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gangbang in a club but some guys I really don't want to play with..I don't know how to deal

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By *urvyemma OP   Woman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton

Ok..so I fancy the idea of a gangbang, free for all , me and loads of men in a club. .I have done this before to an extent.

However, sometimes at the clubs there are certain men I just don't want to play with..maybe I just find them very unattractive, or they weird me out or its just something I don't go for..like skin colour or moustache. How do you go about having a gang bang but then going 'hang on..not you!' to some poor bloke?

I always worry about offending people but don't want to end up being touched intimately by someone I am not comfortable with.

Am aware this is a ridiculous first world swinging problem

Does anyone kind of know what I mean and where I am coming from?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go."

This exactly pick your guys go to a private room, problem solved x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go."

Exactly this , and if it occurs in an open playroom ask a couple of the participants to Marshall the guys . Thus preventing the ones you don't want from joining in . Don't worry about upsetting people , it's your fun and you don't owe anyone anything .

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By *4STYWoman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go."

Yep I agree. I've never done a big gang bang but did had 4, 5 guys together and picked them all. Not interested in playing with guys I don't fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've thought the same, would feel terrible inviting one guy but not the one stood next to him

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By *otwifeforyou1978Couple
over a year ago

Telford

Why not set up your own gangbang say in a hotel and vet all the males

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

or perhaps take a trusted friend and get them to "watch" for you. If that were possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get a friend to tell them .. in our case Mr knows who I would like and Not and sends them over .

I have however never really had an issue telling people no x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Wow. Err... Some good advice on this thread...

*adjusts collar as it seems rather warm all of a sudden*

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By *cissorhands124Couple
over a year ago

Rochdale

Wear a blindfold or just tell the ones you don't want not to touch!! Easy peasy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get white and british only tatooed on your inner thigh maybe??

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By *arymore1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Get white and british only tatooed on your inner thigh maybe??"
She is as entitled to want that as others are to ask for black only

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By *he TrunkMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's like being last one picked at football all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get white and british only tatooed on your inner thigh maybe?? She is as entitled to want that as others are to ask for black only"
exactly that's kinda my point

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By *urvyemma OP   Woman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton


"Get white and british only tatooed on your inner thigh maybe??"

Maybe I could write a list on my thighs with black marker. .no moustaches or piercings either..

Good suggestion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get white and british only tatooed on your inner thigh maybe??

Maybe I could write a list on my thighs with black marker. .no moustaches or piercings either..

Good suggestion!"

only works if the daft fuckers can read lol

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By *urvyemma OP   Woman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton


"Get white and british only tatooed on your inner thigh maybe??

Maybe I could write a list on my thighs with black marker. .no moustaches or piercings either..

Good suggestion!

only works if the daft fuckers can read lol"

Ha..well if fab is anything to go by that doesn't bode well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get white and british only tatooed on your inner thigh maybe??

Maybe I could write a list on my thighs with black marker. .no moustaches or piercings either..

Good suggestion!

only works if the daft fuckers can read lol

Ha..well if fab is anything to go by that doesn't bode well! "

Don't write it in capitals.

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By *urvyemma OP   Woman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton


"Get white and british only tatooed on your inner thigh maybe??

Maybe I could write a list on my thighs with black marker. .no moustaches or piercings either..

Good suggestion!

only works if the daft fuckers can read lol

Ha..well if fab is anything to go by that doesn't bode well!

Don't write it in capitals. "

Ha ha!

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By *andS CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It's tricky if you are alone. We visit clubs for guys to gangbang my wife but for us it's easy as I simply say "Sorry no" to anyone we don't want.

If it's a public room then just ear a blindfold and just let yourself go.

Invite guys individually into a private room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a "wingman" to do the marshalling.

I have twice in the past taken a good friend to a club (chams) because she fancied a "good banging".

We went in the jacuzzi waited for the inevitable crowd to assemble. She tipped me the wink as to who was yes/no ....placed her arms on my shoulders and her ass to the centre. The guys had to ask my permission to play and I also made sure they were "gloved up"..... We never had any trouble.

Not something you should try to do on your own, without support.

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By *urvyemma OP   Woman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton


"Take a "wingman" to do the marshalling.

