FabSwingers.com forum: How do couples cope with jealousy

By *eith666-Suze777 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Sidcup

How do you ladies cope with jealousy. Seeing your partner constantly seducing others and going on meets alone?

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By *aomilatteCouple
3 weeks ago

Midlands

Despite what some may tell you, there should be no jealousy in swinging at all. It leads to drama and relationship problems. If you have any jealousy we would advice you take a step back and just do what you're both comfortable with. You should be getting enjoyment from your partner having fun.

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By *esparate danMan
3 weeks ago

glasgow

"How do you ladies cope with jealousy. Seeing your partner constantly seducing others and going on meets alone? "

Is Keith a bit of a Rasputin character

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By *all me FlikWoman
3 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

One of my favourite things to do is watching my partner with other women....no jealousy just a huge turn on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

"How do you ladies cope with jealousy. Seeing your partner constantly seducing others and going on meets alone? "

If you're feeling jealous why is he still doing it?

I have never felt jealous in swinging. I would feel hurt if my partner was sharing an emotional bond with someone else but he wouldn't do that.

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By *acky RacersCouple
3 weeks ago

Lincoln

"How do you ladies cope with jealousy. Seeing your partner constantly seducing others and going on meets alone? "

From the language you've used,

I'm not sure it's jealousy. This is insecurity. If you are entering into a non monogamous relationship, you've got to do this from a place of emotional safety. If your partner isn't making this safe for you emotionally, it may be best to take a step back until you both know what that looks like for yourselves and each other

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
3 weeks ago

Lurgan

I don’t feel jealous at all watching C have fun. It’s a massive turn on seeing her enjoy herself, but I also trust her completely and know we are rock solid as a team and couple. One off fun isn’t going to change that.

Not going to lie I’ve had the odd insecure wobble at times, nothing major, but open and honest communication at all times, awkward/hard discussions or not, soon sorts it out. She calms my head in all aspects of our life, this is no different

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By *randMrsLPCouple
3 weeks ago

london

its either a turn on or not and if its not, then its not for you.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Seeing each other chatting and flirting with others is a real turn on for us.

We don't like watching each other being sexual with others, not down to jealousy, we just dont get anything from it.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
3 weeks ago

Stoke

We don't do jealousy, so not an issue for us.

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By *j188Couple
3 weeks ago

aberdeenshire

"Despite what some may tell you, there should be no jealousy in swinging at all. It leads to drama and relationship problems. If you have any jealousy we would advice you take a step back and just do what you're both comfortable with. You should be getting enjoyment from your partner having fun."

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By *ootnootboopCouple
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

"How do you ladies cope with jealousy. Seeing your partner constantly seducing others and going on meets alone? "

Well for us,

We don't meet alone, as it wouldn't be what we want. Why should the other person be sat at home wondering what's going on rather than sharing in that experience?

Sounds like jealousy isn't the problem here op, seems you need to communicate your boundaries a bit better so that your not left at home feeling jealous.

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By *he Happy ManMan
3 weeks ago

Merseyside

"How do you ladies cope with jealousy. Seeing your partner constantly seducing others and going on meets alone? "

Is jealousy seeing the other partner with somebody else sexually?

Is it jealousy because one partner is getting more meets than the other?

Jealousy is not good in swinging.,

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I've never felt jealous, I'm half a couple and I enjoy him meeting others alone.

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By *orthern_nudieMan
3 weeks ago

leeds

In my first relationship we both struggled with it, but now with my new bf, we are both very open and enjoy it all, I’m happy when he gets lucky

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By *elly and daveCouple
3 weeks ago

gateshead

If there is even a tiny bit of jealousy in a relationship, swinging is not for you.

I'll admit that it was very strange watching Kelly with another man the first time but the excitement I felt watching them soon dispelled any doubts.

She was so happy being laid,her face was lit up and that made me happy for her.

Nowadays,it's exactly the same and the reclaim is wonderful.

So,if you feel anxious or jealous,give it a miss ,I've seen grown men cry while watching their wife swing for the first time.

Some people are OK before hand,but the reality is something else.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Think this is the wrong game to be in if there is any jealousy from either half of a couple... even if one tries to suppress it, it will eat you up in time...

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Ryde

What is this "jealousy" you speak of, Earthling?

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By *ollie_JCouple
3 weeks ago

Italy

It’s just sex

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By *teinsGateDuoCouple
3 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

If both partners stick to agreed boundaries there shouldn't be any jealousy. If it does rear it's head that's when you need to reassess boundaries.

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
3 weeks ago

Loughborough

Reckon we've had the same problem. We have had zero issues when playing with others together, we're full of confidence and laughter and a great team but one of us tried separate play under a loose agreement and it did not have the desired effect and took us to a bit of a low.

Back to the drawing board for what works I guess!

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