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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic " Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either   | |||
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either "Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever | |||
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"tbh it doesn't bother me, I just know not to waste their time (or mine)" Aye I suppose you can see it as a good filter | |||
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever "Must be tight as a Chinese takeaway bag. | |||
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles? considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. " it's like wen people demand a face pic on the first message or block you lol | |||
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles? considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. " Why would the profile be fake? It's their preference, to only meet men with big cocks. | |||
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"Where are these profiles? Asking for a friend "I bet lol | |||
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"Where are these profiles? Asking for a friend I bet lol "
I get what the OP is saying though - 9+ is pornstar/dildo size so narrows down the search but perhaps they just want the ‘extreme’ or bigger than the easily obtainable. Everyone has preferences whether its stated or not | |||
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet? " Exactly this. People are here to live out their fantasies; to have the sex they want with the people they want to have it with. So why should they not express explicitly what they want whether it's cock size, big boobs, size 8, over 6ft, blonde, pubes, age, BBW, etc etc Concentrate on those whose criteria you do meet and don't stress about those you don't | |||
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet? " Possibly because they then post things like Another time waster Another cancellation Yet plenty of guys with average stats and such would turn up and do a good Job so everyone ends up missing out. | |||
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet? Possibly because they then post things like Another time waster Another cancellation Yet plenty of guys with average stats and such would turn up and do a good Job so everyone ends up missing out. " So they should just settle for any guy who turns up?  And how do you determine in advance that someone will definitely turn up? | |||
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles? considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. " I just see that as their preference and know not to waste my or their time getting to know them. Just as some don't like hairy men, or LOVE hairy men. It's just their preference. | |||
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"Why do people get buthurt because someone else has criteria they don't meet? Possibly because they then post things like Another time waster Another cancellation Yet plenty of guys with average stats and such would turn up and do a good Job so everyone ends up missing out. " But they wouldn't be missing out. | |||
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either
Exactly, and can you imagine the backlash if fellas wrote in their profiles ‘must be under 8 stone’ or whatever "I have seen plenty of profiles where men have stated they have a size preference ie nobody over a size 10/12 I’m well over lol but I don’t get offended I just concentrate on the profiles who are interested in people on the larger size | |||
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles? considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. " Why is someone wanting specific preferences to be met a negative thing? Give me a profile that helps me work out if I'm potentially compatible over one that tells me little any day of the week. If I'm not what they're looking for, be that down to age, build, hairstyle, dick size or whatever, then that's all good. I'll just look for someone who's stated preferences I do appear to fit. Everyone is entitled to ask for whatever they choose. It doesn't make them fake, nor does it mean they have unrealistic expectations. They just know what they want and won't settle for less. Why should they? 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic Right? It's not like we got given a choice, either "This ^^^^^^^^👍 Quote - "It's not like we got a choice either" 👍....."Reducing the person down to their cock" ......... Some men, actually alot of men "reduce" themselves to their cock when all their pics are a graphic close up cock-shot with zero else showing 🤭 & some virtually shove it in our face with no 'warning'!!! | |||
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic " It's a good filter. I am averaged sized. If I was over 9 inches I would ovoid profiles that said must be 9 inches or over. As you said they don't want to meet the guy they want to meet his big cock. | |||
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic " It’s no different to the many female profiles I’ve seen that state the minimum height a guy has to be for them or if a man stated what type of body shape/size they wanted a woman to be (although for some reason some people think that’s offensive and being a misogynist) | |||
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic " A great opportunity to swiftly move on to the following profile... | |||
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic It’s no different to the many female profiles I’ve seen that state the minimum height a guy has to be for them or if a man stated what type of body shape/size they wanted a woman to be (although for some reason some people think that’s offensive and being a misogynist) " I sincerely hope that every tall fella they have the privilege of engaging with is a wonderful, respectful lover and meets their full expectations... | |||
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"Whatever happened to personality, banter, mutual respect etc???" Whilst that's good too, there has to be an attraction too & people are here for what they like /are attracted to. | |||
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"Whatever happened to personality, banter, mutual respect etc??? Whilst that's good too, there has to be an attraction too & people are here for what they like /are attracted to. " Absolutely | |||
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"I'm sorry but if anyone sees a profile that says something like "you must be at least x inches or bigger" surely are fake profiles? considering that it's a very rare type of person in general or/and says alot about the type of person asking as there expectations are so high they know there's no possibility of finding such a person as only they will do and noone else. " How about we are professional, classy and expect at least  inches of prime c**c..... | |||
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"Proper riles me when I see this. Like you’re just reducing the person down to their cock, pathetic It’s no different to the many female profiles I’ve seen that state the minimum height a guy has to be for them or if a man stated what type of body shape/size they wanted a woman to be (although for some reason some people think that’s offensive and being a misogynist) I sincerely hope that every tall fella they have the privilege of engaging with is a wonderful, respectful lover and meets their full expectations..." Of course they won't all be, but it is possible to find people that are all of those things. And are tall. Or have a big cock. Or any other physical attribute that floats one's boat. Some are more than happy to hold out for exactly what they're looking for. The only people that seem bothered by it are the people they aren't looking to have sex with. | |||
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"This site is very much about sexual preferences and if people like big dicks then that's their preference. I'm not sure why it bothers others so much. Just scroll on by. A lot of guys like slim or petite women which I'm certainly not but I dont get upset by it as its their preference. " tottaly this who are anyone to judge what others want ??? its got nothing to do with anybody if your a guy and you dont fit what couples or women want then tough its simple your not for them... this very much stinks of the they are slags we are not thinking just because it not your thing dont make it wrong .. this is just an attemp to shame women and men who want bigger .. no different than kink shaming in my books | |||
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