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"We are numerous years experienced swingers cum doggers"Old skool"weve seen so many people cum&go on the scene&many changes,not allways for the better,things were so much simpler before the law of ettiquette was introduced by&this is the Question who?&who empowered them selves to decide how one should go about things when having sexy fun,whats right for one may not be right for others,for us their is one moralistic code of conduct,No means No,spoken of course&the rest of ones preferences or non Preferences talked about before&during fun,for us the art of comunication part of erotic fun&fantasy,call it good aural if you like&were it is couple&single,it makes things more relaxed if lady,makes her likes and dislikes know before&during play,always allowing for things could change&tactfully put of course,e.g after an intense orgasam my wifes pussy is to sensitive to be touched again for a while to which she has no qualms about letting who ever know,yet some think they are an exception,which brings us back to No means No! Do others find new cumers to the scene are confused by conflicting opinions "ettiquete"we say fuck the ettiquete and any one else that talks with us in the right manner,may get what they want?any conflicting opinions wede be interested to hear,its nice to share~go with the flow and have good vibes together " wow. confused much ![]() | |||
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"I don't think it's etiquette that has diminished over the past few years. I've noticed a distinct lack of respect from the newer, younger swingers. For instance. When I was a single women, if I saw a man I liked, I would talk to the woman. If a couple saw me and they liked me, the woman would talk to me. As a couple, single men talked to and gained the permission of the man to approach me.......etc. Now it seems to be a free for all. We were in a club the other day and hubby went off and played with a couple. No problem with that, except the woman completely blanked me afterwards and refused to look at me. Embarrassing for her hubby as he came and said thank you for me lending my hubby to them. Other couples has sent the woman in to speak to Jason with no thought for me and the single blokes think it's ok to just paw you without even saying hi. We've even had single women pounce on him in the jacuzzi without so much as an 'hello' to me. Swinging seems to revolve every few years between good and bad, respectful and disrespectful, odd couples and decent couples. I'm just hoping the lack of respect stage will be over soon." I do wonder if we are just lucky that the paid parties we go to are nothing like this. Everyone is polite and very sociable. Couples chat to couples. As we dont play separately or even swap neither of us would take kindly to being lept on in a spa or anywhere else and they would certainly be put in their place if they tried! ![]() | |||
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"..things were so much simpler before the law of ettiquette was introduced by&this is the Question who?&who empowered them selves to decide how one should go about things when having sexy fun.... ....Do others find new cumers to the scene are confused by conflicting opinions "ettiquete"we say fuck the ettiquete .... " I'm confused! The OP seems to be suggesting that there is now MORE etiquette... but then he goes on to describe the usual courteous approach (preferences respected, open communication, no means no, etc). If he really means that there is now a REDUCED standard of etiquette, I can only say that I haven't experienced it, either at the club I use or in home meets. But then again, I pick my playmates carefully ![]() | |||
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"I don't think it's etiquette that has diminished over the past few years. I've noticed a distinct lack of respect from the newer, younger swingers. For instance. When I was a single women, if I saw a man I liked, I would talk to the woman. If a couple saw me and they liked me, the woman would talk to me. As a couple, single men talked to and gained the permission of the man to approach me.......etc. Now it seems to be a free for all. We were in a club the other day and hubby went off and played with a couple. No problem with that, except the woman completely blanked me afterwards and refused to look at me. Embarrassing for her hubby as he came and said thank you for me lending my hubby to them. Other couples has sent the woman in to speak to Jason with no thought for me and the single blokes think it's ok to just paw you without even saying hi. We've even had single women pounce on him in the jacuzzi without so much as an 'hello' to me. Swinging seems to revolve every few years between good and bad, respectful and disrespectful, odd couples and decent couples. I'm just hoping the lack of respect stage will be over soon." I have to actually agree with what Maddy says. When I swung as part of a couple I did not like it if my other half was passed over or ignored by a male who wanted my attention. And vice versa it used to piss me off if females did the same. I used to find on MSN that talking to a female they would be fine until they knew it was me talking to them and not my other half. I used to say to my OH, well you fuck them as I am not interested, if they cannot hold a conversation with me how the hell do they expect me to fuck them. Its about having respect for a couple as a couple. If there is a guy or woman that I would play with, I like to make sure that I speak to their other half first. Just common decency. | |||
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"Seems they didnt want to know after all..... ![]() ...one less for the moans and rants department to process. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Seems they didnt want to know after all..... ![]() ![]() ![]() Bloody layabouts in that department never do any work anyway.i complained 3 weeks ago about the failure of the site to send a bi woman round and i haven't heard anything back! | |||
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"Seems they didnt want to know after all..... ![]() ![]() ![]() Well if I can't have two bi-women you're not bloody having one that's for sure!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Seems they didnt want to know after all..... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Typical, its all me me me! ![]() | |||
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"Seems they didnt want to know after all..... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() REQUEST FOR SINGLE BI FEMALE REJECTED: So ner! ![]() | |||
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"mmmm pointless exercise final rant i presume J x" It wasn't an official rant. They didn't end it 'anyway rant over' ![]() | |||
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"mmmm pointless exercise final rant i presume J x It wasn't an official rant. They didn't end it 'anyway rant over' ![]() You see, people just don't obey ettiquette anymore! ![]() | |||
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"oooooooo I love a good flounce me.... " Excuse me! I'm having the last word here! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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