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 is there any people who like short gents? 5ft 3 here.. | |||
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"As a lady of 5’8” I prefer taller guys hubby 6’ but in my heels I’m still taller lol " I think that’s quite normal these days. I do love a woman in heels, it’s just I’m a LOT shorter!  | |||
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"It's a fascinating topic. And a bit strange. I'm considered short because I'm not 6 foot. I'm 5'11. And I'm taller than the women who have rejected me. It doesn't make sense. Should all men start wearing heels too? 😂😂" it works for Tom Cruise | |||
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"It's a fascinating topic. And a bit strange. I'm considered short because I'm not 6 foot. I'm 5'11. And I'm taller than the women who have rejected me. It doesn't make sense. Should all men start wearing heels too? 😂😂 it works for Tom Cruise "And Prince. He was 5’ 2. | |||
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"Short answer no they dont. Im 5ft 10" and still considered too short by womwn who barely top 5ft." Yeah, I've realised that for reasons I cannot fathom it really is a deal breaker for a lot of women. I have known this for quite a while so the question isn't so much do they, it's WHY it matters so much. Plenty of women say they prefer tall guys or won't meet with guys under an arbitrary threshold height, but I've not yet heard a reason as to why. NB I'm not asking disputing that anyone should have a right to state their preferences, I would just love someone to dig into it and rationalise the statement. Many short fellas couldn't care less if they were with a woman of Amazonian stature, I just wonder why it doesn't work the other way around. | |||
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"I read about a dating website that removed the height option in the things you can say you are looking for. The reason being 80% of the single women on the site wanted a man 6 foot and over. In reality only 13% of adult males are 6 foot and over. " That's really sad. | |||
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"Short answer no they dont. Im 5ft 10" and still considered too short by womwn who barely top 5ft. Yeah, I've realised that for reasons I cannot fathom it really is a deal breaker for a lot of women. I have known this for quite a while so the question isn't so much do they, it's WHY it matters so much. Plenty of women say they prefer tall guys or won't meet with guys under an arbitrary threshold height, but I've not yet heard a reason as to why. NB I'm not asking disputing that anyone should have a right to state their preferences, I would just love someone to dig into it and rationalise the statement. Many short fellas couldn't care less if they were with a woman of Amazonian stature, I just wonder why it doesn't work the other way around. " I just feel better in the arms of a tall man. Maybe it's the subconscious protector thing. I do know I feel self conscious with a shorter man (I'm talking probably 5'8" and under) - it makes me feel huge and mammy-like. The arbitrary 6' and over rule is sometimes borne out of men's propensity for lying about their height. At a recent event I was standing beside and, at all of my 5'3" (ish), towering over a man who claims on his profile to be 6 foot tall. That's an extreme example but when I look at profiles I pretty much always minus 2 when looking at a man's height. | |||
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"It's a fascinating topic. And a bit strange. I'm considered short because I'm not 6 foot. I'm 5'11. And I'm taller than the women who have rejected me. It doesn't make sense. Should all men start wearing heels too? 😂😂" Haha, maybe I should try that! I remember one time, someone saying to me I could put in like block extenders into the heels of a shoe to make me taller. I never did it because I thought it was ridiculous! | |||
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"I remember when I was in junior school the mother of a schoolmate was significantly taller than her husband. There's a soulmate for everyone. I wish you luck in finding yours (especially if you are still looking)." Thank you, just an interesting topic for sure! | |||
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"Despite being fairly tall, I quite like shorter guys... As long as they have a face I like and aren't a dickhead or a bore "oooh as a local 5’4 gent this piques my interest! X | |||
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"It's a fascinating topic. And a bit strange. I'm considered short because I'm not 6 foot. I'm 5'11. And I'm taller than the women who have rejected me. It doesn't make sense. Should all men start wearing heels too? 😂😂 it works for Tom Cruise "I think he might have something else going for him as well...not sure that's going to work for most altitude challenged guys. | |||
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"I'm 5'10 and prefer minimum my height or taller. I'm often in 3" heels putting me 6'1 and hate to look down at men. MY PREFERENCE The abuse I've received because of it is pretty childish to be honest!!" It makes sense for your height as you are tall yourself. What doesn't make sense is someone who is 5'5 or below and looking for 6ft+. Most men are not that tall. It sounds like a tick box exercise. Abuse isn't warranted either way. I get preferences. However, it seems only women are allowed to have preferences. When a guy states he wants a certain type of lady, he gets attacked. Unless times are changing? Each to their own. We are all attracted to someone. | |||
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"Definitely seems to be more prevalent these days, the expectation of men to be tall. It does seem a bit one sided though. Many women openly state a minimum height, or a height range, but imagine the uproar if men stated a maximum weight or waistline etc." Most of us don't care. Genuinely. We want to be loved and love in return. It's that simple. She's going to wear my clothes anyway, regardless of weight and waistline. Isn't that what women do in relationships? Or is that just my personal experience? 😂 | |||
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"Short answer no they dont. Im 5ft 10" and still considered too short by womwn who barely top 5ft. Yeah, I've realised that for reasons I cannot fathom it really is a deal breaker for a lot of women. I have known this for quite a while so the question isn't so much do they, it's WHY it matters so much. Plenty of women say they prefer tall guys or won't meet with guys under an arbitrary threshold height, but I've not yet heard a reason as to why. NB I'm not asking disputing that anyone should have a right to state their preferences, I would just love someone to dig into it and rationalise the statement. Many short fellas couldn't care less if they were with a woman of Amazonian stature, I just wonder why it doesn't work the other way around. " It’s a personal preference, dos there need to be a reason? | |||
