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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

i'm going to chams for the first time for the first time for the beach party. i could use some female advice on what to wear.

and general advice on when to get there - what time will the party get started??

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By *azmissy67Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

usually when i go to Chams i wear a towel and a smile. Never been when there is a theme and so never 'had' to wear anything different. But i guess you should wear what ever you feel comfortable in - bikini, all in one swim suit etc.

I have my name down but sounds like it is going to be very busy and I'm not good with crowds so chances are I'll be there as soon as possible after opening and leaving before it gets too busy lol.

Chams is a wonderful club - very relaxed and i have no problems with going on my own. I'm sure you'll have a great time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear whatever your more comfortable wearing ... when i go i tend to start off in a corset but take a few choices of outfits with me and get changed throughout the day

The last time we went it was for the red, white and blue party and the car park was full by 4pm so im guessing it gets quite busy pretty early

Swelsh

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

My wife will be wearing thong bikini. But to be fair anything but outside clothes goes. But if u just want to wear the towel most will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally this time I'm wearing a bikini. But wear what you're comfortable with. As Swelsh said, the car park will fill up pretty quickly so either go early or figure out somewhere else to park in advance!

It will be rammed, in honesty at things like this it's harder to play because the rooms fill up so quickly but it's a great social atmosphere and nothing to stop you arranging to meet people another time if you want a room and can't get one.

I usually go to these things as a single female and have a great time, everyone is friendly and you get chatting to all and sundry. I'll be the tall blonde with the pink bikini and heels on - feel free to come and say hi if you're feeling nervous! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since it is in the theme of a Beach Party, anything relating to the beach would do IMHO.

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

thanks guys. I usually feel most comfortable in a dress so i guess i'll have to figure out some variation... I'm not remotely shy and have no problem going on my own but it would be good to have some friendly faces saying hello...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at my pics if me costumes fa socials that night give ya a few ideas pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a look at my pics if me costumes fa socials that night give ya a few ideas pmsl xx "

Her eyes will hurt if she looks at your pictures.

Im going the boring bikini and sarong thing, with some nice underwear to change into later at night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a look at my pics if me costumes fa socials that night give ya a few ideas pmsl xx

Her eyes will hurt if she looks at your pictures.

Im going the boring bikini and sarong thing, with some nice underwear to change into later at night."

Sounds good ta me

Won't tell ya what I'm wearin other than the fact that part of it is designed fa 4 ta 8 year olds and a certain Scottish bint pissed herself because it fitted xx

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

well i've been looking and trying on and i think its going to be a bikini (i only own one) with a turquoise towelling beach dress over the top. i may take some nice undies for changing into.

don't be shy about saying hello - i'm certainly not! i'm a curvy with long dark hair.

and soapy, i think i prefer to wear less flammable fabrics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xx

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

It will be my first time at anything like the beach party although not Chams.

I am 100% sure that you'll feel at home in no time, never met anybody but nic people there!

If you want somebody to hold your hand for a while then feel free to hunt me out, I would be more than happy to do so.

Hope to meet you there

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I did not pmsl at Soapy's outfit. I was in too much shock!!

I'm dressing for a day at a British beach.... duffel coat, wellies and water wings

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

outfit sorted, early check in sorted, people who will say hi and not leave me feeling like norma no mates sorted! Next question... Taxi or drive from the hotel? I certainly don't intend to get sozzled, but i have heard that there will be cocktails on offer...

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"outfit sorted, early check in sorted, people who will say hi and not leave me feeling like norma no mates sorted! Next question... Taxi or drive from the hotel? I certainly don't intend to get sozzled, but i have heard that there will be cocktails on offer... "

Taxi.........

And come and find either myself, Femme, or Pearl Necklace and we'll look after you. We buddy up newcomers so you are never on your own.

p.s. I'll be the one behind the bar probably, looking frazzled and saying...."it's no wonder i never get a shag"

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


" I'll be the one behind the bar probably, looking frazzled and saying...."it's no wonder i never get a shag" "

lol maddie...you touting for shags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love chams ,Dan wants to live there,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i usually wear a corset and stockings but any nice under wear your feel comfy in is fine

it will be very busy all afternoon/night so the party will be none stop lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


" I'll be the one behind the bar probably, looking frazzled and saying...."it's no wonder i never get a shag"

lol maddie...you touting for shags "

Please dear...... anyone wanna pimp me out?

