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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being a young single male in here its hard to find woman that want to meet!

I hardly ever get replies back on mails, i do have face pics and can send vids threw e-mail!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of ladies on here have children the same age as you. But there is plenty of variety. Welcome and enjoy.

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

Not really much better for us young couples but hang on in there. The abundance of single men on here means competition is rife. Its not an instant shag site.

Some users may suggest altering your profile or point to concentrating on a well thought out message. Watch for the replies.

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

Come to think of it, id remove the crap at the bottom of your profile. Those disclaimers are a passion killer for most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're all in the same boat,as single men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile doesn't say anything about what you like, what you're looking for and what you offer. With the abundance of single men on site, and the fact most of us have busy lives, personally, I'd rather a man with a full profile than one where I'd have to waste time emailing back and forth for basic info.

On a personal note, if I received a message from a single man and he didn't have a face pic on show, but he had a full face picture of a woman munching his knob I'd delete his message and block him...but that's just me!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Age is against you...but some people like younger guys, hang on in there and try to get to some socials.That way people can judge you on you,not just a number.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

ditto the comment about showing someones face on here, does beg the question does she know??

also you say for guys to stop messaging you but a very quick look shows you are friends with a bi m cpl?

perhaps thats why guys are contacting you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree put what you do and don't like on your profile, and also make sure you write bespoke emails to those you want to meet don't use the scattergun approach. Be polite spell correctly and most of all read the profiles your replying to don't send friend invites or just have cock pics on profile!! Don't ever send a cock pic either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that the profile needs a re write and that might be more the problem than your age. The pics also need updating and I'd advise you to take the one of the ladies face off unless you have her permission to display it on here.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Agree personally about pics. Very off putting.

Mistress x

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Agree personally about pics. Very off putting.

Mistress x"

+1

Awful pictures. Profile is about you and what you want.... not what you are able to offer.

Some will want you at your age, most won't but you've also limited your age border to 45, so you've cut out a percentage of the site.

Also, I read your user name as you were 19 but your profile says 21.

What age are you?

Look at your own profile and decide, if you were a woman, would you want to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was a woman I would most certainly want to meet me!! :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you take yourself out to dinner then take advantage of yourself?

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Assuming body is that of a lithe 21 year old then the ladies would appreciate seeing it.

Also a status update of 'pissed' is off putting, lots of people will play after a glass of wine, but rarely pissed.

There is also to some extent a thought that many have, that why is a 21 guy looking around on here? And not playing the local club/bar circuit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you take yourself out to dinner then take advantage of yourself?"

Yes, I would get myself so d*unk, use me for sex and never call again! And also remove myself as a friend on Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know women are put off by guys just after one thing but that's a complete lie because you can see based on comments and checking out the guys they've met up with and they actualy DO go for exactly what they say they don't want.

I'm not bothered about sex. I'd be happy just taking someone out for a drink right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know women are put off by guys just after one thing but that's a complete lie because you can see based on comments and checking out the guys they've met up with and they actualy DO go for exactly what they say they don't want.

I'm not bothered about sex. I'd be happy just taking someone out for a drink right now."

join a dating site then, probally get more sex too haha

to the op, maybe people are put off by the fact your main picture is just a cock, they probally seen one before and dont need to see lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/08/11 17:24:10]"

I am joined with other sites.

I was referencing the irony when girls say in their profile 'I hate guys after one thing don't message me saying fancy a shag because it's sleazy'.

Then you see their verification saying 'This girl is great she sucks like a dyson and i loved ploughing her tight wet pussy'.

Pure irony. They don't want to sound like a slut in their profile but their verification says otherwise.

Edited: I did say I didn't have any cock pics on here but then realised you were directing that at the original poster :P

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