FabSwingers.com forum: Single ladies… do you agree to same day play meets?

By *otPoshorBecks OP Couple
31 weeks ago

London

Am I the only one that wants to get my eyebrows plucked and my arsehole bleached before a meet?

I like to spend the day removing all my hair from the eyebrows down and be nice and smooth for a meet. Play music and get excited for the meet.

Are you like me do you need some notice or are you perpetually smooth and meet same day for play?

Sam xx

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By *luebell888Woman
31 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I shave my legs and bits daily in the bath so always smooth, but life is too busy to meet the same day. My meets are planned weeks in advance.

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By *otPoshorBecks OP Couple
31 weeks ago

London

"I shave my legs and bits daily in the bath so always smooth, but life is too busy to meet the same day. My meets are planned weeks in advance."

Oh wow you’re perfect I don’t shave though I epilate and I don’t always have time to keep smooth all the time. But thanks for your reply xx

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By *ootnootboopCouple
31 weeks ago

Cheshire

Oh we definitely take time to prepare! It's unheard of us to do same day meets as it's just not possible to fit in all the primping and prepping that's required 😂

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
31 weeks ago

Tamworth

I’d never do a same day meet. Partly for practical reason of getting ready, partly because I like to chat first and partly because I’m more social if I’ve had time to get into the right headspace!

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By *iss DevilWoman
31 weeks ago

Bedford

I am not currently looking for any new meets, but even when I was looking, I liked to take my time getting to know the person, seeing how compatible we are. But I was never doing the whole pre-meet pampering, I'd shave/epilate my legs and would be shower fresh, wearing a nice dress but that's about it. Anybody expecting a made up doll wearing sexy lingerie got highly disappointed as I much prefer the "girl next door" look.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

the only time i have ever agreed to a same day meet, is when i have been let down by someone else.... im all dolled up ready to play and.... let down... so sometimes i have had a same say meet if im able to get it planned xx

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By *issmorganWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I've never done same day or fast meets.I enjoy the build up.

I prefer to get to know someone a but first, I work shifts and I already have a partner. So I like to plan any meets.

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By *otPoshorBecks OP Couple
31 weeks ago

London

"I've never done same day or fast meets.I enjoy the build up.

I prefer to get to know someone a but first, I work shifts and I already have a partner. So I like to plan any meets. "

Thanks single ladies for your posts I am glad I am not the only one xx

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
30 weeks ago

Midlands

I used to.

Now I'd need a month of planning

Katie.

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By *troppy cowWoman
30 weeks ago

Skelmersdale

I do, I like the spontaneity, especially when I'm really horny

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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30 weeks ago

Central

I almost always take many days, usually weeks, before meeting. I've occasionally done same day but only when I had planned for it

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
30 weeks ago

North West

Laser hair removal for the win!

Often meet/ club same day. Always prepared

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By *sm265Woman
30 weeks ago

Perthshire

I dont do meets at short notice, and my first meets are always purely social, so the 'being prepared' thing isnt really an issue.

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By *otPoshorBecks OP Couple
30 weeks ago

London

"I dont do meets at short notice, and my first meets are always purely social, so the 'being prepared' thing isnt really an issue.

Thanks for sharing this post. Although you don’t play on a first meet you still wouldn’t do same day or short notice xx

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
30 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"Am I the only one that wants to get my eyebrows plucked and my arsehole bleached before a meet?

I like to spend the day removing all my hair from the eyebrows down and be nice and smooth for a meet. Play music and get excited for the meet.

Are you like me do you need some notice or are you perpetually smooth and meet same day for play?

Sam xx

I am a busy person. I'm also not stressing myself out with the removal of all body hair for a man who is not paying for it and who is not my life partner.

My eyebrows are never plucked and my arsehole is never bleached for anyone...ever.

I'm autistic and perimenopausal. I don't have the spoons for this. Also I'm a domme in training. If a man wants plucked eyebrows and a bleached butthole I can tie him up and do his own for him.

I can fuck at a drop of a hat and don't need to be turned into a sanitised fantasy doll version of myself.

Now if a man wants to take care of me in all aspects and finer details then I have not problems being a fantasy doll for a short period of time.

But I do better with more freedom and less demands.

I could never be a submissive 24/7. Nor could I be a dominant 24/7. Far too many spoons and intensity.

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By *essTTWoman
30 weeks ago

Birmingham

When I used to meet regularly i would do same day meets.

I wax every 4 weeks so depending on where I am in the cycle I may be a bit hairy.

Other than showering and moisturising I don't do any else to get ready for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I can understand why on the spot meet are rare, it's about the planning,getting ready that includes us men too.

