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By *B84 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Glasgow / Ayrshire

This is the reason us guys have trust issues these days

I don’t know how many times, so called ‘Females’ demand face pictures, replying with an encouraging message saying how good looking you are, then disappearing with no follow up, with some deleting their accounts.

Makes me wonder if there is bots operating on the site, as the replies have been similar

Really does wind me up

Anyone else had similar experiences?

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By *elkieWoman
6 weeks ago

Durham

I mean, could be bots, could be the same person targeting you over and over again with new profiles? Are these brand mew accounts?

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By *harAndBryCouple
6 weeks ago

Downham Market

More than likely guys under female profiles just on the wind up, enjoying leading you on.

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By *rasshopper201Man
6 weeks ago

kendal

And theres plenty of them aswell

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
6 weeks ago

Bot Farm

That's exactly why I don't like to ask for a face pic, to avoid paranoid theories or broken egos.

If somebody texts me asking for a meeting, I expect at least a Face pic attached. When it is from a blank profile, it makes me feel like a service, plus it sounds risky.

If I ask the Facepic because maybe I'm interested, but then I don't really like the pic, I would have to explicitly decline, which would make me feel shallow, uncomfortable or even cruel. Better delete those kinds of messages immediately.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

It must be disappointing when you get encouragement after sending a face picture only for the profile to disappear.

I suggest that you hold off from sending your face to anyone making demands but if you decide to ensure they're at least photo verified and check their pictures by reverse searching them.

As far as I'm aware bots don't operate on this site. If you think about it so many men complain that they get no responses and that there are way more men than women it's unlikely.

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By *az71Man
6 weeks ago

nr. Hook

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By *az71Man
6 weeks ago

nr. Hook

The same thing has happened to me , so now I won’t send a face pic

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex


"The same thing has happened to me , so now I won’t send a face pic "

Probably the best idea. We never sent them unless we were arranging to meet

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By *harAndBryCouple
6 weeks ago

Downham Market


"The same thing has happened to me , so now I won’t send a face pic "

Can't understand why anyone would arrange a meet with anyone that they hadn't seen a face pic of. Where's the physical attraction?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex


"The same thing has happened to me , so now I won’t send a face pic

Can't understand why anyone would arrange a meet with anyone that they hadn't seen a face pic of. Where's the physical attraction?"

Quite a few guys have met us without ever seeing our faces.

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
6 weeks ago

Bot Farm


"The same thing has happened to me , so now I won’t send a face pic

Can't understand why anyone would arrange a meet with anyone that they hadn't seen a face pic of. Where's the physical attraction?

Quite a few guys have met us without ever seeing our faces. "

Have you seen their before though?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

Central

A lot of people don't have realistic expectations here.

Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. They don't factor this in when making their expectations

For many people, facial attraction is essential. They have lots of choice here and will pick the most attractive and perceived mutually compatible with themm

Fab does not create bot accounts, which may be found on other sites. If you find that a particular type of person isn't matching you consistently, then consider changing who you are filtering out

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex


"The same thing has happened to me , so now I won’t send a face pic

Can't understand why anyone would arrange a meet with anyone that they hadn't seen a face pic of. Where's the physical attraction?

Quite a few guys have met us without ever seeing our faces.

Have you seen their before though? "

Usually, yes. I think some people are attracted to bodies regardless of the face though

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair


"The same thing has happened to me , so now I won’t send a face pic

Can't understand why anyone would arrange a meet with anyone that they hadn't seen a face pic of. Where's the physical attraction?

Quite a few guys have met us without ever seeing our faces. "

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They probably visit The National Archives beforehand to see your heritage face photos, and then meet you in your bedchamber. 💌😇

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex


"The same thing has happened to me , so now I won’t send a face pic

Can't understand why anyone would arrange a meet with anyone that they hadn't seen a face pic of. Where's the physical attraction?

Quite a few guys have met us without ever seeing our faces.

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They probably visit The National Archives beforehand to see your heritage face photos, and then meet you in your bedchamber. 💌😇"

I think there might be a dageurrotype of our fizzogs kicking about 😎

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By *WB85Man
6 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Its part of the process, I equally block and reject people myself.

Take it on the chin and move on.

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By *lack King DomMan
6 weeks ago

London


"This is the reason us guys have trust issues these days

I don’t know how many times, so called ‘Females’ demand face pictures, replying with an encouraging message saying how good looking you are, then disappearing with no follow up, with some deleting their accounts.

Makes me wonder if there is bots operating on the site, as the replies have been similar

Really does wind me up

Anyone else had similar experiences?"

Yep, especially when they quickly want to move to TG, Kik etc.

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By *aramel_UnicornWoman
6 weeks ago

london

I'll be honest I've done that when I didn't fancy them! Would u prefer I don't find u attractive coz when I've said they they continue to message me and won't back off? Men here underestimate that women are having 100s of messages with nasty comments and endless dick pictures from men who don't read your profile for compatibility. Maybe you also don't realise that plenty of men send me first messages with full face and dick and body pics so lots of people are.

You can do sex meets where they don't care what u look like but more what u do but lots of women obviously want to be attracted to you and want to see if you look safe or not.

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By *atinaChica54Woman
5 weeks ago

Marlborough

I always request a face pic of anyone I'm interested in to see if I actually find them attractive. I'm not going to have sex with someone I don't fancy. I have a number of face pics on my profile for all to see.

If, when I receive the face pic, I don't fancy them, I politely tell them they're not my type & wish them Happy Fabbing!

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By *immers123Woman
5 weeks ago

South Molton


"The same thing has happened to me , so now I won’t send a face pic

Probably the best idea. We never sent them unless we were arranging to meet"

I would never meet anyone without knowing what they look like.

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By *immers123Woman
5 weeks ago

South Molton

Tbh they might just be polite? I've had men send face pics before and I've said u look nice or something but in reality I don't find them attractive, I've sent face pics abd been blocked after its just how it is. I don't think anyone is stealing pics.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry

I don't really understand the concept of pic collectors 🤷

Do these people have galleries full of photos of people that approached them and they weren't attracted to them? And they're saving them for...what?

If people send me a photo, unless it's something that actually leads somewhere it's gone from my mind. I'm not saving it for a rainy day when I'm completely at a loss for something to do.

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By *hamen1300Man
5 weeks ago

manchester

My face pic would well put them off . My feet look better haha. Noni dnt mind sending a face pic. What Can they really do with it.

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By *troppy cowWoman
5 weeks ago

Skelmersdale

I only send face pics when the meet is arranged and I'm about to go there. If they don't like it they can always cancel at that point, it's a risk I'm happy to take x

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