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"Any advice on mine?" Would you really "take legal action" Really? General life advice: Don't threaten if you can't (or wont) follow through. | |||
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"Any advice on mine?" Yeah don't post pictures of other women if it's not a couples profile | |||
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"Any advice on mine? Yeah don't post pictures of other women if it's not a couples profile " And possibly avoid chatgpt | |||
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"Any advice on mine?" Too many photos of women, and explain how you’d sue us? | |||
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . " Apart from where your from and if you found a lady you would meet couples, it says nothing, but top marks for no cock pic 😉 | |||
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"Any advice on mine?" There is no way you have her permission to post those pics on this site. Just take them down. | |||
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"Any advice on mine?" Agree with other comments. Gratuitous pictures of someone not associated with your profile; as a single male. Maybe that should be added to the criteria for accepting pictures. They should err on the side of caution and assume you don't have permission. | |||
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"Any advice on mine? Would you really "take legal action" Really? General life advice: Don't threaten if you can't (or wont) follow through. " Brilliant 😂👏 | |||
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . " Positives = Face Photo Negatives = face photo appears to be have taken in the bathroom? No description in the info section, nothing that may give a clue that someone has something in common with you? ---------- It is a numbers game. I've had 28 messages today, I'll probably reply to 3. If there is no profile description, I'm not going to waste time replying. Seems heartless, but sadly most women on fab could never answer every message. | |||
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . " There isn’t much to your bio, other than you say that you can play as a single guy or as a couple, personally I’d lose that as it sounds a little bit off... If it’s true, you should consider getting a couples profile 🤷🏻♂️ Side note, having a profile on here does not mean you’re necessarily getting laid! | |||
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . " Not really sure what to say to this - there's not much to work with. We don't understand what 'I have text nice and polite and sexy' means in this context. | |||
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"Any advice on mine? Yeah don't post pictures of other women if it's not a couples profile " This turns me off guys straightaway. Even if they are hot | |||
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"Anybody have any advice and constructive criticism for mine? On a dry spell and no one seems keen, thanks x" No but where you live always makes me laugh. | |||
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"A photo doing jazz hands? " lol walked into that one ha | |||
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"OP, take on board the advice given above. Your profile is generic and virtually non-existent. ㅤㅤ As for the other men on this thread asking for advice: there's nothing wrong with asking for profile advice but the correct protocol is to create your own thread, otherwise the thread becomes convoluted and difficult to determine who is giving feedback to whom." As above, start your own thread asking as it can get confusing when others jump in asking | |||
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"Just had a refresh of my profile! Hope it looks good… and not like a cv! Girls let’s hear your thoughts. Josh x" You’d be better off starting your own thread rather than jumping on someone elses | |||
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . " Mrs here. I see you say “text, nice, polite and sexy”? You have text and nice and polite but sexy is an opinion. This is not always going to be shared by most. If I was you I’d get better public photos. | |||
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . " Take a look at the more successful guys, look at how they structure their profile and compose their photos. Take tips from them. | |||
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"any advice on mine too?" The thing about terms and conditions is totally meaningless. | |||
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"Hi , check it out agin ? " It's worse Sorry At least you had a profile pic before, that was the one thing you scored on....now it's gone?? | |||
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"any advice on mine too?" Hey Welcome Might be better to start your own thread asking?  | |||
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"Hi , check it out agin ? " can't remember what the original was, but this update would do nothing for us at all. | |||
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"any advice on mine too?" What are the new terms and conditions of Fabswinger?? Please enlighten me. | |||
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"Far worse. No photo now, instant closure for me. " • I was going to say the same thing! OP, alas, your profile has gone from bad to worse! 🫤 | |||
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"Any feedback for my profile please? I know i only have 1 public pic but I do explain why on my bio, I do have others to send if someone interests me..." You'd be better off starting your own thread rather than jumping on someone else's | |||
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . " You're invisible I don't understand how anyone can't understand that a picture goes such a long way. Your profile is your shop window be honest with yourself would you bother stopping or would you carry on walking past yours | |||
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . " 3mths without a bite is nothing for Fab. Blokes have a hard time (they wish) as it appears the neanderthal man is ruining it for the good guys. It's no different to being 18 in a poorly lit nightclub and a bottle of Hooch in your hand. You've got to put some effort in or it's cab time when the lights come on. | |||
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"Blokes have a hard time (they wish) as it appears the neanderthal man is ruining it for the good guys." • Are they? 🤔 | |||
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"Wondering what peeps make of my profile?" • Here's your answer: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1719409 | |||
