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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? " Just the same as a single straight male meeting a couple I'm not averse to close contact with another man, but I'd expect that we were both there to pleasure the female half of the couple | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? " Just as a straight man (or rather a bi man who plays straight) can have fun with a straight couple, then so can a straight lady. | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? " Some couples have the fantasy of the guy watching his partner with another fem, it's probably a fairly common first step into swinging. Kim is bi but enjoys seeing me fuck another women, she prefers it to meeting a couple, so a straight fem would work for us, but we could be in the minority | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? " "She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Sit on his face,get the toys out,start filming.had this woman no imagination!? | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? " Absolutely it's possible and nothing wrong with a straight woman playing with a couple. This rings true for most straight men in couples that meet a single man to have a MMF where all the attention is on the woman. This is simply the reverse and can see many couples would like this. Personally, it is not something we are currently into, in the same way that we are not interested in single men. Lizzie doesn't like the idea of a MMF as it is totally for her pleasure. Even though I would still enjoy. And I don't like the idea of a MFF where it is all about my pleasure, even though she would still enjoy. For us, it is about us both participating which we get the most enjoyment, hence why we go for couples and prefer MFF with Bi-females. Not to say that is always going to be the case, but that is our current situation and would definitely say your requirement is not strange and quite normal. It's just not for everyone. Good luck with your search and from looking at the thread, you really will not have to look too hard or far to find a couple to enjoy a MFF with. And a hot couple at that! xx | |||
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"When we are looking our preference is a straight woman, we are both straight but I like to watch Mr Curious play with another lady as well as me! We've only met one straight lady to play with as yet, Most ladies don't want to play with a married man, be watched with a married man or share Mrs Curious " I'd be interested... is he fit | |||
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"Wow thanks for all your replies. I'm now 'unmiffed' I just couldn't understand why she'd messaged me as her whole profile read that she only wanted a woman to play with. Her partner would only peep round the door to watch unless invited in by the visiting female! Anyway, I've now got some pretty hot scenarios in my head.....just need a bunch of courage to carry them out " Well equally you could question her requirements because there's a number of women that would go for this. However, I think the majority of women would either prefer they play alone with her or that her fella joins in and doesn't peep around the door watching. Some would find that uncomfortable. Nevertheless, that is what is giving them a kick in their swinging journey. It should be respected and not judged in exactly the same way that she shouldn't judge what you want. Good luck and share those scenarios you kinky bugger xx | |||
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"When we are looking our preference is a straight woman, we are both straight but I like to watch Mr Curious play with another lady as well as me! We've only met one straight lady to play with as yet, Most ladies don't want to play with a married man, be watched with a married man or share Mrs Curious I'd be interested... is he fit " He isn't bad! His leg isn't hurting any more and he still enjoys a peroni!! | |||
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"We'd be happy enough meeting a straight woman with open minds of that I'd it came down to playing and the lady in question wanted to try or we got a bit carried away then fair does and if she wasn't keen but still wanted to play I'm not adverse to watching mr enjoy himself with another lady. Granted that's us though just ignore them and move on " Fully agree! | |||
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"When we are looking our preference is a straight woman, we are both straight but I like to watch Mr Curious play with another lady as well as me! We've only met one straight lady to play with as yet, Most ladies don't want to play with a married man, be watched with a married man or share Mrs Curious I'd be interested... is he fit He isn't bad! His leg isn't hurting any more and he still enjoys a peroni!! " Hahaha... he sounds like a good un - well my type. I do like a guy that can enjoy a peroni | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? " we would love a woman in a 3 the same way we love a man im not bi tho not adverse to a kiss or boob play..but so.frw straight girls around looking for couples keep looking you will end up with offers coming out of your ears!! | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? we would love a woman in a 3 the same way we love a man im not bi tho not adverse to a kiss or boob play..but so.frw straight girls around looking for couples keep looking you will end up with offers coming out of your ears!! " Not sure if I totally get the ladies that do a little bit with the ladies and state they are straight or not bi. I've seen the tag of bi-playful (along with the obvious bicurious and bisexual) which we were explained to (by the bi-playful girls) as girls that play with girls for the enjoyment of their partners only. You don't indicate that you are doing this for your partners enjoyment. Maybe there's another bi-?tag to be coined. | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? " couples I think get a little bit frustrated trying to find a bi woman to meet them mainly because the impetuous is from the guy and he does all the talking and many also so I'm told don't want an inexperienced woman hey I would have you either way you look lovely | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? " 2 straight women and one straight guy sounds damn good to me. You may find things would develop between the 2 women, starting with an accidental touch etc. It may or may not lead to more. It will be a very lucky couple that get to meet you. Your profile and pics are very sexy. Have fun | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? we would love a woman in a 3 the same way we love a man im not bi tho not adverse to a kiss or boob play..but so.frw straight girls around looking for couples keep looking you will end up with offers coming out of your ears!! Not sure if I totally get the ladies that do a little bit with the ladies and state they are straight or not bi. I've seen the tag of bi-playful (along with the obvious bicurious and bisexual) which we were explained to (by the bi-playful girls) as girls that play with girls for the enjoyment of their partners only. You don't indicate that you are doing this for your partners enjoyment. Maybe there's another bi-?tag to be coined. " mainly i havent had the e perience to say im fully bi i am attracted to boobs and love playing with them but not sure if i want to go further if i change my profile.to say im bi it sounds like im fully committed to playing with girls im my mind which im not but im not adverse to trying x | |||
