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By (user no longer on site) OP   
38 weeks ago

Hi everyone,I'm looking for advice on how to meet beautiful women and couples. I don't know why it's so hard to even start a conversation here; it's very frustrating. I think we are all here for the same reasons, right?!

I'm a very private person and I don't like to share too much about myself online. I prefer face-to-face interaction, and I think there's nothing wrong with getting a coffee or drinks together to see if we connect."

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

How are you approaching people?

We aren't all here for the same reason though.

If you prefer face to face interaction look out for socials or if you feel able go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Get a profile pic rather than a silhouette. You say you’re not into men, but verified by a TV/TS

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
38 weeks ago

Norwich

Your profile sounds a little confusing. You say you won't meet men or cross dressers but your looking fit TV/TS plus a verification from a TV/TS

Just give a bit more clarity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
38 weeks ago

Infortunaly my time is very limited due to my job....sometimes I go to the club ( when I have time) here I just mex but most of the people doesn't give you the chance even start a conversation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
38 weeks ago


"Get a profile pic rather than a silhouette. You say you’re not into men, but verified by a TV/TS "

You right about the set the profile...and i like operated trans and this is not a man...

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By *issmorganWoman
38 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

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By *issmorganWoman
38 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Apologies if I'm wrong, but are you married op?

You look like you have a wedding ring on in one pic along with not being able to accom and mentioning being discreet.

If so, that will out some women ans couples off.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
38 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"Hi everyone,I'm looking for advice on how to meet beautiful women and couples. I don't know why it's so hard to even start a conversation here; it's very frustrating. I think we are all here for the same reasons, right?!

I'm a very private person and I don't like to share too much about myself online. I prefer face-to-face interaction, and I think there's nothing wrong with getting a coffee or drinks together to see if we connect.""

Um...Your profile is very generic and pretty much the same as all the 1000 other men within a 5 mile radius.

If you lived near me, I wouldn't message you because there's nothing that we would share in common apart from being on this site.

I need to have something in common to build a rapport with before I even consider letting them touch my body and touching doesn't always mean sex.

You might need a paid lady if you are only after sex and nothing more and have limited time for clubs ad socials due to work. Paid ladies are very discreet because it's their income and they don't want to turn off the tap so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
38 weeks ago

Chester

You’re in a catch 22 - you don’t want to share too much online….but unless you share enough in your profile to pique someone’s interest, you’re unlikely to get any replies to your messages.

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By *tormchasingCouple
38 weeks ago

Billericay

We always find it a bit of a red flag when someone says they’re keen to meet couples, but then makes it crystal clear they absolutely don't want to meet men. Just a heads-up: most couples do come with one of those.

Totally get that you’re probably just saying you’re not looking for any guy-on-guy action (which, fair enough). But when it’s worded like a hard “no men” rule, it reads like you’re hoping to meet women, and if they happen to come with a partner, you’ll just pretend he is invisible. That’s not really the dynamic most couples look for.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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38 weeks ago

Central

I echo what most have said here.

Women will only chat if they think that you're likely to be mutually compatible. The onus is on you to share enough to support their interest. This will include appropriate images and details of you, to start and cultivate their interest.

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