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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are socials, what happens at them ? are they at swingers clubs? and what time of day do they normally take place ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

socials are what it says SOCIAL doesnt take place at swingers clubs, just a normal venue butusually private room, not a sex social a genuine have a laugh and joke and get to put faces to names, if then there is chemistry you can arrange to carry on somewhere after social or whatever but the social is just a normal social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"socials are what it says SOCIAL doesnt take place at swingers clubs, just a normal venue butusually private room, not a sex social a genuine have a laugh and joke and get to put faces to names, if then there is chemistry you can arrange to carry on somewhere after social or whatever but the social is just a normal social "
do people come and talk to you if you are new and never been before ? are they on at evenings only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials can take place anywhere and at any time

We attended a social at a Butlins Holiday resort. It was a group of us from another site who got together for the weekend and had a good time.

Some of the participants did eventually indulge in a bit of the old heave ho, other didn't, so that is one kind of social but I'm sure there must be many other variations

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Socials r defo the best way to meet ppl and have a brilliant nite as said above just few drinks chat laughter and if ppl ckick then the after swing parties r fabby get urself along to one u wont regret it can be daunting but dont wait for ppl to introduce themself u go an introduce ur self to ppl that way u cant say u missed ppl on the nite lol

enjoy

luv jacs

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do people come and talk to you if you are new and never been before ? are they on at evenings only"

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They are not dis-similar to other parties to be honest, the attire may be more risque and the entertainments more suited to adults.

If you expect peeps to come and talk to you, then you won't enjoy socials, sorry!

One needs to mingle, say hello and join in the small talks etc...

It is worth spending some time in the forums to get to know the regular contributors, as they are likely to be the ones who attend socials and know each other etc...

This way, when you do attend a social, you know some of them already, just need to put faces/bodies etc. to usernames!

Have courage and join in, good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"What are socials, what happens at them ? are they at swingers clubs? and what time of day do they normally take place ?"

Socials are were peeople meet for social activities in other words a chat and a drink (if it is in the pub). They are not orgies or gangbangs.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"What are socials, what happens at them ? are they at swingers clubs? and what time of day do they normally take place ?

Socials are were peeople meet for social activities in other words a chat and a drink (if it is in the pub). They are not orgies or gangbangs."

that is your take on a social.

I organise socials, in a swingers club. That way, if people want to play they can, if they don't they don't.

We've done, chatting, socialising, drinking, orgies, gangbangs and even brought a few people together in a romantic way.

A social is just that, a social time for people to get together. What they do at the social surely depends on the venue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to do socials on another site im on and they were purely social ... just like a lot of friends going out for the night. If someone new was coming along we used to make them feel welcome and talk to them as we have all been new once and know how daunting it is to meet new people for the first time. If people clicked then they could arrange something for after the evening out or for another time ... great way to break the ice xx Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Madchick has said, it depends on the venue.

In a pub like kevnkat's, there is no facility to play, however, some managed to have a bit of naughty fun!

If it is in a club like Chams, then the facilities are there should one fancy to play if he/she is in the mood for it!

Jacuzzi here I come!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are socials, what happens at them ? are they at swingers clubs? and what time of day do they normally take place ?"

Hello my friend... I started a thread on here a few days ago.... be careful when going to a social for the first time. I cant mention names etc, but if you see a social saying there is a meet at the blue peter pub derby, avoid it as it will cost you quite a few shillings in petrol and a whole heap of time... for nothing!! good luck though as I understand there are some cracking socials taking place all over.... get to know the proposed attendees before you waste your time/money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes were havin the northwest forum social on the 28th feb in preston

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"What are socials, what happens at them ? are they at swingers clubs? and what time of day do they normally take place ?

Hello my friend... I started a thread on here a few days ago.... be careful when going to a social for the first time. I cant mention names etc, but if you see a social saying there is a meet at the blue peter pub derby, avoid it as it will cost you quite a few shillings in petrol and a whole heap of time... for nothing!! good luck though as I understand there are some cracking socials taking place all over.... get to know the proposed attendees before you waste your time/money"

If you want to guarantee a social is actually taking place, come to one of the ones that is plastered all over the forums, has plenty of names on the thread and one that everyone talks about.

The trouble is, many meets/socials on the Events page are just people looking for a meet or a gangbang that just never happens.

Stick to the Meets and Parties Forum if you are unsure and stick to a recognised FAB member. If you are really unsure, stick to a party thrown by a well known forumite........... you should have no problems then.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"What are socials, what happens at them ? are they at swingers clubs? and what time of day do they normally take place ?

Socials are were peeople meet for social activities in other words a chat and a drink (if it is in the pub). They are not orgies or gangbangs.

that is your take on a social.

I organise socials, in a swingers club. That way, if people want to play they can, if they don't they don't.

We've done, chatting, socialising, drinking, orgies, gangbangs and even brought a few people together in a romantic way.

A social is just that, a social time for people to get together. What they do at the social surely depends on the venue!"

I wouldn't knock maddie at all.... (she'd rip me balls off and I like them where they are thank you ) but I do think that the "socials in clubs" thing that has sprung up does muddy the waters so to speak, and does make people genuinely wonder what does happen at them

I am not really a fan of them so to speak.... and from a personal point of view, I feel a lot more comfortable knowing I was in a fully non-play atmosphere as a newbie... just so people can chat and get to know people and they give people the chance to make up there minds about taking it further, rather than rushing into some decisions that people may regret ....

me personally I would prefer then to be classified differently, club meets and social meets, but I think the main thing is that as long as people are aware of what of atmosphere they are likely to be heading into, then at least people can then making up there own minds about attending or not...

that lot did make sense in my head..... not sure if it does as much writing it down...

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


" do people come and talk to you if you are new and never been before ? are they on at evenings only"

socials can be anything from large parties with over 150 guests or just a few people meeting for lunch or a coffee

those who have been on the site for a while and been to a few of them do (for the most part) make the effort to get round everyone to say hi but newbies do need to come out of their shells a bit too and speak to us as well

introduce yourself to people if you get the chance to go to one...we are a friendly bunch after all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are socials, what happens at them ? are they at swingers clubs? and what time of day do they normally take place ?"

We hold socials at our pub, we always close the pub to the regulars on the night.

We always say its a no playing event, but you will always find some people do have a little naughty fun saving the main event for back at the hotel/home.

Yes the dress code is more risque. We often get people asking us what should they wear, our simple answer is, whatever you feel comfy in. We have people dressed in smart casual right through to people that wear very little at all. Its your night its about what you feel comfy with wearing/doing.

The best way to meet people is to mingle and chat to people, we also understand this can seem very daunting to people, so we always have some form of game which gets people mingling, obviously games are optional you don't have to play them. We always endeavour to make sure we introduce new people to other people, we our selves don't work behind the bar on the night as we like to work round the room making sure everyone is happy and putting people at ease.

The way we always describe it to people is to just think of it as a good night out in the pub, with some drinks, food and music, but the atmosphere is more adult in nature.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I used to run the Two4Two social nights in Exeter until a couple of years ago, altogether we were running these monthly events for over a year with great success.

These were held in a small basement bar and were really for couples to meet other couples only, officially there was no real play on the nights but we did have curtained off areas where people could enjoy more intimate chats.

The costs attached to the events was ridiculous, although we paid little for the hire of the bar the cost of having two registered doormen and a DJ meant that it was never a profit making venture....which was cool with us.

It was a perfect way for those who were just dipping their toes in the water to meet with and chat to others in the same position or more experienced swingers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks evryone

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