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By *ddy818 OP   Man
34 weeks ago

manchester

I’m a newish guy what am I doing wrong. I’m I not most women’s type on here. I do message I’d either get read or deleted. I understand the men to women ratio will be wild for women. Do have conversions then they don’t go anywhere.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
34 weeks ago

Coventry

Without seeing your interactions with people it's difficult to say your doing anything wrong per se. Decent photos. Nothing wrong or red flaggy in the bio. Some may say you've not written a lot but personally I'd say sometimes less I more.

However it's really difficult to get meets as a single guy. Although once you get started things can get better with momentum. You've been on 2 months. I'd say give it another 4 months and if things aren't picking up come back to us.

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By *ddy818 OP   Man
34 weeks ago

manchester

Cheers buddy 👍

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By *esparate danMan
34 weeks ago

glasgow

Shalom

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By *eroLondonMan
34 weeks ago

Mayfair

On the surface it looks good, you appear to be well groomed with an enviable torso. Due credit for not displaying gratuitously crass cock photographs.

Your profile needs polishing up:

More teasing photos for the women, partially clothed, full clothed, with better backdrops. Any photograph with the toilet/cistern in full view is a no no. However, a shower photo, executed well, tends to be favourably accepted.

You really really need to write something on your profile. Remove any references to you being Asian. It's irrelevant. Articulate your profile with clear sentences of what you like, what interests you have outside and inside the bedroom, what are your desires on the surface, without being overtly explicit, avoiding juvenile terms such as "banter" or "LOL" and "innit" etc.

In essence you need to flesh out your profile. And do not use AI. (I'm not referring to artificial insemination).

Best of luck, OP. 🌿

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By *ddy818 OP   Man
34 weeks ago

manchester

Cheers buddy thanks for advice will sort it out

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By *harAndBryCouple
33 weeks ago

Downham Market


"I’m a newish guy what am I doing wrong. I’m I not most women’s type on here. I do message I’d either get read or deleted. I understand the men to women ratio will be wild for women. Do have conversions then they don’t go anywhere. "

In all honesty, we'd be put off by the verification you left for your meet.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
33 weeks ago

Leeds


"I’m a newish guy what am I doing wrong. "

I don't understand what you are trying to show with the pic of you and possibly a woman in possibly a car, with purple devil emojis

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By *ussell Nobbs...Man
33 weeks ago

Lincoln


"I’m a newish guy what am I doing wrong. I’m I not most women’s type on here. I do message I’d either get read or deleted. I understand the men to women ratio will be wild for women. Do have conversions then they don’t go anywhere. "

Try dating sites mate. Far less stressful, you won't have to deal with shitty attitudes and the women don't all think they're god's gift....

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By *ootnootboopCouple
33 weeks ago

Cheshire


"I’m a newish guy what am I doing wrong. I’m I not most women’s type on here. I do message I’d either get read or deleted. I understand the men to women ratio will be wild for women. Do have conversions then they don’t go anywhere.

And that represents advice to the OP about his profile in what way???

Try dating sites mate. Far less stressful, you won't have to deal with shitty attitudes and the women don't all think they're god's gift...."

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"I’m a newish guy what am I doing wrong. I’m I not most women’s type on here. I do message I’d either get read or deleted. I understand the men to women ratio will be wild for women. Do have conversions then they don’t go anywhere.

Try dating sites mate. Far less stressful, you won't have to deal with shitty attitudes and the women don't all think they're god's gift...."

Wow, what a comment

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By *ussell Nobbs...Man
33 weeks ago

Lincoln


"I’m a newish guy what am I doing wrong. I’m I not most women’s type on here. I do message I’d either get read or deleted. I understand the men to women ratio will be wild for women. Do have conversions then they don’t go anywhere.

Try dating sites mate. Far less stressful, you won't have to deal with shitty attitudes and the women don't all think they're god's gift....

Wow, what a comment "

Just describing my experience on here since 2010. 👍

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By *CExeCouple
33 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter


"I’m a newish guy what am I doing wrong. I’m I not most women’s type on here. I do message I’d either get read or deleted. I understand the men to women ratio will be wild for women. Do have conversions then they don’t go anywhere.

Try dating sites mate. Far less stressful, you won't have to deal with shitty attitudes and the women don't all think they're god's gift....

Wow, what a comment

Just describing my experience on here since 2010. 👍"

Rather different to my experience as a guy and I've been on here since 2010 too. I've had lasses not reply, maybe a couple of arrogant couples but nothing like you've intimated. The only thing I've noticed is that playing as a couple, single men seem to feel incredibly entitled and get butthurt and upset if they get a no from a couple or a lass.

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By *host63Man
33 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Nothing wrong with you. The women on here are picky and know they don't need to do much to get attention.

You are being lost under a sea of other guys.

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