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"Not sure whether my profile is just rubbish but not getting the attention I thought I would any help ? " Maybe try getting some verifications - go to a club or social - so many people on here for a year and no verifications is a red flag to us. Also don’t set your expectations too high on what you’ll “get”. | |||
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"What other sites are there ? " There's life away from the internet. | |||
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"Yeah I think it is a issue for quite a lot of people might be me being childish here but I expected older women to enjoy a younger guy ahaha " Some will some won’t. It’s personal preference. | |||
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"Yeah I understand that and respect it " What age do you class as “mature”? | |||
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"Yeah I think it is a issue for quite a lot of people might be me being childish here but I expected older women to enjoy a younger guy ahaha " What level of attention were you looking for? It sounds very much like you were thinking that these older women would come looking for you? | |||
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"Well to be honest older would be anything over thirty but I really want 50+ " Why? | |||
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"I’d like to meet with a couple and single ladies hopefully some older ladies who are good looking " That's who you'd like to meet but did you expect it to be quite straightforward and quick? It does take time for most men to establish themselves. You might give some thought to the kind of profile that would appeal to the people you'd like to meet. Good luck | |||
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"Well to be honest older would be anything over thirty but I really want 50+ " Then maybe change your age preferences on your profile to let people know | |||
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"Well I’m also open to meeting people who are younger than that " So basically any age then? | |||
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"Just love the idea of an older couple gets me going " You probably need to have an idea of what it is you have to offer them... | |||
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"Not sure whether my profile is just rubbish but not getting the attention I thought I would any help ? " Ok. Since you mentioned your profile.... It's 6 weeks old. Not sure how quickly you thought things would start getting 'exciting' but for the majority It's a lot longer than that. You have limited photos to show people what you look like. You have a brief and not very detailed bio. Yes, your age may be an issue, but that won't be the sole problem. You need to have patience, make your profile the best it can be and lower any expectations Oh....and when replying to someone on here, click the 'reply+quote' option under their comment. That way they'll know you're replying to them. 😉 | |||
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"Not sure whether my profile is just rubbish but not getting the attention I thought I would any help ? Ok. Since you mentioned your profile.... It's 6 weeks old. Not sure how quickly you thought things would start getting 'exciting' but for the majority It's a lot longer than that. You have limited photos to show people what you look like. You have a brief and not very detailed bio. Yes, your age may be an issue, but that won't be the sole problem. You need to have patience, make your profile the best it can be and lower any expectations Oh....and when replying to someone on here, click the 'reply+quote' option under their comment. That way they'll know you're replying to them. 😉" Cheers mate didn’t know that ahaha | |||
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"I'm with you on the 6 week thing, I'm 68 and been on Fabswingers since 2009, and it took me nearly a year to find my first encounter, and to be fair that came to by word of mouth rather than from the site, even though the lady in question had a profile here too. get your self noticed around the local socials scene will boost things as people may well write a verification to the fact they met you in person blah blah, men here are a dime a dozen, and the females have such a wide selection to choose from too, you're young, looking for an older woman, that is needle in hay stack territory to be fair. Good luck, and like previously stated by someone, improve your profile, build yourself up, sell yourself." Yeah I have changed my profile think it’s better now | |||
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