FabSwingers.com forum: From swingers to cuckold

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We find we are both constantly talking about our extramarital affairs and how much it adds to our relationship. One thing that RG mentioned was she wondered that if we hadn't introduced other people into our sex life whether the sex between us would be any different. I guess the reason she said this is down to how much we both introduce the talk of previous meets into our sexy time, we both feed of replaying what has happened.

What we have realised is as time goes by our play time is switching from swinging to cuckolding. I have always been sexualy bi... what I mean is I get turned on by other men naked and fully appreciate a nice looking cock even down to preferring them to have foreskin but would never seek a relationship with a man.

We originally set out to find other bi men for three way fun which we have done and both thoroughly enjoy, before we got together RG had never thought about watching two men performing but now she's experienced it she loves it and find she gets so turned on by it. I have always been more submissive when it comes to man/man and found I enjoyed the feeling of being 'taken' by a man, RG after seeing this realised how much it turned her on.

This brings me to our current situation, I find myself becoming obsessed with seeking other more dominant better equipped men than myself to introduce into our play time.

It's harder than it seems finding a male partner who we both get turned on by and who is comfortable with the bi side of things. We have met some fantastic lovers, the last one was fantastic, quite a bit bigger than me and super passionate, it was probably the first time I felt like a proper cuckold! He had more stamina and was better endowed, he managed to perform twice both times unprotected. I must admit to feeling funny after the experience, humbled even after seeing another man being able to do things I couldn't do, that lasted for a few days but the more I came to terms with it the more aroused I became until finaly it was all I think about.

Our play time now involves RG telling me how much bigger he was and how he touched her in places I couldn't reach all the time she will be stroking me, to hear the words is such an emotional turn on my cock literally explodes.

I was wondering how many couples have gone down this route and find them selves in a cuckold marriage, we have and we both love the journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in reply please see my post titled wife tattoo

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP: very interesting! I find other peoples sexual journeys fascinating.

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

OP, it is great to hear that you have found out what works for you both and that you are in a situation to go for it.

We wish you a long and happy "career".

Tarzan & Jane x

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We usually find ourselves thinking "each to their own", but in this case your post describes our experiences word for word!

You're quite correct in that finding suitable guys can be extremely frustrating, especially when the last one was so great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We usually find ourselves thinking "each to their own", but in this case your post describes our experiences word for word!

You're quite correct in that finding suitable guys can be extremely frustrating, especially when the last one was so great."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one's sexuality stays the same throughout their life, and in a long term relationship the evolvement of both parties sexuality throws even more variables into the pot.

Most long term couple's sexuality fades into the routine and the mundane. Yours is mutually evolving, which surely is a good thing.

I can see the attraction of what you are currently interested in, I feel it has the base element of that you feel so comfortable in your permanent commitment that your wife can tell you things with honesty that she COULDN'T tell you in a staid, static relationship and that builds further your trust and relationship.

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By *ussiesCouple
over a year ago

gwent

Op sorry can't mail you privately, because we are outside your age range, but we totally see what your going through, mind blowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op sorry can't mail you privately, because we are outside your age range, but we totally see what your going through, mind blowing"

Always been impressed with your profile and pictures too, but never messaged as not appropriate to do so

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By *ussiesCouple
over a year ago

gwent

"Op sorry can't mail you privately, because we are outside your age range, but we totally see what your going through, mind blowing

Always been impressed with your profile and pictures too, but never messaged as not appropriate to do so"

Who ? Me or op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op sorry can't mail you privately, because we are outside your age range, but we totally see what your going through, mind blowing

Always been impressed with your profile and pictures too, but never messaged as not appropriate to do so

Who ? Me or op "

Both profiles, but in this instance I was referring to yours Sussie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its interesting to hear how the OP's preferences have changed and developed from BI then to cuckolding, seems alot on here are exploring and being honest about liking to meet up with guys who can control and dominate them.

Having had met couples when they get to this stage, I find it a great turn on and privilege to help them explore this new found experience.

I wish the OP all the best of luck finding a guy both can enjoy together and who understands his role in this type of meet x

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any

Lovely story of your cuckold journey boogienights. It's always more special to meet a couple where one can develop an understanding and for a single guy to know both partners of the couple are taking something from the meet. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read your post to my wife as there are a lot of similaries between the two of us in that where we started was as a swinging couple and that has evolved now into a cuckold relationship where I help arrange my wifes encounters. We're doing things now that 2yrs ago when we first started we would never have done and there is still a lot deeper we can and probably will go in time. Spot on post OP

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

We understand exactly what going through although we find it easy to switch between swinging and cuckold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its interesting to hear how the OP's preferences have changed and developed from BI then to cuckolding, seems alot on here are exploring and being honest about liking to meet up with guys who can control and dominate them.

Having had met couples when they get to this stage, I find it a great turn on and privilege to help them explore this new found experience.

I wish the OP all the best of luck finding a guy both can enjoy together and who understands his role in this type of meet x"

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By *resh princeMan
over a year ago

Leeds

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