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"Wondering what peeps make of my profile? • Here's your answer: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1719409" #harsh | |||
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"Wondering what peeps make of my profile? • Here's your answer: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1719409" . Ok was just asking everyone else asked not sure why I got singled out | |||
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"Can I jump in for advice too please? Have more luck in clubs than on here " Start your own thread would be our suggestion. | |||
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"Wondering what peeps make of my profile? • Here's your answer: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1719409. Ok was just asking everyone else asked not sure why I got singled out " You did a thread, you got replies, advice. You've wrote on this thread to ask but the forum etiquette is to start your own thread......which you did If you didn't know that, it's been posted on the thread which you would have seen if you'd read the thread. Can you see why they reminded you of your own thread | |||
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"Wondering what peeps make of my profile? • Here's your answer: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1719409. Ok was just asking everyone else asked not sure why I got singled out · You did a thread, you got replies, advice. You've wrote on this thread to ask but the forum etiquette is to start your own thread......which you did If you didn't know that, it's been posted on the thread which you would have seen if you'd read the thread. Can you see why they reminded you of your own thread " • Perfectly put. ✔️ You did the right thing 'once upon a time' by creating your own thread but somehow, with temerity, you decided to regress whatever you had learnt and hijack the thread, amongst all the other men on here. There are reasons why that approach is impractical: it's difficult for people to keep up and discern to whom they are replying and giving advice to. The thread becomes messy and convoluted because there's so much conflicting advice for every Tom, Dick and Harriet. | |||
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"Wondering what peeps make of my profile? • Here's your answer: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1719409. Ok was just asking everyone else asked not sure why I got singled out " • You were single out because I managed to find your pre-existing thread - to •help• you 'bump' it. Give me a few days, when I've got nothing better to do, and I'll find all the others who have created their own unique threads....and single them out. 🙄 | |||
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"Any advice on mine? Would you really "take legal action" Really? General life advice: Don't threaten if you can't (or wont) follow through. " That’s the best bit of advice.. | |||
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"Can I jump in for advice too please? Have more luck in clubs than on here " Stick with what works best for you? 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . " Yes, it's crap. | |||
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"Wondering what peeps make of my profile? • Here's your answer: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1719409. Ok was just asking everyone else asked not sure why I got singled out • You were single out because I managed to find your pre-existing thread - to •help• you 'bump' it. Give me a few days, when I've got nothing better to do, and I'll find all the others who have created their own unique threads....and single them out. 🙄" ok yup I fully admit my guilt here and genuinely and wholeheartedly apologise for My actions. I honestly never ment to hijack, I saw others and jumped in without thinking again to everyone here I do genuinely apologise | |||
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"Any tips for mine" Ask yourself why anyone would want to engage with you based on that profile. [Hint - they wouldn't] It says absolutely nothing about you other than that you have a flat tummy. The single guys who succeed on FAB are generally the ones who spend more than 10 minutes building their profile | |||
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"Incidentally as a rather successful single male(ish) account, what do the forum make of me? " With a name like that something on the French culinary side say like Coq au Vin...gina | |||
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"Incidentally as a rather successful single male(ish) account, what do the forum make of me? " Why are you bothered? | |||
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"Why are you bothered? " Well it certainly makes a change from all the "what am I doing wrong?" posts. | |||
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"Can I jump in for advice too please? Have more luck in clubs than on here " You should go to clubs then!  | |||
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"Why are you bothered? Well it certainly makes a change from all the "what am I doing wrong?" posts." Good point  | |||
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"Any tips for mine" Perhaps write a profile…. | |||
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"Incidentally as a rather successful single male(ish) account, what do the forum make of me? Why are you bothered? " Twas a subtle attempt to assist the what am I doing wrong crowd | |||
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"My profile?Any advice? " Please read my profile thoroughly! I want to connect with people who take the time to understand my expectations. Generic "Hi" messages or messages with just a dick pic will be ignored. I'm open to meeting smokers. females or couples, – please include a face photo with your first message if you don't have one on your profile. It helps me know who I'm chatting with. Do you really need any advice? Judging by these requirements from your profile, sounds like you must be inundated with nuisance messages from pesky women (sorry females) and couples that just don’t know how to introduce themselves! | |||
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"females or couples, – please include a face photo with your first message if you don't have one on your profile. It helps me know who I'm chatting with." Makes you sound like a picture collector. Why would any couple send a face picture to someone they don't know at all? | |||
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