FabSwingers.com forum: profile advice

By *ntelligent_tall69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

mums cellar

Yes it's another of those profile advice posts for the ladies and couples. I'm aware the pics are not the best. I had quite a few face/ body ones up but due to a security lapse I temporarily removed them and I know the ones up aren't too most peoples taste, but the actual wording. Too long? Too boring? Too informative? What's missing?

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
5 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

For 1 why is there a female in your photos when your on here as a single guy?

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
5 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

Oh & your profile jargon is way to long who got time to read all that

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By *ogandher1962Couple
5 weeks ago

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Profile text far too long, you can’t do more than 100% and does the lady know you’ve posted her photos over the internet?

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By *ootnootboopCouple
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

Have to agree, the random female in your pictures would turn us off completely...

It's one thing adding their usernames into the photo,but just a random nameless woman...... Not really a good look.

Think of it this way. If a woman was to meet you by herself, how confident would she be that you weren't going to film the whole thing and plaster her all over the internet?

Try and put yourself into the minds of the people your looking to meet. Would they want to reach out to you?

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By *ntelligent_tall69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

mums cellar

Ok guys thank you, she's not a random and she absolutely knows/ consents to them being online. Sorry didn't even think that would be an issue as wouldn't dream of posting a pic without consent. Thanks though.

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By *lcherasDreamTimeCouple
5 weeks ago

Manchester

Definitely lose the photos with the lady in. Also too many dick pics are a bit of a turn off.

Personally I don't mind a long bio that covers all/most bases but I'd change the line that says "things that are irrelevant about you" I get what you're saying and the sentiment is there in the explanation but no one wants to be told that the things they're hung up on are irrelevant. If I was browsing your profile with a view to connect I would have stopped reading at that line.

Hope this helps

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
5 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Ok guys thank you, she's not a random and she absolutely knows/ consents to them being online. Sorry didn't even think that would be an issue as wouldn't dream of posting a pic without consent. Thanks though. "
Funny how you’ve hidden them now though

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
5 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Sorry, all private pictures so nothing to give an idea of what you’re like.

I scrolled the length of your write up but didnt read any of it as there was far too much

Donna

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By *ntelligent_tall69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

mums cellar

Deleted because they seemed to be an issue

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By *ardigan SpiceWoman
5 weeks ago

Cardigan/Aberystwyth

No photos and a bio that reads like a dating site!

I can see from others replies that you have had them but now your profile has nothing to pull the eye.

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By *ntelligent_tall69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

mums cellar

Cheers guys I'll cut it down, thanks for all the comments

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Question for the people giving advice here. Is there a best practice for dick pics? I saw someone comment on the number being too many. So that's an issue?

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By *outhernC0mfortMan
5 weeks ago

Cumbria

I don't know, but when somebody says how hard it is on here, I reply, "How can you tell when I have no dick pic in public?"

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By *issmorganWoman
5 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Question for the people giving advice here. Is there a best practice for dick pics? I saw someone comment on the number being too many. So that's an issue?"

You'll never please everyone, but many will be put off profiles that have dick pic after dick pic.

A couple in a mix of others is fine I think.But, if a profile only has a cock pic avatar and no other pics or just 56 penis shots at various angles, it wouldn't be for me.

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By *harAndBryCouple
5 weeks ago

Downham Market

"Question for the people giving advice here. Is there a best practice for dick pics?"

Ask yourself: is this a photo of me that happens to have my dick in it, or is it a photo of my dick? If it's the latter, best not post it.

(Bry)

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By *inky PerkyCouple
5 weeks ago

Kingston

Member has hidden profile

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By *asygoingcouple1000Couple
5 weeks ago

North Manchester

I block all single male profiles that have women in the pics. It's a massive advertisement saying you are untrustworthy and disrespectful

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By *ogandher1962Couple
5 weeks ago

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"Member has hidden profile"

Perhaps he's taken the advice given and is updating it.

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By *ntelligent_tall69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

mums cellar

Correct

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By *ntelligent_tall69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

mums cellar

The other person in the pics had fully consented to them being posted, I wouldn't dream of posting a pic with another person in it without their consent. But I've since removed them as you weren't the only person to be concerned about it

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