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By *ibertine_Lifestyle OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheerness

So, what gives you those twinges of jealousy and how do you deal with it? I met my boyfriend on another site and introduced him to the lifestyle. I would say we are soft swap swingers as he said he is happy to play but not interested in fucking anyone else and has said he wouldn't like me doing the same. He loves fucking me whilst I'm playing with a girl or sucking another boy but if he's not involved in what I'm doing he gets a little jealous and is always really cuddly and romantic the day after. I've told him if he ever wanted to take a break from the scene we could and I would be more than happy with just him

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

It's fantastic you are talking about things ,communication is VITAL!

However jealousy has no place in swinging . You have to have a rock solid relationship to swing ,any cracks and they will be made worse.

Do the right thing for yourselves (only you and him will know what that is) as it's not worth risking your relationship in the long term . Hubby's and I have always went with the mantra it takes two yes's for anything to happen and only one no to stop it .

Good luck to the both of you and be happy what ever you decide x

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

My partner has never got Jealous of me playing, though I would with him, selfish I know, but it seems to work for us, him being a Voyeur and me a player

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I seem to have been born without the jealousy gene.

I have no idea how people swing if they get jealous.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

So are you saying that you want to play alone OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's fantastic you are talking about things ,communication is VITAL!

However jealousy has no place in swinging . You have to have a rock solid relationship to swing ,any cracks and they will be made worse.

Do the right thing for yourselves (only you and him will know what that is) as it's not worth risking your relationship in the long term . Hubby's and I have always went with the mantra it takes two yes's for anything to happen and only one no to stop it .

Good luck to the both of you and be happy what ever you decide x"

Now that is brilliant and how it should be....all about communication

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I seem to have been born without the jealousy gene.

I have no idea how people swing if they get jealous."

same here lol

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I am another who seems to be devoid of jealously. I simply don't understand most circumstances in which other people experience it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The slightest bit of jealousy will wreck a relationship if your swinging as a couple.

Also if during a meet you start to feel the jealousy rising please remember there are other people in the room with you so best not to start an argument with your partner as this will end up really embarrassing for everyone concerned (we have witnessed this scenario & it was not nice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner has never got Jealous of me playing, though I would with him, selfish I know, but it seems to work for us, him being a Voyeur and me a player "

That's pretty much how and why I'm a cuck. Tried it once but it's not for us and at the end of the day that's the important thing us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go walk the dog,wash up,hoover,bleach the kitchen

Doesn't stop me but stops me from saying something

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"My partner has never got Jealous of me playing, though I would with him, selfish I know, but it seems to work for us, him being a Voyeur and me a player

That's pretty much how and why I'm a cuck. Tried it once but it's not for us and at the end of the day that's the important thing us."

I have always found with any cucks I have played with, they have never been able resist or stay to the rules. There is always something that has him overeager - it takes a serious amount of restraint not to participate I find. It's a great tease all round.

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By *ibertine_Lifestyle OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheerness

Thanks for all the replies, yeah I think that I need to talk to him properly about it. Surprisingly he doesn't get jealous with a ffm threesome haha! But sometimes I just want 2 cocks I find mmf works better with boys you are not in a relationship with xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner has never got Jealous of me playing, though I would with him, selfish I know, but it seems to work for us, him being a Voyeur and me a player

That's pretty much how and why I'm a cuck. Tried it once but it's not for us and at the end of the day that's the important thing us.

I have always found with any cucks I have played with, they have never been able resist or stay to the rules. There is always something that has him overeager - it takes a serious amount of restraint not to participate I find. It's a great tease all round. "
That's where the cage comes in lol

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Jealousy is Negative and natural emotion for some. Nothing to be wary of. You guys do whatever you feel is beneficial and sexy for you both X

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