually. " What is this, the 1700s?? That's beyond belief. I note by the way that the OP has gone UNLOS. | |||
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"I often state BBC ...gets some of the ladies licking their lips salivating at the thought of putting some in their mouth.. Big, box , chocolates.. " | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please It's the same as people's obsession with BBW or any other fetishes/preferences. It's either a fetish for someone, or a preference. BBW is definitely not a fetish. Some men including me prefer tham because they are curvy and have lots of flesh to play with." It can be. Some bbw admirers go for women just because they are big, regardless of attraction. Some men post that they'd like to 'try' a larger lady, like we're some kind of bucket list entry for them. Anything can be a fetish depending on people's attitudes towards it. | |||
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"Guess its a number of things obviously the main being preference. Then the others range from forbidden fruit, size, girth, colour contrast etc... Why is it forbidden fruit? Some people in today’s society still don’t believe that people of different races should interact with each other whether it be socially or sexually. " ..and the whole 'BBC' thing promoted in cuckold pornography, where invariably the cuckolder is a black man, apparently the ultimate humiliation for the hapless white male. Charming. | |||
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"There is something sexy about seeing dark skin against my pale skin, I wouldn't say it's a fetish for me but something about the asthetic of the contrast looks hot, I think it's the fact that visuals become much more focused. It's obvious where that strangers hand is, there is no ambiguity that his cock is in my pussy or ass... " | |||
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"Guess its a number of things obviously the main being preference. Then the others range from forbidden fruit, size, girth, colour contrast etc... Why is it forbidden fruit? Some people in today’s society still don’t believe that people of different races should interact with each other whether it be socially or sexually. ..and the whole 'BBC' thing promoted in cuckold pornography, where invariably the cuckolder is a black man, apparently the ultimate humiliation for the hapless white male. Charming." Might have known that porn is to blame for this ridiculous categorisation/objectification. I never watch it so was unaware. | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it pleaseNo adverts "They advertise their own programs though | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please" They're great Big Bourbon Creams lovely with a cup of Yorkshire tea. What's to explain  | |||
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"Humiliation, rough, change of lifestyle. it in the mind" | |||
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"BBw or skinny doesn't matter asking as you both get turned on by each other and find each other attractive ... cannot comment on BBC I'm strate not racist but I think women I general like big cocks as u never hear of them asking for micro penis " What bizarre post, you are straight not racist. What are you trying to say, you know homophobia and racism are two completely different things? | |||
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"I wondered exactly the same thing ... until I had one. " | |||
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"There is something sexy about seeing dark skin against my pale skin, I wouldn't say it's a fetish for me but something about the asthetic of the contrast looks hot, I think it's the fact that visuals become much more focused. It's obvious where that strangers hand is, there is no ambiguity that his cock is in my pussy or ass... " Yeah this is most common answer i get when i ask about it | |||
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"As has been said numerous times people have a wide range of fetishes and preferences and nobody has to justify their choices " | |||
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"I'm waiting for the women who have average white men as a fetish...." Well i am waiting for the women who have fetish for asian men. Lol | |||
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"I'm waiting for the women who have average white men as a fetish.... Well i am waiting for the women who have fetish for asian men. Lol" Hmmm, could be a close call that one! | |||
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"i personally dont think there's a need to create a post about it, thats just what some women want. And its certainly in the minority on this site. You more see profiles saying 'whites only' than 'bbc only' and thats a fact. So what exactly is your problem with it ? " exactly and its no big deal. | |||
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"I don’t get it either.... I’m a BWC fan ??" I blame Trump | |||
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"I don't get it , just not for me ." Then keep it to yourself. Everyone is entitled to their own preference | |||
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"I suppose I should preface this by saying that this response is slightly tongue in cheek. Personally I wonder what is the obsession with white people! You look at profiles of couples and they are mostly entirely white people who meet almost entirely other white people. Most of the meetups are white people wanting to meet white people. At most parties it is mainly white people playing with white people. But because white people playing with white people is an everyday circumstance and is the assumed norm it does not get mentioned how exclusionary it actually is. White women's attraction for white men is labelled preference, white women's attraction for black men is labelled obsession. The stereotyping persists." Exactly what I was thinking. Clearly some idiots on here | |||
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"There is something sexy about seeing dark skin against my pale skin, I wouldn't say it's a fetish for me but something about the asthetic of the contrast looks hot, I think it's the fact that visuals become much more focused. It's obvious where that strangers hand is, there is no ambiguity that his cock is in my pussy or ass... " good answer. i am half-white, but prefer non-white men. in my profile it says i am attracted to BBC, but i didn't realize some black guys run the other way because of it! come back! | |||
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"I suppose I should preface this by saying that this response is slightly tongue in cheek. Personally I wonder what is the obsession with white people! You look at profiles of couples and they are mostly entirely white people who meet almost entirely other white people. Most of the meetups are white people wanting to meet white people. At most parties it is mainly white people playing with white people. But because white people playing with white people is an everyday circumstance and is the assumed norm it does not get mentioned how exclusionary it actually is. White women's attraction for white men is labelled preference, white women's attraction for black men is labelled obsession. The stereotyping persists." Absolutely agree. People only notice when it is “different” to them. A preference is a preference. | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please" Have you seen the size of some of them, mine can fit down the end of some of them | |||
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"I dont get it someone explain it please Have you seen the size of some of them, mine can fit down the end of some of them " thats why loads of ladies love them | |||
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I have a preference to meet blackmen,I wouldn't call it an obsession,I just know what I want,not necessarily a bbc,I just like some blackmen
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"you like what you like right" Exactly | |||
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