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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london

Could I have some feedback on my profile and on how it might make me seem more interesting.. Guys/ Girls both feel free to reply.

Ta

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lotsa same face pics...pretty pointless in my opinion...no sex pics ( believe me...they get meets)- just MY opinion, I lke my profiles to show something a bit more

oh and before anyone else beats me: uve asked before lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Could I have some feedback on my profile and on how it might make me seem more interesting.. Guys/ Girls both feel free to reply.

Ta

x"

Yeah.......... offer to contact them, not expect them to do all the work just because you are in another part of the country and available.

And, personally, I'd change your name. You sound like you are high maintenance and spend more time in front of the mirror than I do.

Also, I don't think you are pretty. Looks are in the eye of the beholder and quite frankly, I was expecting something pretty special.

I'm sooooooo disappointed now.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

As _adchick says...you seem to have a very high opinion of yourself,im sure you are to some tastes,but not mine,expecting women to make all the running on a swinging site would be unrealistic even for brad pitt or johnny depp,

You ask for articulate,professional women,but your profile lacks any depth or wit,i imagine i would be bored within 5 minutes of talking to you.

There is nothing wrong with having preferences,however right now your profile suggests your first preference is yourself.i rarely say this,but look at mine,i am that non existent thing,a bi female looking for couples to play with.i am was educated at this countries finest university and apparently dont break mirrors with my face...but i dont expect to be everyones cup of tea,or have a profile that places me above the people i want to fuck.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"As _adchick says...you seem to have a very high opinion of yourself,im sure you are to some tastes,but not mine,expecting women to make all the running on a swinging site would be unrealistic even for brad pitt or johnny depp,

You ask for articulate,professional women,but your profile lacks any depth or wit,i imagine i would be bored within 5 minutes of talking to you.

There is nothing wrong with having preferences,however right now your profile suggests your first preference is yourself.i rarely say this,but look at mine,i am that non existent thing,a bi female looking for couples to play with.i am was educated at this countries finest university and apparently dont break mirrors with my face...but i dont expect to be everyones cup of tea,or have a profile that places me above the people i want to fuck."

Do you know what Jemima..........

I was going to be sensible and articulate ......... but I couldn't be arsed.....

You is too nice sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i said it all in three lines

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"As _adchick says...you seem to have a very high opinion of yourself,im sure you are to some tastes,but not mine,expecting women to make all the running on a swinging site would be unrealistic even for brad pitt or johnny depp,

You ask for articulate,professional women,but your profile lacks any depth or wit,i imagine i would be bored within 5 minutes of talking to you.

There is nothing wrong with having preferences,however right now your profile suggests your first preference is yourself.i rarely say this,but look at mine,i am that non existent thing,a bi female looking for couples to play with.i am was educated at this countries finest university and apparently dont break mirrors with my face...but i dont expect to be everyones cup of tea,or have a profile that places me above the people i want to fuck.

Do you know what Jemima..........

I was going to be sensible and articulate ......... but I couldn't be arsed.....

You is too nice sometimes

"

You dont know how nice i can be

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Could I have some feedback on my profile and on how it might make me seem more interesting.. Guys/ Girls both feel free to reply.

Ta

x"
two words..trades description

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

now for the rest...not an attractive profile, seems a shame because as you have such a high opinion of yourself its off putting...a bit more humility may be called for?

Pics are clear....but just fades into the same old for me....if you are happy with it all well n good but it doesnt stand out from the crowd

Saying all that, good luck n have fun

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

"If I send you a message please have the decency to respond, manners cost nothing!"

Take this out - replyng to message is absolutely not a matter of manners. Women/couples can get 100s of messages in a week and it's not reasonable - polite, even - to demand they spend their time going through every one and giving personalised replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree with the other, if you expect replies to everything you are going to go mad.

Also, why can't you accomodate? There may be a valid reason, but some leap to conclusions and think you are married etc. I would suggest that you put something in about that.

Also you don't really put anything about what makes you tick, sexualy. No fantasies etc..... If you do expect people to come to you to ask, you realy need to give them something to be interested in.....

2p

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london

Appreciated

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As others point out:

more detail is really needed - if you want to stand out, from those single fellas who make no effort, don't put themselves in the other's shoes, so to speak, then more detail about you, and why you should be of interest will help raise your profile.

Your photos are very limited: expand your range, so that people get clear views of your body, and what you have on offer. Your body pic is somewhat blurred, so consider changing it for an improved set of pics. Look at _hetalkingstove's profile, who's posted above, helping you: his photos are great, and if you at least include the same range, then you'll be making a good start. Also, consider being open to couples, as this is a swinging site, rather than a 1on1 dating site.

You've made a good move, asking us for feedback, and shows that you're interested in meeting other's needs. Follow through, and also read other's profiles, getting a view on what you're up against, and what people may be looking for.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

If you are only looking to meet women - then you are on the wrong site.

Trust me on this - I've been there - I've done it - I've washed the spunk stains out of the T-shirt - you're on the wrong site.

If that's what you are after (and there's nothing wrong with that), then I can tell you from my own personal experience that you will get 20 times the action you are looking for on a regular dating site - and you won't even have to lie to anyone and pretend you are looking for a long term relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling your self milk chocolate isn't appealing and you need to try and get a bit more of a macho pic sorted out unless you are going for the feminine male look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are only looking to meet women - then you are on the wrong site.

Trust me on this - I've been there - I've done it - I've washed the spunk stains out of the T-shirt - you're on the wrong site.

If that's what you are after (and there's nothing wrong with that), then I can tell you from my own personal experience that you will get 20 times the action you are looking for on a regular dating site - and you won't even have to lie to anyone and pretend you are looking for a long term relationship."

yeah on dating sites theres plenty of lasses who are saying they are after a relationship, dont want a one night stand, but date you, shag you then dont want relationship lol, they just mean they dont want non stop creeps pestering them :p

of course some want relationships but you can tell who does and who is just having fun while hoping to strike it lucky at the same time

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