FabSwingers.com forum: How did you guys prepare for your first time sexual meet?

By *emaleinthedark OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Don't know if "prepare" is the right word

But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I showered and put on my best Dior Por homm'e shirt and after shave balm.. sand the Cure, Friday I'm in love at the top of my voice, while moisturising.. Looked in the mirror and made the shape of two pistols with my fingers.. fired off a single shot with my right hand while saying. "whooooo's the lucky lady" in my best American accent..

she could have at least bloody well turned up !!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

People r all different some ladies I've met one just wanted to jump straight into bed others took it slowely met once r twice before it happened . It's basically up to u just so long as u feel comfortable with each other . It's always nice if a lady dresses to impress but I've met ladies who don't like wearing clothes like that n just wore comfortable clothes . It's good to b excited about ur meet .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll I'm not one for watching porn movies n beleive me u won't need a movie to get going just cuddle up in bed n before long u will b enjoying urselfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally would dress and prepare the same as I would for a night out on the town - Dress to impress!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've should have read ur profile first n best of luck to u . Take it as slow as u like u seem to want a long term partner don't u . It would b better taking it slowely so ur both sure .

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

It's mostly been the same for us, we have met ladies out for a drink and if we got on well asked them if they wanted to come back to ours (and on one occasion hers) and once in private, things moved pretty fast.

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By *emaleinthedark OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Nah, I do not want a long term partner. Just a friend with benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with what feels right. Wear what you feel nice in, if that's comfy clothes, then fine. If you want to dress to impress, that's equally fine.

Be honest, if you're nervous, tell the person you're meeting. No shame in it.

The biggest tip I would give though, is not to have any pre-tense about what you want to happen. Just let it happen naturally. I'm sure you'll have fun

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By *emaleinthedark OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Just go with what feels right. Wear what you feel nice in, if that's comfy clothes, then fine. If you want to dress to impress, that's equally fine.

Be honest, if you're nervous, tell the person you're meeting. No shame in it.

The biggest tip I would give though, is not to have any pre-tense about what you want to happen. Just let it happen naturally. I'm sure you'll have fun

I guess it is nerve racking as it will be my first time with that particular sex.I just don't want to be shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm of the opinion that if it doesn't feel right. then don't.

Take whatever pace you want and dress whatever way pleases you the most.

Perhaps you could wear something special that makes YOU feel horny as hell and not just dress for the person you're meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was talking to her, she invited me so I did the stupid think of getting a shirt and trousers on....

Within ten mins she spotted I wasn't comfortable in shirts and crap and told me off for not being myself bless her. so to my mind, wear what you wear normally and be yourself totally, no airs or graces, just go as if your popping to a mates or whatever

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I showered and put on my best Dior Por homm'e shirt and after shave balm.. sand the Cure, Friday I'm in love at the top of my voice, while moisturising.. Looked in the mirror and made the shape of two pistols with my fingers.. fired off a single shot with my right hand while saying. "whooooo's the lucky lady" in my best American accent..

she could have at least bloody well turned up !!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaved or epilated all over. Days before I would have been planning what to wear.

Hours making myself look, feel and smell my best.

Oh and douche. Never forget to douche

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

We start with a garlic chicken balti Followed by a 3.4 mile jog, no shower. Get dressed via the contents of our wash basket. Turn up 2 hours late absolutely smashed. If they still fancy it then you know you've got a keeper X

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By *emaleinthedark OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Shaved or epilated all over. Days before I would have been planning what to wear.

Hours making myself look, feel and smell my best.

Oh and douche. Never forget to douche

Isn't douching bad for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shaved or epilated all over. Days before I would have been planning what to wear.

Hours making myself look, feel and smell my best.

Oh and douche. Never forget to douche

Isn't douching bad for you?"

I take probiotic pills. I have to clean out the lower part of it to avoid accidents and horrid smells. I don't clean deeply.

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By *tickyfingers.24Man
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"We start with a garlic chicken balti Followed by a 3.4 mile jog, no shower. Get dressed via the contents of our wash basket. Turn up 2 hours late absolutely smashed. If they still fancy it then you know you've got a keeper X

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Wear whatever makes you feel at your best. Don't expect too much for a first meeting, just take your time and enjoy.

This is coming from a man who is beside himself with excitement for a long planned meeting at the weekend .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relaxed fun confident atmosphere far more sexually charged than a panicked nervous person.

Dress to impress. Put some effort in. Just as you'd expect from your partner.

