FabSwingers.com forum: Forum members contacting directly with no respect?

By *eautyandthebeast86 OP Couple
14 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

So as we all know there is a reply direct part on the forum and MOSTLY we get genuine messages related to the post or post we have replied to and helpful. Recently there seems to be an influx of men messaging and sending their private parts unsolicited and we have to block. Is this rife on here that if you post something positive in the forum they see it as carte Blanche to send us dick pics like it’s going to make us suddenly want them?

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By *an1978Woman
14 weeks ago

Gwynedd/ Powys Border

You shouldn't have to put up with it.

Report those that abuse it, and admin will take action

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
14 weeks ago

North West

Constantly get couples in my inbox from the forums.

Just mass delete.

Don't wanna block all one group from messaging.

But yeah, it happens all the time. Most profiles on here don’t have the basic IQ or respect to read profiles before messaging. Story of fab lol

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By *ineteen89Man
14 weeks ago

Swindon

Are they from new-ish profiles? New profiles can't post in the forum for 14 days, maybe they're trying to reply to a forum thread? (yeah, probably not on reading the original post)

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By *lrightthenMan
14 weeks ago

Bradford

Yeah I don't understand. Often they don't say anything about the forum. Just get a message from forum post with some generic message and an image I'd rather not see

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By *ools and the brainCouple
14 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Definitely not a fan of this option.

It would be good to be able to disable this feature when using forums like being able to hide site images.

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By *CExeCouple
14 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

We've had random replies from posts we made months ago which is just odd. Not Fab's best feature tbh.

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By *lofeldMan
14 weeks ago

Redhill

"So as we all know there is a reply direct part on the forum and MOSTLY we get genuine messages related to the post or post we have replied to and helpful. Recently there seems to be an influx of men messaging and sending their private parts unsolicited and we have to block. Is this rife on here that if you post something positive in the forum they see it as carte Blanche to send us dick pics like it’s going to make us suddenly want them? "

What you're getting is a high volume of blokes, without a sniff of contact through direct messaging, who may get some response via a forum topic, who then, in a barren wasteland,see it as some sort of encouragement. Irritating, but that's what block is for.

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By *iss DevilWoman
14 weeks ago

Bedford

I sometimes get replies to my forum posts that are either barely related to the post or something that could have easily been added to the public post, with no need for private message. It is annoying, especially when they see my reply then as them "getting their foot through the door" and trying to go with more unrelated chat. Those get blocked.

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By *parky123Man
14 weeks ago

Lincoln

I don’t think the people that have contacted me related to forum discussions have been disrespectful. Everyone else is a different matter…

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By *eautyandthebeast86 OP Couple
14 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

"I don’t think the people that have contacted me related to forum discussions have been disrespectful. Everyone else is a different matter…"

Most are nice people who are trying to help based on the forum post or topic but also lots of people see it as an excuse to send us unsolicited pics of their dick… you can’t send photos in the forum so that’s how they get round it !

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By *estinysswingersCouple
14 weeks ago

Worsley

We get the odd private reply but that’s rare (we do have single guys blocked though)

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By *parky123Man
14 weeks ago

Lincoln

"I don’t think the people that have contacted me related to forum discussions have been disrespectful. Everyone else is a different matter…

I’m sure it won’t make you feel much better to know I get sent dick pics too, though I assume less than most people do

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By *eautyandthebeast86 OP Couple
14 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

"I don’t think the people that have contacted me related to forum discussions have been disrespectful. Everyone else is a different matter…

I’m sure it won’t make you feel much better to know I get sent dick pics too, though I assume less than most people do"

Even worse for you as you are a straight man ! People just are chancers x

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By *parky123Man
14 weeks ago

Lincoln

I assume they must work for some people? Or why would men keep sending them?

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
14 weeks ago

London

It's an online phenomenon. I don't think people would do this in real life. Just a negative side effect of social media. Enjoy the good parts. 👍🏾☺️

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By *izandpaulCouple
14 weeks ago

merseyside

The majority of comments from something we put on the forum comes as a private message. We ask them to repeat it on the forum thread to show others their response. Some guys do, some don't.

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