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How to persuade wife or GF to get with a black guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh dear !!! if u have to get round her then do you really think its a great idea ?? i mean imagine doing something you really arent happy with just because your GF asks you to . I dont fancy lots of guys or girls and my hubbie goes with what ever makes me happy and visa versa x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

You can't persuade anyone to sleep with someone because you want them to.. That is not swinging that is called taking the piss.

If she does not want to sleep with someone don't force her!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

another topic that should probably be included on _nvictus list

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

"

I suggest you get a goldfish. They are much more simple-minded than even the feeblest human being, and are unlikely to object to anything you would like to involve them in - sexual or otherwise. And of course even if they're not keen, you'll never have any way of knowing, so it won't matter - sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

xx "

Yep i have a hint and tip

DONT

If ya have suggested it and she didn't jump at it it means NO and that is the most important word in swinging

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"another topic that should probably be included on _nvictus list

"

Just spotted it myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the above comments, don't try and force her, if she don't want to then leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

xx "

Only my opinion, but sounds like it's your fantasy and not hers so my hint/tip is to respect your girlfriends wishes on this one.

Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't be impressed if she wanted to do a Cleveland Steamer on you and pressure you to do it after you said no would you? so don't do the same..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

xx "

I'd also feel sorry for the guy, as he's obviously just going to be around to perform for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"another topic that should probably be included on _nvictus list

"

You beat me to it: was thinking the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone should never be forced or talked into doing something they normally wouldnt do or are prepare to do.

let the person decide what is right for them. anything else is bullying just to please your fantasys and possibly not hers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have someone who wants me as a surprise for the wife one nite...its just not on, I only play when the female half feels comfortable and more imprtantly ..LIKES me!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Once she had black she won't go back to you....

Think that's the saying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That'll be a 'no' then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

xx "

maybe if you let the black guy screw you first then maybe your girlfriend will come round to your way of thinking

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

4 days "out" and i come back to threads like this...... hhmmmm... maybe i should spend another 4 days away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 days "out" and i come back to threads like this...... hhmmmm... maybe i should spend another 4 days away "

Welcome back! x

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

xx "

Yes forget the idea its your fantasy and not hers

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

xx "

I have a tip.... if you keep this up you will be GF-less sooner rather than later.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

xx

Yes forget the idea its your fantasy and not hers"

mmmm now u can push urself against me at anytime hehehehehehee its MY fantasy lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

xx "

Get a different girlfriend who fancies the idea.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"4 days "out" and i come back to threads like this...... hhmmmm... maybe i should spend another 4 days away "

WB, xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I didn't make it clear that I was talking about a previous X girlfriend, as to make someone fulfill a fantasy, is hardly fulfilling. And for this I apologise.

I was merely asking for advice on how to bring it up in the future.

But many thanks for all those casting rocks in their swingers ivory tower.

I would love to see how different the responses had been if I had been listed as a couple!!! Cheers guys

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Sorry I didn't make it clear that I was talking about a previous X girlfriend, as to make someone fulfill a fantasy, is hardly fulfilling. And for this I apologise.

I was merely asking for advice on how to bring it up in the future.

But many thanks for all those casting rocks in their swingers ivory tower.

I would love to see how different the responses had been if I had been listed as a couple!!! Cheers guys "

The majority of the answers here were from singles, no one cast rocks,spit your dummy out all you want but there is a of of sound advice on here.

Rewriting your original post is just cowardly.You want to know how to get a woman to indulge u... u can't fantasies only work when they are shared.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

[Removed by poster at 04/06/11 08:50:18]

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Sorry I didn't make it clear that I was talking about a previous X girlfriend, as to make someone fulfill a fantasy, is hardly fulfilling. And for this I apologise.

I was merely asking for advice on how to bring it up in the future.

But many thanks for all those casting rocks in their swingers ivory tower.

I would love to see how different the responses had been if I had been listed as a couple!!! Cheers guys "

Sorry to burst whatever bubble you are living in, but the answers you got here, would have been the same wether it be from a single person or a couple. In a parnership, one would never try and persuade the other to do anything that the other didnt want to do, that isnt fun for both parties. To try and persuade or coherse someone to do something that isnt for them is a form of bully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I didn't make it clear that I was talking about a previous X girlfriend, as to make someone fulfill a fantasy, is hardly fulfilling. And for this I apologise.

I was merely asking for advice on how to bring it up in the future.

