FabSwingers.com forum: How often?

By *reboethteen OP Man
19 weeks ago

Swansea

Just curious as to how often people do have sex with their partners?

How often do you guys do it in a month? Or weekly ?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Bristol

Sadly my partner (female) and I have just fallen out of the habit.

I think we had sex like... once in 2025.

Some random local guy I occasionally meet however, pumped me full of cum at least six times.

Hopefully 2026 will be a bit more mixed.

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
19 weeks ago

London - South East and West

Every time we see each other and a couple of times each day we are together. We see each other a couple of times a week.

We literally can't keep our hands off each other...but we live apart and have only been together about a year, so that might be the reason!

But touch is definitely part of our love language!

Mrs DD

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
19 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

"Every time we see each other and a couple of times each day we are together. We see each other a couple of times a week.

We literally can't keep our hands off each other...but we live apart and have only been together about a year, so that might be the reason!

But touch is definitely part of our love language!

Mrs DD"

Same! We’ve been together five years and still are like this. I’m a big fan of living apart together relationships.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
19 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Every single day unless on my period and then if so we still fondle and do other bits been like this for 4 years both very sexual people.

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By *rasshopper201Man
19 weeks ago

kendal

Try 16 years and counting

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
19 weeks ago

Bedale/Leeds/Stanley

Tends to be a bit bunched up really. There are weeks where it's 3 times and months where it's also 3 times.

Just about how much stress and ordinary life stuff is in the way.

And to a point how much we are swinging. If we are swinging more then there's a little bit less biological urgency for more sex in general

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By *all me FlikWoman
19 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

We aim for daily but life/work can get in the way.

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By *BWmetalcouple666Couple
19 weeks ago

houghton

1-2 times a week depending

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By *eatcrusadersCouple
19 weeks ago

Nottingham

With kids at home it is difficult, but we can usually do it about 1-2 times a week if we are not too busy at work.

About once a month we splash out and go to a love hotel for a good fuck fest. We did that last night as I had been away for three weeks.

Sometimes life gets in the way and we don’t do it at all. She seems to be winding down since she hit 50 though, but I’m still up for it like a horny teenager 😆

17 years married and still at it, I think we are doing okay 👍

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By *arriedfun69Man
19 weeks ago

Bedford

Unfortunately her sex drive has really dropped and it’s probably once a month

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By *heonixrising500Man
19 weeks ago

Barnsley

My gf a low sex drive so once or twice a monrh but i mastirbate most days

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By *WeePurpleDragonCouple
19 weeks ago

East Lothian

we are about 4 times a week

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
19 weeks ago

Essex

We average 15-20 times a month but it depends on alot of factors like personal health and work stresses

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
19 weeks ago

London - South East and West

"Every time we see each other and a couple of times each day we are together. We see each other a couple of times a week.

We literally can't keep our hands off each other...but we live apart and have only been together about a year, so that might be the reason!

But touch is definitely part of our love language!

Mrs DD

Same! We’ve been together five years and still are like this. I’m a big fan of living apart together relationships. "

Debaucherous duo...great name! 😜

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By *am450Man
19 weeks ago

Sidcup/Bexley

Cannot remember the last time. Years ago.

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By *abulincsCouple
19 weeks ago

near a bridge

3-5 times a week more if we could

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

With my partner before Christmas, hence being on here for that type of thing. With my fuck buddy last week

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By *and12Couple
19 weeks ago

flint

At least once a day if not more since I had the menopause I can’t get enough

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By *ogether202569Couple
19 weeks ago

Midlands

Will be our 25th anniversary this year and we are between 2-3 times a week.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
19 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Debaucherous duo...great name! 😜"
thank you!

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By *iny_tight_pussWoman
19 weeks ago

wednesbury

With my hubby normally twice a week, then my fwb 1 or 2 times a week

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By *eorge33Couple
19 weeks ago

g43

Like to get sucked off every day at least maybe full sex 3/4 times per week. On holiday every day

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I need to find a partner I'm missing out

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By *aandLoCouple
19 weeks ago

Southampton

Varies from every day while on holiday, to only 1-2 times a week at home when life is hectic.

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By *sobeeMan
19 weeks ago

Peterborough

At least 3 times a week, and 3 times a day when it’s nearly that time of the month 😂

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
19 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Just curious as to how often people do have sex with their partners?

How often do you guys do it in a month? Or weekly ?

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if we are in the same house... a few times a week... if in a club a lot..

We would love to do so more but unfortunately we have family at home that would be disturbed if we jumped each other when we fancied it. We are almost constantly touching each other though x

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By *sX2Couple
19 weeks ago

South Downs

The way it’s going so far, we’re looking at a record 2026. Been at least once a day (except for two days that Ellie was away with work!)

