FabSwingers.com: G (37) & E (35) , Couple in Basingstoke, South East, UK

We’re a couple who place a lot of value on trust, communication, and genuine chemistry. Outside the lifestyle, we’re grounded, affectionate, and very much a team and that foundation is what makes exploring together feel exciting and safe.

He is heavily tattooed and pierced (yes ladies, there too!). He brings experience, confidence, and a calm understanding of the swinging world. He knows that the best experiences come from patience, respect, and reading the room, not rushing or forcing a dynamic. He enjoys creating an atmosphere where everyone feels comfortable, desired, and free to be themselves.

She is new(ish) to the lifestyle, curious, and open-minded, with a natural warmth and presence that makes people feel at ease. This is a shared journey for us, taken at her pace, with enthusiasm and clear boundaries guiding every step. For her, it’s about discovery, connection, and enjoying the spark of something new without pressure or expectation.

Together, we’re looking for like-minded people who value communication, mutual attraction, and a relaxed, drama-free vibe. Whether it starts with conversation, flirting, or simply getting to know one another over a drink, we believe the best connections unfold naturally. If you’re respectful, emotionally intelligent, and enjoy exploring chemistry as much as we do, we’d love to see where a connection might lead. We will occasionally be looking for a quick meet but we will put statuses up as and when.

Face pics are preferred if you want a reply. If you’re married or partnered and playing behind your partners back, please pass us by. You’re definitely not for us. We’re on here as a couple, but it’ll always be the male who is messaging.

What are we looking for?

-Attend some more club nights. We finally popped our club cherry at Ignite and really enjoyed. Some more of these types of evenings would be very welcome!

-Couples to have a social or two with no expectations. If it leads to extra fun, then great. We would love to make regular connections.

-Occasional single males to watch us play, maybe some soft play at first. Again, no expectations. We have had full MFM fun now, and it was enjoyed. Ellie loved having the attention on her!

-The elusive unicorn. I mean, what couple doesn’t?! If there’s a female who is looking to social and potentially join us for some fun in the bedroom, please do drop us a line!

We both keep fit with a mixture of running and the gym, and although we aren’t absolutely shredded we would like potential play partners to also take care of themselves. We also do have an age range, and although we haven’t blocked the people outside of this age range, please do respect it.

If any play does happen, we’re after safe sex only. We never play alone!

We’re a little inundated at the moment, so thank you all for the messages. If we delete your message please take it as a ‘thanks, but no thanks’. We’re not here to appease you and stroke your ego.

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