But many thanks for all those casting rocks in their swingers ivory tower.

I would love to see how different the responses had been if I had been listed as a couple!!! Cheers guys "

would the responses really have been different if you were listed as a couple? somehow doubt it

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By *itianmandyWoman
over a year ago

london


"Sorry I didn't make it clear that I was talking about a previous X girlfriend, as to make someone fulfill a fantasy, is hardly fulfilling. And for this I apologise.

I was merely asking for advice on how to bring it up in the future.

"

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..yes, of course you were

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Sorry I didn't make it clear that I was talking about a previous X girlfriend, as to make someone fulfill a fantasy, is hardly fulfilling. And for this I apologise.

I was merely asking for advice on how to bring it up in the future.

But many thanks for all those casting rocks in their swingers ivory tower.

I would love to see how different the responses had been if I had been listed as a couple!!! Cheers guys

Sorry to burst whatever bubble you are living in, but the answers you got here, would have been the same wether it be from a single person or a couple. In a parnership, one would never try and persuade the other to do anything that the other didnt want to do, that isnt fun for both parties. To try and persuade or coherse someone to do something that isnt for them is a form of bully. "

bullying*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I didn't make it clear that I was talking about a previous X girlfriend, as to make someone fulfill a fantasy, is hardly fulfilling. And for this I apologise.

I was merely asking for advice on how to bring it up in the future.

.

..yes, of course you were "

...and there's me thinking I was alone in my cynicism!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"oh dear !!! if u have to get round her then do you really think its a great idea ?? i mean imagine doing something you really arent happy with just because your GF asks you to . I dont fancy lots of guys or girls and my hubbie goes with what ever makes me happy and visa versa x"

Exactly K and mines philosophy too

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

I would love to see how different the responses had been if I had been listed as a couple!!! Cheers guys "

funny enough... go look back about two pages... and you'll see the answer...

they get the same short shrift....

actually... the only thing that would have changed in the advice that I wouls have given would have been to get a good lawyer if you kept pushing... as you would end up wife-less........

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Sorry I didn't make it clear that I was talking about a previous X girlfriend, as to make someone fulfill a fantasy, is hardly fulfilling. And for this I apologise.

I was merely asking for advice on how to bring it up in the future.

.

..yes, of course you were

...and there's me thinking I was alone in my cynicism! "

not only us also then...

there was a similar post to this the other day (think Fabio may be referring to it) and the advice given is pretty much the same.

what is it with some people and their attitude toward people they are meant to love and respect??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we are quite new to the forums and have only asked advice once. We found the advice very imformative from people who know what there talking about plus some that had us in stitches, so listen to what is being said and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

makes me wonder if she has already tried one

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If I was a black guy I would feel offended.

Tried one? Wanting her to try one?

The men are men, not new products on the market to test and try out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence meant from my angle at all.

Just humouring the guy who is trying to persuade.

I quite like black ladies - only tried one but would again

Been naked in front of naked black guys too.

Agreed we're not new products and that some prefer white or black.

I quite like a bit of or a lot of colour.

Some guys may be offended by people stating they only want BBC,don't bother me in the slightest,their choice.

So no offence to Fabio ! who seems a great guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I apologise to you all, there was no offence intended.... pure curiosity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

xx "

yeah my hint and tip is stop being such a bully, if she dont want to fuck a black guy why on earth would you be asking people on how to get her to? have you no respect for what your wife wants at all?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

xx "

Don't even go there.

Thats HER choice, NOT yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I didn't make it clear that I was talking about a previous X girlfriend, as to make someone fulfill a fantasy, is hardly fulfilling. And for this I apologise.

I was merely asking for advice on how to bring it up in the future.

But many thanks for all those casting rocks in their swingers ivory tower.

I would love to see how different the responses had been if I had been listed as a couple!!! Cheers guys "

Well it would seem you've answered your question in your last paragraph.

Why not list as a couple then there's a good chance you'll get your wish...... and with her consent.

Sorted! R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see on your profile you are st8.... would you be happy if she asked you to play with a guy or guys?.............you cant persuade your partner has to be her choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the past I have suggested the idea to my GF, but with no success. Does anyone have any hints or tips

I suggest you get a goldfish. They are much more simple-minded than even the feeblest human being, and are unlikely to object to anything you would like to involve them in - sexual or otherwise. And of course even if they're not keen, you'll never have any way of knowing, so it won't matter - sorted!

"

Animal cruelty though

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