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"Im 6"2 and it definetly works for women but thats it....the world suits small folk better. extra leg room on a plane or at the theatre. No hitting your head on door frames. feet not hanging out the bottom of bed. " I feel your pain, I’m 6ft5” and whilst it has it benefits, the world just isn’t catered towards tall people | |||
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"Well I’ve always thought good things come in small packages! is there any people who like short gents? 5ft 3 here.."‘Short Kings’ can be very sexy. | |||
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"One of the best fucks I've had was a guy who was 5'2 " That’s awesome  | |||
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"Question. Two guy's walk into a club and remove their clothes, and start to get a hardon, when they see all the naked ladies' one of them is over six feet tall but only has a five inch dick, the other guy is only five feet three inches tall but has a seven inch girthy cock. Ladies who are you drawn too." Potentially neither. For me, a single attribute on it's own isn't enough. A 7 inch girthy cock on a man I don't otherwise find attractive isn't going to make any difference. If I was equally attracted to both, I'd be drawn to the taller man | |||
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"Definitely seems to be more prevalent these days, the expectation of men to be tall. It does seem a bit one sided though. Many women openly state a minimum height, or a height range, but imagine the uproar if men stated a maximum weight or waistline etc." It wouldn't bother me 🤷 I find the notion that men shouldn't express their preferences a bit silly. | |||
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"I like my men tall so I have to tilt my head up to kiss" Deal😅😅😅 | |||
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"Question. Two guy's walk into a club and remove their clothes, and start to get a hardon, when they see all the naked ladies' one of them is over six feet tall but only has a five inch dick, the other guy is only five feet three inches tall but has a seven inch girthy cock. Ladies who are you drawn too." The one whose face I fancy the most | |||
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"Question. Two guy's walk into a club and remove their clothes, and start to get a hardon, when they see all the naked ladies' one of them is over six feet tall but only has a five inch dick, the other guy is only five feet three inches tall but has a seven inch girthy cock. Ladies who are you drawn too. Potentially neither. For me, a single attribute on it's own isn't enough. A 7 inch girthy cock on a man I don't otherwise find attractive isn't going to make any difference. If I was equally attracted to both, I'd be drawn to the taller man" Mines as big as you want it🤭🤭🤭 | |||
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"I've seen some pretty entertaining street interviews where women are asked about their requirements for a man and almost all said they wanted 6ft plus. When asked if it was okay for guys to ask about a woman's weight, they were all disgusted by the suggestion 🤣 🤣 " 😅😅😅😅😅 | |||
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"I've seen some pretty entertaining street interviews where women are asked about their requirements for a man and almost all said they wanted 6ft plus. When asked if it was okay for guys to ask about a woman's weight, they were all disgusted by the suggestion 🤣 🤣 " Wow! Speechless... | |||
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"It's a fascinating topic. And a bit strange. I'm considered short because I'm not 6 foot. I'm 5'11. And I'm taller than the women who have rejected me. It doesn't make sense. Should all men start wearing heels too? 😂😂" • I'm curious, are you messaging women who are taller than you? | |||
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"It's a fascinating topic. And a bit strange. I'm considered short because I'm not 6 foot. I'm 5'11. And I'm taller than the women who have rejected me. It doesn't make sense. Should all men start wearing heels too? 😂😂 • I'm curious, are you messaging women who are taller than you?" No. The majority of women I've messaged have been shorter than me. | |||
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"Are you a man and under 6 ft please leave the site immediately" Excuse me? | |||
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"Are you a man and under 6 ft please leave the site immediately" ,, the man with no pictures idiot | |||
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"To be honest, if someone has a preference I would sooner they are clear about it. For example - what does ‘gym fit’ mean?! I usually avoid people why ask for that, as it seems to be code for ‘slender’ - but I’m also someone who goes to the gym 3 times a week and can deadlift 1.5 times my own body weight…so…. Which was a long winded way of saying - preferences are fine, just find someone who wants what you offer. And the clearer the preferences are, the better! " I really dislike the term gym fit aswell.. I don't think it's code for slender, but it's definitely missused, mainly by slender people in yoga pants taking selfies in a gym haha. Congrats on the 1.5 body weight deadlift. Big achievement! 💪 | |||
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) but he is suck an attentive, giving guy, knows how to be a true gentleman and always a live for today type. Let's face it girls, a guy can be 6' plus , handsome but still be a total asshole ..  | |||
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"Question. Two guy's walk into a club and remove their clothes, and start to get a hardon, when they see all the naked ladies' one of them is over six feet tall but only has a five inch dick, the other guy is only five feet three inches tall but has a seven inch girthy cock. Ladies who are you drawn too." The one with a face I like, that's not a prick | |||
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"5-11 here" I think I was talking about 5-3, 5-4… | |||
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"Well I'm a man if 6"5 , love to X dress and did last night with my pink heels, tottering about Love a sexy man knocking my door when I'm in them and my mini skirt and stockings plus high heels, sure I'd need wanking and kissing in my bright red lippy heh, heh, joking there xxx Davina xx" • Delightful. However, how does that fit in with the spirit of the thread?  | |||
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