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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello there all how we doing today?

I am hoping some of you may be able to offer some advice. I ve been here a little while now so i am not a total newbie now but for some reason I seem to be struggling to get meets, or even replies to messages. I have have altered my profile several times but this does not seem to make a difference.

I am a verified user so I thought this may help but it does not seem to. I do have a picture which is available to friends and I also attach it to messages. Unfortunately i can not display pictures publicly because of the work i do as this would cause lots of probs.

When i send messages i am polite respectful and always if possible try to relate the message to the users profile aiming to show that i have read their profile. I dont send one liners and i dont send messages like "fancy a fuck?". I am now at a complete loss so any advice would be greatly recieved.

Thanks Bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi bill

i am having the same problem as you so if you get any feedback please feel free to pass on as i will with you .

cheers

gs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no problem will do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds alot like a dating profile until the part where you say what your after sexually at the end. Maybe you would be better describing yourself psycically if your althetic/in good shape rather than all the stuff you wrote that is more dating site wise, but all in all its not a terrible bad thing, im sure it would actually appeal to some people

very single in capitals raises a bit of a suspicision to me. most people would assume your single anyways unless you say on a fully complete profile that your attached, if your genuinley single its really not needed to be mentioned.

but you dont have a face pic or any public photos (this is why combined with the single in caps and no pic its highly suspicious more so), and also have hidden your verification. you could of just got a guy you know to verifiy you. im not saying you have but its not like a straight guy looking for fun to usually want to keep it hidden.

your going to struggle to get meets though until you show your face, you might have a good reason and be single but if you dont then it just makes most people think you have something to hide

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Robbies

taken on board...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all address your spelling - you say you are a professional guy and yet your profile is full of mistakes. Use a spell checker and sort them out.

Second, sort out who you are looking for, to me it just looks life you are looking for FF couples (we can all dream about them can't we!) If you want a female or couple, then tick the right boxes.

Third, open up your interests a bit.

Finally, get some photographs on, they can be anonymous but it gives people some idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello there all how we doing today?

I am hoping some of you may be able to offer some advice. I ve been here a little while now so i am not a total newbie now but for some reason I seem to be struggling to get meets, or even replies to messages. I have have altered my profile several times but this does not seem to make a difference.

I am a verified user so I thought this may help but it does not seem to. I do have a picture which is available to friends and I also attach it to messages. Unfortunately i can not display pictures publicly because of the work i do as this would cause lots of probs.

When i send messages i am polite respectful and always if possible try to relate the message to the users profile aiming to show that i have read their profile. I dont send one liners and i dont send messages like "fancy a fuck?". I am now at a complete loss so any advice would be greatly recieved.

Thanks Bill "

There's nothing wrong with what you say,but you need pictures of yourself!!!

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By *WLondonMixMan
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

As above have suggested, a profile pic or even just a public pic would be invaluable to your profile. Very rarely unless your a stripper as profession will your work mates or anyone be able to identify your body in pictures.

Also being verified is useful however there is no indication whether it was by phone *- webcam or in a meet and generally as single guy it helps to show the verification.

Lastly my profile is no shining example but personally I do not see anything wrong with yours. Other than the fact no one knows what you look like when reading it, hence as previously stated a picture would help. Also being more specific about what you joined this site for would be useful.

Other than this, or even with out changing anything it is still better than many gents profiles on the swing scene.

Good luck all the same

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Hello there all how we doing today?

I am hoping some of you may be able to offer some advice. I ve been here a little while now so i am not a total newbie now but for some reason I seem to be struggling to get meets, or even replies to messages. I have have altered my profile several times but this does not seem to make a difference.

I am a verified user so I thought this may help but it does not seem to. I do have a picture which is available to friends and I also attach it to messages. Unfortunately i can not display pictures publicly because of the work i do as this would cause lots of probs.

When i send messages i am polite respectful and always if possible try to relate the message to the users profile aiming to show that i have read their profile. I dont send one liners and i dont send messages like "fancy a fuck?". I am now at a complete loss so any advice would be greatly recieved.

Thanks Bill "

We are also in Cheltenham but we wouldn't be interested in even looking at your profile until you have some kind of picture on it.

You can put in a body shot without giving the 'game away' (as I have). It does help to decide when deciding to even look.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

no pics no lookie,i dont do blind dates,and only accept friend requests from friends.Check out others here,it doesnt have to be a full facepic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks eveyone

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"thanks eveyone"

That picture is absolutely NO help whatsoever, apart from looking like you have a very small willy.

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