I end up running round like an idiot and never get approached and offered........ no one wants me

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By *he BananamanMan
over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE

it will be a great day whether the sun is shining or not,good job no work on monday for the majority of us.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


" I'll be the one behind the bar probably, looking frazzled and saying...."it's no wonder i never get a shag"

lol maddie...you touting for shags

Please dear...... anyone wanna pimp me out?

I end up running round like an idiot and never get approached and offered........ no one wants me "

We'll have to get you a shag card....you know, a bit like the dance cards that women used to have at balls way back when......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'll be the one behind the bar probably, looking frazzled and saying...."it's no wonder i never get a shag"

lol maddie...you touting for shags

Please dear...... anyone wanna pimp me out?

I end up running round like an idiot and never get approached and offered........ no one wants me "

What you mean LIKE an idiot? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this thread am perving whos going....apart from soapy tho...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On this thread am perving whos going....apart from soapy tho..."

Ha bloody ha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I end up running round like an idiot and never get approached and offered........ no one wants me "

You just don't stand still long enough for them to ask you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

grrrrrrrrrrrr we were there yesterday & had a wicked time ,,wish we were going tomorrow grrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"grrrrrrrrrrrr we were there yesterday & had a wicked time ,,wish we were going tomorrow grrrrrrrrrrrrr"

You mean Sunday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a newbie "

Me too xx

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"

Me too xx "

another keyboard bites the dust as I end up getting tea over it whilst laughing at this post.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Me too xx

another keyboard bites the dust as I end up getting tea over it whilst laughing at this post..... "

sounded more like pee than tea!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would gladly send the OP a face pic in advance, however, it appears you have blocked women.

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

still trying to figure out what I shall be wearing in the afternoon...will probably wear my normal old faithful comfy lacy number for later on...lol

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"

Me too xx

another keyboard bites the dust as I end up getting tea over it whilst laughing at this post.....

sounded more like pee than tea!!!"

hmph - you've just blown any chance you had, raise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dont tell me people have got various outfits, its taken me long enough to come to a decision on one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dont tell me people have got various outfits, its taken me long enough to come to a decision on one "

.

I shall be there as soon as the door is opened.

No point getting into my costume if I am going to go in and out of the jacuzzis until the majority starts to arrive, which is usually around 18:00h onwards.

Therefore, I shall wrap myself up in a towel until then.

Once the jacuzzis start to get busy and hands start to appear from nowhere, then I am out of there, and change into my costume, so that I can mingle with the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it til 6pm most will be in their towels anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dont tell me people have got various outfits, its taken me long enough to come to a decision on one

.

I shall be there as soon as the door is opened.

No point getting into my costume if I am going to go in and out of the jacuzzis until the majority starts to arrive, which is usually around 18:00h onwards.

Therefore, I shall wrap myself up in a towel until then.

Once the jacuzzis start to get busy and hands start to appear from nowhere, then I am out of there, and change into my costume, so that I can mingle with the others.

"

Yes thats a good idea Pearl.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I wont be getting dolled up til 7pm...its only cuz i stay at chams i change twice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might take something to change into now as well! Hmmm....trip to La Senza required.

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By *havenangel1Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

I have 2 outfits i shall wear them both if i get chance and there will be no towel in sight but then i don't use the amenities anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is minding someones pussys so wont be there.

but using this opportunity to say have a good time one and all. i know i will, I will be shagging and getting crumbs in certain peoples bed

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I would gladly send the OP a face pic in advance, however, it appears you have blocked women. "

sorry honey, but the first messages i got on site before i had completely set up my profile and likes etc were from a woman who then gave me grief cos i didn't want to meet her apparently liking bi men and not bi women makes me not a swinger and i should have gone for a dating site...

being stubborn i soon sussed out the site and the filters but it does make me wonder how many profiles are abandoned within a few hours because they are targeted by people who then berate them if they don't want to meet??

anyway honey, i'll look out for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes have a great night would be great if we who cant make it can have some photos of the occasion but I know thats not allowed but would be good for the fun and games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get ya sen to the nottingham beach! lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im not sure that once im in the outfit I was going to wear, that I could actually get out of it again

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Well im not sure that once im in the outfit I was going to wear, that I could actually get out of it again "

i'm sure you'll have plenty of offers of assistance... hee hee!

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"Well im not sure that once im in the outfit I was going to wear, that I could actually get out of it again "

We'll see about that!!!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are going, so look forward to see all thats there, come and say hi to just both xxxx

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By *unessexblMan
over a year ago

Colchester


"thanks guys. I usually feel most comfortable in a dress so i guess i'll have to figure out some variation... I'm not remotely shy and have no problem going on my own but it would be good to have some friendly faces saying hello..."