I have twice in the past taken a good friend to a club (chams) because she fancied a "good banging".

We went in the jacuzzi waited for the inevitable crowd to assemble. She tipped me the wink as to who was yes/no ....placed her arms on my shoulders and her ass to the centre. The guys had to ask my permission to play and I also made sure they were "gloved up"..... We never had any trouble.

Not something you should try to do on your own, without support."

Ooo that sounds horny way to go about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get a friend to tell them .. in our case Mr knows who I would like and Not and sends them over .

x "

This - Normally we'll have looked around the club and I'll have pointed out to Mr Ox guys I'd be happy to play with - and then when it gets started he knows the type of guy I'll like and invites them to play till I say I've had enough- and he's used to "being assertive" with people who aren't welcome and who try to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a "wingman" to do the marshalling.

I have twice in the past taken a good friend to a club (chams) because she fancied a "good banging".

We went in the jacuzzi waited for the inevitable crowd to assemble. She tipped me the wink as to who was yes/no ....placed her arms on my shoulders and her ass to the centre. The guys had to ask my permission to play and I also made sure they were "gloved up"..... We never had any trouble.

Not something you should try to do on your own, without support.

Ooo that sounds horny way to go about it!"

Shame you are so far away really....unless you fancy a trip down to Xtasia or similar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry mate. Not for me. Simples what's he going to do? Start shouting burn the witch and gather a posse.

Seriously just say no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had a few girlie gangbangs upstairs in chams the girls played while the partners watched they could look but not touch and at the end it was a bit of a free for all and we had Karl on the door keeping guard. What a night, nights like this is why I keep coming back xxx

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By *RH and HRNCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"or perhaps take a trusted friend and get them to "watch" for you. If that were possible"

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By *ealfunCouple
over a year ago

darleston


"or perhaps take a trusted friend and get them to "watch" for you. If that were possible

"

Our best expriences have been at a club where an assertive dom friend has put her in bondage in the dungeon room and then allowed all selected to enjoy her in a controlled manner......wonderful worry free experiences for both of us.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Get white and british only tatooed on your inner thigh maybe??"

Sexual preference has nothing to do with racism, don't imply that it does.

Don't have a meet with anybody looking for BBC if you feel that strongly about it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But but but but but........ It's a gangbang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slumps shoulders and goes to back of queue again

awwwwwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I paid my £ 40 to get in. I'm entitled to join in....... surely.... uhoh the bouncers on the way. Better skiddadle.

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Plenty of good advice here Emma, take a trusted buddy who can look out for you.

Our suggestion would be to pick who you like and go to a private room, there are a few clubs in our area that are good to go to that single males attend.

Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive seen this - a couple of girls going round and asking guys over the early part of the evening and then going off when appropriate etc - dont ever play with someone you have no desire to xxx

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go."

this. Or ask someone you trust to be the 'security'. A friend or someone, just to loom out for u. Miss C. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be a pain I have dome this a few times and even when I've said no to some guys they still insist on hanging about

I remember one time I was in a club happily playing with four guys, a few watching which was fine then in guy just pushed his way in and tried to stick his cock in my mouth I told his to bugger off but he just stayed by my head wanking, I asked him to go away but he refused he said it was an open room and he could sit where he wanted, so I moved to the other side of the bed but he followed again sitting very close wanking 2inch from my face, I asked him again to go away but again he said he could sit where he liked, because he wasn't touching he thought that was fine to wank right in my face, so I just got up and left put stop to everybody playing

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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago

Inverness


"It can be a pain I have dome this a few times and even when I've said no to some guys they still insist on hanging about

I remember one time I was in a club happily playing with four guys, a few watching which was fine then in guy just pushed his way in and tried to stick his cock in my mouth I told his to bugger off but he just stayed by my head wanking, I asked him to go away but he refused he said it was an open room and he could sit where he wanted, so I moved to the other side of the bed but he followed again sitting very close wanking 2inch from my face, I asked him again to go away but again he said he could sit where he liked, because he wasn't touching he thought that was fine to wank right in my face, so I just got up and left put stop to everybody playing"

Erm... did none of the other guys there not think of telling him to do one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be a pain I have dome this a few times and even when I've said no to some guys they still insist on hanging about

