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"I can't even remember the last time I sent a dick pic.....definitely in my early days as a swinger. " Honestly it's all I get at the minute | |||
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"i guese they shouldnt be on fabs then . what would the snowfakes expect on a swingers site lol. "Hey????? Confused 🤷🏻 | |||
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"i guese they shouldnt be on fabs then . what would the snowfakes expect on a swingers site lol. "The police shouldn't be on fab? | |||
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"i guese they shouldnt be on fabs then . what would the snowfakes expect on a swingers site lol.
Hey????? Confused 🤷🏻"Me too hahaha | |||
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"i guese they shouldnt be on fabs then . what would the snowfakes expect on a swingers site lol.
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Me too hahaha"Going to go out on a limb and suggest it was maybe something about " if your on fab then you must expect unsolicited dick pics"..... Oh deary me 😬 | |||
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"But would it be unsolicited on a platform like fab and just everything else beyond " The CPS wouldn't entertain trying to convict under that circumstance, as the defence would rip it apart in court | |||
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"But would it be unsolicited on a platform like fab and just everything else beyond " I think regarding the law, it would be the consent that plays the biggest part. So if you put a photo of your dick on your profile, then that's fine. It's our choice to view it or not. However if you are sending a photo of your dick to someone in a message without consent. Then that's breaking the law. Atleast that's what I think it means. X | |||
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"But would it be unsolicited on a platform like fab and just everything else beyond I think regarding the law, it would be the consent that plays the biggest part. So if you put a photo of your dick on your profile, then that's fine. It's our choice to view it or not. However if you are sending a photo of your dick to someone in a message without consent. Then that's breaking the law. Atleast that's what I think it means. X" Exhibit :1 handed out to the jury | |||
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"But would it be unsolicited on a platform like fab and just everything else beyond " Yes, it would be unsolicited. The only way it wouldn't be if the profile states they want dick picks sent to them. Why should people be prepared to accept unsolicited dick picks because they are on a swingers website? | |||
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"Just to let you know... February 1, 2024. The new law, Section 188 of the Online Safety Act 2023, introduces an offence into the existing Sexual Offences Act 2003, meaning that it is now illegal to share intimate photographs or films without consent. Peace and love, Clementine x" Like that's gonna stop them! | |||
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"But would it be unsolicited on a platform like fab and just everything else beyond I think regarding the law, it would be the consent that plays the biggest part. So if you put a photo of your dick on your profile, then that's fine. It's our choice to view it or not. However if you are sending a photo of your dick to someone in a message without consent. Then that's breaking the law. Atleast that's what I think it means. X" Exactly this! And the CPS would prosecute as the mere act of sending an "obscene communication" would satisfy the prosecution threshold. The law is clear. I highly doubt that the nature of the site would be accepted as mitigating circumstances! To be honest, it isn't difficult to ask for a dick pic or offer to send one prior to actually sending it! That little moment of stopping and thinking first could well prevent you from getting your name on a not-so-exclusive list! | |||
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"But would it be unsolicited on a platform like fab and just everything else beyond " Yes it would be unsolicited if it hasn't been asked for but they get sent anyway. Often if a conversation isn't going well a dick pic gets sent as they think it will turn things around which is naive at best. | |||
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"I am in trouble I love sending them " -------------------------- Do all the recipients love receiving them?  | |||
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"I’d never send one without permission or without being asked, it’s on my profile, just like many other men That being said. If you have public photos being fucked, or your pussy on show…. Expect nothing less 🤦♂️" logical fallacy right there | |||
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"I’d never send one without permission or without being asked, it’s on my profile, just like many other men That being said. If you have public photos being fucked, or your pussy on show…. Expect nothing less 🤦♂️ logical fallacy right there " It’s fab swingers, most men are just animals, it may be illegal, but does it stop them ??? | |||
