FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling to find the illusive bi feamale!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it reads all about you 2, your fantasy... you may want to beef out what the 3 of you will get from it.

good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your advice. We will look at updating that part.

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Its quite hard to find a lady, when you do arranging meeting times and places just add's impossible meets.

Ian and Sue

PS any ladies fancy a meet please feel free to message us or a wink.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tbh...when i was playing as a single bi fem, i wasnt interested in playing with couples, it just didnt appeal to me, so i can understand why it would be difficult for couples to find that elusive bi fem....i dont think they are that elusive...just not that interested...xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i am an elusive bi female,and wouldnt answer,your profile is all about you,add the fact i am nervous of women who might change their mind,and i would pass on by if you sent me a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i am an elusive bi female,and wouldnt answer,your profile is all about you,add the fact i am nervous of women who might change their mind,and i would pass on by if you sent me a message"

I would go with that 2 after looking.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"tbh...when i was playing as a single bi fem, i wasnt interested in playing with couples, it just didnt appeal to me, so i can understand why it would be difficult for couples to find that elusive bi fem....i dont think they are that elusive...just not that interested...xx"

I just get a bit bored of waiting for couples to make up their minds. The amount of times I have got halfway to arranging a meet and one or both change their minds. So now I prefer to meet at a club so, if they don't want me, I can find someone who does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm elusive......

Gold dust

Hmmm terms like that is what makes me think, there is no point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments. We were just trying to be honest in what we are looking for and not time wasting.

We are fully aware that this is about 3 people seeking fun and fulfilment and would like to think that the female in meeting would leave just as satisfied as us if not more lol!!!

From looking at other profiles on this site they seem to be just like ours as they write about themselves and what they are looking for . Maybe The Club scene would be the better option.

Thanks again, Have fun all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto. I have done it and had mixed experiences but a bad one where the other female threw a jealous strop put me off. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my expierence i dont have to much bother finding them, i just think most dont like to play on their own with a couple and rather do it with someone they feel safe with, guess its why u see a few of these girls couple up with other guys, rather than just see other couples on their own

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Reading the ladies comments.

What would you like to read.

Yes i think mainly we as couples do talk about what we want, looking for.

I fail to fully understand what more you could put really. On some of the profiles I have read.

I can understand what one lady put about just going to clubs to meet couples. Am sure that makes things more simple.

I know from talking to Ian when he has gone to a club by himself and he says that it can very hard for guys to chat to couples. Alot of ouples just do not answer, when the single guy tries to chat to them.

Sue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sir and myself will chat to anyone if they approch us, even if we don't want feel he/she or them are for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answered this on the other post but don't give up looking. Single females bi are here.....Women do cpl up quickly etc and alot just will never meet a cpl on their own.

Alot of bi women are fantasists aswell....I joined fab to meet a girl but never has happened lol. That is why I have met cpls. I am so not there for putting on a show or whatever though. It's the female aspect of it I want.

Each person wants something different out of a meet and as a single female I want to know I will feel safe, have fun and have no akwardness. Meeting cpls alone is very daunting. Keep with it though and try to make it less about you and more about the person you want to meet and about hoe the night will be for all 3 of you.

xxx

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

I must admit that, i get the feeling alot of bi ladies, might get the impression there just for a bit on the snow and get left out.

I would feel that if we left the lady out it would spoil the whole point of asking for a bi lady.

I suppose we have to get that a cross if we get talking to someone for a FFM.

Sue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wont play with couples as i dont want to be their toy

i want to be equal fun and not something for their enjoyment has to me mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have met single ladies before, and its fun, but the meet has to be about them not you, dont forget they are rare as hens teeth so can pick and choose

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"i wont play with couples as i dont want to be their toy

i want to be equal fun and not something for their enjoyment has to me mutual"

this is my thinking of the situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are not looking for a toy. We are looking for a respectful female for sensul play with Sam and then for Tom to join in to pleasure Sam with the other lady and then switch it so that Tom and Sam pleasure the lady, then who knows what!!. If single bi females feel that they are being used then they are meeting the wrong people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put that on your profile!! That sounds great :- D I agree with the comments about feeling like a performing monkey mainly for the guys pleasure and it's not a pleasant situation. Sadly you don't always know that until it's too late. Shame as I love mff when the chemistry is right. Good luck with your search and enjoy it when it does happen. Ms xx

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Ok this thread grabbed our attention because a single girl to play with is something we have wanted to try for ages. We came to the conclusion it will probably happen in a club as it seems very difficult to arrange online.

Having said that obviously the trust issue is going to be huge when really you are meeting complete strangers from the Internet on your own.