I remember one time I was in a club happily playing with four guys, a few watching which was fine then in guy just pushed his way in and tried to stick his cock in my mouth I told his to bugger off but he just stayed by my head wanking, I asked him to go away but he refused he said it was an open room and he could sit where he wanted, so I moved to the other side of the bed but he followed again sitting very close wanking 2inch from my face, I asked him again to go away but again he said he could sit where he liked, because he wasn't touching he thought that was fine to wank right in my face, so I just got up and left put stop to everybody playing

Erm... did none of the other guys there not think of telling him to do one? "

I was on my own I wasn't with any of the other guys so why would they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go."

you're in charge pick your fancy tell rest to tootle off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be a pain I have dome this a few times and even when I've said no to some guys they still insist on hanging about

I remember one time I was in a club happily playing with four guys, a few watching which was fine then in guy just pushed his way in and tried to stick his cock in my mouth I told his to bugger off but he just stayed by my head wanking, I asked him to go away but he refused he said it was an open room and he could sit where he wanted, so I moved to the other side of the bed but he followed again sitting very close wanking 2inch from my face, I asked him again to go away but again he said he could sit where he liked, because he wasn't touching he thought that was fine to wank right in my face, so I just got up and left put stop to everybody playing

Erm... did none of the other guys there not think of telling him to do one?

I was on my own I wasn't with any of the other guys so why would they?"

I would've stopped play and notified staff of the arse hole creepy wanking prick they would've gotten rid of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be a pain I have dome this a few times and even when I've said no to some guys they still insist on hanging about

I remember one time I was in a club happily playing with four guys, a few watching which was fine then in guy just pushed his way in and tried to stick his cock in my mouth I told his to bugger off but he just stayed by my head wanking, I asked him to go away but he refused he said it was an open room and he could sit where he wanted, so I moved to the other side of the bed but he followed again sitting very close wanking 2inch from my face, I asked him again to go away but again he said he could sit where he liked, because he wasn't touching he thought that was fine to wank right in my face, so I just got up and left put stop to everybody playing

Erm... did none of the other guys there not think of telling him to do one?

I was on my own I wasn't with any of the other guys so why would they?"

Because they should have been more respectful towards you and stood up for you and told the guy to sod off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go."

hey we're not cattle you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be a pain I have dome this a few times and even when I've said no to some guys they still insist on hanging about

I remember one time I was in a club happily playing with four guys, a few watching which was fine then in guy just pushed his way in and tried to stick his cock in my mouth I told his to bugger off but he just stayed by my head wanking, I asked him to go away but he refused he said it was an open room and he could sit where he wanted, so I moved to the other side of the bed but he followed again sitting very close wanking 2inch from my face, I asked him again to go away but again he said he could sit where he liked, because he wasn't touching he thought that was fine to wank right in my face, so I just got up and left put stop to everybody playing

Erm... did none of the other guys there not think of telling him to do one?

I was on my own I wasn't with any of the other guys so why would they?

Because they should have been more respectful towards you and stood up for you and told the guy to sod off.

"

Maybe they didn't feel it was their place or didn't want to get into an argument, wasn't really the other guys fault they didn't do anything wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep trying to tell everyone that surely all this organising and stuff going on isn't a real gang bang for goodness sake. What's the point of a gang bang if it isn't a free for all.

Do I really need to say I am saying this with tongue in cheek.

Actually an incident at a club springs to mind from a few years ago. Mrs N and I fancied a go in the swing at a certain club. It was a Tuesday so lots of single blokes milling around.

Anyway we started playing and the room became quite busy with a good 10 blokes all hovering round. I must admit I was a bit apprehensive and stoicly stayed between Mrs N's legs to protect her from the jostling crowd. Then I felt an erection on my arse. Oh gord I thought, what do I do now. I firmly hung on to her thighs as various squirts of Jizz began shooting off from different angles. It was kinda fun and erotic but quite hard to keep it under control and have what we wanted which I suppose was more Bukkaki type stuff.

Anyway just thought I'd take the thread off in a different direction. We've not done the gang bang thing for the reasons most of you guys seem to say. It would be very hard to keep it under control and say no to Ron jeremy types who wanted a bit of the action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if I shaved my moustache off?

