FabSwingers.com forum: Do we take your fancy

By *uriousCpl91 OP Couple
20 weeks ago

Stockport

We have been partaking in the swingers chat “Xxx Couples & Ladies Only xxX,” where you swipe left if you’re not interested and right if you are. We’ve had quite a few left swipes, which has made me curious as to why. We understand that not everyone is a match for everyone else, but I’d be genuinely interested in hearing people’s views on us and our profile. If there’s anything within our power to change or improve, your feedback would be greatly appreciated.

Please comment below to let us know whether we would interest you or not, and the reason why.

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By *ardnreddyMan
20 weeks ago

LIVINGSTON

Hi b yes I sold be interested as you are genuine and seem friendly open and up for fun only issue is the distance x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think your profile contains too much information on a personal matter which could deter some people. Don't mention it here as it's against forum rules.

Otherwise it gives a good idea of who you are and what you're after.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
20 weeks ago

Scotland

"I think your profile contains too much information on a personal matter which could deter some people. Don't mention it here as it's against forum rules.

Otherwise it gives a good idea of who you are and what you're after. "

I agree I feel that if you want to share that information it could be shared once connection has been established and meet looks likely.

We aren’t looking for couples however I think your profile looks fine

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By *ogether202569Couple
20 weeks ago

Midlands

I (mr) really like your profile, you come across as very genuine and open. At the moment we only meet couples in clubs but if you were in the jacuzzi next to us we’d love to talk.

We don’t participate in the left/right thing - just doesn’t add any value to our fab experience.

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By *ylvieMWoman
20 weeks ago

Aylesbury

Lots of couples don't meet with Bi males.

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By *issmorganWoman
20 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I don't meet couples, unless with my other half. But, I'd take from what you've said that ff play is more what you'd be looking for Erin, rather than straight partner swaps.

That's what I seek as a straight woman,when we meet other couples.

I'd want my partner fully involved with any play too or neither of us.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex

How do you feel about the answers so far op?

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
20 weeks ago

Essex

Looks wise we would swipe right and your profile is well detailed while some people may find it off putting you’ve been up front and honest which is always a plus

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By *oby 69Man
20 weeks ago

stockport

"We have been partaking in the swingers chat “Xxx Couples & Ladies Only xxX,” where you swipe left if you’re not interested and right if you are. We’ve had quite a few left swipes, which has made me curious as to why. We understand that not everyone is a match for everyone else, but I’d be genuinely interested in hearing people’s views on us and our profile. If there’s anything within our power to change or improve, your feedback would be greatly appreciated.

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By *oby 69Man
20 weeks ago

stockport

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Definitely interest me and would take pleasure in meeting you.

I’ve seen you both around

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By *a1970Man
20 weeks ago

East cork

Well I'd swipe right... Think yee look fab.

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By *p4fun60Couple
20 weeks ago

Hampshire

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By *ualityNotQuantityUKCouple
20 weeks ago

Derby

Not sure what your concern is here. You have stated quite a lot of preferences both for and against. Everybody else also have these so if they don't line up, it's a "non-compatible" swipe. If you walk into a crowded pub, there are people you would like to talk to and others you wouldn't, this is no different.

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By *kguy4444Man
20 weeks ago

Wales

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Lovely profile. From me, the wife is considering playing but just with men.

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By *ysonfuryMan
20 weeks ago

Stockport

It would be rude not to reply to fellow stopfordians. Profile is very honest, great pics and veries. All looks good to me. Happy fabbing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex

How do you engage with people op? Do you chat with people in the forum, message the ones you think might be a match?

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By *sm265Woman
20 weeks ago

Perthshire

I'd swipe left due to location/distance and the fact you are below my preferred age bracket. You have a good profile , lots of pics (although mostly of Erin) & you have a variety of positive verifications.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
20 weeks ago

Cheshire

We think your both a lovely couple! Would definitely see where things go if the stars aligned 🤭

Very detailed profile and honest about what you want and don't want which is brilliant to see.

And the ginger hair and jurrasic park shirt has just sealed the deal 😂

Ess xx

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By *og and MuseCouple
20 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You wouldn't usually be the type we would go for but we really like your photographs and profile text, Mr. Is a bit young but other than that you seem really nice. We would probably meet you for a social just to see.

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By *aomilatteCouple
20 weeks ago

Midlands

There's information in your profile that will put many off. Our advice would be to give the swipe threads a miss, they're not about real meets. If you go to clubs you're more likely to get real meets.