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"This post is very telling that a lot of people need to remind themselves of what consent means... unsolicited is not consent, it's a boundary that's too regularly crossed because people don't read bios or can't think with their big head once the little one goes hard. Regardless of the law, common decency and basic manners should be enough before the boys throw down their dingaling in someone's dm's... ask! " On a site of this nature, consent is key. Anyone who struggles with the concept consent by sending unsolicited genital pics direct to inboxes (women do it too) is screaming very hysterically that they do not know what they are doing in the bedroom or out of it. Same with the vehement arguments that this is a sex site or that profile pictures suggest that dick pics are wanted.... If someone wants to see dick pics (and many do) they will state that they want to see dick pics. Yes this involves reading and seeing people as individuals.. much easier to apply a blanket approach I guess Excellent (if a little tedious) filter. | |||
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"To my mind when you sign up, you accept that you will see explicit material that is publcally posted. However your inbox should be treated as another matter entirely as that is private communication. Adult website or not, you shouldn't recieve comms you stress you don't want." Exactly this!! | |||
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"But would it be unsolicited on a platform like fab and just everything else beyond " yes.. we even specifically ask not to see them. X | |||
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"Makes me laugh this is about dick pics - what about women that send stuff of themselves - this shouldn’t be about dick pic. Btw Im happy to receive anything from anyone ! " It’s anything sexual without consent so no it’s not just about dick pics | |||
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"Makes me laugh this is about dick pics - what about women that send stuff of themselves - this shouldn’t be about dick pic. Btw Im happy to receive anything from anyone ! " I agree it's definitely not just dick pics ..There are often men/couples that send me unsolicited photos of more of the woman's body being fked by a cock up pussy or arse than the cock itself. And have received unsolicited explicit pussy pictures too. I just delete them and block profiles... | |||
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"This post is very telling that a lot of people need to remind themselves of what consent means... unsolicited is not consent, it's a boundary that's too regularly crossed because people don't read bios or can't think with their big head once the little one goes hard. Regardless of the law, common decency and basic manners should be enough before the boys throw down their dingaling in someone's dm's... ask! On a site of this nature, consent is key. Anyone who struggles with the concept consent by sending unsolicited genital pics direct to inboxes (women do it too) is screaming very hysterically that they do not know what they are doing in the bedroom or out of it. Same with the vehement arguments that this is a sex site or that profile pictures suggest that dick pics are wanted.... If someone wants to see dick pics (and many do) they will state that they want to see dick pics. Yes this involves reading and seeing people as individuals.. much easier to apply a blanket approach I guess Excellent (if a little tedious) filter. " Completely agree x | |||
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"Makes me laugh this is about dick pics - what about women that send stuff of themselves - this shouldn’t be about dick pic. Btw Im happy to receive anything from anyone ! " How many women, that you're absolutely positive that it's a woman, are sending unsolicited graphic pics? | |||
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"The Sexual Offences Act 2003, s 66(a) states that it is an offence where someone intentionally sends or gives someone else a photograph or film of anybody’s genitals if they do so either with the intention of that person seeing it and being caused alarm, distress or humiliation. The context is key here. I think if you sent something like this "randomly" yes. Is that applicable on a site like this; then that's a mute point. You'd have to prove the person sending it meant to cause alarm etc on a swinging or sexual content site! " But given amount visible and the saying seen one seen them all would slightly complicate things when it comes to causing alarm and distress. Hung jury  | |||
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"But would it be unsolicited on a platform like fab and just everything else beyond yes.. we even specifically ask not to see them. X" I've received them and I'm straight so was unexpected and unwanted | |||
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"I am in trouble I love sending them " I think we've just found our test case.....  | |||
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"Given that my profile clearly states I never wish to receive them via DM, any I do receive are reported. The fact it is a swingers site should be of little relevance. Of course, we know that would be difficult to hold up in court." It would boil down to was consent given as unsolicited would mean it wasn't . I wouldn't like to be on the receiving end in court | |||
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