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go."

This

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By *urvyemma OP   Woman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton


"What if I shaved my moustache off?"

Would you do it there and then during gang bang? That would impress me a lot!

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By *uckoldmidsukMan
over a year ago

Spalding


"I've thought the same, would feel terrible inviting one guy but not the one stood next to him"
You need to be firm, Right I want a fuck - You, You, NOT you, you, you and oh yeah you - the rest of you can watch !

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By *lirtyGirl1Woman
over a year ago

Northwest


"Ok..so I fancy the idea of a gangbang, free for all , me and loads of men in a club. .I have done this before to an extent.

However, sometimes at the clubs there are certain men I just don't want to play with..maybe I just find them very unattractive, or they weird me out or its just something I don't go for..like skin colour or moustache. How do you go about having a gang bang but then going 'hang on..not you!' to some poor bloke?

I always worry about offending people but don't want to end up being touched intimately by someone I am not comfortable with.

Am aware this is a ridiculous first world swinging problem

Does anyone kind of know what I mean and where I am coming from? "

Good question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you would be OK. The trouble is she whenever anyone with a furry face contacts us she says. Ooooh that looks a bit tickly. Hard to take it seriously after she's said that isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go."

This! So much easier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to you who you play with.

Either take who you want into a private room or get a friend to make sure only the right people play.

Surely it's polite to wait to be asked to play not just push your way in.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Ok..so I fancy the idea of a gangbang, free for all , me and loads of men in a club. .I have done this before to an extent.

However, sometimes at the clubs there are certain men I just don't want to play with..maybe I just find them very unattractive, or they weird me out or its just something I don't go for..like skin colour or moustache. How do you go about having a gang bang but then going 'hang on..not you!' to some poor bloke?

I always worry about offending people but don't want to end up being touched intimately by someone I am not comfortable with.

Am aware this is a ridiculous first world swinging problem

Does anyone kind of know what I mean and where I am coming from? "

I've been a watcher for a few of my friends and I've never had an issue when I tell guys no, then again, I'm pretty scary (so I've been told)

Your best bet would be to get a watcher if you want the gang bang to be public.

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By *he TrunkMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go."

Yes, even if the guys aren't interested in playing with you ... oh sorry I forgot, guys should be so grateful for any offer they will shag anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go.

Yes, even if the guys aren't interested in playing with you ... oh sorry I forgot, guys should be so grateful for any offer they will shag anything "

Pretty sure if the guy ain't interested he can decline the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were at a club and it all became a bit free for all with Ginger and another female being the greedy girls but Ginger became quite matriarchal and made sure people behaved with the other fem while I looked out for Ginger. No means no in every club and if anyone breaks that then they are thrown out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have had a few girlie gangbangs upstairs in chams the girls played while the partners watched they could look but not touch and at the end it was a bit of a free for all and we had Karl on the door keeping guard. What a night, nights like this is why I keep coming back xxx"

That sounds so hot

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By *he TrunkMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go.

Yes, even if the guys aren't interested in playing with you ... oh sorry I forgot, guys should be so grateful for any offer they will shag anything

Pretty sure if the guy ain't interested he can decline the offer "

I'm sure he can, but that wasn't my point. It infers that you are treating guys like pieces of meat, probably why gangbangs are of no interest to me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go.

Yes, even if the guys aren't interested in playing with you ... oh sorry I forgot, guys should be so grateful for any offer they will shag anything "

Yes, I force them to play with me

Of course its a mutual thing. Why would you think otherwise?

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By *he TrunkMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've never played with someone I didn't want to at a club. You pick the guys you want. Round 'em up and pop them into a room and off you go.

Yes, even if the guys aren't interested in playing with you ... oh sorry I forgot, guys should be so grateful for any offer they will shag anything

Yes, I force them to play with me

Of course its a mutual thing. Why would you think otherwise?"

I don't think you force anyone, and you were giving the OP your advise not necessarily saying that's what you do.

