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By *k12345 OP   Man
6 days ago

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Morning all would just like some people to take a look at my profile and give me some feedback, I know I only have 1 public pic but I do explain why in the bio, if there is anything I can do to improve it I'd be open to any advice

Thank you

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By *harAndBryCouple
6 days ago

Downham Market

Let's say we're buying a car. We browse all the various places and see the adverts and there are four that just describe the car and say to call and ask for pictures, and two that have good clear pics of the car so we know what we'll get. Which ones do you think we'll go and see?

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By *k12345 OP   Man
6 days ago

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By *k12345 OP   Man
6 days ago

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"Let's say we're buying a car. We browse all the various places and see the adverts and there are four that just describe the car and say to call and ask for pictures, and two that have good clear pics of the car so we know what we'll get. Which ones do you think we'll go and see?"

I get your point but personally if the description of the car sounds really good and is a good price but said contact to see pics I would still be interested in the car and simply ask to see the pics lol

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By *eroLondonMan
6 days ago

Covent Garden

Look at this thread and follow the advice given to you there - in particular the one kindly given by EvaRose:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1696235

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By *harAndBryCouple
6 days ago

Downham Market


"I get your point but personally if the description of the car sounds really good and is a good price but said contact to see pics I would still be interested in the car and simply ask to see the pics lol "

Absolutely your prerogative to ask for advice, receive the viewpoint of someone in your actual "target market" and disregard it.

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By *k12345 OP   Man
6 days ago

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"I get your point but personally if the description of the car sounds really good and is a good price but said contact to see pics I would still be interested in the car and simply ask to see the pics lol

Absolutely your prerogative to ask for advice, receive the viewpoint of someone in your actual "target market" and disregard it."

Absolutely not disregarding your viewpoint

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
6 days ago

Gloucester


"Let's say we're buying a car. We browse all the various places and see the adverts and there are four that just describe the car and say to call and ask for pictures, and two that have good clear pics of the car so we know what we'll get. Which ones do you think we'll go and see?"

This is spot on. If I was looking for a man and they have “DM for more pics” I would move on to another profile that already had more pics

The fact you also state twice “I don’t have a wife or girlfriend” makes me second guess you, also the fact you’ve not changed the 18-99 age bracket would put me off.

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By *arvest84Man
6 days ago

brigg

well , i have tried to make mine as honest as i can . any thoughts lol. x

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
6 days ago

Gloucester


"Let's say we're buying a car. We browse all the various places and see the adverts and there are four that just describe the car and say to call and ask for pictures, and two that have good clear pics of the car so we know what we'll get. Which ones do you think we'll go and see?

This is spot on. If I was looking for a man and they have “DM for more pics” I would move on to another profile that already had more pics

The fact you also state twice “I don’t have a wife or girlfriend” makes me second guess you, also the fact you’ve not changed the 18-99 age bracket would put me off.

"

m

There was absolutely no need for you to message me in response to this OP. You could have just replied on here like you did with the others

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By *ogandher1962Couple
6 days ago

Reading


"Let's say we're buying a car. We browse all the various places and see the adverts and there are four that just describe the car and say to call and ask for pictures, and two that have good clear pics of the car so we know what we'll get. Which ones do you think we'll go and see?

This is spot on. If I was looking for a man and they have “DM for more pics” I would move on to another profile that already had more pics

The fact you also state twice “I don’t have a wife or girlfriend” makes me second guess you, also the fact you’ve not changed the 18-99 age bracket would put me off.

m

There was absolutely no need for you to message me in response to this OP. You could have just replied on here like you did with the others "

He did the same to us.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
6 days ago

Gloucester


"Let's say we're buying a car. We browse all the various places and see the adverts and there are four that just describe the car and say to call and ask for pictures, and two that have good clear pics of the car so we know what we'll get. Which ones do you think we'll go and see?

This is spot on. If I was looking for a man and they have “DM for more pics” I would move on to another profile that already had more pics

The fact you also state twice “I don’t have a wife or girlfriend” makes me second guess you, also the fact you’ve not changed the 18-99 age bracket would put me off.

m

There was absolutely no need for you to message me in response to this OP. You could have just replied on here like you did with the others

He did the same to us. "

Not a good look really

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By *ogandher1962Couple
6 days ago

Reading


"Let's say we're buying a car. We browse all the various places and see the adverts and there are four that just describe the car and say to call and ask for pictures, and two that have good clear pics of the car so we know what we'll get. Which ones do you think we'll go and see?

This is spot on. If I was looking for a man and they have “DM for more pics” I would move on to another profile that already had more pics

The fact you also state twice “I don’t have a wife or girlfriend” makes me second guess you, also the fact you’ve not changed the 18-99 age bracket would put me off.

m

There was absolutely no need for you to message me in response to this OP. You could have just replied on here like you did with the others

He did the same to us.

Not a good look really "

Agreed

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By *k12345 OP   Man
6 days ago

ask

Didn't realise it was a bad thing to personally thank ppl for their feedback being polite I would understand if I was rude but I was polite and respectful of the opinions I didn't know that was a bad thing to give personal responses what's the point of having the tool on here otherwise?

Wow people need to chill out ffs

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
6 days ago

Gloucester


"Didn't realise it was a bad thing to personally thank ppl for their feedback being polite I would understand if I was rude but I was polite and respectful of the opinions I didn't know that was a bad thing to give personal responses what's the point of having the tool on here otherwise?

Wow people need to chill out ffs"

It’s polite to reply on the forums not via DM unless you were asked to

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By *ogandher1962Couple
6 days ago

Reading


"Didn't realise it was a bad thing to personally thank ppl for their feedback being polite I would understand if I was rude but I was polite and respectful of the opinions I didn't know that was a bad thing to give personal responses what's the point of having the tool on here otherwise?

Wow people need to chill out ffs"

You’d be better became quite passive / aggressive. Let’s leave it there OP

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
6 days ago

Swindon

Not sure what further advice could be given

You have asked for profile advice on 2 previous occasions and have 16 verifications one being within the last month

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By *k12345 OP   Man
6 days ago

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"Not sure what further advice could be given

You have asked for profile advice on 2 previous occasions and have 16 verifications one being within the last month "

I'm always looking to improve it and have already made changes based on some recommendations today

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By *k12345 OP   Man
6 days ago

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"Didn't realise it was a bad thing to personally thank ppl for their feedback being polite I would understand if I was rude but I was polite and respectful of the opinions I didn't know that was a bad thing to give personal responses what's the point of having the tool on here otherwise?

Wow people need to chill out ffs

It’s polite to reply on the forums not via DM unless you were asked to "

I didn't know about this peice of fabswingers etiquette, now I know I didn't previously.

Thanks

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By *harAndBryCouple
5 days ago

Downham Market


"well , i have tried to make mine as honest as i can . any thoughts lol. x"

Poor form to jump on someone else's post, the replies get confusing as people often don't quote when they reply. Best to make your own.

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