Heyho maybe one day

. Good luck...

Xxx

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By *ngie-babyWoman
over a year ago

huntingdonish

Strange really.... i'm a married woman with a cpls profile on here and although we get meets as a cpl. i dont get any meets as a single bi fem with this profile.

Everyone goes on about the elusive bi fem, but here i am lol. is it because i only want to meet with no men there ???

the thing is, i look for one on one with another lady because i can do the bit with males involved with my OH.

so it seems impossible to get a meet with a single lady (married or not) as someone who IS effectively a single lady (for this purpose lol)

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Strange really.... i'm a married woman with a cpls profile on here and although we get meets as a cpl. i dont get any meets as a single bi fem with this profile.

Everyone goes on about the elusive bi fem, but here i am lol. is it because i only want to meet with no men there ???

the thing is, i look for one on one with another lady because i can do the bit with males involved with my OH.

so it seems impossible to get a meet with a single lady (married or not) as someone who IS effectively a single lady (for this purpose lol)"

For us it would be as we only play as a couple. We see swinging as something we do together as our fun time.

Surprised you struggle to find single girls to meet we would have thought they would have been more comfortable in a one on one situation..

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a bi couple we find that you message bi girls for joan and just dont get any replies , are they on this site to talk or dream

joan alan xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i am an elusive bi female,and wouldnt answer,your profile is all about you,add the fact i am nervous of women who might change their mind,and i would pass on by if you sent me a message"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as a bi couple we find that you message bi girls for joan and just dont get any replies , are they on this site to talk or dream

joan alan xx"

We are on this site.But for myself if and when i want to play with a Woman i do that as 1on1 don't need Hubby or whoever to stand and watch take picture and for fill his FFM fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why post a thread then delete what the hell you say in your opening message ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why post a thread then delete what the hell you say in your opening message ?"

coz they got a quick reply of what they wanted i think.

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By *ong_legs2Couple
over a year ago

essex

said this is the last thread n we'll say it here, we've been looking for over 11 months and still haven't found a bi fem to join us so just keep searching and hopefully you'll find what your looking for.

jane n s x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When I posted this thread I did not check the spelling and didnt realise that I had spelt female wrong. So I deleted the post and opened a new one. As we are stuggling to find what we are looking for I didnt think that the spelling error would help lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Were not sure that you have read our profile correctly. I Tom would like to state that it is Sam that would like to go with another woman. If anything then I would rather MMF. I am NOT doing this so that I can sit in the corner playing with myself. What I am intested in is ensuring that the ladies get maximum pleasure and I would also like to pleasure Sam too. If the lady wanted soft play with the me then I would be happy to engage. Why is it that some women think that the males are seedy?? We hope that this sheds a little more light on what we are looking for.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

It baffles me people 'trying' to find bi fems...I sit in chat nearly every weekend asking if any couples would like to join me on cam/msm...nothing!

I would have thought at least some coupes would have made contact...on the assumption of a meet before they read the profile

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By *ngie-babyWoman
over a year ago

huntingdonish

well reading your veris .... seems you have had 3 different single women spoke to you both on the phone in the last few months, all say they look forward to meeting you in person, but no follow up.... so what was the reason for that?

is it yourselves who have not followed it through, or is it the 3 different women??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone,Firstly would like to say that we didnt realise that we posted this thread twice so some answers are on the other thread

OK Tom posted this question to get peoples feedback and advice,but now i (Sam) feel i need to clarify a few things,people have critised our profile so we have looked into it abit more and have found the majority of profiles on here are about themselves,what they are looking for and preferences so dont understand how our's is that different,my understanding is once inital contact has been made then we would chat,phone ect to get to know eachother better then if there was attraction and trust hopefully things would go futher.

Next to the above lady who was asking about our veri's there is only 2, the first lady approached us and was really lovely and if i had my way would have arranged a meet but unfortuantly she only wanted one/one no males and as we are new to the scene feel we are not ready to meet seperatley. The 2nd lady lived some distance away from us and as like most people on here we have family and work commitments so would need to arrange a meet,couldnt meet the next day which she was fully aware of. We messaged on here and texted + phone calls for 2 weeks then had a busy week moving, so no contact was made next thing we were deleted from her friends list, but funny enough she made contact with me last week,thats not us we DO NOT play games.(not in that way anyway).As for MSN we have done that and have been had by a couple of timewasters/fakes so dont do that anymore prefer early phone contact so everyone involved knows that we are genuine. Sorry to have gone on and hope i havnt sent you all to sleep,but felt i had to say something

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By *ngie-babyWoman
over a year ago

huntingdonish

just wish i still lived in barnstaple

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