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
19 weeks ago

Coleraine

Our 32 year marriage

First 10 years daily

10-28 years 4-5 times a week

Last few years due to my menopause about twice a week. Hubby’s sex drive hasn’t really reduced so I give him a BJ 2-3 times a week as well

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By * MRS ShyButNotShy MRSCouple
19 weeks ago

Stoke

Been together 30 years this year. We do it about 3 or 4 days a week but we can go all day. 😁😁

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By *kibirdWoman
19 weeks ago

Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent)

Certainly not in the last 10 years, can’t even remember how long it’s been now

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By *un couple 2Couple
19 weeks ago

Tynemouth.

Not as much as id like, but at least once a week.

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By *ixcplCouple
19 weeks ago

Fulham

At least twice a day

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
18 weeks ago

Leeds

Varies with life, I'd say twice a week would be average, sometimes more, sometimes less.

Mrs

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
18 weeks ago

Rotherham

Whilst in cuckold relationships I had sex on my birthday and our anniversary... In full-time chastity only allowed any type of release ( other than for hygiene reasons) every three months

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By *mma and ChrisCouple
18 weeks ago

Greater Manchester

When we together it’s at least 3-4 times a day ! But he’s away for long periods so we have lots to catch up on ! Averaged over a year I guess it’s the equivalent of about 3-4 times a week

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By *am450Man
18 weeks ago

Sidcup/Bexley

"Certainly not in the last 10 years, can’t even remember how long it’s been now

We should start a club, or a helpline

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By *elloyoufrommeMan
18 weeks ago

Glasgow

When I was with the wife five times a week

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By *azxxx200Man
18 weeks ago

All over ireland travelling

"Just curious as to how often people do have sex with their partners?

How often do you guys do it in a month? Or weekly ?

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Hardly ever

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
18 weeks ago

Norwich

"Try 16 years and counting"

Snap!!

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By *i-subhubby.Man
18 weeks ago

Slightly round the bend.

Hi all, since my mrs fell ill with a long term illness, partially recovered we have not had a physical side of any form for over 18 years now.

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By *londie and BaldyCouple
18 weeks ago

Birmingham

About twice a week for us.

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By *ouncerbiscuitMan
18 weeks ago

nottingham

Once sometimes twice a week I’d like more but is what it is

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By *rthur WrightusMan
18 weeks ago

Round the Bend

When my partner was alive the scores on the door was 3 to 4 times a week, that was a few yrs ago now.

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By *aszloandnadjaCouple
18 weeks ago

York

We've been together for 4 years now and have consistently averaged around 5 times per week. External factors do play a part and the number has fluctuated at times but there has been very little decline over the long term, even though we are now both the wrong side of 50. We are very fortunate that we have similar levels of sexual energy 😁

Whenever we have done lifestyle stuff it has given us a massive boost and we can't keep our hands off each other!!!

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By *igad999Man
18 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Married 25+ years now

Over time has its up and downs some dry spells some insatiable spells

Right now last few years both have high sex drives. I’d say least 3-4 times a week but also some times will have times where don’t have sex but willl tease play oral only etc and if got a weekend planned may tease each other that week with no cumming etc

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By *avrick180Man
18 weeks ago

Pontypool

With my ex it was on pay day

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By *inxy25Couple
18 weeks ago

Essex

4/5 a week. More if we host as well. We are very lucky.

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
18 weeks ago

IRVINE

Married for 32 years to hubby.and we still do it 4/5 times a week

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By *ibs4Man
18 weeks ago

Romford,poitiers france and torrevieja spain

Whenever I can,every other day is about usual but sometimes it’s only twice a week

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By *ittleJohn5Man
18 weeks ago

Wickham Market

What’s sex I’ve forgotten?

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By *ilva69Man
18 weeks ago

stockport

If you’d only asked me that question 10 years ago!

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By *an1978Woman
18 weeks ago

Gwynedd/ Powys Border

Twice a week would be my ideal I reckon, given work and family commitments.

Happily have a quickie every day 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"With my ex it was on pay day "

Oh my god ! x

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By *ere4It3000Couple
18 weeks ago

Belgium

Goes in periods. Sometimes every day or multiple times a day or we can go few days without to even more than a big week without. It just all depends on how we feel and what’s going on in life!

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By *pen all hours CBAMan
18 weeks ago

darlington

2/3 per week

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By *ir and GoddessCouple
18 weeks ago

Frodsham

Every chance we get. If we could practically we’d fuck every day, but life gets in the way. Family, work, etc

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By *izandpaulCouple
18 weeks ago

merseyside

All depends on many things.

Paul works overseas, I work full time, busy lives, etc

But our sex life is of high quality.

The number of times is not an issue to us, its about the where, when, how and who with.

If you measure on number of times or what you believe others do, you will always come up disappointed, also take into account people tell fibs about their sex lives.

Just enjoy all the different aspects of a fulfilling sex life, forget the numbers.

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