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By *viatrixWoman
20 weeks ago

Gatwick

You both present yourselves as very sexy and damn… you do know how to take sexy photos!

love the lingerie too!

I never participate in those games- swipe/my mate fancies you/what would you do with the person above etc etc etc as 1) I find them too inane, I am bored, but not THAT bored- and there is always the same people blowing smoke up the same peoples’ arses. Skipping is also common hahahaha.

Don’t take it personal, it’s not you at all. Your profile is beautifully presented. In my experience it is more didficult to find 3 or 4 way attraction but when it happens it is totally worth waiting for.

Happy New Year!

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By *heelerMan
20 weeks ago

Northants

Please comment below to let us know whether we would interest you or not, and the reason why.

Certainly wouldn't say no to E

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By *uriousCpl91 OP Couple
20 weeks ago

Stockport

"How do you engage with people op? Do you chat with people in the forum, message the ones you think might be a match?"

we tend to meet people within Clubs.

Fab has always been more of a social media for the lifestyle.

more so than a meet up app.

obviously if the people we are chatting to are heading to the same club as us then that's a bonus.

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
20 weeks ago

cannock

Your profile seems fine to us and your pics look great.

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By *inkyukxxxCouple
20 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"Lots of couples don't meet with Bi males. "

That’s interesting. Personally I would see it as more of a positive that it shows an open mind but what do I know haha

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By *inkyukxxxCouple
20 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

I think sometimes if profiles are too long it puts people off reading. Sometimes I skip off if it’s too detailed or long.

I would say it’s good being specific about what you want, that’s really good often people don’t do that. Lots of pics too which is great. I would say the very personal details about the female could potentially put some people off, and I mean that in a sense of a male may be scared of your reaction to him, may not want to put themselves in a situation whereby they feel they are making you uncomfortable etc . I hope why I’m saying makes sense. I would perhaps omit such a detailed and personal bit there and mention that in chat once you have been chatting and built a rapport with someone you are potentially going to meet. 🙂

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By *orkshire MaleMan
20 weeks ago

York

As others have said your profile is quite long. Maybe cut it in half if you wanted to?

Your profile is great, but if you are both bi the photos seem one sided if you are wanting blokes or bi couples to join in.

But if I was too get talking to you both in a random pub and you asked me back to your hotel I wouldn't said no..

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By *ullsfan77Man
20 weeks ago

Torquay

Your profile is very candid and honest and you seem like a lovely couple. Erin looks great and some very good pictures. Personally, I’d wouldn’t message as I am not what you are looking for (straight solo male). Unfortunately Stockport-Torquay would be a bit too far for me . This is absolutely a reflection on me and not on you, as I don’t see the point in messaging anyone who is not looking for what I am. Not everyone is compatible. I would look at the great people you have met and not dwell too much on those who aren’t interested.

All the best and Happy New Year!

Just as a further thought-your age range is broad. Would you really be interested in meeting people in their 80s?

All the very best

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By *tephie the milkmaidTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Dundee

I think your profile is great, but my interests do not match yours.

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By *andybitches1Couple
20 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Think your profile is just fine,pretty clear and transparent with who you are and what you are looking for and nice pictures too.

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By *rasshopper201Man
20 weeks ago

kendal

Please comment below to let us know whether we would interest you or not, and the reason why.

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i like the look of you both and some very nice photos beautiful hairy and a cheeky look in your eye dont need to change anything perfect !!

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By *ylvieMWoman
20 weeks ago

Aylesbury

"Lots of couples don't meet with Bi males.

That’s interesting. Personally I would see it as more of a positive that it shows an open mind but what do I know haha "

Haha im good with it, but sometimes the men in couples assume that if the Other male is Bi, that the bi male will be unable to play straight in a foursome, or that there is a higher risk of STIs etc.

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By *onglegs888Couple
20 weeks ago

Birmingham

It’s your profile… post what your comfortable with and post you want to put out there. People who it interests will reply, those that it doesn’t won’t.

Like most things on here nothings personal

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
20 weeks ago

Worcestershire

We'd swipe right

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By *awpleasureMan
20 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Yes as what a few others gave said

It's the one paragraph that would make me think twice. It's obviously your choice to include that information but this may sound terrible but I dont want to know that about anyone unless its told to me alone and in confidence about somebody I know who wanted to share that info with me.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
20 weeks ago

Leeds

Let's be honest 4 way attraction is difficult.

It is for anyone.

You guys seem to be doing ok with verifications etc, just keep at it.

Mrs

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By *immy 1968Man
20 weeks ago

Hessle

Right from me

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