FabSwingers.com forum: fuck buddies

By *etpantease OP Woman
over a year ago

cearphilly

Are there any set rules,please help

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Discuss with your fuckbuddy about rules. Dont think people can advise you on what you can or can't do . What sort of rules are you asking about ?

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By *rs Butterfly.Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

You need to set the rules with your FB. As what works for others may not work for you.

I like there to be total honesty with mine.

I hope this helps you

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

The rules are whatever you decide between you, but fuck buddies typically don't have many.

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Are there any set rules,please help

You probably need to extend on your question a bit further. But I would imagine it’s no different to whether you swing alone, in a relationship or team up with someone.

You discuss what you guys are looking for and boundaries, and then share with potential meets.

We’ve seen fuckbuddys at clubs that have mixed results. Sometimes a single guy will team up with a woman just to gain entry into a couples night and then totally disappear.

Of course this can happen with bonafide couples, but usually on a much lower scale.

This scenario can be frowned upon from genuine couples. Not only on the man, but can also affect your credibility. So please be aware of this.

It’s not a rule, but a situation you may want to think what position you’d like to be in (no pun intended).

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By *etpantease OP Woman
over a year ago

cearphilly

It does help thank u for ur response

happy fabbing

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By *etpantease OP Woman
over a year ago

cearphilly

It is a team up,;)

Both new to the "team up scene"but not the swinging ,well two yrs tbh ,so relatively new yes.

But been buds about 6 months .

Can see what ur saying ,and thank u for ur response.

Happy fabbing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex FWB told me FWB rules applied when he invited me overnight upon separating from wife but he did not say what the rules were and said I should Google it. It's a minefield to be honest XXX

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"My ex FWB told me FWB rules applied when he invited me overnight upon separating from wife but he did not say what the rules were and said I should Google it. It's a minefield to be honest XXX"

I think there’s probably a difference between FWB and FB, and then again in the swinging arena.

Either way, there should be respect and expectations set when meeting someone for no strings sex.

There aren’t any rules as such, but a mutual agreement between two people.

Then when it comes to swinging, the respect and expectations amplify, as there are more people involved.

I think your FWB demonstrated a lack of respect. Whether he was trying to be stupid or clever I don’t know. But what I do know is the internet of things is always going to give you many answers, some contrasting, and not always definitive. I’m sure Wik o pedia and the urban dict will give you different definitions and layers of the term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it simple, fun and have no expectations of the other person. It's when complications start that it all goes to shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine are always simple.

no overnights with each other

honesty

open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mine are always simple.

no overnights with each other

honesty

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My kinda girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mine are always simple.

no overnights with each other

honesty

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My kinda girl.

find it easier that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mine are always simple.

no overnights with each other

honesty

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My kinda girl.

find it easier that way

That's because it is easier that way. Keep it simple and fun.

It's a winner every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust nobody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust nobody

I would be you fb no problem

Been wanting to meet you for ages xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust nobody

And that's it?

Who rubbed you up the wrong way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mine are always simple.

no overnights with each other

honesty

open

My kinda girl.

find it easier that way

That's because it is easier that way. Keep it simple and fun.

It's a winner every time.

good for local fbs but thats why its more a booty call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, local only. Long distance is a pita and a drama.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Trust nobody

Absolutely trust nobody on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely, local only. Long distance is a pita and a drama.

not really unless hes worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely, local only. Long distance is a pita and a drama.

not really unless hes worth it"

Fair do's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mine are always simple.

no overnights with each other

honesty

open

Can’t see why no overnights? Never been a problem here.

Honesty ...totally. Mine know each other and have met a few times...but keep it social (not threesomes with each other).

Do other things too...not just booty calls. Both have been to theatre, gigs, even weekends away etc.

Involve them in your life as you would other friends...both know my sister as friends. Have met up with her without me.

Keep it open...no strict ties.

Suppose it depends on the chemistry/relationship you have tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mine are always simple.

no overnights with each other

honesty

open

Can’t see why no overnights? Never been a problem here.

Honesty ...totally. Mine know each other and have met a few times...but keep it social (not threesomes with each other).

Do other things too...not just booty calls. Both have been to theatre, gigs, even weekends away etc.

Involve them in your life as you would other friends...both know my sister as friends. Have met up with her without me.

Keep it open...no strict ties.

Suppose it depends on the chemistry/relationship you have tho."

as fuck buddies to me are just that. we meet we fuck we go separate ways

friends with benefits are different and thats what i think you are explaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mine are always simple.

no overnights with each other

honesty

open

Can’t see why no overnights? Never been a problem here.

Honesty ...totally. Mine know each other and have met a few times...but keep it social (not threesomes with each other).

Do other things too...not just booty calls. Both have been to theatre, gigs, even weekends away etc.

Involve them in your life as you would other friends...both know my sister as friends. Have met up with her without me.

Keep it open...no strict ties.

Suppose it depends on the chemistry/relationship you have tho."

Suits different people in different ways. What's ok for you is fine for you.

But I think different.

And that's fine for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mine are always simple.

no overnights with each other

honesty

open

Can’t see why no overnights? Never been a problem here.

Honesty ...totally. Mine know each other and have met a few times...but keep it social (not threesomes with each other).

Do other things too...not just booty calls. Both have been to theatre, gigs, even weekends away etc.

Involve them in your life as you would other friends...both know my sister as friends. Have met up with her without me.

Keep it open...no strict ties.

Suppose it depends on the chemistry/relationship you have tho.

Suits different people in different ways. What's ok for you is fine for you.

But I think different.

And that's fine for me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mine are always simple.

no overnights with each other

honesty

open

Can’t see why no overnights? Never been a problem here.

Honesty ...totally. Mine know each other and have met a few times...but keep it social (not threesomes with each other).

Do other things too...not just booty calls. Both have been to theatre, gigs, even weekends away etc.

Involve them in your life as you would other friends...both know my sister as friends. Have met up with her without me.

Keep it open...no strict ties.

Suppose it depends on the chemistry/relationship you have tho.

Suits different people in different ways. What's ok for you is fine for you.

But I think different.

And that's fine for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let things get emotional..... no feelings except lust and want.

Had to end 2 fb /fwb relationships because of feelings and jealousy from them.

If it is an exclusive 1 on 1 relationship then make that clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't let things get emotional..... no feelings except lust and want.

Had to end 2 fb /fwb relationships because of feelings and jealousy from them.

If it is an exclusive 1 on 1 relationship then make that clear."

Totally agree with this.

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By *etpantease OP Woman
over a year ago

cearphilly

That has answered my question,..lust and want ..not feelings .

Thank u guys ,happy fabbing ,b safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't let things get emotional..... no feelings except lust and want.

Had to end 2 fb /fwb relationships because of feelings and jealousy from them.

If it is an exclusive 1 on 1 relationship then make that clear.

Totally agree with this. "

I sgree

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By *ushman001Man
over a year ago

Warrington

I've had three fb relationships (not from fab) and all three women ended up wanting me to have a relationship and said they'd fell for me. Don't get me wrong I had feelings for them but could draw a line in the sand and knew what I wanted from the relationship. I need a cold hearted woman lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one can advise you. It's down to you and your fuckbuddy to discuss the rules between you and what works so you're both happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be a minefield. However, we've both had fb's in our pasts and it would appear that Re and I approached the whole thing in a similar fashion, just have fun and don't get attached.

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