Wear a beach sarong Dress then and solve the problem..and if you want to see a friendly face then I am sure loads will smile when they see you in a nice beachh dress...I will when I get there.

David

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brought nothing x

Have something red if I decide to get home in time x

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I bought another outfit today.

Ssshhhhhh......... don't tell Jason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well im not sure that once im in the outfit I was going to wear, that I could actually get out of it again

We'll see about that!!!

X"

Ooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For this year's event, I bought a cheapo bikini top, as I don't fancy getting chaffed nipples again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For this year's event, I bought a cheapo bikini top, as I don't fancy getting chaffed nipples again! "

Lol Pearl Im not even gonna ask - oo go on then I cant stand it, how, who

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By *unessexblMan
over a year ago

Colchester


"For this year's event, I bought a cheapo bikini top, as I don't fancy getting chaffed nipples again! "

Surely cheap might chaff as well..but if you do will kiss them better for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For this year's event, I bought a cheapo bikini top, as I don't fancy getting chaffed nipples again!

Lol Pearl Im not even gonna ask - oo go on then I cant stand it, how, who "

.

Actually, no one, as it was too frigging busy!

I was wearing a Hawaiian shirt over a BBQ apron, and my nipples got chaffed rubbing against the fabrics!

I bought some nipple shields in readiness for the Beach Party, however, they are not very flattering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For this year's event, I bought a cheapo bikini top, as I don't fancy getting chaffed nipples again!

Surely cheap might chaff as well..but if you do will kiss them better for you

"

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Watch it, or I'll set Mark on you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bought another outfit today.

Ssshhhhhh......... don't tell Jason "

What's all this about different outfits! I was only planning to take one! Oh God.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ill only take one too so dont worry

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"I think ill only take one too so dont worry "

Not sure how long you'll be keeping that on

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am wearing a bikini tonight, probably red shoes and if I can find one, a scarf to put round my midriff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would gladly send the OP a face pic in advance, however, it appears you have blocked women.

sorry honey, but the first messages i got on site before i had completely set up my profile and likes etc were from a woman who then gave me grief cos i didn't want to meet her apparently liking bi men and not bi women makes me not a swinger and i should have gone for a dating site...

being stubborn i soon sussed out the site and the filters but it does make me wonder how many profiles are abandoned within a few hours because they are targeted by people who then berate them if they don't want to meet??

anyway honey, i'll look out for you."

I hope you reported them

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By *ishful.thinkingWoman
over a year ago

east london

Just up and already running frantically about trying to get organised, why do I only remember half the stuff as I head out the door

See all you lovely peoples in a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shall annoy femme et al and wear my red mock crocs!

If you see a small and chubby oriental women with almost white hair, wearing a pearl necklace, black bikinis, and a black apron with BBQueen written across it, wearing red mock crocs, that would be me!

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By *leaminglarssonCouple
over a year ago

ruslington

off to buy gleam a new bikini ffs this was meant to be a cheap day out lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

THE BEACH PARTY LIST IS NOW CLOSED

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

just waiting for my lift...see you lovely people in a few hours xx

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By *havenangel1Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Just getting my stuff together and jumping in the shower see you all later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I shall annoy femme et al and wear my red mock crocs!

If you see a small and chubby oriental women with almost white hair, wearing a pearl necklace, black bikinis, and a black apron with BBQueen written across it, wearing red mock crocs, that would be me! "

Im not sure Ill recognise you from that description Pearl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just waiting for my lift...see you lovely people in a few hours xx"

Looking forward to seeing you soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I shall annoy femme et al and wear my red mock crocs!

If you see a small and chubby oriental women with almost white hair, wearing a pearl necklace, black bikinis, and a black apron with BBQueen written across it, wearing red mock crocs, that would be me!

Im not sure Ill recognise you from that description Pearl "

Agreed... can we have a little more detail please or it's gonna be a struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

getting ready now see you all there xxx

only our 3rd visit to chams sounds like it should be a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We shall see you all in a couple of hours

Jai just getting ready working out which bikini to wear, got to love this type of event xx

Come say hi if you see us

Jai and Keith x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll be there about 6 I think. Nails are done - now to pack...

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

setting off in 10 minutes. see you all soon xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take me dancing naked in the rain

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By *leaminglarssonCouple
over a year ago

ruslington

just watching the celtic game we will be there about 4 ish

gleams has got a wonder women bikini lol

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