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By *recticWoman
30 weeks ago

taunton

Epilate all the time so I don’t worry about body hair. I can also get ready in half an hour. Some of my best meets have been last minute impulse decisions but there has always been some chat before hand and when the what about a drink after work has been asked, I’ve gone for it. I never meet expecting there to be enough attraction for it to move on immediately and I try to put myself in a position where I wouldn’t even agree to it off the back of a social but once in a while it escalates ( and they’ve always been the better meets)

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
30 weeks ago

Reading

First meets are always socials so the getting ready bit isn’t a huge deal for me. But I also like to get to know the person a little bit first to make sure that there is a connection, I don’t want to waste anyone’s time on meeting when it is obvious that it will go no further.

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By *arleycplWoman
30 weeks ago

Frodsham

"First meets are always socials so the getting ready bit isn’t a huge deal for me. But I also like to get to know the person a little bit first to make sure that there is a connection, I don’t want to waste anyone’s time on meeting when it is obvious that it will go no further."

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
30 weeks ago

Corralejo/ Merseyside

"Am I the only one that wants to get my eyebrows plucked and my arsehole bleached before a meet?

I like to spend the day removing all my hair from the eyebrows down and be nice and smooth for a meet. Play music and get excited for the meet.

Are you like me do you need some notice or are you perpetually smooth and meet same day for play?

Sam xx

I am a busy person. I'm also not stressing myself out with the removal of all body hair for a man who is not paying for it and who is not my life partner.

My eyebrows are never plucked and my arsehole is never bleached for anyone...ever.

I'm autistic and perimenopausal. I don't have the spoons for this. Also I'm a domme in training. If a man wants plucked eyebrows and a bleached butthole I can tie him up and do his own for him.

I can fuck at a drop of a hat and don't need to be turned into a sanitised fantasy doll version of myself.

Now if a man wants to take care of me in all aspects and finer details then I have not problems being a fantasy doll for a short period of time.

But I do better with more freedom and less demands.

I could never be a submissive 24/7. Nor could I be a dominant 24/7. Far too many spoons and intensity."

God I LOVE this

Mrs

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By *ood giving gameCouple
30 weeks ago

York

I've enjoyed lots of same day meets, but I come unshaved and no makeup so it's easy for me!

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By *uit steveMan
30 weeks ago

Wolves / Travelling

I don’t think men consider this and we should.

I surprised a girl I was dating with two hours notice that I was going to visit and she was happy but told me later that it was a mad panic to be ready.

Love the glamour look so now appreciate planning!

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
30 weeks ago

Telford

Oh if I have arranged a social then I'll be meet ready so to speak just in case that goes well. I find it a pain if the social is going well then having to rearrange for another time.

I like to take time though you know exfoliating, shaving etc.

So I'm rarely just randomly meet ready

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By *untime40Man
30 weeks ago

Reading the comments why do you all have to get dolled up before a meeting, I love seeing woman coming out the gym or finishing up a run it’s so sexy

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By *untime40Man
30 weeks ago

"Am I the only one that wants to get my eyebrows plucked and my arsehole bleached before a meet?

I like to spend the day removing all my hair from the eyebrows down and be nice and smooth for a meet. Play music and get excited for the meet.

Are you like me do you need some notice or are you perpetually smooth and meet same day for play?

Sam xx

I am a busy person. I'm also not stressing myself out with the removal of all body hair for a man who is not paying for it and who is not my life partner.

My eyebrows are never plucked and my arsehole is never bleached for anyone...ever.

I'm autistic and perimenopausal. I don't have the spoons for this. Also I'm a domme in training. If a man wants plucked eyebrows and a bleached butthole I can tie him up and do his own for him.

I can fuck at a drop of a hat and don't need to be turned into a sanitised fantasy doll version of myself.

Now if a man wants to take care of me in all aspects and finer details then I have not problems being a fantasy doll for a short period of time.

But I do better with more freedom and less demands.

I could never be a submissive 24/7. Nor could I be a dominant 24/7. Far too many spoons and intensity."

I love this 100% my type of lady

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By *lueDressWoman
30 weeks ago

Bath Somerset

No.Ive never been interested

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
30 weeks ago

Reading

"Reading the comments why do you all have to get dolled up before a meeting, I love seeing woman coming out the gym or finishing up a run it’s so sexy "

Because it is what makes us feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I don't like the waiting. Spontaneous is better. I lose interest otherwise

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By *otPoshorBecks OP Couple
30 weeks ago

London

"Reading the comments why do you all have to get dolled up before a meeting, I love seeing woman coming out the gym or finishing up a run it’s so sexy "

I am the OP and I was talking about being hairy not sweaty. Some guys like hairy armpits and legs on ladies but many don’t and I like my meets to be prepped and smooth too xx

Do you like women with hairy legs and pits?

