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Ladies... Can anyone recommend a strap/on make and model?

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By *achiavellian_adventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

Hey Girls,

It's halfway to payday so time to treat myself to something nice! I've bought two strap-ons in the past and I've been pretty disappointed by their "performance". The straps have chaffed around my legs and waist and they've done little for me as the "giver".

Can anyone recommend a particular model that overcomes these issues? I was kind of tempted by the ones with inter-changeable heads (for pegging etc.). Any thoughts?

Many thanks in advance,

Flick xx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i bought the red rider one from love honey..i liked the strapping and the fact it was versatile/ interchangeable..trying it on it holds very firm....i felt it was a fair price for the product....however, i bought the pegging dildo to go with it but it needs a smaller o ring which i shall be able to fit to the original harness but doesnt come with either product ( the red rider dildo,looks a bit too threatening for the guys..they might run away..lolol) but, the women should love it x hope you find one that suits you..i guess its the interchangable o rings that i would look for, that and under the buttock both sides strapping...cos i like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is the lucky guys in your lives! Only experienced this once but I'd happily queue up again! Even for the red rider! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So wish I knew you 2 lady's. I'd enjoy you using G your strap-on on me xx

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I have a Doc Johnson vac u lock harness, I think it was off the Lovehoney site. I've struggled before with finding ones that fit well and this one is great. It has a wide corset style back strap that fits around the small of your back so there's much more support and it doesn't slip down as I found with other harnesses. Also you can change the o ring which means you can change dildos depending on what size you want. Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ages since I've had the chance to use my red rider. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I'd like to know this too, as I need to get a new one

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I brought mine from Sh! and have had the harness for a few years now. Just brought new dildo attachments for it, as and when I've needed.

Comfortable to wear and fully adjustable. They sell a range of dildos to suit most people's taste.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Actually I'd like to know this too, as I need to get a new one "

Hi can give you details of shop our last and best one came from, you could order from them, it's black supple leather and it's ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my thing at all,but curious to know,what's in it for the lady wearing the strap on ?

Is their a part that goes inside the wearer to give her pleasure,or is it all a mental stimulus.?

Not criticising,just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm currently looking for one too and tempted by the red rider?

Also love the look of the RodeoH crotchless pants on lovehoney!!

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics on my profile of my newest one. From love honey and is very comfortable to wear. Interchangeable too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toy joy strapless from love honey are brilliant pleasure for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have this one

Sportsheets

Features and Benefits:

Satin fabric, covered in black, chantilly lace

Lace-up corset-style back

4-way adjustable straps fits size 12 to 30 and adjusts up to 72” hips

Accommodates dildos with a flared base (Dildo not included)

Includes interchangeable metal O-rings: 1.75” (4.5cm), 2” (5cm)

Includes channel for bullet vibrator (Sold separately)

Hidden adjustable locks and place to stash extra strap

Handcrafted in the USA

Machine washable

got it from the pantie purse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I'd like to know this too, as I need to get a new one

Hi can give you details of shop our last and best one came from, you could order from them, it's black supple leather and it's ace "
. Do tell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the strapless version that u insert into you first...much better and no straps to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try the strapless version that u insert into you first...much better and no straps to deal with "
. Yeah I was wondering about those, any good then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not my thing at all,but curious to know,what's in it for the lady wearing the strap on ?

Is their a part that goes inside the wearer to give her pleasure,or is it all a mental stimulus.?

Not criticising,just curious."

Maybe my question was just too personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some rubber pants with a built in dildo on them. Great stability and very comfy to wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try the strapless version that u insert into you first...much better and no straps to deal with . Yeah I was wondering about those, any good then?"

Love mine...and no complaints so far...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had some rubber pants with a built in dildo on them. Great stability and very comfy to wear"

Very sweaty tho....lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

The EasyRider T1000 with automatic angle adjustment and laser guided docking

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Not my thing at all,but curious to know,what's in it for the lady wearing the strap on ?

Is their a part that goes inside the wearer to give her pleasure,or is it all a mental stimulus.?

Not criticising,just curious.

Maybe my question was just too personal "

i get pleasure from giving pleasure..penetration on a man or woman gives pleasure..just like anyone else ( i assume) i like to take them into plateaus of arousal and with men i love massaging their p spot, it gives powerful orgasms..it also can take them into sub space, that is very freeing for some men x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try the strapless version that u insert into you first...much better and no straps to deal with "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try the strapless version that u insert into you first...much better and no straps to deal with . Yeah I was wondering about those, any good then?"

They are brilliant alot better than one that have straps

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"Try the strapless version that u insert into you first...much better and no straps to deal with . Yeah I was wondering about those, any good then?

Love mine...and no complaints so far...lol "

I really couldn't get on with my one of these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have nice 8" black strap-on that very rarely gets used on me as it's difficult finding a female to use it on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shameless plug! If anyone in the northwest area (Liverpool/Manchester) wants to try using one I can offer myself for you to try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a Doc Johnson vac u lock harness, I think it was off the Lovehoney site. I've struggled before with finding ones that fit well and this one is great. It has a wide corset style back strap that fits around the small of your back so there's much more support and it doesn't slip down as I found with other harnesses. Also you can change the o ring which means you can change dildos depending on what size you want. Hope that helps "

I have this type with the realistic dildo- 8 inch - def recommend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try the strapless version that u insert into you first...much better and no straps to deal with . Yeah I was wondering about those, any good then?

