FabSwingers.com forum: No luck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We've been on this site for a few months now and we've tried other ways of meeting people but we just seem to have no luck whatsoever! Everyone who seems interested turns out to be fakes in the end and everyone else just seems to think we are too young because we're both only 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a bugger that but better than being to old as we are so often told lol

just keep trying but before you ask my wife wont play with anyone younger than her sons lol and we have 5 so you got some way to go sorry ha ha but good luck anyway theres someone out there for you ,

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha seriously though we've been trying to meet for 6 months and not one ounce of luck at all! lol

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Things can take quiet a while, get chatting in the forums, get to know ppl that way, nice friends are worth waiting for.... That sounds naff, but its true, plenty of lossers as you've probably found out already..

Re-write you profile maybe, add or take away pics, spice things up...

Good Luck ;Lxx

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"its a bugger that but better than being to old as we are so often told lol

just keep trying but before you ask my wife wont play with anyone younger than her sons lol and we have 5 so you got some way to go sorry ha ha but good luck anyway theres someone out there for you ,

xxxxx"

Everyone has there only problems - we get the to old thing quite often but if you look at our feedback we find 'younger' folk to play with and make friends just keep going the right people will be out there for you somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha seriously though we've been trying to meet for 6 months and not one ounce of luck at all! lol

Well you didn't try us did ya!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All i can say is keep trying,you will find that it will take a while to get established and known on here.

Attending socials or clubs are also a good way of meeting and getting to know people from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha seriously though we've been trying to meet for 6 months and not one ounce of luck at all! lol

Well you didn't try us did ya!!

Or us either... We are happy to be flexible

We still get the same problem even now, so we can understand..

Melanie and Jon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think your main problem is that your only looking to meet women.

That will always limit your options big time.

Also,you have many people who won't play with anyone as young or younger than their kids.

Maybe you should consider MF couples, there are lots who don't have kids so no qualms about playing with younger swingers.

If your just going to stay on the fem only trail though,you may be in for a long wait.

Its probably time to review the situation.

Can't help admiring the bottle of such a young couple swinging though.

Good Luck!

XXXX

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Can't help thinking that if you changed your profile to looking for couples your inbox would fill up a lot, lot faster...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and use the site search facility (if your not already) and specify your age range and keep it closer to your own age....

I would guess that many people, whether couples or single fems over 25 would prefer not to meet an 18yr old couple.

There are a few sgl girls on the site around your age and would probably appreciate a meet with a similar age rather than the usual 50 yr olds mailing them, lol

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or try one of the socials and get to know people in your area face2face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not try a swinging club?? Part of your problem could be your only after single women? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i ask, if yr having no luck, how come u have a large friends list ? cuz i wouldn't have anyone on my friends list if i hadnt met them or are going to meet them ??

except a rew forumites who i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can i ask, if yr having no luck, how come u have a large friends list ? cuz i wouldn't have anyone on my friends list if i hadnt met them or are going to meet them ??

except a rew forumites who i have

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I have a largish friends list but most of them are people who only have pics in private and I never go any further until I've seen pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can i ask, if yr having no luck, how come u have a large friends list ? cuz i wouldn't have anyone on my friends list if i hadnt met them or are going to meet them ??

except a rew forumites who i have

I have a largish friends list but most of them are people who only have pics in private and I never go any further until I've seen pics."

Im on Dianes list, what happened to our night out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A horny teenage couple? My idea of heaven!!! (or quite close to it lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its fair enough when people set age limits on who theyl play with, theres a certain age we wont go above and an age we wont go below for legal reasons psml ( tongue in cheek that was before theres a backlash )

we had a couple emailing us, well me really as he wasnt online, and they were only about 4 years older than us. after the initial few emails they wanted to meet, lol but only me as he was 'too old'

utter pish was my reply

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"Why not try a swinging club?? Part of your problem could be your only after single women? xx"

Most swingers clubs have a lower age limit of 21.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"Why not try a swinging club?? Part of your problem could be your only after single women? xx

Most swingers clubs have a lower age limit of 21.

Also, your profile states that the female is bi curious and there is no picture of her.

Is this yours or her idea or something you BOTH really want?

You don't want couples or single men, therefore, you have wiped out 90% of the swinging population and you are both sooooo very young and probably wiped out another 9%.

Take off those who are too far away and can't accommodate and realistically, you are not going to fair very well on a swingers site.

If you/both of you are looking for experimentation for your gf's bi side, you are also going to wipe out those that are not here to be teachers but to be swingers.

Good luck but I suspect your limits, your age and your piss poor profile on here seriously buggers your chances.

I'd personally suggest a d*unken students night or a club where they specialise in 'very' young people.

Like I said, good luck but be realistic.

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No luck - too young?