I just think the way it was written is a little disrespectful to men, if you'd put a smiley at the end, I may have taken it the way I'm sure you meant it

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By *ornyHousewife 68Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a few club gangbangs and I've never been in a situation where no didn't mean NO

...literally one woman was playing with me and another guy, said "sorry not you" to a guy trying to push in and he just went... better if you have someone to look after you during the heat of the moment, you can always say thanks to them later

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

If you a choosy greedy girl never play in an open room without someone watching your back for you. An open room is definitely best though as men you may not have seen previously in the club (who you would like to play with) often wonder by to see what's happening. I'm escorting a lady to her first gg event in September. I already have the heads up of the type of guys she is looking for and I will ensure that only these types will get an invite. If you are always concerned of who's around you won't be able to enjoy yourself in true gg fashion.

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

We did one a few months ago for a certain young lady on our normal Friday night, which is open to couples and singles. The young lady concerned wanted just 10 guys, so we gave her 10 tokens when she arrived. She then spent the next couple of hours chatting to guys around the club. If she fancied them, then she gave them a token. We then put a member of staff on the orgy room door for an hour, and only guys with tokens went in. Rest could watch from outside the room as always. Worked damn well, she got what she wanted, no guy was upset with a direct rejection, and I had 11 very happy customers in return for an hour of staffs time.

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away


"We did one a few months ago for a certain young lady on our normal Friday night, which is open to couples and singles. The young lady concerned wanted just 10 guys, so we gave her 10 tokens when she arrived. She then spent the next couple of hours chatting to guys around the club. If she fancied them, then she gave them a token. We then put a member of staff on the orgy room door for an hour, and only guys with tokens went in. Rest could watch from outside the room as always. Worked damn well, she got what she wanted, no guy was upset with a direct rejection, and I had 11 very happy customers in return for an hour of staffs time. "

This sounds a really good idea. One I know many of my single fem friends would happily take advantage of

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By *urvyemma OP   Woman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton


"We did one a few months ago for a certain young lady on our normal Friday night, which is open to couples and singles. The young lady concerned wanted just 10 guys, so we gave her 10 tokens when she arrived. She then spent the next couple of hours chatting to guys around the club. If she fancied them, then she gave them a token. We then put a member of staff on the orgy room door for an hour, and only guys with tokens went in. Rest could watch from outside the room as always. Worked damn well, she got what she wanted, no guy was upset with a direct rejection, and I had 11 very happy customers in return for an hour of staffs time.

This sounds a really good idea. One I know many of my single fem friends would happily take advantage of "

That sounds awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens when you're walking around selecting the fellas and it turns out his wife just popped to the loo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We did one a few months ago for a certain young lady on our normal Friday night, which is open to couples and singles. The young lady concerned wanted just 10 guys, so we gave her 10 tokens when she arrived. She then spent the next couple of hours chatting to guys around the club. If she fancied them, then she gave them a token. We then put a member of staff on the orgy room door for an hour, and only guys with tokens went in. Rest could watch from outside the room as always. Worked damn well, she got what she wanted, no guy was upset with a direct rejection, and I had 11 very happy customers in return for an hour of staffs time. "

brilliant idea!!!

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire


"We did one a few months ago for a certain young lady on our normal Friday night, which is open to couples and singles. The young lady concerned wanted just 10 guys, so we gave her 10 tokens when she arrived. She then spent the next couple of hours chatting to guys around the club. If she fancied them, then she gave them a token. We then put a member of staff on the orgy room door for an hour, and only guys with tokens went in. Rest could watch from outside the room as always. Worked damn well, she got what she wanted, no guy was upset with a direct rejection, and I had 11 very happy customers in return for an hour of staffs time. "

Man that's sounds just the best thing!

I've also wanted to do a big GB, but as others have said, it can really unsettle you if you know there are people you wouldn't want to get involved hanging around! A wingman sounds good too, but wouldn't they want to get in the fur pile too???

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

when we did impromptu gangbang in club, we rounded up the guys who won approval through skilled soft-play - then kept them close and the signal that this was a "closed" event was duly conveyed

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By *eanandJulieCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We have had this at La Chamber in Sheffield, we would dedicate a room for you and post a member of staff on the door for you and will control the men allowed in as per your instructions

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I keep trying to tell everyone that surely all this organising and stuff going on isn't a real gang bang for goodness sake. What's the point of a gang bang if it isn't a free for all.

