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should i be on here with a feed tube

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

had a feeding tube fitted in my tummy 4 weeks ago, I seem to have lost my confidence and m getting abuse of people on here saying I shouldn't be on here

so my question is, do you think its ok to have meets now I have the tube

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you tell people upfront: why not

if they are cool with it, have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be a bit unusual for some people to take but I really applaud your attitude and to be fair if they are put off by a tube then that is their problem and not yours. I'd carry on the honest approach x

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By *ol73Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

You have fun. Ignore ignorance.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

As long as you are upfront with people and give them fair chance.

Some people it won't be for them, and others won't mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had a feeding tube fitted in my tummy 4 weeks ago, I seem to have lost my confidence and m getting abuse of people on here saying I shouldn't be on here

so my question is, do you think its ok to have meets now I have the tube"

You have as much right as anyone. As long as you give the people in question the information for them to decide why can't you still have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have told us all, nothing wrong with your confidence. Go for it girl, you are not forcing anyone, be yourself. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can only mirror what everyone else says, if you've been up front with it then its all their problem and you needn't have any second thoughts about being here.

stick to your guns, stick around and have fun

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I think just explain the situation on your profile, report anyone who is rude to you and try not to let it dent your confidence. It's one small aspect of your life at the moment, it doesn't define you. You're an attractive woman, my other half would certainly like to meet you and a feeding tube wouldn't bother him. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you happy with it keep playing just ignore the silly people who cant see past such a small thing and have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thankyou for all your support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think many would be worried about damaging it/you by accident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im genuinely sorry that you obviously have health problems..but when i read the title i thought you were asking because you are so addicted to the site that you dont have time to make and eat proper food?!? Gosh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the ignorant people and haters, just go and have fun. You are gorgeous and a tube would make no difference to that. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've as much right to enjoy yourself as anyone else on here, I hate intolerance, it's made the world a terrible place, and you've done nothing to deserve any nasty comments.

You sound an amazing woman, any anyone should think themselves lucky if they get to spend time with you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, fill your boots and enjoy yourself!

To be fair to others let them know in advance so they can decide if it's for them or not - as with any other scenario (blacks / whites / small cocks / single men etc) don't be offended if they say they don't want to meet you - it's their prerogative.

But I hope you can continue to have great fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones worth meeting will be the ones that will not have an issue with it. As for the others then they are really not worth worrying about. Keep the faith and keep having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what makes you happy. Ignore the ignorant. You have been honest. Now go for it girl. X

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By *erfectlyPervertedCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"so my question is, do you think its ok to have meets now I have the tube"

Abso-f*cking-lutely; you're entirely up front with your profile, and have some great verifications.

Have fun and remember those block and delete buttons exists for a purpose.

If you continue to get abuse I would be inclined to start using the report button that appears when you open a message (to the right, above the message).

I'm sure Admin will take a pretty dim _iew of members sending intolerant or abusive messages.

Tank Girl

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"It may be a bit unusual for some people to take but I really applaud your attitude and to be fair if they are put off by a tube then that is their problem and not yours. I'd carry on the honest approach x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had a feeding tube fitted in my tummy 4 weeks ago, I seem to have lost my confidence and m getting abuse of people on here saying I shouldn't be on here

so my question is, do you think its ok to have meets now I have the tube"

Like others have said, so long as you are up front then I can't see any issues... Although you'll have to accept that many will not like it, or be worried they may hurt you or catch it, or just not realise how much/little impact it has on you. As for abuse, that's is unacceptable and should be reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly wouldn't put me off....when do you want to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a nice looking lady who has been honest about this and if all people can see is the tube, then just ignore them and concentrate on the ones who are genuine. My dad had a feeding tube. Admittedly he was a lot older and not sexually active but he would walk about and move around in bed and it never came out. Good luck

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By *sThunderThighsWoman
over a year ago

Toy Land


"It may be a bit unusual for some people to take but I really applaud your attitude and to be fair if they are put off by a tube then that is their problem and not yours. I'd carry on the honest approach x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let anyone stop you hon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let that stop you. Let people know, if they are sincere, it won't bother them. My son has one btw xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you tell people upfront: why not

if they are cool with it, have fun "

If you are honest people can make up their own mind. However there is no reason for people to be rude about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree with much of the sentiment posted so far!

Go for it! There's absolutely no reason you should not be allowed to have fun.

More power to you for showing the confidence to share this, especially so soon after having the tube fitted.

Although I have to admit that when I spotted this topic I did wonder if the thread was going to be about spending so much time on fab forums etc that you don't get chance to fix dinner - lol

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By *andL-LiverpoolCouple
over a year ago

Huyton

Some people in life are simply rude, rudeness comes in all shapes and size's just like people

We would like to say as a couple this would not bother us in the slightest

Good luck with everything and we hope your on the mend xx

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