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"We'd be happy enough meeting a straight woman with open minds of that I'd it came down to playing and the lady in question wanted to try or we got a bit carried away then fair does and if she wasn't keen but still wanted to play I'm not adverse to watching mr enjoy himself with another lady. Granted that's us though just ignore them and move on Fully agree!" i.agreex | |||
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"Interesting.....I have met cpls when the male is bi and is happy to watch me with lady......and I am ok with that........ I know he migh like me sexually and take that as a compliment but I wouldn't play with him if that makes sensev" Makes perfect sense. I'm bi and have had mmf where the guy was straight and guess what? I didn't touch him. Both of us were more interested in pleasuring the lady. Our pre meet conversations sorted out the boundaries and ground rules so it was all good with no iffy business. | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? we would love a woman in a 3 the same way we love a man im not bi tho not adverse to a kiss or boob play..but so.frw straight girls around looking for couples keep looking you will end up with offers coming out of your ears!! Not sure if I totally get the ladies that do a little bit with the ladies and state they are straight or not bi. I've seen the tag of bi-playful (along with the obvious bicurious and bisexual) which we were explained to (by the bi-playful girls) as girls that play with girls for the enjoyment of their partners only. You don't indicate that you are doing this for your partners enjoyment. Maybe there's another bi-?tag to be coined. mainly i havent had the e perience to say im fully bi i am attracted to boobs and love playing with them but not sure if i want to go further if i change my profile.to say im bi it sounds like im fully committed to playing with girls im my mind which im not but im not adverse to trying x" totally get that as I know lots of women also state straight but are bi and don't want to be inundated. If I was a fab profile consultant (now I'd love that job), I'd suggest putting bi-curious but a little more meat about it in your profile. Or we can campaign for the addition of bi-maybe, where it's not deemed curious. | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? we would love a woman in a 3 the same way we love a man im not bi tho not adverse to a kiss or boob play..but so.frw straight girls around looking for couples keep looking you will end up with offers coming out of your ears!! Not sure if I totally get the ladies that do a little bit with the ladies and state they are straight or not bi. I've seen the tag of bi-playful (along with the obvious bicurious and bisexual) which we were explained to (by the bi-playful girls) as girls that play with girls for the enjoyment of their partners only. You don't indicate that you are doing this for your partners enjoyment. Maybe there's another bi-?tag to be coined. " I am bi-playful. And no, I don't do it to help my husband get off! Meaning I am OK if the woman wants to play with me in a group situation, but it doesn't mean that I may wish to play with her, sometimes I do most times I won't, as I find women are just too gentle and tentative for me. So I identify more as straight, it is fairer that way I think. | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? we would love a woman in a 3 the same way we love a man im not bi tho not adverse to a kiss or boob play..but so.frw straight girls around looking for couples keep looking you will end up with offers coming out of your ears!! Not sure if I totally get the ladies that do a little bit with the ladies and state they are straight or not bi. I've seen the tag of bi-playful (along with the obvious bicurious and bisexual) which we were explained to (by the bi-playful girls) as girls that play with girls for the enjoyment of their partners only. You don't indicate that you are doing this for your partners enjoyment. Maybe there's another bi-?tag to be coined. I am bi-playful. And no, I don't do it to help my husband get off! Meaning I am OK if the woman wants to play with me in a group situation, but it doesn't mean that I may wish to play with her, sometimes I do most times I won't, as I find women are just too gentle and tentative for me. So I identify more as straight, it is fairer that way I think." | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? we would love a woman in a 3 the same way we love a man im not bi tho not adverse to a kiss or boob play..but so.frw straight girls around looking for couples keep looking you will end up with offers coming out of your ears!! Not sure if I totally get the ladies that do a little bit with the ladies and state they are straight or not bi. I've seen the tag of bi-playful (along with the obvious bicurious and bisexual) which we were explained to (by the bi-playful girls) as girls that play with girls for the enjoyment of their partners only. You don't indicate that you are doing this for your partners enjoyment. Maybe there's another bi-?tag to be coined. I am bi-playful. And no, I don't do it to help my husband get off! Meaning I am OK if the woman wants to play with me in a group situation, but it doesn't mean that I may wish to play with her, sometimes I do most times I won't, as I find women are just too gentle and tentative for me. So I identify more as straight, it is fairer that way I think." Well this was what two bi-playful women (on different occasions) explained to us. So you've now just blown the whole bi-playful definition out of the water with a different spin. I know some people don't liked their sexuality to be defined but personally I see it for the most part as Straight - (Bicurious) - Bisexual - (Bicurious) - Gay. Regardless of whether you choose to play with both sexes you're either Bicurious or Bisexual? Would be interested to hear other people's views on this and think it's a good debate. Going to check the threads... | |||
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"I've recently changed my preferences to looking for couples as well as men. I am straight but am not adverse to trying something with a woman. Let's just say I'm curiously bi-curious. It doesn't repulse me. Anyway, I'm a bit miffed. I've had a message from a woman looking for a female to play with while her partner watched. When I pointed out I was straight and this wasn't something I was looking for, she said well why look for a couple then?? Am I wrong in thinking that only bi women can meet couples? She said what do expect the female half of the couple to do whilst I'm playing with the man then?! Surely straight women have enjoyable meets with couples??? Thoughts anyone? " You should have said watch like your expecting him too | |||
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