Love mine...and no complaints so far...lol

I really couldn't get on with my one of these"
No, I couldn't either.

I'm happy satisfying him first, and then eventually he can penetrate me at a later point. Or before, perhaps.

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I'm happy using my feeldoe on the odd occasion i play with another lady

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Ive been recommended the babes n horny ones, they are a little out of my price range but look fabulous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just checked an mine is a Vac-u-lock too. Bought with a smaller size cock, beginner style.

I think the harness fitted well and stayed in place but I quickly learned that you have to wear knickers under it because of the nylon straps.

And as I said above, I would prefer to satisfy him first, then we can always get to the rest later.

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By *erfectlyPervertedCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Flick

Sh! have brilliant soft leather harnesses.

babes-n-horny are my favourite for dildos.

Don't skimp, purchase quality as it's going to be more comfortable and, also, last forever.

Tank Girl

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By *icpl81Couple
over a year ago

hednesford


"i have this one

Sportsheets

Features and Benefits:

Satin fabric, covered in black, chantilly lace

Lace-up corset-style back

4-way adjustable straps fits size 12 to 30 and adjusts up to 72” hips

Accommodates dildos with a flared base (Dildo not included)

Includes interchangeable metal O-rings: 1.75” (4.5cm), 2” (5cm)

Includes channel for bullet vibrator (Sold separately)

Hidden adjustable locks and place to stash extra strap

Handcrafted in the USA

Machine washable

got it from the pantie purse "

I also have this one! It's our 3rd strap-on harness but hit the jackpot this time! We use it with the lovehoney realistic dildo and my partner approves ALOT

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By *sVictoryWoman
over a year ago

HULL


"i have this one

Sportsheets

Features and Benefits:

Satin fabric, covered in black, chantilly lace

Lace-up corset-style back

4-way adjustable straps fits size 12 to 30 and adjusts up to 72” hips

Accommodates dildos with a flared base (Dildo not included)

Includes interchangeable metal O-rings: 1.75” (4.5cm), 2” (5cm)

Includes channel for bullet vibrator (Sold separately)

Hidden adjustable locks and place to stash extra strap

Handcrafted in the USA

Machine washable

got it from the pantie purse "

I have to say I've just found this one online and I am very, very tempted I love that it fits both bigger and smaller girls (and there's an even larger plus size one too which is brill!). You are naughty girls because I can feel myself leaning towards the 'checkout' button...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

strapped on "strap-ons" really don't work, too fragile to hump hard, they chafe, etc. Best are the types with a smaller insert-able end, though even they can "pop out", so do what "Prick" did for me to use mine . . he converted a leather "tango/g-string" to slide over the big knob and that is more comfortable to wear and allows me to hump pretty seriously . . his butt as well as wet, warm and willing cunnies!

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Westbourne park

Sounds great to me x

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

See our pics just bought one xx mmmm

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Westbourne park

Wow that looks lovely, you could use that on me any day x

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By *ovely kinkyCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I bought the red rider from love honey years ago and it's been great. It's fair to say I've used it a lot lol It fits great with all the strapping and this also ensures it holds firm. I've purchased different attachments from love honey and they fit great.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I brought mine from Sh! and have had the harness for a few years now. Just brought new dildo attachments for it, as and when I've needed.

Comfortable to wear and fully adjustable. They sell a range of dildos to suit most people's taste.

"

Us too. Had our harness kit for five years

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Sharon Sloan latex pants. Watch out for cheaper strapons which bruise your pubic bone

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I got ours from Sh Womenstore...

The Dickie 3 "head" - but obviously the strap part is down to your body shape- but the quality has always been superb for me - and lasted years so far.

It is more "centric" to women on women IMHO - but I can't recommend the Dickie 3 or the harnesses highly enough.

Flames

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By *achiavellian_adventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

Just to provide some feedback we opted for a Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Extra Support Supreme Harness with a Code Black 8 Inch Raging Hard-On Dildo... I can't wait to try it out on a cute girlie. It only cost £41 with some online codes... Hopefully a bargain!

Flick xxx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Please let us know what you think and I am also looking for some new ones. I'm looking for something bigger than the ones I have currently.

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By *achiavellian_adventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

Vac-u-lock seems to be the way to go; the attachments range from 6 to 16" for all sorts of applications and you only need the one harness!

Flick xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woah, has anyone seen the babes n horny website?.... I feel my wallet getting much lighter already...

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By *achiavellian_adventures OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

I've still not had a chance to test this out ! I'll post a review once I have.

Flick xx

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"i have this one

Sportsheets

Features and Benefits:

Satin fabric, covered in black, chantilly lace

Lace-up corset-style back

4-way adjustable straps fits size 12 to 30 and adjusts up to 72” hips

Accommodates dildos with a flared base (Dildo not included)

Includes interchangeable metal O-rings: 1.75” (4.5cm), 2” (5cm)

Includes channel for bullet vibrator (Sold separately)

Hidden adjustable locks and place to stash extra strap

Handcrafted in the USA

Machine washable

got it from the pantie purse

I also have this one! It's our 3rd strap-on harness but hit the jackpot this time! We use it with the lovehoney realistic dildo and my partner approves ALOT "

I've got this one and love it.

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