Go. Have fun. Be flirtatious and exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rushed through the green nothing to declare channel as fast as possible. Bought a rather crappy bottle of red wine whizzed down the M4. And the rest... well

it worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have a shower and brush teeth...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know if "prepare" is the right word

But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?

I'm nervous, but excited. Should I wear anything? Do I just wear anything comfortable and regarding getting down to the sex part, did you guys just go for it, or was it like a gradual process? Eg. getting comfortable first, watching a movie etc...."
you meeting a woman ? I imagine it will be very sexy as long as one of you takes the lead, with breasts as sexy as yours something low cut and smile god wish I was there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know if "prepare" is the right word

But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?

I'm nervous, but excited. Should I wear anything? Do I just wear anything comfortable and regarding getting down to the sex part, did you guys just go for it, or was it like a gradual process? Eg. getting comfortable first, watching a movie etc.... you meeting a woman ? I imagine it will be very sexy as long as one of you takes the lead, with breasts as sexy as yours something low cut and smile god wish I was there x

Cold shower for you mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know if "prepare" is the right word

But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?

I'm nervous, but excited. Should I wear anything? Do I just wear anything comfortable and regarding getting down to the sex part, did you guys just go for it, or was it like a gradual process? Eg. getting comfortable first, watching a movie etc.... you meeting a woman ? I imagine it will be very sexy as long as one of you takes the lead, with breasts as sexy as yours something low cut and smile god wish I was there x

Cold shower for you mate

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I'm on night's tonight can't sleep now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know if "prepare" is the right word

But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?

I'm nervous, but excited. Should I wear anything? Do I just wear anything comfortable and regarding getting down to the sex part, did you guys just go for it, or was it like a gradual process? Eg. getting comfortable first, watching a movie etc.... you meeting a woman ? I imagine it will be very sexy as long as one of you takes the lead, with breasts as sexy as yours something low cut and smile god wish I was there x

Cold shower for you mate

I'm on night's tonight can't sleep now x

Lol I've just finished nights today sat here with a Budweiser mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know if "prepare" is the right word

But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?

I'm nervous, but excited. Should I wear anything? Do I just wear anything comfortable and regarding getting down to the sex part, did you guys just go for it, or was it like a gradual process? Eg. getting comfortable first, watching a movie etc.... you meeting a woman ? I imagine it will be very sexy as long as one of you takes the lead, with breasts as sexy as yours something low cut and smile god wish I was there x

Cold shower for you mate

I'm on night's tonight can't sleep now x

Lol I've just finished nights today sat here with a Budweiser mmmmm"
awwww damn I'm gonna have a Budweiser anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear the clothes that make you feel good, whatever that may be. Knowing I have sexy underwear on gives me a boost, even if I'm wearing jeans.

You'll know pretty quickly if you want it to 'progress':- I'm a great believer in that elusive spark. If you feel it ignite, go with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sharpened the tools

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know if "prepare" is the right word

But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?

I'll let you know when we get one.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Had a shit, shower, shave, and made sure I remembered the condoms.

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over a year ago

"Had a shit, shower, shave, and made sure I remembered the condoms.

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By *emaleinthedark OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Don't know if "prepare" is the right word

But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?

I'm nervous, but excited. Should I wear anything? Do I just wear anything comfortable and regarding getting down to the sex part, did you guys just go for it, or was it like a gradual process? Eg. getting comfortable first, watching a movie etc.... you meeting a woman ? I imagine it will be very sexy as long as one of you takes the lead, with breasts as sexy as yours something low cut and smile god wish I was there x

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By *emaleinthedark OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I guess I'm just nervous as hell as I've never slept with a female before. I just don't want to be shit.

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By *amManJamMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Get washed, fresh trim, dance around sans pants (helicopter dick is never not funny), take advice from The Inbetweeners (tactical banks can calm you down a treat) put on comfy boxers and jeans and saunter off into the distance without muttering (don't make an arse of yourself). Job done, ritual complete.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Don't know if "prepare" is the right word

But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?

My first sexual meet there were 4 of us 2 boys 2 girls we had found a discarded porn mag and we had a place we used to go to hang out so we went there and looked through the mag then proceeded to try all the stuff we had seen in the mag I WAS 9

so were the others so I guess the moral of the story is do not discard things that innocent minds can find

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

"I guess I'm just nervous as hell as I've never slept with a female before. I just don't want to be shit."

It's understandable because it's a first meeting but I am sure when you are in each other's arms the juices will flow and intuition will take over. Just remember to enjoy it and not to worry.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wet wipe to the balls throw on some old spice and munch a few tic tacs boom ready

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