Do I really need to say I am saying this with tongue in cheek.

Actually an incident at a club springs to mind from a few years ago. Mrs N and I fancied a go in the swing at a certain club. It was a Tuesday so lots of single blokes milling around.

Anyway we started playing and the room became quite busy with a good 10 blokes all hovering round. I must admit I was a bit apprehensive and stoicly stayed between Mrs N's legs to protect her from the jostling crowd. Then I felt an erection on my arse. Oh gord I thought, what do I do now. I firmly hung on to her thighs as various squirts of Jizz began shooting off from different angles. It was kinda fun and erotic but quite hard to keep it under control and have what we wanted which I suppose was more Bukkaki type stuff.

Anyway just thought I'd take the thread off in a different direction. We've not done the gang bang thing for the reasons most of you guys seem to say. It would be very hard to keep it under control and say no to Ron jeremy types who wanted a bit of the action.

"

Incident at the club sounds hilarious and real fun - I know Mr would enjoy it ...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If it's in an open area, without a minder, appoint one or several guys to turn anyone else away, unless you invite them in. You can always attend to these appointed watchers last, to keep them on their toes.

I've been amazed how some guys just refuse to accept a 'no thanks, so utilizing others to police involvement is a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are slightly different to a lot regarding gang bangs as she didn't care who plays, as long as there's lots. It's not about physical attraction to the guy, she literally just wants to be fucked and suck cocks - and lots of them.

I watch over to ensure no one is out of order, but basically if the guy is hard then he can play! She much prefers it this way as she doesn't want anyone thinking they have been selected over anyone else, she wants it quite blatantly purely about her getting sexually pleasured. She isn't into one on one's, and loves being oblivious to who is where and what cock belongs to whom.

We have had times where certain guys have killed the vibe before play had even started, and on those occasions we just go in a room and play on our own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many clubs have rooms that only single woman and couples. Can go in single men have to be invited..pick the guys u want and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if I shaved my moustache off?"

No no keep it on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We did one a few months ago for a certain young lady on our normal Friday night, which is open to couples and singles. The young lady concerned wanted just 10 guys, so we gave her 10 tokens when she arrived. She then spent the next couple of hours chatting to guys around the club. If she fancied them, then she gave them a token. We then put a member of staff on the orgy room door for an hour, and only guys with tokens went in. Rest could watch from outside the room as always. Worked damn well, she got what she wanted, no guy was upset with a direct rejection, and I had 11 very happy customers in return for an hour of staffs time. "

Such a good idea! Would definitely try this approach!

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By *lue and RedCouple
over a year ago

Ulverston

The new (ish) rooms at chams work quite well for this. You invite in the guys you want and slide the bars across. Other people can watch (and wank if they must) but they don't come in. If you then see someone else you like standing watching it's easy to invite them in.

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By *ocky-boyMan
over a year ago

Durness

It's your choice to be there in the first place so you should have no problems saying no to anybody. Guys should just deal with it, and the guys you have said yes to should also help with this. Never feel bad for saying no!

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester


"We did one a few months ago for a certain young lady on our normal Friday night, which is open to couples and singles. The young lady concerned wanted just 10 guys, so we gave her 10 tokens when she arrived. She then spent the next couple of hours chatting to guys around the club. If she fancied them, then she gave them a token. We then put a member of staff on the orgy room door for an hour, and only guys with tokens went in. Rest could watch from outside the room as always. Worked damn well, she got what she wanted, no guy was upset with a direct rejection, and I had 11 very happy customers in return for an hour of staffs time. "

Great idea, I appreciate that this takes time and effort for the club, but well done!

I wish more clubs would offer something like that.

They could I suppose, offer the service with a pre-booking at a fee if costs were an issue. I know many would be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been in that situation and always found a polite no thanks works well enough..

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

We are going to try for one at Abfabs tonight. We are asking people to send us a message 1st and come find us as the Mrs will be wearing something to identify us (apart from a naughty grin) We'll see how it goes! Can't wait

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By *tongueMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Hi

I have been to club GBs and been told NO because Lady has not liked the facial hair. I was not upset as its the Ladies choice. If you dont like it your not there for the right reasons

Ady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would a blindfold help? Then you can't see which men are having you.

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