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By *essTTWoman
30 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Reading the comments why do you all have to get dolled up before a meeting, I love seeing woman coming out the gym or finishing up a run it’s so sexy

I am the OP and I was talking about being hairy not sweaty. Some guys like hairy armpits and legs on ladies but many don’t and I like my meets to be prepped and smooth too xx

Do you like women with hairy legs and pits?"

Most men don't care, I haven't touched my armpit hair for years lol

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By *otshot14Woman
30 weeks ago

tunbridge wells

I can't just do single meets,doesnt matter how horny I maybe.

I like to find out a bit more about them,this day age there are some really weird ones.

Can be a bit scary for us women at times

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By *eeSoarMan
30 weeks ago

Shrewsbury, West Midlands

"Reading the comments why do you all have to get dolled up before a meeting, I love seeing woman coming out the gym or finishing up a run it’s so sexy

I am the OP and I was talking about being hairy not sweaty. Some guys like hairy armpits and legs on ladies but many don’t and I like my meets to be prepped and smooth too xx

Do you like women with hairy legs and pits?"

A proper bush is the best. Wish I had been about in the 70s (sensible house prices too). I find all this shaved/waxed stuff a bit weird. Pubic hair indicates sexual maturity. A lack of it....

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By *aven RedWoman
30 weeks ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

No. I need to do all the stuff to feel pretty. Have a connection. Feel safe. Same day doesn't work for me x

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By *HostDiscreetMan
30 weeks ago

SeLdn Surrey Quays

I love a big hairy bush

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By *tlanshiaWoman
30 weeks ago

Chatham

No, if a guy can't be asked to get to know me, and converse about sex and have a little flirt the meet will be shit anyway.

Id rather stay behind with my rose toy lol

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
30 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

You're welcome.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
30 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

At the rate I'm going my middle-aged beard will be unshaven too.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
30 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

Being sweaty only works for me if I know the man is into that kink.

Otherwise I make an effort to be clean! Majority of people do not like stale sweat!plus it may give you skin complications if you leave sweat on too long.

Or one of my partners lives within cycling distance so I shower off the sweat, road dirt and London pollution in his bathroom before Irub myself all over him.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
30 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"Am I the only one that wants to get my eyebrows plucked and my arsehole bleached before a meet?

I like to spend the day removing all my hair from the eyebrows down and be nice and smooth for a meet. Play music and get excited for the meet.

Are you like me do you need some notice or are you perpetually smooth and meet same day for play?

Sam xx

I am a busy person. I'm also not stressing myself out with the removal of all body hair for a man who is not paying for it and who is not my life partner.

My eyebrows are never plucked and my arsehole is never bleached for anyone...ever.

I'm autistic and perimenopausal. I don't have the spoons for this. Also I'm a domme in training. If a man wants plucked eyebrows and a bleached butthole I can tie him up and do his own for him.

I can fuck at a drop of a hat and don't need to be turned into a sanitised fantasy doll version of myself.

Now if a man wants to take care of me in all aspects and finer details then I have not problems being a fantasy doll for a short period of time.

But I do better with more freedom and less demands.

I could never be a submissive 24/7. Nor could I be a dominant 24/7. Far too many spoons and intensity.

I love this 100% my type of lady "

I'm a naturist at heart so no surprise I lean to the more natural side of things. I'm just more practical and I've been married before and it's not always practical to do all of this prep.

Honeymoon, vacations, valentines day but real life gets in the way for most people.

Luckily I'm not super hairy. I'm all for women(actually all genders) doing what ever they want with their bodies. Smooth or bushy.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
30 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"I love a big hairy bush "

Gets trapped in the elastic of underwear... or zips!

Pokes out the side of swimsuit scaring scarring small children at the leisure centre pool. 😅🤣😂🙈😈🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
30 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"Reading the comments why do you all have to get dolled up before a meeting, I love seeing woman coming out the gym or finishing up a run it’s so sexy

I am the OP and I was talking about being hairy not sweaty. Some guys like hairy armpits and legs on ladies but many don’t and I like my meets to be prepped and smooth too xx

Do you like women with hairy legs and pits?

A proper bush is the best. Wish I had been about in the 70s (sensible house prices too). I find all this shaved/waxed stuff a bit weird. Pubic hair indicates sexual maturity. A lack of it...."

Bald pussy gives me the autistic underage ick. Good thing I'm not sexually attracted to women. I can only imagine really liking some one and then they take their clothes off and your dick goes limp. Oh my days!

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By *aven RedWoman
29 weeks ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

"I love a big hairy bush

Gets trapped in the elastic of underwear... or zips!

Pokes out the side of swimsuit scaring scarring small children at the leisure centre pool. 😅🤣😂🙈😈🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️"

Like hundreds of spiders trying to make an escape x 🤣

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